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CBAABC

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 21.2.2012 Daygame


Another day at the office. teeth

I get some blowouts, some ignores, some don´t even stop, some do not want to give me their number, some have BF.

Also approached this hot brunette in a big standing crowd...unfortunately she had a BF...hahaha as I was going a way an old lady said to the girl "wow isn´t it nice? that was good."...the girl agreed.

I approached this really hot girl as she was entering a shop, so it was kinda awkward for he as we were blocking the path, I told them to move a lil bit...no go.

I approached some intimidating looking girls, cool convo, but she has a BF.

Approach this hot blonde girl but there was chaos around, she didn´t even stop.

I approach this really hot blonde with her really ugly friend. They are sceptical and are looking around for the camera...We talk for a while, I get the number. I ring her...so she has my number. She calls me back but I missed it, I saw her again in front of me so I called her up, she didn´t pickup...later called me again but I was talking to another girl. Gonna call her up tommorow and see how it goes.

Then my wing had to go home...So I went solo for 30 min, cuz I wanted to get more number, cuz I just realised that all my numbers are useless, even though the ones I felt like that they were solid. Did 4 approaches, Glad that I did them, this time I didn´t felt like shit.

Today was really good that I was smiling in the sets and also more relaxed...the bad thing was that I felt kinda shitty cuz my wing is telling me how he´s going on all these dates every week...But he gave me a good tip. Do not invite them for a tea or to cook something together as this puts on too much pressure...but instead do something more casual like "hey, let´s go out/hang out"

Also saw a girl like the 3rd time in last 4 days...I got her FB, but she does not wanna go out with me...then I felt awkward approaching other girls, also saw people from my highschool.

Also saw the girl I got then umber from yesterday...just held EC...later I texted her...but this is the 2nd no reply...so erasing the number. (even the initial convo was bad).

Some girls didn´t wanted to give me their number...but i didn´t wanted their facebook. No need to spam my facebook :)

Good thing is I really do not remember how many approaches I did...I do not count them at all now...cuz it´s so irrelevant. Pua batting average is for weirdoes.

My wing has better results...but he does not have the balls and the emotional toughness and perseverance that I have. Some girl said something to him like "you approached all my friends is this a joke?" and it fucked with his head and made him upset...So yea, I got worse results...but in long term I should come out ahead with my courage, perseverance, emotional toughness.

Victories:
-Pushed myself. Did some high social pressure approaches.
-Some girls were flattered but they had BFs
-Smiled in the interactions
-I was way more relaxed than ever before
-Went solo for 30 min and did 4 approaches
-Started reminding myself to talk slower. Yes, I did today.

Conclusion:
-2 hours + 30 min solo
-10+ approaches
-1 number

Lessons:
-Invite girls to "hang out"
-Start calling girls more
-Use pauses before saying something important
-Always keep in mind to talk slower
-Do not use pauses when getting the number...Just say it decisively and in a slight commanding voice
-Do not "get the number" as the last thing you do. Get the number and keep talking.

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Today I texted some girls before going on the streets...The girl from the club on friday- no go.

The girl where It felt pretty solid, just told me she has a BF (WTF? Why she didn´t tell me on the approach or on facebook when i messaged). This one hurt, cuz I made some fucking future projection bullshit around her...but I also liked this girl. This made me pretty negative and frustrated.

Also messaged a girl on FB...last time she didn´t confirm the meetup place. Let´s see if she shows up tommorow...If not. Then NEXT.

Today I realised that all my numbers are flakey and erased some more numbers.

This pickup thing will make me very emotionally strong. If I can "master" this I can do anything. This has been the most hard and frustrating thing I have ever done. If I can push through this I can do anything.

Enduring flakes timezzzz.

WTF? I have like 25 numbers...contacted all of them. No meetups hahaha.

ChinaBoy
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DJMarco

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try Drunk day game....
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CBAABC

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 Lol...I never drink. Even if it´s free.

22.2.2012 Daygame


Fuck the city was dead today.

Got blown out pretty harshly 2x by some really hot girls...kewl.

Then approach this girl, she´s so shy and suprised that she barely talks...this makes me uncomfortable so I want to eject. Well, I try to get the number from every set...so went for the number even though I knew it´s going to be a no. So nope and I left.

Suprised to get the number
Then approach 2 girls...I had to look for a 1sec to decide which one is hotter...fuck, i chose the uglier...as my girl smiled I saw that she has braces and is less attractive, fuck no going back now Ivi. We talk, it´s kinda awkward...I go for the number...say it decisively without pauses. She says yes...I my head I am suprised cuz it felt kinda weird...As she was punching the number in I started to relax and go back to a more chill and normal self.

