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Hotseat with Jeffy and Alex in Amsterdam, Saturday 3th 2011
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VGAlan

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Join Date: 12/23/2010 | Posts: 227

Saturday 3th of September

I just came back from an awesome night out, with an awesome Hotseat before it. We started at 14.00 hrs and Jeffy was in a great mood, because it lasted untill after midnight.

Awesome things they (Alex and Jeffy) have shown us. Like the whole shabang. I'm at this level, where I need to show more dominance and escalate and lead more. There was an abundance of material to show me how, when, why; So fucking awesome It almost felt like doing it myself. I'm sure anyone at any level would have gotten the same value, because it's extensive, like from A to Z.

Now, for me the best part was; seeing that even Jeffy sometimes screws up and that it doesn't have to be perfect. Their footage (and you get to see footage of Jeffy/Alex/Tyler/Brad and some dude called Evil Stiffler) shows their "man to woman frame" from the get go and the escalation in 7 steps, which I will not explain further; because I need to get to bed soon (get your own fucking Hotseat, it's worth the investment).

I also got to ask Jeffy and Alex questions and I enquired to the way they handle alcohol now. Both have had to reduce it and both say they still drink like one beer an hour. So, that seems perfect; I can still drink and get shit done.

Tonight was a succes, not in the obvious way; like I got laid, which would have been nice off course. But, more importantly; I was told by an Irish chick to fuck off! That is exactly where my game needed to go, to either get blown out or get laid; no more dabling.

After this first set, I was in state and it went ok. I escalated with more courage then usual and got further. Also there were some RSD dudes in the bar, where I was gaming and it's just awesome momentume this Hotseat. I got a long way to go to being full natural, but at least I know where I'm going and I'm gonna have fun getting there.
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Pumba

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Join Date: 05/20/2009 | Posts: 440

awesome review man thanks

Any chance Alex (or Ozzie) are gonna be on the London Hot Seat?
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jlaix

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 Hey man thanks for the write up... we designed the Hotseat to give guys a very very CLEAR, DETAILED and REALISTIC view of what pickup actually looks like. Like you said, now you know the path and what it will entail... have fun bro
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Dr.Feelgood

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Join Date: 05/24/2010 | Posts: 10

Awesome, can't wait for this! Will be sitting on the train to Munich tomorrow.

How many guys did attend this?
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VGAlan

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Join Date: 12/23/2010 | Posts: 227

Pumba wrote:
awesome review man thanks

Any chance Alex (or Ozzie) are gonna be on the London Hot Seat?
Cheers man, I heared Alex was there to get some footage for a preview of his Hotseat. I donno if he's gonna be their the whole tour, however he is going to give BC's in Europe for a while. I guess you'll have to ask him. Have fun in London!
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VGAlan

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Dr.Feelgood wrote:
Awesome, can't wait for this! Will be sitting on the train to Munich tomorrow.

How many guys did attend this?
Hey man, I think about 30 to 40 dudes attended this. HAve fun!
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alexander Clear

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Join Date: 06/02/2010 | Posts: 269

http://alexattitude.com/ missing the *u* fyi
Alexander~ wrote:
 Yeah, awesome times... and its only going to get BETTER!

I wont be in London I'm told, Norway for me instead!

Thanks for the review and enjoy the new lessons learned and the newfound indifferenece!

Alexander~
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thedutch

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Join Date: 10/21/2009 | Posts: 18

I attended Jeffy Hot seat in Amsterdam , it was great , it helped me clear some of my doubts and mistakes i was making.
It helped me understand the concept of being needy and non needy. Which is very confusing withen the community when read on words.
It also helped me get more efficient on a night out. Ultimately time is the important commodity we have in this game.

Best video i saw was Alex ploughing through the girls no's , i wouldnt have stayed in the set more then 2 mins it looked like the girl was not into him at all, he just kept ploughin at her
and ultimately closed.  It showed that most of the girls actually do not have good social conversation skills , men have to take the lead and guide
them in our direction. This was great to see. Opened another paradium for me.

These guys are way to humble and they showed videos where they get blown off. Which proves it happens to even the best in the game.

I highly recommend Hot seat events they are way more worth the price.
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Jimbo Bob McCraken

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Join Date: 10/25/2011 | Posts: 22

Irish chicks are up their own arses though...trust me I know...I'm Irish!
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VGAlan

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Join Date: 12/23/2010 | Posts: 227

Jimbo Bob McCraken wrote:
Irish chicks are up their own arses though...trust me I know...I'm Irish!
HAha, I say the same about dutch chicks! It might be some anchors from the past ;) Are you from Dublin by any chance, I had my BC there with Brad- and I regularly go back there; I thinks it's awesome!
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