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 @Falc: Yay....I feel so validated...like Britney Spears :D :D :D

Anyway...thanks

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12.3.2012 Daygame- Welcome Indirect, Fuckoff Direct


According to my wing I have a pokerface. Agreed. Need to fix that.

Wow...a shift has been made. Now I care less about PU.Before I´d write the field report immediately upon getting home (so i don´t forget anything), it didn´t even matter that I was out for like 7 hours and didn´t ate anything for so long, the report was more important....buuut today. I first ate and then wrote the field report. Seems like a minor thing, but for me it´s a shift.

Read this thread at school....everytime I read it, I get motivated and get a new eppiphany: www.rsdnation.com/node/152300

Indirect daygame is very out of my comfort zone:
-I hate getting blown out from indirect (seems very awkward, girls gives you the directions and leaves), I don´tm ind if I get a blow out from a direct approach
-Indirect approach feel uncomfortable on 2sets
-Indirect feels awkward if I run up to a girl
-I do not feel so GANGSTA doing indirect

But decided to do it anyway. I can use indirect to get better results and push my comfort zone. As it feels awkward asking for directions in city center when I live in the city center...BUT it´s all in my head.

BF? We will see
I see the 1st cutie and go in.
"Hey, do you know where the groceries are?"
"...."
"Hey, you don´t look like local"
"Nope,...."
Shake hands.

"So you go around the streets collecting numbers?"
"No, I collect eyes" (ahaha, couldn´t thought of a better answer, but it doesn´t matter as I didn´t react)

She´s quiet and attentive, shy.

We end up chatting, just fluff talk, nothing special. I qualify her. She mentioned her BF like 3 times. But I got the number anyway.

We seperated after talking for like 5+ minutes as my wing was bored out of his fucken mind...I need to teach him how to be independent. Then walking with my wing I was telling him about the indirect daygame method and the girl passes by and gives me smile. I crackup laughing as I realised that she heard me talking about the steps of indirect daygame.


2nd girl- was kinda awkward as It didn´t stick well. She was confused, standing very far away, I put out my hand a little, she doesn´t shake it, I talk and then again introduce myself, this time she reaches over to shake my hand, but it feels also awkward to me so I ended it. She was very confused. That´s what I hated about indirect, if it doesn´t go well, then it´s very awkward. She had headphones.

3rd girl- was in the mall, simmilar to the 2nd approach.

4th- We saw this done up girl. I approach her direct in the middle of the road. She´s evasive, and I just eject. She turned red. She was confused and evasive that made me giver her a big grin, my smile is really sexy I just need to allow myself to smile more (I don´t smile that much as grewing up I had bad teeth so I was ashamed of them, Now I got them fixed with braces and whitened. Looks so sexy)

5th- a teenage girl. I just look at her and go up to her, gesturing to her to take off her headphones, she stops like 1 feet away from me (stands pretty close to me), I go indirect, shake hands, she´s in a hurry so she starts leaving. "wait wait wait, one more thing, you seem interesting, gimme your number" "no, maybe we will see each other" "wait wait wait"...she left. I go back to my wing very amused. The people near by were like WTF? This was so funny.

Smooth game, very normal interaction
My wing approaches a girl, it hooks really well, so I kept walking around the streets until I stop another girl with headphones.

"Hey, do you know whare the groceries are?"
Starts talking in Slowak "No, I am from Bratislava"
In my head I am literally cracking up, thinking: "fuuuuck, she just fucked my transition, fuck it" So I skipped the "change topic" step and went straight into intro. Improvisation is the shit.
"I am Ivi"

So we start chatting, chode questions, fluff talk, she says she needs to slowly go and if I wanna go with her. I agreed and as we started walking. "Hey, gimme your number" Got the number and FB. I realised that I forgot to qualify her...so I qualified her on her open mindedness and how active she is. She told me she dances ballet (I thought of how these girls can do splits with their legs, lol kinda turned me on, I am a horny mofo :D)

Just pretty normal chat. Ocassionally I teased her. She qualified herself:
Her: "Yea, I was the best student in maths in my class"
Me: "Like in elementary school?" gotta tease :)
Her: "No, in highschool"

Later she was talking more than me...after she finnished talking about partying. I just laughed and didn´t knew what to say, so she kept talking. We talked for like 10 mins and at the end I gave her a hug as I felt like it.

There wasn´t that much of "quiet and attentive" and no tests...but she was qualifying herself and gaming me by talking.

With my wing I was having a shit ton of fun, just shit talking, but with girls it was fluff talk. Wasn´t fucking around too much. I am enough. So normal talk is good enough.

Victories:
-Did indirect which is out of my comfort zone
-Some cool, normal interactions
-Could have normal longer interactions (not possible with direct as the girls were pretty freaked out)
-Approached mostly older girls, finally no immature teenage girls that cannot handle direct approaches
-Gave a girl a shit eating grin. Smilling is kinda hard (too stiffled to do it as I was always ashamed of my teeth-now teeth are fixed)
-Was very chill and relaxed
-Independent, approached even though my wing was in set

Conclusion:
-2,5 hours
-6 approaches
-2 numbers, 2 FBs

Lessons:
-Indirect is pretty slow. Less sets to work with as I am not chasing girls.
-Focus your RAS on "Quiet and attentive" screening process for single girls
-I need to smile more, or just smirk. Wing told me that I have a poker face. Agreed.
-I am enough
-I need to be more ballsy. I was pussying out a lot.

Gotta teach my wing how to be more independent. So I´ll go on insta dates and also become more independent myself.

Indirect for me is. Either 1. A normal, pretty solid interaction 2. Awkward blowout. But it´s all in my head. Now it´s time to really do indirect daygame. She interactions are a lot different from those with direct approaches.

All of those were moving sets, 3 of those sets had headphones. So headphones does not matter (for newbs), moving sets are not ideal but depends on the situation and it can be done (with experience you will be able to tell which girls are probably gonna be more willing to talk to you and which aren´t, but still it´s best to figure it out yourself by approaching)

My new catch phrase? "Bitch please"

ChinaBoy

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