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December 10th, 2016
World tour part 3: Night game in Asia
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pretty boy

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 in China
Getting settled in. Met a few peps.
Went around with them.
Fun and shit.
Anyways we end up sitting in an expat pub, chat a bunch, only 2 girls there, which are the friends we met earlier and brought there.

It's 1:30 so: the one girl pissed me off, just personality wise i really disliked her. The other girl however i was into.

Just played it the usual, was myself and shit, got pissed off at shit that pissed me off, but mostly was positive, leading dominant. THere was also a super alpha alpha male in the group, seems to be a decent natural, has hooked up with 3 girls in the 8 days he's been here. Befriended and what not, but he pissed me off as the night went on, kept amoging on me and shit.

Anyways eventually its me her and 2 other guys sitting on a bench. I've been giving her h-core eyecontact all night (subtle subcommunication attached and what not).
Anyways the guys would jump in occasionally and shit and it's just like "guys could you cut out the cock block?"

She likes me, obviously attraction is solid, but getting some resistance. Keeps saying no to my various pull attempts. Eventually the guys leave, thank fucking god above. And i get her up with a pinky swear we're just going to watch a movie.

In the elevator up to my appartment she says she has to go return a credit card to her friend, and she'd come to mine in 20 minutes. I get home wash my face and shit, chill out, and figure out a VPN so i can access RSDn annonomously from Shanghai. Not sure if she will or will not show up.

She does, apparently the guys (who had taken off) were still with the other girl, and they made fun of her a bit for coming over to mine.
It's like "thanks for the cockblock, ya cunts" gotta work through it tho.

Enter 4 hours of slow steady escalation to LMR constant LMR. And then finally get the shirt off, everything about to go down.

*KNOCK KNOCK KNOCK*
at my fucking apparentment door.
The previously mentioned cunts thought it was ridiculous i was hooking up with a girl like 5 hours after having met her and only having spent maybe 10 minutes of one on one time with her. I disagreed. Didn't stop them from making comments throught the door.
BAM full LMR, and a brickwall that would prove to be impenetrable. Very traditional values, eastern european girl.
Anyways we ended on good terms, she'll want to see me again, but will likely realize i didn't give her my number or get hers sometime in the morning. THe sex'd be good but i'm not relationship guy, plus she was asking me about how many girls i had on the go. She got massive massive player vibe from me.
Gotta work on that.

THe one (bastard) texted me "has she touched your dick yet?" and she saw the text, which further fucked me. Shouldn't have checked it, but it was right next to the bed, i thought it could be important, ultimately a bad choice.

What the fuck with those guys (and girl) tho, we're not fucking 18, people meet and hook up, what the hell were they making such a big deal out of it?  Immaturity: incredibly annoying.

Oh well, just got here, eventually i will have more friends to choose from.
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Lord Adonis

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 Sickkkk, I was afraid you wouldnt be able to access this shit, welcome back bud, too bad im not over there to crush some skulls sounds like its needed, nice work so far, ttys bud
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pretty boy

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 sup adonis.

Next day:

everyone kept asking me what happened, i told everyone we just talked, nothing happened.  Buddy lost a bet.

Girl found out thats what i was saying, made her like me more.  We went for a very breif walk then she asked to come back to mine.

Fooled around a bit, then it came out she was a virgin, hense the LMR.
Nearly hooked up, but ran into brick wall again.
She keeps telling me that she thinks tomorrow i'll ignore her and stop talking to her. - insecure

I'm gonna move on and just friend her.  She's beautiful, eastern european, hot accent, wonderful, but not exactly what i want.  
Should note, ive barely talked to this girl, she knows nearly nothing about me, this is all pure non-verbal pickup.
Language barrier is breeding a new level of game.

Love from China.
Took 3 days to get a girl in my bed, one of the first girls i met.  Damn shits coming together.  Gonna peace on the community soon i think.  

Working on rhythm primarily right now.
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It's a long story, as far as how its progressed i don't want to get into the details, but she wants to have sex tomorrow, and now i don't want her.

The frame is relationship, her and i, boyfriend girlfriend.  This will cut my development, its already making me miss a lot of group events.

I tried to call it off tonight, she wouldn't let me.  Girl is damn good at the combination of mindfuck and half nakedness.  Fucccck shes hot. 
I sleep with ehr and dont date her i feel like a dick, just because thats the metaframe here.
fuck.

The right thing to do is be a man, end it, make her sad.  Part of me wants her, another part of me screams "You must not settle for anything less than your dream girl, you're here to learn, not to settle down."
Fuckin world tour.

Baaah!
I want her to be my friend, i like her a lot.

Brad says: "make girls sad"
Quality problems, trying to sort through to the girl you want, but its hard, the enemy of the great is the good.  

Still focusing a bit on rhythm, developed super-relaxed state.  Reconnected with rather.  So fucking money, got to cut back on the cigarettes tho.  Need to get it to a point of self sustaining.7
Social group wise some shit has seeped into it, in the form of 3 really really shitty girls.  Need to do something about that.  New level of game problems, social circle creation and maintenance.
Its like you turn around and someone smashed in a wall.

Culture shock wise i seem to wave back and forth between chill and happy, to pissed off and frustrated about 3 times a day.  Hopefully i acclimatize and shit chills out.

Frustration, frustration.  Quality problems.
As for the girls i chatted today nothing worth talking about, one was really negative and the other we'll see.
Gotta deal with this shit first and get more girls tomorrow.
Playa life is hard.

