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October 23rd, 2018
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Angry Dave

Angry Dave

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Join Date: 09/09/2011 | Posts: 218

LOL another brilliant line; gonna have to steal this one :)

I notice you haven't done any night game since hotseat. any reason for that?

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CBAABC

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Join Date: 02/20/2009 | Posts: 1692

 Yep, basicaly self amusement. I have a lot more that I am gonna try out just for funsies:

"Hi, do you think that beer will make me inteligent?"

"Hey do you know where X is? (while standing next/in front of X)

"Hi, my toilet really hurts" (I love this one, it doesn´t even make sense)
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Too time consuming, also takes a lot of energy and I am pretty tired/lazy the next day.

Not good in this crucial time of my life. I need to study hard to get accepted to college and then study so I can graduate. Don´t wanna fail :D

Bur I am itching for the clubs. Inspired by Julien/Tyler. I am gonna do mixed sets and couples just for fun. Just trying to steal their girls (have tried a lot of times before mostly it´s fail times BUT was successful once and it felt sooo good)

Yep, just seeing the upsides for approaching, not the downsides. That was me like in the 1st month of the game, before I returned back home.
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AlexV

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Join Date: 11/12/2011 | Posts: 1537

my wing from the pre-rsd times.. long long ago:

"hi, you're rubbing up against my ass while dancing, i have diarhea, it makes poo comes out, stop it"
or
"hi, i have diarhea, got tissues for me?"

worked.
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CBAABC

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Join Date: 02/20/2009 | Posts: 1692

 @wtf: Toilet humour isn´t really my style :P

Exciting times ahead!

Over 2 years ago I spent a lot of time researching, learning about healthy diet. So for 1 year I was really into Primal Blueprint

Over 1 year ago I was really into weight gain for cca 1 year. Did stronglifts. Gained 30 lbs, achieved pretty good lifts (2 BW deadlift, 1,5 BW squat, 1 BW bench)

Over 8 months ago I started dedicating myself fully to PU (before I was just a KJ, but at least RSDnation motivated me to eat healthy, hit the gym, read books and also improved my english a ton by reading RSDnation, watching movies, etc.).


As I have a shit ton of exams that I am gonna do in upcomming 3 months.

So what´s the focus? Where will be my willpower chanelled?

Balance + studying.

What do I mean by balance? That means eating healthy (easy, been there done that), hitting the gym (easy, been there done that), overeating (less easy, but gonna do my best), meditation (never stuck for longer than 2 weeks, but gonna create a routine and it should get easy), going out (mostly daygame, but hope to put in a club session once in a while).

Studying
Healthy diet (+overeating)
Gym
Meditation
Going out

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Studying:
-Geography
-Czech literature + world literature (extra important)
-Maths (extra important)
-German (mainly conversation)
-English (some grammar and english+american history)

Healthy diet:
Basically Primal + probably beans/rice + milk + protein powder and gainer

Lots of green veggies (spinach, broccoli, brussel sprouts), tomatoes, avocadoes, berries

White tea, dark chocolate, nuts

Supplements: fish oil, multivitamins, b complex vitamins, zinc, probiotics, garlic, ginko biloba, ginseng

Also milk for weight gain.

Gym:
Gonna yet to decide if I want to do Tim Ferrisses Geek to Freak, which is like 2x a week for 30 min everytime.

Or do Stronglifts 3x week for 1 hour everytime.

Most likely I am gonna give it G2F another shot and do it for another 1-2 months. If I am not satisfied, then back to SL 5x5 which has proven to be pretty good.

Meditation:
Either vipassana sitting/lying for 20/30/40 mins (gonna find out what suits me best)

Or those holosync for 30-60 mins.

Going out:
Few up to 7 days a week. Mostly daygame sessions (30 min-3 hours). Maybe 1 club session once in 7-14 days.


Also want to watch comedies while I eat and probably play Starcraft 2 max 1-2 hours a day just fun. Also gonna try to limit porn. If I have some freetime then it´s reading books.

At school we pretty much do nothing, so at least it gives me time to study what I need to study. Fuck yea!

Most of those habits I have already implemented before and stuck with before. Time to get back which should be much easier than the 1st time. BEEN THERE DONE THAT!

What´s the most challenging thing is not spending time on the internet and porn.

