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Teuton

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 A trick is to use semi-direct(low pressure direct). Compliment the girl's style(when they are wearing anything that is nice/cool), even telling they are cute might be too much for you. To me the most consistent direct opening, is to compliment the girls style and make some kind of silly comment on it(pre-frame 'I love your style[pause]You look like a rocker barbie' or some shit) 
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Teuton

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 As far as indirect is concerned the best place I found is the bookstore. It simply rocks, I just ask for a book recommendation(for myself) and start to change topics
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CBAABC

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 @Teuton: yep, bookstores are kewl...Too bad that they are not the best in my small town, when I move to Prague I believe it will be much better over there.

19 days in a row...I think it was like 18 daygame sessions and 2-3 club sessions.

I AM BRINGING BALANCE BACK TO MY LIFE.

Why? Cuz If I would just keep going like this for another 6-12 months I´d just go crazy, be frustrated pretty often, other areas of my life.

Clubs are going to be very limited...probably 1x a week or 1x in 2 weeks. Daygame probably at least 3 longer sessions (1,5-3 hours) + some shorter sessions ocasionally.

This will clear up some time for other stuff and also give me more energy and willpower to focus on other things.

All of this will be till June...after all my exams are finished.

ChinaBoy
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CBAABC

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 How Natural Game Works

the goal of natural game is to have less anxiety than the girl in any situation. so for any guy that is walking up to a girl and is nervous, that is BULLSHIT. fuck off. your goal is to have so much life experience and such a wide reality that walking up to any girl does not make you nervous at all.

the way you do this is by having a wide spectrum of successes and embarrassments. the more social risks you take, the more your reality will become wider and the more value you will have. remember, what does a girl find attractive in a man? it's a sense of security. the girl will be attracted to you just because, as a man, you provide to her a sense of security.

that is why the more your reality gets stronger and the more successes and embarrassments you accumulate, the stronger your reality will be and the stronger the sense of security the girl gets from you.

the goal is for you to have such a wide spectrum of successes and experiences that nothing the girl can do will embarrass you. she tests you, you pass. guys try to fight you, you've been there. her friends come and want drama, you've been there. you can handle any and every tricky situation. if that is the case, the girl will see "oh shit, this guy is more centered than I am" and will be attracted.

instead of thinking in terms of reference points, I would think more of successes and embarrassments. actively take more and more social risks of every kind in order to have a stronger reality and a wider spectrum of successes and embarrassments.

and naturally this affects all your other game capabilities as well...

if you have a strong reality and you've endured a lot of bullshit, how easy is it for you to have your own fun instead of impressing? very easy. you realize only your actions as a man make yourself aroused. girls' reactions are just this big nothingness, this big vacuum. only your actions fulfill you. the rest is whatever.

if you have a strong reality how easy is it for you to have fun? you provoke people, use deliberate illogicality, instead of being stuck in the social conditioning thinking of bullshit to say to impress the next person. you're like "fuck this whole frame, I live my live differently". you have fun and never get in your own head.

if you have a strong reality your presence becomes much higher. if you don't need to care about causing impressions your everyday life gets better. you joke around, you fuck around with people, you give value and are a positive influence for everybody. there is no playing the game of victimizing, the game of social conditioning, the game of who's got the better car of better girl. there's just human to human warmth. and you projecting your fulfillment onto those that come across you.

so I would say, think in terms of successes and embarrassments. the more of each you have, the more relaxation, authenticity and better game you will have.

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Cliff notes: Take social risks...with more embarassements come successes. The more embarassements and successes you have the wider reality you have. The wider reality you have the more relaxed you are going to be.

