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January 16th, 2018
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SouffléHead

SouffléHead

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Join Date: 09/01/2011 | Posts: 321

Dude, just watched your last vid.

Fucking hilarious! Your parents are the BEST WINGMEN EVER!!!!
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Enigma

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Join Date: 02/05/2007 | Posts: 31

 Hey China,

just saw your video, "The stories".

Delivery:   The impression I get when watching this is still awkwardness, you still seem to be somewhat robotic, not fun, neither engaging. I suspected this already, but the video confirms this, that you are lacking some basic skills in your delivery. As long as you don't fix it your game will still be stuck. I think you might try some standup comedy or acting classes, something that will force you to work on your delivery and where you get feedback from other people.

Look in the internet on youtube for some videos of PUAs talking and compare them with you, see how their delivery is. You don't need to stick only to PUAs, look for other people telling stories and when you get the impression they are funny, see what they are doing.



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Voeoe

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ChinaBoy~ wrote:
 @SouffleHead: lol, thx dude....they way how much you are saying "no homo" makes me feel like your homo tounge

Yep I was down...this is as expressive as it gets, definativelly gonna work on that.

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The Stories



This one was taped on 20.1.2012. The 3rd story about the girl was probably the most valuable interaction, gave a the taste of how I might be in a years/a few years time consistently. Also a big lesson was that I am enough. Reminding myself of this little interaction Is very motivating.

BTW: Cut out the first few minutes as I was talking about some negative shit that I have endured...But I want to keep this journal positive, so no need to post negative bulllshit on here.

ChinaBoy
Damn you've changed a lot. By the way, could you at some point write about how to make yourself approach like a machine.
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CBAABC

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@soufflehead: yep my parents are cool with pickup.

@enigma: totally aware of that :)

When infield i am probably i am lil bit more expressive as i am camera shy :D

Thx gonna work on that.

@voeoe: thx dude. Hard to tell how much i have changed by myself, so thx for feedback.

How to be an approach machine?

You just do it. It's like how do you walk? You just walk.

Do not hesitate. Approach immediately when you see her. When you feel fear then do it anyway. For me it all comes down to my leverage and my personality. I have a shitton of leverage, i do not like to give up and i am a hard worker.

Hey hey voeoe

ChinaBoy
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Enigma

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Join Date: 02/05/2007 | Posts: 31

Voeoe wrote:
Damn you've changed a lot. By the way, could you at some point write about how to make yourself approach like a machine.

From my own experience, especially in daygame: go out until you can make yourself approach. For me this meant going out several days with 0 approaches until I finally managed to get myself to do it.
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rake_god

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Join Date: 04/17/2011 | Posts: 153

alright. Now i understand better.
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CBAABC

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 5.3.2012 Daygame- Look on the bright side=win


So I got sick...Massive headache, didn´t wanted to go out.

So went out...massive headache, shivering and nausea...nausea was the worst...felt like puking.

I did like 5-6 approaches...LOL not even one girl stopped properly to shake my hand. So all blowouts.

Also met again the engaged chick Lucy...again shot the shit with her.

"She´s single"
"you wish"

Then my wing told me that his date is bringing a girl so he should bring a guy...my wings asks me if I wanna ok, I agree.

Her: "ewwww, you should bring someone cuter than him (meaning me)"
I don´t give a shit.

Wow, she´s upping the ante...next time I see her I am gonna try to make something happen. Though she´s engaged but she´s behaving like a single girl and testing the shit out of me.


After 2 hours of daygame I feel pretty awesome. Headache? Gone. Nausea? Gone. Down feeling (sadness)? Almost gone.

So then we go there, to meet the unofficial blind date. I didn´t want to go as if it wouldn´t work out then that´s a blowout but decided to push for new experiences.

Turns out that the girls is doable, kinda trashy...but says that she´s going to meet her BF (yea i think it was a lie)....So I leave.

On my way back I just think about the positives, instead of focus on negatives and make myself feel depressed and frustrated.

Instead of thinking: I got 5-6 insta blowouts and one blind date blowout I though: "Haha, cool, I felt like shit and now I feel pretty good, I approached, I pushed my comfort zone. It´s all good. And also I just gained 0.7 kg in a week. Sweet. I am gonna go home and overeat some more. Awesome."

Go home feeling pretty good about myself. It´s all about bringing out the positive guy inside of me. Also I have weight gain, so if no results with PU, then at least I am making progress elsewhere.

Teenage girl from sunday
Sunday:
I texted her "Nice meeting your nerd :P Ivi"
Her: "Nice meeting you too :), not that I am a facebook dweller but it would come in handy :)"
"you will find me under ...."

She haven´t added me yet...so I called her up. She picks up,...there´s some guy talking shit on me hahaha...It seems like not perfect logistics to talk to her on phone while having a guy distract her and me...haha some immature guy. Also told her we should hang out but she told me that she has to study....yea right, she doesn´t look like a type of girl that will study. Gonna try probably on the weekend for the last time.

LOL...I think she´s the 1st girl in 25-30 numbers that picked up the phone. PROOOOGRESSSS BIATCH.

Fuck this shit. Ramble over. Time to overeat.

ChinaBoy
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NoWayOut

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Join Date: 08/31/2011 | Posts: 173

i dont know why but im listening to a marketing seminar , i stumbled on this threat by accident i skimmed over it
it kinda reminds me of my first years . so im gonna make it easy for you
find borrow or steal
womanizing by stephane
read chapter two
do it for 18 houras per day until it becomes natural
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plus stop being weird whatever comes thru youtr mouth is fake dont worry we have all been there stop forum for 6 ,mounths detox for all material
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BKW

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Enigma wrote:

Voeoe wrote:
Damn you've changed a lot. By the way, could you at some point write about how to make yourself approach like a machine.

From my own experience, especially in daygame: go out until you can make yourself approach. For me this meant going out several days with 0 approaches until I finally managed to get myself to do it.

Something that helps me is literally not think about it.  Keep your mind simple.  Don't think about what to say or how you going to say it.  Simply see and approach and it makes everything so much easier.  When you think too much about it is when it's hard.  Just see the girl and approach and it'll be easy.  Simple.
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BKW

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Fear wrote:

ChinaBoy~ wrote:

LOL...I think she´s the 1st girl in 25-30 numbers that picked up the phone. PROOOOGRESSSS BIATCH.


O.o

I said it before, and ill say it again...you should tape your interactions like i used to...

I used to get this.  Most of it had to do with the fact that I wasn't really connecting/vibing/building rapport with the girl before I got the number.  Getting a number shouldn't be a struggle, and after you get the number it shouldn't be a struggle to receive a response.  Some of us go blindly into it thinking we are doing the right thing but cannot see what we are doing wrong, which was the connection building phase with me and it may be chinaboy's problem as well.
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