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How about having a great life FOR REAL,... and just walk down the street or whereever and feel happy and dont care about micromanaging beacuse you are a cool guy who can deal with whatever automatically.
But I guess it is a great starter. I did that when I started out, and yes it really gives you more confidence initally because girls may respond to the superficial fake you are putting on. Use it in your favor, but the end goal must be to become a man who feels at ease in his reality and doesnt have to care about how he is perceived by others.
But I guess it is a great starter. I did that when I started out, and yes it really gives you more confidence initally because girls may respond to the superficial fake you are putting on. Use it in your favor, but the end goal must be to become a man who feels at ease in his reality and doesnt have to care about how he is perceived by others.
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How about having a great life FOR REAL,... and just walk down the street or whereever and feel happy and dont care about micromanaging beacuse you are a cool guy who can deal with whatever automatically.
But I guess it is a great starter. I did that when I started out, and yes it really gives you more confidence initally because girls may respond to the superficial fake you are putting on. Use it in your favor, but the end goal must be to become a man who feels at ease in his reality and doesnt have to care about how he is perceived by others.
But I guess it is a great starter. I did that when I started out, and yes it really gives you more confidence initally because girls may respond to the superficial fake you are putting on. Use it in your favor, but the end goal must be to become a man who feels at ease in his reality and doesnt have to care about how he is perceived by others.
I agree! But i have to fake it til i do this for real. I got this advice on some site on the net, and it really is addictive. It works like a charm. I like this because it really makes feel uneedy and at peace with myself, and why not? If an action makes me feel good, i will do it over and over. Because otherwise i constantly look around for where the fun is (girls), and when i act this (not giving everyone attention, they notice me instead. Its like a fuckn superpower.
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Haha sounds kinda fun to try out, I love body language I'll give this a go.
So do you just stare forward all the time, not even moving your eyes, like given off the impression that your just fully engrossed in your own thoughts and not paying attention to anything that’s going on? And what do you look at when your keeping your head forward?
So do you just stare forward all the time, not even moving your eyes, like given off the impression that your just fully engrossed in your own thoughts and not paying attention to anything that’s going on? And what do you look at when your keeping your head forward?
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I cant exactly remember why but Ryan spoke about a couple of reasons as to why this is good. Something about how high value people focus solely on what they're doing and the less attention you pay to your surroundings ie value scanning the higher value you appear.
Some other reasons too but I cant remember them.
Some other reasons too but I cant remember them.
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Haha sounds kinda fun to try out, I love body language I'll give this a go.
So do you just stare forward all the time, not even moving your eyes, like given off the impression that your just fully engrossed in your own thoughts and not paying attention to anything that’s going on? And what do you look at when your keeping your head forward?
So do you just stare forward all the time, not even moving your eyes, like given off the impression that your just fully engrossed in your own thoughts and not paying attention to anything that’s going on? And what do you look at when your keeping your head forward?
Yeah, kinda. Its hard to explain but aim at spot ( a sign, a lightspot, or meeting a girls eyes;)) further away from me, and i focus on that. Of course you have to move your eyes, otherwise its obvious and you will feel stupid. I mean you gotta be real when you do this, the easiest is to think about how much you like yourself and that you see yourself as high status and that your surrounding is BS and nothing that interests you. Then this will be easy to implement, The hard thing is tolerating the stares (you feel people looking at you) because many people will notice you, in other subway when they wait for the train and you just pass them without looking at them, just forward. Or in the club, thats a challenge but ive done it, and i got approached by girls. Hot girls go nuts because you dont give the validation they want, and the hoes that got balls will approach.
I move my whole body when i want to look at the side, slowly. Spares neckpain!
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I cant exactly remember why but Ryan spoke about a couple of reasons as to why this is good. Something about how high value people focus solely on what they're doing and the less attention you pay to your surroundings ie value scanning the higher value you appear.
Some other reasons too but I cant remember them.
Some other reasons too but I cant remember them.
I got the idea from the "i want to be centered". Well why not look at the center at all times, then i will look centered and buzy, all attractive traits.
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Tim mentioned this too somewhere.
Here's my take from personal experience.
I try not to "scope out the club" when I arrive. When you scope out the club it shows that your not in your world, your looking outward for the fun, validation, etc. and other people do notice this.
You end up making eye contact with a bunch of girls that you don't approach because they are too far away (ideally you would approach) and effectively blow yourself out and can become a borderline creeper if you keep stealing glances.
If you don't look around, then when you get next to the girl everything is fresh, the open seems spontaneous, which goes much better usually.
In my world:
1. looking around get you in your head, displays lower value traits, and when you approach the girl you've looked at 100 times== creeper blowout
2. Don't look around, focus on the fun directly in front of you. opens are more spontaneous. eliminates the time in your head to fuck things up== better results
Here's my take from personal experience.