ChinaBoy
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TOOBAD

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Join Date: 10/31/2006 | Posts: 1242

I'd do Stronglifts - and I'd do the 4 liters of milk a day on top of good diet if I were you.

If you can get powdered milk  - and it's cheaper than buying fresh milk - do this - make up a liter of powdered milk - if you can get the skim milk - drink that 4 times a day and also add in 2 tablespoons of Extra Virgin Olive Oil and just drink that with it too. Works out to be an extra 3000 calories or something a day - and you're an extreme ectomorph so you won't be getting fat at all from that. I went from 65kg to 95kg in about a year and a half doing that. Not a skinny guy anymore - and my bodyfat is around 10% now at 90kg :) 

Good luck :) 
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CBAABC

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 On one hand I wanna gain muscle...BUT that extreme amout of milk made my face look like shit. Acne all over my neck, some on my face and shitton on my back.

I remember me drinking 3l of milk a day...Getting cca 4500 kcal daily, most of the day I felt so heavy, a lot of times nauseaus and spend the whole day at the computer, not wanting to even stand up and being lazy because of all that overeating.

Gonna try 2l of milk + gainer (which is 1250 kcal)...so all in all it´s cca 2500 kcal and then eat a lot of meat, beans, veggies. :)

Good stuff man! 30 kg is a ridicilous change. I gained 15 kg in about 8 months and then as the summer came I plateaued.
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CBAABC

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 On one hand I wanna gain muscle...BUT that extreme amout of milk made my face look like shit. Acne all over my neck, some on my face and shitton on my back.

I remember me drinking 3l of milk a day...Getting cca 4500 kcal daily, most of the day I felt so heavy, a lot of times nauseaus and spend the whole day at the computer, not wanting to even stand up and being lazy because of all that overeating.

Gonna try 2l of milk + gainer (which is 1250 kcal)...so all in all it´s cca 2500 kcal and then eat a lot of meat, beans, veggies. :)

Good stuff man! 30 kg is a ridicilous change. I gained 15 kg in about 8 months and then as the summer came I plateaued.
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TheRoyalFlush

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Join Date: 08/22/2006 | Posts: 193

 Hey man,

Just saw your April Fools video.  I'm being honest when I say this.. you're a good looking guy.  You hit the nail on the head.... you seem to be making these approaches and expecting a blowout.  You need to be more self accepting.  Unfortunately, theres no formula or method to achieve this --  it kinda happends on its own accord.  Keep hitting it and most importantly try to have as much fun as possible.

Mark my words... Within the year you will have conquered this and will be getting laid on a consistent basis.  
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novel

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Join Date: 12/08/2011 | Posts: 329

dont do holosync. ive gotten way better results from conventional meditation. ive dont a lot of the binaural/voice over stuff and found most of them to be terrible. ive used holosync, brainsync, hemisync, ive tried hypnotica's stuff yoga nidra and sphinx, the deepak chopra stuff someone posted on here awhile ago. none of those had such immediate and noticeable impacts on my life (i tried those stuff before i got into pick up) as just straight up normal meditation. all those other stuff resulted in a dulling of my mind, trance like states instead of the highly aware state from normal meditation. people keep trying to reinvent the wheel when the original did the job the best.
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CBAABC

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 @RoyalFlush: Yea, I know what you mean...

@novel: thx...I personally don´t like them too...only once I felt pretty good, but never felt it was that beneficial. Had better experiences with Vipassana.

10.4.2012 Daygame- Just being brutally honest


Mike Candys fuckyea!!!

So last week I went out only 2x...does it mean the end of ChinaBoy? Hell No :)

Went to the mall. Approached 3 chicks.

with those 2 I had to run up, so maybe I came across too nervous. But one had a BF, second one just dismissed with that she´s in a hurry.

3rd was a indirect, very amusing she was very confused, went for the intro, she excused herself hahaha. At least had fun.