Help from the fattie mom
I see this hot girl with a fattie. I go in, the fattie is all like "you guys wanna talk, I can go to a coffee shop". My girl is hesitating...but the openess from the fattie just makes me at ease...So I am all natural, normal, chill and charismatic...she´s a gogo dancer, uni chick, kinda cool...we talk. The fattie says that she´s the mom hahaha...I go for the number even though she mentioned BF before...She gave me her FB, said that she had bad experiences with the number. I said "Do I look like the type of guy that´s gonna call you up 5 times a day and that´s gonna be all needy over the phone..." and then imitating a needy guy over the phone...Well, no go. I leave.

My wing goes on a date ...he was pretty down today and didn´t approach much, I didn´t pushed him because if I saw some set i´d just go in...haha I am selfish.

Then on my way home I approach once again...looks pretty good, but BF.

Now In a few min...I am heading out, see if the girl comes or if I get stood up. We´ll see. Being stood up is gonna crush my ego, yay!

Victories:
-Approached
-Approached some really really hot girls
-The set with the mom, I was so natural, so charismatic
-Talked shit with my wing...like my mouth was flowing, this does not happen like ever

Conclusion:
-1,5 hours
-almost 10 approaches
-1 number
-2 FB

Lessons:
-Just smile
-Relax
-Remind yourself that it´s all good at all times
-You are enough
-Of course girls go out to "hang out" (better term than date)
-Of course girls like to have sex
-Do not fear the security guys...in our mall you have young couples hanging out on the benches and making out
-Relax dude, talk slower
-Go for the numbers decisively, do not use the word maybe as it´s chode...I used it in the past to put less pressure on the girl...but no. "Maybe" is the word nervous chodes use when they are getting the number.
-Punch your name into the girls phone after calling her right on the spot
-Also ask about when she does have time and then call her up to make plans to go out

EDIT:
Yesterday I approached this super hot blonde...went for the number and she told her friend to tell me her number as she has a new phone number...probably there was some subtle eye code or something...cuz today I called "her" up and some vietnamese guy picked up...OMG, fake number hahah. Wow they probably have done something simmilar before cuz it was so smooth, no weirdness around giving me a fake number. On the bright side-Funny laugh for me and a good lesson- Call them up immediately and punch your name in their phone (so you know if it´s real or not)

The girl that I was supposed to hang out with today did NOT showed up. Called her up, didn´t pickup. This girl is NEXTED. On the brightside-1st time I got stood up. Fuck yea.

Another phone cleansing...deleted another 3 numbers (flakey, fake number and a 15yo non responder)

No need to worry about flakes...cuz on the bright side I am getting 5-10 numbers a week, so just matter of time when I met the right girl (that´s just gonna be so into me) or matter of time when I make better approaches.

EDIT2: Today I am stopping porn-till I get laid. This is gonna give me extra 30 min a day and also make me more motivated in the field...Even more motivated to push harder. Also probably it can make me more relaxed. Also started meditating a few days ago, but this itme it´s gonna be consistent.

I like this quote: "There´s no phone game." It´s all about solid interactions.

This article is really good...to bad Alex haven´t posted the other parts yet.

EDIT3:
Looool. Wing just told me he got jerked off and some fingerbanging...also told me it looks like he´s getting laid tommorow. Nice. Fucker, bringing out the competetiveness in me. Tommorow solo daygame session. No excuses. Just hit it hard solo. I am sick of flakes. I just want to hit it harder. So far I am 16 days out in a row (I don´t see myself stopping anytime soon with going out everyday as I am slowly learning to get used to solo daygame)

Just lost my appetite when he told me...not because I do not wish him success...but because it makes me aware that I am getting zero results. The only solution I can think of is...push harder, approach more, spend more time infield.

ChinaBoy
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adjunkie

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^haha the fattie is the mom

just wanted to stop by and say you're killing it.  so good to see people on here taking serious action.

i saw awhile back that you were trying to gain weight.  I was going to reply, but forgot at the time.  I'm a hard gainer too, but bulked up from 145 to 180 at one point.  Besides doing a body building workout program, I used this shit called Gain Fast 3300.  The 3300 signifies the 3300 calories you get from taking their shake and mixing it with their recipe.  That shake helped more than all the other creatine/no2/pro hormone products combined.   Good luck.  I can answer pretty much any questions you have in regards to gaining weight, if you want to get huge.  Or about fitness if you want to get in great shape.  I've done a lot of both in the past 10 years.
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CBAABC

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 12 girls for 2012


So far 0 lays this year.

6,5 months in.

Out 134 days out of 198 days. Some are only 30 min sessions but in early days a lot of 5-8 hours sessions, my record was probably 11 hours. I want to do a 1 week romp (just meeting women anytime, everywhere).

Cca 1650 approaches.

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Last 1 month I have been doing hardcore daygame...out 5-7x/week. Probably done 200-270 daytime approaches last month.