ChinaBoy
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CBAABC

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Join Date: 02/20/2009 | Posts: 1692

 Check this out smile

Alexander~ Indirect Daygame Method

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roadrally

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Join Date: 10/12/2009 | Posts: 1922

Super good post main forum this shizz

ChinaBoy~ wrote:
 How Natural Game Works

the goal of natural game is to have less anxiety than the girl in any situation. so for any guy that is walking up to a girl and is nervous, that is BULLSHIT. fuck off. your goal is to have so much life experience and such a wide reality that walking up to any girl does not make you nervous at all.

the way you do this is by having a wide spectrum of successes and embarrassments. the more social risks you take, the more your reality will become wider and the more value you will have. remember, what does a girl find attractive in a man? it's a sense of security. the girl will be attracted to you just because, as a man, you provide to her a sense of security.

that is why the more your reality gets stronger and the more successes and embarrassments you accumulate, the stronger your reality will be and the stronger the sense of security the girl gets from you.

the goal is for you to have such a wide spectrum of successes and experiences that nothing the girl can do will embarrass you. she tests you, you pass. guys try to fight you, you've been there. her friends come and want drama, you've been there. you can handle any and every tricky situation. if that is the case, the girl will see "oh shit, this guy is more centered than I am" and will be attracted.

instead of thinking in terms of reference points, I would think more of successes and embarrassments. actively take more and more social risks of every kind in order to have a stronger reality and a wider spectrum of successes and embarrassments.

and naturally this affects all your other game capabilities as well...

if you have a strong reality and you've endured a lot of bullshit, how easy is it for you to have your own fun instead of impressing? very easy. you realize only your actions as a man make yourself aroused. girls' reactions are just this big nothingness, this big vacuum. only your actions fulfill you. the rest is whatever.

if you have a strong reality how easy is it for you to have fun? you provoke people, use deliberate illogicality, instead of being stuck in the social conditioning thinking of bullshit to say to impress the next person. you're like "fuck this whole frame, I live my live differently". you have fun and never get in your own head.

if you have a strong reality your presence becomes much higher. if you don't need to care about causing impressions your everyday life gets better. you joke around, you fuck around with people, you give value and are a positive influence for everybody. there is no playing the game of victimizing, the game of social conditioning, the game of who's got the better car of better girl. there's just human to human warmth. and you projecting your fulfillment onto those that come across you.

so I would say, think in terms of successes and embarrassments. the more of each you have, the more relaxation, authenticity and better game you will have.

---------

Cliff notes: Take social risks...with more embarassements come successes. The more embarassements and successes you have the wider reality you have. The wider reality you have the more relaxed you are going to be.

ChinaBoy
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furyx

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Great fucking post!
ChinaBoy~ wrote:
 How Natural Game Works

the goal of natural game is to have less anxiety than the girl in any situation. so for any guy that is walking up to a girl and is nervous, that is BULLSHIT. fuck off. your goal is to have so much life experience and such a wide reality that walking up to any girl does not make you nervous at all.

the way you do this is by having a wide spectrum of successes and embarrassments. the more social risks you take, the more your reality will become wider and the more value you will have. remember, what does a girl find attractive in a man? it's a sense of security. the girl will be attracted to you just because, as a man, you provide to her a sense of security.

that is why the more your reality gets stronger and the more successes and embarrassments you accumulate, the stronger your reality will be and the stronger the sense of security the girl gets from you.

the goal is for you to have such a wide spectrum of successes and experiences that nothing the girl can do will embarrass you. she tests you, you pass. guys try to fight you, you've been there. her friends come and want drama, you've been there. you can handle any and every tricky situation. if that is the case, the girl will see "oh shit, this guy is more centered than I am" and will be attracted.

instead of thinking in terms of reference points, I would think more of successes and embarrassments. actively take more and more social risks of every kind in order to have a stronger reality and a wider spectrum of successes and embarrassments.

and naturally this affects all your other game capabilities as well...

if you have a strong reality and you've endured a lot of bullshit, how easy is it for you to have your own fun instead of impressing? very easy. you realize only your actions as a man make yourself aroused. girls' reactions are just this big nothingness, this big vacuum. only your actions fulfill you. the rest is whatever.