Then went for the streets. Retarded. Dead. Did no approaches in like 1 hour. Then I was pissed so dropped my standards even lower. Eventually I approach this cute girl indirect, she´s giving me directions and I am just cutting her off/changing the topic and then introducing myself as she still kept wanting to give me those god damned directions, later I even told her that I like like a block away (so we both laughed at how I asked for directions when I live so close that I have to know), I like how she´s unconventional and very unique, so stayed even though she was 14. LOOOOL. Insta date-30 mins. Sorry to her grandparents, you guys gotta eat a cold dinner because of me :P. Maybe gonna see this girl, dunno (weird that I told her to write my name into her phone and she said that she will do it later)

Called up 2 girls. 1 was the insta date for 20 mins like almost 2 weeks ago. Sent 1 text, but no response. So this time I called. She picks up and doesn´t say anything...I am confused and say "hello?" she hangs up on me :D :D :D. 2nd was the 14 yo from friday. No answer, didn´t mind, this was expected, the interaction was the definition of the absolute opposite of a solid interaction :D :D :D

Kinda not satisfied with the number of approaches in over 2 hours. But at least had fun with my wing as we were talking shit and amusing ourselves.

Victories:
-Was really relaxed. Had fun. No mister serious. Approaches were with a smirk, sometimes even a big smile.
-Insta date
-Most importantly I actually like this girl´s personality. Unconventional, luv it.
-lol the biggest loss or fail: Becoming a pedophile and getting arrested for statutory :D :D :D. Yes, this is the way of ChinaBoss

Conclusion:
-2,5 hours
-4 approaches
-1 number, 1 instadate

Lessons:
-No need to even be fun with daygame. But you need to be unstifled enough to be yourself. Then it´s usually a chill real conversation with some bursts of arousal (+- emotions)

Now right onto some lessons that I have learned just recently:

50/50 interaction=real interaction. That means using PAUSES NOT QUESTIONS! Instead of forcing her to invest (by asking a question) you let her invest (by using pauses)

Brutal honesty timezzzz
Inspired by detourlx...time for some brutal honesty. As this is my "policy" of this thread. I think I shoudln´t write everything here as I feel like I need not to reveal personal stuff here. Heh.

OK. I had this idea in my head for quite a long time. Just being brutally honest hehe. What´s the main reason why I am not getting the results I want?

POOR SELF IMAGE

Poor self image makes me feel less worthy (aka worthless) and that makes me put other people on a pedestal. When you put other people on the pedesta (value them more than yourself), then you are stifled to even express yourself, to be yourself, you are more serious, logical, etc... (just imagine yourself around high value people, aha you are not so fun anymore, you are not so expressive now, you are maybe a tiny bit nervous around them). AHA!

This has also caused that a lot of times (when I am not even thinking about PU, aka not in a PU mode)...then I get this feeling of worthlessness when around cute/hot chicks. LOL. So fucking weird. So this is a internal, unconcious thing.

Also poor self image translates into me not even being able to imagine myself having success with women. Not even being able to imagine (not within my reality) just having girls into me, just shooting the shit, etc.

So improve innergame. And then approaching will be less taxing on my willpower...as when you feel like milion bucks then it doesn´t take much willpower to approach. You feel like THE SHIT so why not? But when you feel like SHIT then approaching takes a lot of willpower.

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Improvement! Now I consciously think that I am fine aka I am enough. No need to add anything or change. When comparing myself to my wing (who gets laid like 1-2x a month) I see no fundamental difference. Thinking: "yea, I am a man she is a woman...so of course sex is inevitable, it´s is how nature works". But still this is not ingrained deeply into my unconscious mind as I get the feelings of worthlessness from time to time.
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Also no results in the club? My own fucking fault. I had bad views on the whole clubbing scene. Probably from lack of social experience.

Watched this vid:


I just wanted to approach hot chicks. Very goal oriented (sex) and being serious about it. Going to the clubs was for me all about thw women. I had kinda the PUA vibe (like a hunter trying to catch something).

Instead of viewing the club as a place to have fun. As Alex says Bar/Club is the temple of relaxation. Just to go there to have a blast and that women are secondary.

Most importantly I viewed PU as hard work. Not fun. I thought that sex is a reward for your hard work, consistency, willpower. Myy thought was like if you endure enough bullshit then sex is the reward. Thinking "oh how many blowouts do i need to endure to have the "universe" reward me with sex?". This is kinda true, but you I feel like this is not a good mindset. Yes, enduring bullshit is awesome (makes you more relaxed). But thinking: "I need to get a ton of blowouts before I get laid" is unproductive.

Presidential elections in USA? Vote for Chinaboy!!! He will make sure that your underage nieces, daughters, sisters will be molested good!!! LOL I am depraved :D :D :D. I hope I won´t be arrested for my twisted humouromg

ChinaBoy ouuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut (in a canadian accent)
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