I AM OBSESSED. Now I really do not care about school, fitness nor internet business. I just want to get good fast and get laid.

I am gonna stick with going out everyday. Daygame isn´t that intimidating anymore, now the next step is solo daygame...once this becomes semi comfortable then there´s nothing holding me back from going out everyday.

This looks like a hefty goal...but I think I should be out in the field at least 80% of the year to achieve this goal...The goal is kinda out of my control, since I cannot manipulate girls into having me sex, but I can create opportunities for sex to happen (for example by approaching, leading, calling them, meeting up with them, etc.)

Pretty slow progress so far...I hope this is gonna be like a few/several things click and the results will skyrocket. But for now I am all about gaining mor reference experiences and pushing my comfort zone.

Jeffy was right about my leverage...Massive leverage.

ChinaBoy
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CBAABC

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 @Adjunkie: thanks dude...But I have no time and energy for that right now. This going out thing is my no 1 priority now and it´s sucking all my energy, willpower and focus.

I can´t imagine myself going hardcore on weight gain while going out hardcore and while spending 40 hours a week at school.

Thanks for checking in :)

ChinaBoy
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UtopiaFive

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Dude,

You sound like you're not having so much fun with this going out shit.  

Your FRs are the same over and over:
"So I went out saw some girl walked up to her asked about her hobbies, asked for the number" x 1000

Like you <3 Alex style shit, he likes to wear hats, maybe just wear a retarded hat one day (peacocking FTW) and have fun with it.  Other people go to the fucken stores at the mall and are saying shit like "The music here rocks yeahhhh" just pretending its a nightclub having fun talking to the girls there.  

Also I'd say you sound like you're "trying to" be in your own movie yet you're still not 100% on that.  

Switch some shit up about your stuff here...maybe go do it at parks where ppl aren't in some hurry, say more retarded shit etc.  I often stop girls and tell them they cannot pass, I'm the tranny police and need to make sure they're not a tranny, like I find it funny cuz if they don't just keep walking, its a FREE PASS to go for the finger "Inspection time!"

You're doing the right stuff by going out constantly, but try mixing shit up more, if I'm reading it correctly...make the shit like an adventure.  

Like you're asking them their hobbies yet they don't sound super into you yet...  

Small things to make interactions more interesting:
- cold reads, "You look like you're a yoga girl"
- sexual misinterpretation, once you get her talking "Wait...no I'm a virgin, stop asking me if I wanna lick it...my mom said no oral sex for me..."
- roleplays, "Wow, you're here for the blind date right?  You're looking so cute but I told you stilletos woman..."

You could probably get a lot out of doing the "million dollar mouthpiece exercise" before going to your daygame sesh, a lotta people here in the FR section are reporting that this shit makes them kill it... 
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ChinaBoy~ wrote:

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Last 1 month I have been doing hardcore daygame...out 5-7x/week. Probably done 200-270 daytime approaches last month.

I AM OBSESSED. Now I really do not care about school, fitness nor internet business. I just want to get good fast and get laid.

I am gonna stick with going out everyday. Daygame isn´t that intimidating anymore, now the next step is solo daygame...once this becomes semi comfortable then there´s nothing holding me back from going out everyday.

This looks like a hefty goal...but I think I should be out in the field at least 80% of the year to achieve this goal...The goal is kinda out of my control, since I cannot manipulate girls into having me sex, but I can create opportunities for sex to happen (for example by approaching, leading, calling them, meeting up with them, etc.)

Pretty slow progress so far...I hope this is gonna be like a few/several things click and the results will skyrocket. But for now I am all about gaining mor reference experiences and pushing my comfort zone.

Jeffy was right about my leverage...Massive leverage.

ChinaBoy
That's a bold statement to make. If you're thinking like this, you're in the wrong mindset. Your persistence with pick up is one of your biggest strengths but I feel like it's taking over your life. Ignoring school, fitness, and learning IM will hurt you in the long run. Not only that but if youre in this mindset, you're going to vibe it off to other people and the girls can smell that shit out of you. You also said you had inner game issues, I think you should get that shit DIALED and refocus what you really want to do with your life.
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CBAABC

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@U5: Nope...Just too lazy to write it here.

I do cold reads, teases...

"You look like you´re in 7th grade...of elementary school"
"My name is Ivi, like Ivana which is a girls name"
"You´re in this mall to buy everything out and pig out in McDonalds?"
"You´re so shy...like chinese people"
"What are you´re hobbies except (with this BR tonality and kinda disgusted tonality) facebook, partying and shopping?"
"You´re a nerd"
"You look like a uni girl, you´re probably studying physics or some other nerdy shit"
"Wow...you look kinda suprised/scared...so you think I am like a homeless guy who wants to rob you?"

I like the idea with the tranny...more like I am a thai ladyboy hahaha.

