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Your worst ever blow outs?
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#21

Johnathan Sampson

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Join Date: 05/10/2009 | Posts: 697

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Grinding/Flirting with a Gal for half hour, didn't escalate enough, she eventually EXPLODES

BOOM.

5 chick friends of her are constantly yelling, telling me to fuck off and pushing me for 10 minutes infront of everybody, which eventually turns random guys against me, the entire parameter of this part of the club is against me.

One of the chicks comes up to me slaps me in the face and ripps my favourite shirt.

2

Slap a girls ass, she chases me, Girl slaps me 6 times, punches me in the nose. Bouncer takes me out.

3

Carried out of the club by 7'2 islander bouncer, as girl pushes me down on the floor.

4.

Girl throws glass at me

5

Entire groups throw there drinks at me out of there glass

THERE AIN'T NOTHING I CAN'T LIVE THROUGH SON! 
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#22

Johnathan Sampson

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She learn't how to first story from this:


Kidney Punch wrote:
Blowout stories are awesome. Trivializing rejection = path to success. Also I love reading them.

To kick it off, here's 2 of my best ones:

1) When I first started, I was using routine-based openers. I approached this one chick in town with the stupidest opener ever, and ohgod, this stuck with me for months.

Me: Oh hey, I just had to tell someone this, have you ever heard a duck tell a joke?
Her: *blank, condescending stare*
Me: So I was at the park right, and *blahblahblah*
Her: *blank, condescending stare*
Me: And then *blahblahblah*, do you think that's even possible?
Her: *blank, condescending stare*
Me, getting nervous: I guess you don't like ducks. So my name's Sam, I love my mother, and I am a gemini.
Her: *blank, condescending stare*
Me, freaking the fuck out: Not feeling talkative?
Her: *blank, condescending stare*
Me: Well it was nice meeting you. Take care now.
*runs away*

If she made fun of me I could have taken it better, but the fact that she just ignored me really fucked with my head at the time, and made me feel retarded. Nothing similar has ever happened to me since, and I actually now find the memory funny as fuck.

2) Fast forward to about a month ago. I was at an arcade, and saw some chick hanging out by the air hockey.

Me: Alright I'll play with you, no need to get clingy about it.
Her: Oh hi. Are you here with your friends?
Me: Yeah, they're ju-
Her: I suggest you go play with them.
Me: Oh I would, but none of them have breasts. At least not the kind I like.
Her: Let me rephrase: fuck off, I do not want to talk to you.
Me: Your charm is surpassed only by your beauty. It was a pleasure meeting you.

Yes, I added in the facetious remark at the end because I thought she was being a bitch. But when I thought about it afterwards I realised I actually respected how brutal she was about saving us both a bunch of time.

Show me your rejection. :)
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#23

MyOwnGame

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Join Date: 08/03/2011 | Posts: 21

 I forget them as soon as I get them. Makes my life easier. ; )
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#24
SMASH 99

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Join Date: 08/25/2011 | Posts: 106

justgowithit wrote:
The problem here wasn't just that his approach was very "cultural" for lack of a better word.  The problem was also that he hit up an asian girl.  Asians and Asian-americans don't really talk to random strangers.  Random small talk with strangers is something that's just not part of the culture.  Most of the time if you try talking to a random Asian person they'll think you want something, you're mental, or you're just very strange.  The friendliest Asians would be some of the recent immigrants cuz some of them at least understand it's just part of American culture to talk to random strangers about pointless shit like the weather.  

What you had here was a clash of civilizations scenario that Huntington warned us about.  

You're wrong though that a normal black girl would have reacted the same way.  This is just wrong.  She may not have liked the approach, not liked him, or thought what he said was stupid, but she wouldn't have thought wtf is going on here.  

Talking about the approach itself, the problem was mainly he wasn't reacting to how she was responding.  He didn't realize she was in wtf mode and just kept doing his thing.  He didn't wax and wane with the tide, he just plowed through like he was running a script.  It's merely a calibration problem that will improve iwth more time infield.  


scottsdale wrote:



justgowithit wrote:
his approach isn't really bad per se.  It's just very....cultural.  He basically approached her the way he would approach a black girl.  Most black girls would have been receptive to his approach.  What I mean is, maybe they wouldn't have liked it but it wouldn't have been a wtf moment.  The girl is really just in wtf spectator mode.  


scottsdale wrote:



SMASH 99 wrote:


As for my worst rejection, check the footage. There's a whole bunch of my video approaches in the field report section.

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Jesus fucking christ......


I dont label this as a rejection though more so as a jumble fuck of an approach. I cringe.



Yeah I see what you mean. However if done right any girl can be instantly caught up into whatever your culture is, so to me that is not where the problem lays. In this case though yeah, she was put into wtf awkward mode. But that is moreso the presenters vibe bleeding thru.
I dont disrespect the effort mind you. As a fellow gamer I encourage approaching no matter what. Just as an outside viewer right now I gotta call it as I see it and be like Jesus fucking christ lol... And even on a black girl I think that reaction would have been basically the same.




