THE FORUMS

Lately my success rate has skyrocketed. 2011 has truly been my breakthrough year. My game is building momentum. It seems the more success I get the more game I develop, and in turn the more game I develop the more success I experience.

Its like what came first, Game or Success? I'm not really sure. In the past few years I been grinding it out, teetering on the edge, and once the scale tipped over my game started building rapidly like an avalanche.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not declaring myself a master. I don't even consider myself really advanced yet. In my mind my avalanche still has shit tons of building left to do before I reach sexual destruction avalanche size... huh!? Anyhow...

Probably the most important game piece that I have really developed THIS YEAR is an inner game belief system that I call “Trust in the Process”. It's really the embodiment of many RSD belief systems. Although through field experience it has seemingly became my very own system, and I'm going to try and break it down the way I understand it so that it may benefit you too.


...Getting more successes (1-3 pulls per week) I started realizing how fragile my closes were. It seemed like all odds were against me. There were always so many factors working against me to stop the close from happening. Logistics, my state, her state, her friends, etc. There are so many obstacles you gotta jump over and you gotta do it just right or else it will all fall to pieces.... Or that’s how I THOUGHT about it anyhow.

Things started to shift for me after all these moments where I was faced with what I thought was an impossible pull and still pulled thru anyhow. Like I meet a girl and things are going well but then I'm hit with all this crap like “Ok she is leaving in the morning, she is tired, she has a boyfriend back at home, she is on her fucking period... Shiiiit!” and then a few hours later I'm driving home as dawn breaks thinking to myself “holy shit, how did I just pull that off?”.

After lots of interactions like these I started to develop a serious Trust in the Process.

Let me get a bit deeper here and explain what the process really refers to.
The process is simple, its what is supposed to happen. Success is supposed to happen and its supposed to be easy. Your mind body and soul wants you to succeed. Nature wants you to succeed. The universe itself wants you to achieve your greatest potential.
The natural dynamics of a Man and Woman are already set into motion. We are designed to be together. Attraction is a universal law. So really there is nothing for you to do other then let nature takes its course. You are naturally attractive to women, women want you and need you, the universe says so.

AS LONG AS YOU ARE BEING NATURAL.

Trusting in the Process is like syncing with this natural flow. Instead of TRYING you simply ARE.

If you are trying, then you are taken out of the flow and the process will no longer work for you. But when you let LIFE move thru you so-to-speak that’s when amazing shit happens.
So enough of this deep philosophy spill, I like this type of stuff but I know a lot of you don't. Its important though because on a deeper level I believe this is whats really going on.

The truth is it really doesn't matter what you say or do, what you look like, what the logistics are. If you just trust in the process and know that closing is SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN then everything will take care of itself.

I don't have to be this super pimp, I don't have to have stellar game or great looks... I'm a Man, and if a Woman is near me the PROCESS IS ALREADY IN THE WORKS.

Its as simple as that.

This belief is not to discourage you from taking action. Just cause you are being a natural male isn’t going to make a girl run up and jump on your dick. However with this belief I am no longer worried if I'm doing the right or wrong thing. I simply just do and say whatever I want, and I know as long as I'm taking any kind of action at all its likely leading us to where we BOTH want to be.

Trusting in the process has chilled out my interactions a lot too. No longer am I tying so hard to keep her there in front of me and to try and pull her. Now there is so much more breathing room in my game. As a result girls invest majorly into the interactions. Girls game me now.

I don't have to know what to do in this or that situation, I don't have to ever know what the best thing to say is. Rather I take each moment as it is now. I throw myself into interactions and in a way almost just WATCH MYSELF handle everything. Its like a deeper me takes over and is saying shit and doing shit.
This is letting life live thru you. Its your core self shinning through.

Put yourself in front of the girl. Stay in set. Make moves. And know that things are in the works.
You don't have to worry about anything or try and make anything happen. You are a man and a woman together, its obvious where its leading to. Simply keep escalating.

This has made my success rate skyrocket. LMR? Haaa, If I get a girl alone its basically done.
My day2 close rate is pretty much ridiculous anymore.
I have been getting girls OBSESSED with me lately, will not leave me alone, needy stalkers.

Game is a lot more fun and fulfilling now. Everything is just more free flowing and natural.
I still have a lot of room for improvement. I'm also curious to see just how far this mindset can take me. Already things have been intense!!

Let me know if this was helpful to you. It basically is just a bunch of RSD beliefs wrapped up into my own verbage, I know this.... It feels like my own personal inner game method though because of the way it just clicked on its own through field experience.
Maybe it will help you, maybe it wont. Maybe its beneath you, maybe its not.
If you do start to focus on this when going out then let me know of any results you get from it.