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CBAABC

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Join Date: 02/20/2009 | Posts: 1692

 Yep, april fools muthafuckaaaaaa!!!

2.4.2012 Daygame Gaygame

Urrrrrrgh. Did 4 indirect and 1 indirect...all blowouts as I feeling really off.

From 1 girl I ejected myself, she looked kinda subpar and when she opened her mouth that sealed the deal and I left.

Also the streets were really shitty. It must be the weather.

Also messaged 3 girls. 2 no response (1 was a 5 min convo, 2nd was a 20 min interaction on friday), 1 responded but no go.

I also quit porn yesterday so I am extra horny. Like all I think about is sex. I don´t mind lowering my standards as they are probably already lower than most people´s :D :D :D.

But it looks like I am gonna hit the club hard in the following days. Yay. Can´t wait. Daygame is getting kinda monotonous.

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 I don't get the hornyness thing. I wish I was as horny as you, it seams like a huge motivator. 
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CBAABC

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This really hit home!

The power of full engagement by Tony Schwartz...That willpower is limited. And that you can actually cultivate it.

I think I have been doing really well in the Willpower department, just approach approach approach even while feeling shitty. Though I really lack in the Positive emotions department (aka fun).

Also that Willpower is limited, and I have been using it up on PU and then let myself be very lazy (especially academically, healthwise, gym, etc...).

Need to get back on track yo! Some balance as hitting it hard is not the option until mid June.


Also realised that I am fortunate having very generous and financialy supportive. So yea, in some areas I have an edge, in other stuff less gifted (progress in everything I did was very slow, innergame bullcrap, etc...). It´s fair. :)

Peace out bro!

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CBAABC

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 YAY! I am gay (happy) like a little gurl!!!

Sticking point found! (the biggest)

So what has been causing so many blowouts? What is making me feel like there´s no upside to approaching (that it will end in a blowout)?

MY VIBE.

Where I am at now (vibewise):
-Serious, logical and when it comes PU-intense (not that my approaches are intense, but how I think about PU is intense).

Where I want to be:
-Very relaxed, lighthearted, fun (aka self amusing).

So all of these fucking 77 pages were all about cultivating Willpower. Just taking action. Approach after approach. Going for the hard sets. Just pushing my comfort zone. BUT my vibe hasn´t changed that much (well it´s like 100x better, but I improved mostly at willpower).

It´s like Tyler talked about being "out of state" and just doing it anyway. So that me in the club or on the street, just having a serious, logical, goal oriented vibe...appproach after approach.

Yea, I love the book: Feel the fear, do it anyways by Susan Jeffers. So my willpower (aka action taking or taking initiative) was learned from Tyler, a little bit Ozzie and Alex.

So YES. I am good at taking action and implementing outergame stuff. I apply it immediately and like Alex said, I am a fast learner because of it.

But taking action endlessly with bad vibe isn´t gonna attract girls, it´s gonna results in the same stuff I have been getting for the last 5-8 months.

What Now?

I am gonna focus heavily on my life. Just reading memoirs/bios/stories, hitting the gym, studying hard, eating healthy, meditate and going out. I want to have a baseline vibe-Chill.

Also I am not gonna watch movies. But instead comedies/family guy/...

Gonna learn how to be better at self amusement, illogicality. Gonna do some retarded illogical exercises.

BUT also I am gonna keep focusing on willpower. Just taking action more than ever!

I have a ton of goals, big dreams. Time to reach for the stars!!!

LET´S SHAKE OFF THE SERIOUSNESS AND LOGICALITY BIEEETCH!

ChinaBoy
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Nice - here - read and internalise these mate :) 

www.rsdnation.com/alexander/blog/personality-get-one-chode

www.rsdnation.com/alexander/blog/ultimate-attraction-ammunition-advanced-theory
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 Nice! If you want to become funnier then I got help from a book called "Comedy writing secrets".
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Me-vs-Me wrote:
 Nice! If you want to become funnier then I got help from a book called "Comedy writing secrets".
That's a good book - I remember back in the David De'Angelo days when he first recommended it - I still use jokes out of it on almost a daily basis haha
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CBAABC

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 Yea, I got the book teeth

I am gonna put on hold Pimp by Iceberg Slim (kinda a hard read for me, african american english is kinda hard for me to read) and read instead that book.

I hope it´s not scripted jokes.
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If you're having trouble being logical in your conversations then I would recommend improv comedy and checking out Brad's article on How to Vomit (http://www.bradbranson.com/what-to-say-to-a-girl/)

Just practice it by yourself. Pick any word and just flow off of it. If you find that you get a feeling that you don't want to do it, then thats good, just go through with it anyways because you're on the right track. You want to be able to flow off literally ANYTHING, and once you can do that you'll realize that making mistakes verbally really isn't a big deal.
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Hey Dude! Like your willpower, you go in very hard and approach nearly everything. But i guess you got it now that you have to primarily celebrate yourself while moving things forward.

I was also very logical but then i realized that this is not going to move things forward for me. Remember the HS exercise of vomiting: tell whatever comes to your mind (REALLY WHATEVER). no filters. and have fun expressing yourself!

And numbers are only if you cannot close her right now as Julien said... ;-)

Greetings from Vienna, Cheers Bro!
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