if you have a strong reality how easy is it for you to have fun? you provoke people, use deliberate illogicality, instead of being stuck in the social conditioning thinking of bullshit to say to impress the next person. you're like "fuck this whole frame, I live my live differently". you have fun and never get in your own head.

if you have a strong reality your presence becomes much higher. if you don't need to care about causing impressions your everyday life gets better. you joke around, you fuck around with people, you give value and are a positive influence for everybody. there is no playing the game of victimizing, the game of social conditioning, the game of who's got the better car of better girl. there's just human to human warmth. and you projecting your fulfillment onto those that come across you.

so I would say, think in terms of successes and embarrassments. the more of each you have, the more relaxation, authenticity and better game you will have.

---------

Cliff notes: Take social risks...with more embarassements come successes. The more embarassements and successes you have the wider reality you have. The wider reality you have the more relaxed you are going to be.

ChinaBoy
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CBAABC

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Join Date: 02/20/2009 | Posts: 1692

 @roadally: This one bellow is even better. Check it ou :)

How Natural Game Works

ChinaBoy
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Martin Crowe

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ChinaBoy~ wrote:
 How Natural Game Works

the goal of natural game is to have less anxiety than the girl in any situation. so for any guy that is walking up to a girl and is nervous, that is BULLSHIT. fuck off. your goal is to have so much life experience and such a wide reality that walking up to any girl does not make you nervous at all.

the way you do this is by having a wide spectrum of successes and embarrassments. the more social risks you take, the more your reality will become wider and the more value you will have. remember, what does a girl find attractive in a man? it's a sense of security. the girl will be attracted to you just because, as a man, you provide to her a sense of security.

that is why the more your reality gets stronger and the more successes and embarrassments you accumulate, the stronger your reality will be and the stronger the sense of security the girl gets from you.

the goal is for you to have such a wide spectrum of successes and experiences that nothing the girl can do will embarrass you. she tests you, you pass. guys try to fight you, you've been there. her friends come and want drama, you've been there. you can handle any and every tricky situation. if that is the case, the girl will see "oh shit, this guy is more centered than I am" and will be attracted.

instead of thinking in terms of reference points, I would think more of successes and embarrassments. actively take more and more social risks of every kind in order to have a stronger reality and a wider spectrum of successes and embarrassments.

and naturally this affects all your other game capabilities as well...

if you have a strong reality and you've endured a lot of bullshit, how easy is it for you to have your own fun instead of impressing? very easy. you realize only your actions as a man make yourself aroused. girls' reactions are just this big nothingness, this big vacuum. only your actions fulfill you. the rest is whatever.

if you have a strong reality how easy is it for you to have fun? you provoke people, use deliberate illogicality, instead of being stuck in the social conditioning thinking of bullshit to say to impress the next person. you're like "fuck this whole frame, I live my live differently". you have fun and never get in your own head.

if you have a strong reality your presence becomes much higher. if you don't need to care about causing impressions your everyday life gets better. you joke around, you fuck around with people, you give value and are a positive influence for everybody. there is no playing the game of victimizing, the game of social conditioning, the game of who's got the better car of better girl. there's just human to human warmth. and you projecting your fulfillment onto those that come across you.

so I would say, think in terms of successes and embarrassments. the more of each you have, the more relaxation, authenticity and better game you will have.

---------

Cliff notes: Take social risks...with more embarassements come successes. The more embarassements and successes you have the wider reality you have. The wider reality you have the more relaxed you are going to be.

ChinaBoy
Why yes, so why the hell aren't you - seemingly - doing any of this? It's like you know what you need to do, but instantly regress the second you go into a set. 
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CBAABC

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@martin crowe: can you expand on what you have just written?

What am i not doing?

My understanding of this article is take social risks aka push your comfort zone, which i am doing.

Thanks in advance :)
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