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CBAABC

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Join Date: 02/20/2009 | Posts: 1692

 YAY! I am gay (happy) like a little gurl!!!

Sticking point found! (the biggest)

So what has been causing so many blowouts? What is making me feel like there´s no upside to approaching (that it will end in a blowout)?

MY VIBE.

Where I am at now (vibewise):
-Serious, logical and when it comes PU-intense (not that my approaches are intense, but how I think about PU is intense).

Where I want to be:
-Very relaxed, lighthearted, fun (aka self amusing).

So all of these fucking 77 pages were all about cultivating Willpower. Just taking action. Approach after approach. Going for the hard sets. Just pushing my comfort zone. BUT my vibe hasn´t changed that much (well it´s like 100x better, but I improved mostly at willpower).

It´s like Tyler talked about being "out of state" and just doing it anyway. So that me in the club or on the street, just having a serious, logical, goal oriented vibe...appproach after approach.

Yea, I love the book: Feel the fear, do it anyways by Susan Jeffers. So my willpower (aka action taking or taking initiative) was learned from Tyler, a little bit Ozzie and Alex.

So YES. I am good at taking action and implementing outergame stuff. I apply it immediately and like Alex said, I am a fast learner because of it.

But taking action endlessly with bad vibe isn´t gonna attract girls, it´s gonna results in the same stuff I have been getting for the last 5-8 months.

What Now?

I am gonna focus heavily on my life. Just reading memoirs/bios/stories, hitting the gym, studying hard, eating healthy, meditate and going out. I want to have a baseline vibe-Chill.

Also I am not gonna watch movies. But instead comedies/family guy/...

Gonna learn how to be better at self amusement, illogicality. Gonna do some retarded illogical exercises.

BUT also I am gonna keep focusing on willpower. Just taking action more than ever!

I have a ton of goals, big dreams. Time to reach for the stars!!!

LET´S SHAKE OFF THE SERIOUSNESS AND LOGICALITY BIEEETCH!

ChinaBoy
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TOOBAD

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Nice - here - read and internalise these mate :) 

www.rsdnation.com/alexander/blog/personality-get-one-chode

www.rsdnation.com/alexander/blog/ultimate-attraction-ammunition-advanced-theory
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Me-vs-Me

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 Nice! If you want to become funnier then I got help from a book called "Comedy writing secrets".
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TOOBAD

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Me-vs-Me wrote:
 Nice! If you want to become funnier then I got help from a book called "Comedy writing secrets".
That's a good book - I remember back in the David De'Angelo days when he first recommended it - I still use jokes out of it on almost a daily basis haha
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CBAABC

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 Yea, I got the book teeth

I am gonna put on hold Pimp by Iceberg Slim (kinda a hard read for me, african american english is kinda hard for me to read) and read instead that book.

I hope it´s not scripted jokes.
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RezznT!

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If you're having trouble being logical in your conversations then I would recommend improv comedy and checking out Brad's article on How to Vomit (http://www.bradbranson.com/what-to-say-to-a-girl/)

Just practice it by yourself. Pick any word and just flow off of it. If you find that you get a feeling that you don't want to do it, then thats good, just go through with it anyways because you're on the right track. You want to be able to flow off literally ANYTHING, and once you can do that you'll realize that making mistakes verbally really isn't a big deal.
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Mountaineer-~

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Hey Dude! Like your willpower, you go in very hard and approach nearly everything. But i guess you got it now that you have to primarily celebrate yourself while moving things forward.

I was also very logical but then i realized that this is not going to move things forward for me. Remember the HS exercise of vomiting: tell whatever comes to your mind (REALLY WHATEVER). no filters. and have fun expressing yourself!

And numbers are only if you cannot close her right now as Julien said... ;-)

Greetings from Vienna, Cheers Bro!
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synergist'12

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Keep going dude, this is some inspiring shit.
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AlexV

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 hmmm you know what CB? Try this.... I did it and results were instant and AMAZING:

1. work your fucking ass off at work/study
2. pickup/going out is for self amusement/relaxation

for me, first day i started it -> got laid
Third day.. well read my journal, honestly fucking amazing vibe... It fixed by vibe issues, most of them.

So what I did was switch from PU being my primary concern to my business. Business is growing rapidly (even though i've only been doing like 8 hour work days for JUST A FEW DAYS, and pickup became just so fucking easy man...

Try it and see what happens..
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CBAABC

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 @MyNameIsJosh: I dunno teeth The whole "daddy" thing seems creepy to me. Having black hoes calling me daddy send shivers up my ass!

@RezznT: Yea, practising it with my wing everytime we do daygame. When we are in between sets it´s soo boooring that we just talk absolute crap and have fun. What´s weird is when I go for the approach I totally shift into a logical, serious, business like vibe. As if sex was a business transaction teeth Yes, I am a genius.

@Mountaineer: Cheers, always a pleasure meeting you. Next time we are actually gonna kiss on the lips smile

@dave7: Yep. It´s fucking weird and creepy. Made me think about if I should keep posting (a lot of retards here), BUT I am gonna continue posting here. It´s for me. And I always journal, I think it´s one of the keys for consistency. BTW: U are gonna be such a beast at PU, just judging by your positivity smile

@synergist12: Yep, This willpower will be someday transfered to other areas of my life and I am gonna own it.

@wtf: yep, good tip! I want to be more productive, but kinda lacking willpower, probably I am using it up all in PU

Cheers
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