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Liberation helps a lot for this. You'll still get phased a bit, but it will hurt a lot, lot less.
The link in my sig has a lot of information about this. If you've got any questions feel free to PM me.
The link in my sig has a lot of information about this. If you've got any questions feel free to PM me.
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SHEER MOTHERFUCKING DETERMINATION. FUCK WORDS. DO SHIT.
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SHEER MOTHERFUCKING DETERMINATION. FUCK WORDS. DO SHIT.
BOOM, no need for further discussion. Problem solved bitches. __________________
Reality has become slippery.
Muzzi do you think it's possible you're getting too caught up in the silliness and becoming too try hard entertainer?
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www.rsdnation.com/node/182749/forum VisionsDivine post about Psycho-Cybernetics
www.rsdnation.com/node/182749/forum VisionsDivine post about Psycho-Cybernetics
The thought of fucking a hot girl got me through the rough times. I've always made it rediculously fun. I've had a lot of shitty nights, but I was set on getting to where I want and never stopped. Boners keep me motivated bacause they never go away. 
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"If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself but to your own estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment."
"A man must stand erect, not be kept erect by others."
-Marcus Aurelius
"By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest."
-Confucius
"A man must stand erect, not be kept erect by others."
-Marcus Aurelius
"By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest."
-Confucius
If you call it pain, then I guess your expecting a bad result.
Just have fun without any out come.
Just have fun without any out come.
If you call it pain, then I guess your expecting a bad result.
Just have fun without any out come.
ThisJust have fun without any out come.
Cant "stress" this enough.
ur not in the fucking pain period anymore. stfu you made out with a stripper last night
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Muzzi,
You're doing everything right. Good job pushing yourself!
I can understand how you want to push yourself harder and grow your game even more. You want to force yourself to do something but no matter how hard you grit your teeth it only seems to become more impossible. All the thinking and tension is making it hard for you to focus. When you feel this way, STOP whatever you're doing and go through the following steps.
1) Observe your thoughts, emotions and body. Is there any tension or negativity?
2) If there is tension, take several deep breaths while placing all of your focus on that tension. Feel exactly where it is in your body, don't try to relax it, just focus on your breath.
3) Start smiling, even if it feels fake. Continue breathing.
4) Ask yourself "What is the right thing for me to do in this situation?" Once you quiet down the mental chatter, the answer is almost always immediately obvious.
5) You know what you have to do, you're smiling and you're aware of your breathing. As soon as you move to do that thing, your body will immediately begin resisting again. This is exactly what you want. Breathe through it, feel the texture and nuance of that fear completely, and carry on taking action.
When I go through these steps myself, it works 100% of the time. The challenge is being aware enough to know when this process will be helpful, and remembering to use it at that time.
You're doing everything right. Good job pushing yourself!
I can understand how you want to push yourself harder and grow your game even more. You want to force yourself to do something but no matter how hard you grit your teeth it only seems to become more impossible. All the thinking and tension is making it hard for you to focus. When you feel this way, STOP whatever you're doing and go through the following steps.
1) Observe your thoughts, emotions and body. Is there any tension or negativity?
2) If there is tension, take several deep breaths while placing all of your focus on that tension. Feel exactly where it is in your body, don't try to relax it, just focus on your breath.
3) Start smiling, even if it feels fake. Continue breathing.
4) Ask yourself "What is the right thing for me to do in this situation?" Once you quiet down the mental chatter, the answer is almost always immediately obvious.
5) You know what you have to do, you're smiling and you're aware of your breathing. As soon as you move to do that thing, your body will immediately begin resisting again. This is exactly what you want. Breathe through it, feel the texture and nuance of that fear completely, and carry on taking action.
When I go through these steps myself, it works 100% of the time. The challenge is being aware enough to know when this process will be helpful, and remembering to use it at that time.
youre looking at it the WRONG way. you already have a goal and since you have not reached it you still think you are not "winning". think of it more as a process and not from point A to point B. the pain will then be viewed as vital because it will help with the process.
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Some of my rejection I think might come from being too eccentric? A couple times last night I had girls tell me it was refreshing to meet a funny guy, or they just excitedly say "Your funny!" After too long they turn their backs to be when I say something too random or eccentric (trying to find the balance for self-amusement). I read on other forums that after being funny, just calm it down and let her game you once you have won her over. Maybe this is what I need to do?
BTW I can open like a mother fucker, my friends can't open like I can, but they can close. How frustrating it is at times.
Anyways. I wanted to hear your advice on slugging through the pain period, experiences, etc.