Shit's coming together so nice.
Gonna add one more outergame focus as well tomorrow, if i can find 5 minutes of alone time.  Always surrounded by people.
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 WHat exactly are you doing in Asia dude? Just travelling, or working or anything? 

Got into Prague last night to start this type of shit so I enjoy your shit, keep it up
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pretty boy

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bit o' this bit o' that.

Ended it with her.
I feel pretty sad, she cried.  5 days from meet to end.  She said im being stupid, that people dont feel like this with each other often, and that with me everything feels so amazing.

So now i'm all sad and hiding in my room.  Taking the day off girls, i set up some shit for tomorrow with a japanese girl i met today who barely speaks a word of english, but fuckit, should work fine.
The caucasian-ness gets a ton of attention.

Im in a pretty good way right now, only a couple days to find a new girl usually.  Still so far to go tho.

There are some hot, hot japanese girls in the world.  and i don't even like asians.
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She asked me to come to her, i did, she wants me back.  Told her just friends.  Keeps trying to kiss me, tell her i won't, if she wants to be just friends we can be just friends, but i wont kiss her until we are making love.  It's harsh.  Straight up.  But this isn't high school, i'm not that guy.  
She keeps touching me in public, always has her hands on me.  She wants me to come to her modeling gig this weekend, think i'll go and see if there are any girls worth chatting up.  Won't do it in front of her, but hey, i've got friends, and they like pretty girls too.

Couldn't find the japanese girl i met the other day again, think the zero english is source of problem.  May have agreed to meet on a different day for lunch with my friends and her friends.
Either way it'll sort out.

Chatted a french girl last night, but it was a mistake, HFFA.  Dammmit.  Bad face, such a deal breaker.
There are not a lot of hot white girls here, so it's like "fuck.  What do i do?" Going to have to go for the asian girls.  FML.

Shifting focus back towards outergame now.  Kinda the cycle of it, inner then outer then inner then outer. 

More adventures to come
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lessons:
Negative emotions; create tension , let others defuse it. Remain more unreactive to the tension. Do not allow other to fuck with you without challenging it. Being nice will let people walk all over you, and that sucks, it’s aweful. Why can’t we all be nice? But you can’t always avoid people who will be dicks (guys and girls)t, I want to ditch this social group I’ve established, but not really viable yet do to professional requirements. So will work on setting boundaries more by combination of CCM, tension, and the (someone arrogant) assumption of higher value. Hell most of these people don’t even know who they are.

Model has started to ask me to be her boyfriend, I keep telling her no.

Dealing with pretty heavy culture shock. Really don’t want to leave my room. Language barriers getting to me, with even the simple things like ordering food.

Spent the night rolling with a girl who I’ve become friends with, talked about this shit fucking with me. It helped, she’s feeling some of it too.

Gonna branch out into some of the auxiliary social circles I have, find some new people, meet some new girls the easy way. Hit the clubs tomorrow night with one of my natural friends and blast out the cold approaches.

Tonight’s a write off, needed alone time to get my head right.


Positive dominance is hard, trying to get my head around it. When setting boundaries instead of “what the fuck is your problem?” go with “Why you gonna be like that? stoopid girl” With a smile.
Hopefully some new blog entries by the instructors will come out and put a new perspective on it, otherwise I’ll figure it out eventually.
Pretty slow day, game wise, lot of inner game shit, again trying to get my head straight.
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pretty boy

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Tonality shits working great.
Getting treated the way i like.

2 more girls on the go.
Still so much to learn, but damn, i'm getting the numbers of the hottest girls here.

Keep it going.  
Didn't go out tonight, too fucking exhausted, couldn't sleep.

massive culture shock, stress and shit.
Tomorrow night out, i promised mates.
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 Fully terminated shit with model girl, told her i've met someone else.  Only half true.

Tried to organize plans with other girl today, she was busy, told her to call back, she didn't.  Eventually got text around 1130 appologizing, shed gone out, told her id call tomorrow.

Spent night with a bunch of girls.  No close.

Will do meetup tomorrow if i have time, and see where i can lead things.

Cop+blow.  Need to continue expanding out the number of girls in the circle.  Beast cycle and what not.

Tonality waivered today when i wasnt thinking of it.  Still need to maintain it as a primary focus until internalized.  Gonna check over brads 'command and challenge' ebook again.
I also need to do a significant amount of work tomorrow.  Gonna be a busy day.

Abundance beliefs waivered a bit today for about 30 seconds "what if i can't find a new girl who likes me?"  fuck that.  I know thats not true.  Must trust myself  more.  
Side effect of moving to the highest quality of girls i think; when you leave them it's like 'but this was the first of her kind ive ever gotten!" as opposed to the more normal view of you both winning, that you are a person who has value to girls, and so forth.

The shortage of attractive white girls here is fucking with my confidence.  Silly me, coming to asia with no interest in asian girls.  Careers can take us strange places i suppose.  Maybe they'll grow on me.
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pretty boy

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 #'closed french girl yesterday, she texted me today, we'll meetup in 2 hours or so.

Still trying to get meetup with other girl, shes always out doing shit.

Feeling all stressed and shit all the time from culture shock.  Need to chill out and meet more girls.  1 or 2 a day is all im doing now, while the close rate is high i'm not where i want to be.

working on relaxed arousal, breaking rapport primarily.
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