I am gonna inject some faux pass, more teases, role plays, misinterpretations, the 2nd degree (Alex´s term from his mastermind CD),...

The interaction with the gogo dancer and her fattie mom was the best so far...felt so natural, had a lot of fun and I was sooo charismatic.

@Furyx: Of course...You´re right.

But I am reaching a point where I am kinda like "enough is enough"

ChinaGurl
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CBAABC

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 23.2.2012 Daygame (solo)


I think right now my wing is about to get laid by the girl he went on a date from yesterday...so solo today.

I 1st went to those less crowded streets for some more chill approaches and not blowouts from girls that are in hurry.

1st approach, I was pretty chill, we talked some normal stuff, I added some teases and misinterpretations...she studied medicine, i qualified her...after like 7 mins of talking I go for the number..."ok, yes we can hang out but only as friends cuz I have a BF" so I went for the FB but she´s too hard to find...so I left. Had a good feeling from this approach.

Then I wandered through some other streets...Dead, no cute girls. I strolled through some more streets...nope.

I saw this girl...walked up to her kinda in a curve as I wasn´t sure if she was cute or not...she got creeped out.

Some girl is walking fast and she walks in front of me...so I run up to her...she seems flattered, but has a BF.

I go to the mall. Approach some more. Either BF objections or creeped out or blown out.

I approach pretty hot girl, kinda those platics ones who seem to be bitchy. Her friend kept walking so of course she didn´t stop.

Approach a really hot blonde, she was even taller but never mind. Approached her in front of the door of a coffee shop...So I suggested I walk with her cuz I didn´t wanted to stand in that spot. We talked briefly. I qualify and go for the number...got a load of excuses. "So you´re not attracted to me?" "ehhh, you know this is unusual and I do not give out my number..."

Then I see this young looking girl on a bench, probably 15, she was kinda cute...I told her she´s very cute (WTF? she wasn´t that cute, dunno why I said that.") She didn´t even looked me after the direct opener and was all bitchy and ignoring...Yep, teenage girl with low self esteem thought that I was making fun of her...so that´s probably why she was so bitchy. This doesn´t happen that often. But I am not pissed at her or anything, just sorry for her.

Again did a curved approach...she got creeped out and almost didn´t want to shake my hands.

Got out of the mall and go to approach another girl, she says hi. I remember her, that´s the cutie with sexy eyes..."Hey, I am in a hurry I need to catch the train." She didn´t add me on FB nor did she picked up my calls nor responded to my 1 text message...so not gonna contact her again.

Victories:
-Was pretty chill
-Didn´t felt that weird doing solo daygame. It´s getting more and more comfortable
-Approached this really hot blonde
-Went for the number everytime if the set lasted more that 30 sec

Conclusion:
-2 hours
-cca 10 approaches

Lessons:
-When solo I lack this decisiveness...It has to be see the girl and immediately decide that I am gonna approach her, this will avoid curved walk ups
-Undecisiveness yields kinda uncalibrated and curved walkups (which are kinda appologetic) and that creeps girls out
-See and go. Zero reaction time.
-Some girls have low self esteem and If you go direct on them they´ll be either evasive or bitchy
-"It´s all good."
-Emptier streets are good for approaching but they do not have enough girls
-Do not use this line "I know this is kinda unusual but you look cute"...This will make girls fall into the frame of "This is weird, I am shocked, I want to leave."
-Be more light hearted. Don´t say this direct opener in a very serious way (even though I am smiling)...Just say it casually as it´s something you do all the time.

YES!!!! Even though zero actual results...but a new eppiphanny that´s gonna amp my daygame.

To avoid creeping girls out-> You have to have zero reaction time. As you see a girl you have to already make up your mind if you are gonna approach or not.

To avoid girl thinking it´s weird and wanting to leave.-> Say the direct opener casually. I am doing it wrong by saying the direct opener in a way that puts importance on it (by the vibe I am saying it)...Nope, just casual and light hearted way.

Repetition is king. Soooo:

NO HESITATION
BE CASUAL

EDIT: Wow...just checked out FB of the gogo dancer from yesterday...yep, she´s fucking hot (Especially in those clothes). This is the 2nd gogo dancer that I have met during the day...would be cool to "penetrate" into this kinda of social circle. These girls are hot, really motivating me :)

Patience young grasshopper.

EDIT2:


This video just clicked with me...today at school I was sooo bored that I started doing silly shit, antagonize people, etc...for fun. Yep, this is the correct way to self amuse...too bad that this happens from time to time at school, but never in clubs...durrr also happened yesterday with my wing, just talked shit for my amusement, but when I talked to girls I stopped self amusing...weird.

Anyways, cool vid. Check it out. I have seen every vid on the channel...they are golden.

Some awesome quotes:

"I am enough"

"If it can be done, then I can do it"

"It´s all good"

"It´s fine"

ChinaBoy
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