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#25
Purple Haze

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Join Date: 04/15/2011 | Posts: 45

 Damn why do asians have so many social stigmas and limiting beliefs attached to them? One of the first ever times I did a good street approach with was on a group of asians. (opener: singing "Asiiians... Asiiiannnss...." and singing about their coats)

Anyways worst blowouts:

Go up to a girl on the dancefloor, look her in the eyes, put out my hand. She looks me over for a couple of seconds sizing me up. I stand still eyeraping with hand out. Her face turns to disgust and she says, "uh, NO." and walks away. It was funny how intense she was, I still remember the look on her face. I think it's the sizing up that made it so harsh haha. Like I almost had it but she saw a chink in the armor.

girl protecting group of friends, I keep saying hi and random shit.. her:"Fuck off... Fuck off.... GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM US... DON'T FUCKING TALK TO HER, GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM US.." Okay have a nice night.

I get all up on a girl for a few minutes and I am trying to figure out what her deal is since she is acting flirty but kinda weird and shy. Dudes come up and I say hi to them. One is cool.. The other dude... "Yeah this is my girlfriend bro" "Oh really?" "Yeah. Bye." "Cool nice to meet you!!" I put my hand out for a handshake and he won't shake it.. Aw c'mon! He started shoving me. Oh no violence! He seemed serious about it so I left.

These don't seem that bad really. Even at the time I found them funny. Way more fun than being a and letting the convo die or something.
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#26
RogueJedi

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Join Date: 03/23/2011 | Posts: 343

I got punched in the face by a girl tonight -  first time. :)

I opened her and had some playful talk, it was actually going pretty cool.

Then I start chatting to her friend while my target's getting a drink. Her friend informs me that they're lesbians... yawn, obviously not true. I tell her I'm going to thumb war her for her girlfriend... I win, so I pick up my target and carry her off. Thing is, target has no idea we're thumb wrestling for her and she doesn't like being carried. She's pissed off, starts mouthing off aggressively, I stand there blankly - full-on eye contact, open and confident body language, she keeps blathering angrily then stops.

Me: You... are... so... fucking... cool.
Her: [Punches me in the face.]
Me: [Completely non-reactive, continue to stare her in the eye]... "I wanna fuck you"
Her: [Goes mental, friend holds her back]
Me: [Give her the finger with a big smile on my face]... "I love you too." [Walk off.]

It was a pretty good punch for a girl, to be fair.

Disclaimer for newbies: **This experience is not to be considered in a vacuum. I've cavemaned a lot of girls in clubs and 99% of the time it's cool... this is a SUPER-EXTREME reaction and isn't worth considering for any practical purpose, only for amusement. Do not use this as an excuse not to get physical. The next set I was carrying another girl all over the club while eating her face off, even with a slightly swollen lip, so don't worry.** :)
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#27
OMAR

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Join Date: 04/08/2008 | Posts: 1145

 LOL this is my fav thread. I dont remrb my blowouts.. but after the fact i try not to let it get to my head.. CUz some girls act really fucked up adn bitchy and it brings out teh negativity in myself.. BUt lately i have said Fuck of to those girsl taht get physical and some of these guirls turn scary creepoer on me throughout the night starting at me and shit.. wen i told them hey B fuckin nice thats not allowed or sumshit,..

Ive had a lot fo girls turn around after a blowout too and wanting me to approach again... So blow out is just a reaction to the way u came across not who u are.. Take out the getting personal part and shit is fun..  

I can get blown out in the middle of the dance floor infornt of mad people whjo start pointing and lauging and not let it affect me ITs pretty cool
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#28
Sorcerer's apprentice

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Yeah, mine was with a girl who was standing at the sidelines of the dancefloor, I see some what I considered to be an approach invitation and I approach, saying some standard shit like  "hey, bailemos!" probably with an unconviced body language. Girl rejects and I plow. I say some stupid shit like "hey, weren't you asking me to come", and shit. She says "I am with my BF" and walks to a dude she was with. The dude cut's off the space between me and the girl and I get in the middle and I circunvent and shoutagain "hey, weren't you asking me to come", lol, stupid shit anyway. Then this fucking dude gets in my face, press his forehead against to mine like a fucking stag fight and shouts "what did you say!?". I am like what the fuck, a series of options of what to do go thru my thought process. I am like I don't know any amog line and if a try to play witty they can invent any shit to get me kicked out if they want as it was me the one approaching. I decide to experiment with Tyler's "no violence!" line. I shout that. Dude calms down, and as I walk away the motherfucker shouts some "GTFO, do not disturb!", very unnecessary, as I was clearly walking away. That shirt sort of pissed me off but I just do an ironical thumbs up as I walk away. Not sure If I liked that "no violence!" line TBH.
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#29
Neighbor

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Worst blowout was throwing funnel cake at the feet of a bachlorette party full of smokeshows on the boardwalk in Atlantic City. They go attacked by a flock of hungry seagulls then they called me ugly. :(
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#30
escapist69

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Join Date: 11/14/2010 | Posts: 66

I was kinda not in state bcause it was early in the night and so on... went to that young cute girl and sput out some stupid one liners to neg her but with confidence.. wasn't even that bad..

she get's a angry face and instantly just pushes me away with both hands super hard against my chest.. a little bit harder and I would have been laying on the ground..
I try to catch my cool and say something like "wtf.. are you crazy.. I could have been hurt..bla bla" but with confidence..

she just pushes me again only harder this time...

Me again like "wtf.. Is wrong with you?!" even her friends are looking like c'mon cant be that bad.. and were friendly to me..

she pushes me again.. super crazy..

after that I thought fuck this and went to some other girls that have seen this and after 2 minutes they were kissing me on the cheak and hyping me.. you are cool!.. and so on.

I am glad I had the balls to just go on.. and it worked.. was a great night and I pulled later. so much crazy bitches out there.. not affecting me. :)
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