I try not to "scope out the club" when I arrive. When you scope out the club it shows that your not in your world, your looking outward for the fun, validation, etc. and other people do notice this.
You end up making eye contact with a bunch of girls that you don't approach because they are too far away (ideally you would approach) and effectively blow yourself out and can become a borderline creeper if you keep stealing glances.
If you don't look around, then when you get next to the girl everything is fresh, the open seems spontaneous, which goes much better usually.
In my world:
1. looking around get you in your head, displays lower value traits, and when you approach the girl you've looked at 100 times== creeper blowout
2. Don't look around, focus on the fun directly in front of you. opens are more spontaneous. eliminates the time in your head to fuck things up== better results
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Tim mentioned this too somewhere.
Here's my take from personal experience.
I try not to "scope out the club" when I arrive. When you scope out the club it shows that your not in your world, your looking outward for the fun, validation, etc. and other people do notice this.
You end up making eye contact with a bunch of girls that you don't approach because they are too far away (ideally you would approach) and effectively blow yourself out and can become a borderline creeper if you keep stealing glances.
If you don't look around, then when you get next to the girl everything is fresh, the open seems spontaneous, which goes much better usually.
In my world:
1. looking around get you in your head, displays lower value traits, and when you approach the girl you've looked at 100 times== creeper blowout
2. Don't look around, focus on the fun directly in front of you. opens are more spontaneous. eliminates the time in your head to fuck things up== better results
Nice to see its working positively for other people, and not just for me (assuming im weird).Here's my take from personal experience.
I try not to "scope out the club" when I arrive. When you scope out the club it shows that your not in your world, your looking outward for the fun, validation, etc. and other people do notice this.
You end up making eye contact with a bunch of girls that you don't approach because they are too far away (ideally you would approach) and effectively blow yourself out and can become a borderline creeper if you keep stealing glances.
If you don't look around, then when you get next to the girl everything is fresh, the open seems spontaneous, which goes much better usually.
In my world:
1. looking around get you in your head, displays lower value traits, and when you approach the girl you've looked at 100 times== creeper blowout
2. Don't look around, focus on the fun directly in front of you. opens are more spontaneous. eliminates the time in your head to fuck things up== better results
Weird its the opposite, your in you head when looking around, but present when not. It should be the way around lol
Im shure some responses to this thread will be "man, just be yourself", or "thats BS, your free, do what you want, dont keep your head forward all the time, its lame and unnatural".
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K man, thanks, will give this a go. I get what your saying about girls approaching, this happens to me a fair bit when am sat on my own just texting a mate or drinking my drink an not paying attention, the bad thing is, I still manage to fuck it up most times !!!
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[/b]Yeah, kinda. Its hard to explain but aim at spot ( a sign, a lightspot, or meeting a girls eyes;)) further away from me, and i focus on that. Of course you have to move your eyes, otherwise its obvious and you will feel stupid. I mean you gotta be real when you do this, the easiest is to think about how much you like yourself and that you see yourself as high status and that your surrounding is BS and nothing that interests you. Then this will be easy to implement, The hard thing is tolerating the stares (you feel people looking at you) because many people will notice you, in other subway when they wait for the train and you just pass them without looking at them, just forward. Or in the club, thats a challenge but ive done it, and i got approached by girls. Hot girls go nuts because you dont give the validation they want, and the hoes that got balls will approach.
I move my whole body when i want to look at the side, slowly. Spares neckpain!K man, thanks, will give this a go. I get what your saying about girls approaching, this happens to me a fair bit when am sat on my own just texting a mate or drinking my drink an not paying attention, the bad thing is, I still manage to fuck it up most times !!!
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Ive been keeping my head straight forward, and chin up most of the time these last 3 days. When i walk i try not to look around at all, i use my periferi vision to check out my sides. This little BL action makes me feel soo confident its out of this world. I know it sounds stupid and robotich, but think about it. A man who doesnt ever look around, unless he has too, has seen it all, and done it all! It signals he is centered. Chicks love this shit, but most importantly, it gives you this bonus confidence just for being able to not care about the crazy surroundings you deal with every day. I also feel im getting more respect from literally everyone, people that before never said hello notice me now. Its like WTF?! People also listen moore keenly when i talk to them, its so strange. This is just a tool for getting more confidence and makes you more attractive to other people. This is what CEO and highstatus people do if you watch. They are in their own little world.
If you need to move your head to look at your surroundings, do it slowly, think Clint Eastwood or Arnold.
Give it a shot. I definetaly will do this til its my natural walking style, also it makes me feel internal happiness for some reason, its weird.