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CBAABC

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@U5: Well, i have been going out 6-7x a week for 2 months before the lay and a week before the lay had my BC.

I am starting to go out everyday again, this time mixing in daygame so it will be much more sustainable.

Noticed that going out everyday gets rid of neediness, i just dont care cuz i have the feeling of abundance or the feeling of potential abundance.

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CBAABC

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 26.1.2012 Daygame

So went out...when we saw the 1st cutie I go in. She´s like I am too young and leaves.

Very hot blondie
My wing points. I go immediatelly.

"Hey, I know this is unusual, but you are cute"
We talk, I move her a bit to the side. She´s like do you have facebook? Get her FB. Walk a lil bit with her. She´s in a hurry, So i qualified, got the number.

After I walked away, i felt OK. I didn´t felt pumped up like "fuck yea, number from this hot chick"...I was more like "the number is cool, the girl is cool, but i do not need them." and walked away kinda chill, like nothing happened. I think this is key. Like this happens all the time so why should i get excited over a phone number?


Then get 3 insta blowouts blowouts in like 1 minute.

We get to the mall.

Very good approach
I see this very hot girl...like a 9, high heels, brunette, etc. I start following her, she goes in to a girl´s shop, I do not get discouraged and go inside. Walk up to her. Opener. "I have a BF" while she´s going away.


See 2 girls in a shop, Well, I had to go in the shop, approached them, they are a lil bit freaked out, I try to go for the contacts no go.

My wing tells me to go for a girl sitting down on a bench...OK, I go in. Sit with her, she´s not into it...but went for the number anyway, no go.

Another solid set
My wing tells me to go for 2 girls...I knew they were foreigners.

"Excuse me, direct opener"
We vibe really well, actually I am suprised. Was very natural, relaxed and charismatic. Got her FB, cuz she didn´t remembered her Czech number.

Then chase down this tall brunette walking fast...talked to her, then walked with her, felt pretty natural. Gave me resistance with the contacts, I wanted the number instead of FB. got the number.

Shocked girl
Approach this brunette...she was shocked. She even told me like several times. We talked, felt pretty natural and charismatic. My hands were ice cold, my handshake was very weak, but other things were pretty on spot. She even told me 2x that my handshake is weak, that i need to learn it. We talked for like 5-10 mins. I get the FB, she´s like I will see about giving you my number...so talked some more, some qualification and genuine compliments. Get the number.

Honest girl, luv it
Direct opener..she´s hesitating and says "honestly I am not interested". "Ok, thanks for the honesty, i wish you a good day, hope you see it as a compliment, bye"

Then got 2 FBs...as the girls didn´t wanted to give me their numbers, gave me some reasons...whatevar.

The hottest chick i have ever approached during the day
Also saw this fucking hot chick. Total 10, taller than me, model looking, slim, sexy face, high heels...I was her and had to run up to her. She was in a hurry and kept walking, I tried once again by running up to her again, but she said she´s in a hurry. Well, this was near the tram station. Urrrrgh, fucking hot.

Victories:
-Approached without hesitation
-Did some ballsy stuff
-I completely screened out my suroundings and just focused on the girl. Not pinging externally.
-Approached the hottest girls ever. Like 2 of them today.
-Noticed that I am approaching for the approaching´s sake not approaching for meeting a girl. That made me do the direct approaches kinda incongruently and this yields blowouts
-In some sets I felt so natural, relaxed and charismatic
-Walked away from successful sets in a very chill vibe (not getting excited about results)
-Did 15 approaches and also helped my wing to do 12 himself.
-I qualified the girls, with time i´ll get better at this.
-Was not butthurt at all, if I get a blowout I just wish them a good day and hope they will take it as a compliment

Conclusion:
-2,5 hours
-15 approaches
-3 numbers, 5 facebooks

Lessons:
-Need to be more firm with my handshake, have a weak handshake
-Approach girls that interest you, don´t try to get as many approaches as possible. This chasing a number of approaches makes your direct approaches incongruent
-Need to do more ballsy/uncomfortable stuff
-I need to dress warmer
-I need to go solo and do insta dates


Some stuff that I am planning to do:
-Approaching girls in a bookstore
-Approaching girls in a full tram
-Approaching girls in a cue (for example at some clothes shop)
-Approach girls in the center of the mall (high social pressure)
-Approach big sets

Going out often is sooo good. Makes me feel abundant, makes me more charismatic (by immersion and constant exposure to social interactions).

Tired as hell from yesterday...but glad that I still pushed it today.

ChinaBoy
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UtopiaFive

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try this if they're in a hurry pull out your cell phone and start saying MAAM YOU DROPPED YOUR PHONE and when you stop her put it back in your pocket then you then beast.  

this "plowing" shit can fuck you up but most of the time their blowoff is autopilot and you have to snap them out of it to 'get started.'  

might not actually help out but worth trying esp if its a super hot chick
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CBAABC

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 @Moey: Hahaha, thanks. You´re right not really bad looking. Always had the issue that I judged myself for looking so young (cuz I am very skinny).

When I am in a good mood I look very sexy.

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Join Date: 11/07/2009 | Posts: 126

Props on approaching the really hot girls!
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Dr Feelgood

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Moey wrote:
I really don't see why you keep saying your bad looking. I've seen your pics in the video, your pretty sexy mate. Not just saying that too. Get rid of this mindset and you'll start getting your wing's results
I agree, plus I met this Chinabeast in person - he just needs to get rid of his acne and he will be a sexy motherfucker indeed!
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CBAABC

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 27.1.2012 Night

Gonna keep it short. Entered the club, immediatelly approached a chick, it was a couple, got blown out.

Got only blowouts.

Go through the crowd...A kinda fat chicks points at me and says (while she says that she reveals her very repelling teeth) "You are sexy"...I come closer to her, take a look at her, laught out loud and leave. No I am not that desperate.

In one set I girl was kinda into me, but she had a BF, I tried to kiss her nevertheless with no success.

We left the club (kinda burned down the club, only, My wing pussied out on approaching a chick, so I made him do pushups on the freezing ground, tough love. So I approached her, no number....Bullshit BF objection.

Victories:
-Approached a lot even though I was kinda stressed and had kinda a bad vibe
-Approached this super hot chick outside the club while she was calling...Approached her, she´s like "no, I am on the phone"...I persisted until she stood up and left. Hahaha
-Did some mixed sets.
-Got a ton of harsh blowouts where the girls were very angry at me, yelling at me (no I wasn´t beastmode on them, so it wasn´t uncalibration, but my bad vibe)

Conclusion:
-3 hours
-cca 15 approaches

Lessons:
-BF Objection during the night=ignore. BF objection during the day=leave.
-When in conversation, after hooking the set, just relax, talk, don´t be all stressed and think that you need to talk all the time and have zero silence even in between sentences, makes you stressed and repels girls

Favorite quote of the night:
Wing: "Maybe we should do some light peacocking, so we stand out."
Me: "WTF U talking about? We do not need that shit...U know why?"
Wing: "Why?"
Me: "Cuz we are the sexiest persons here, much more sexier than these pussies who do not take action"

ChinaBoy
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LoveHandle*

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 Dude, ur about to get laid, brah
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LoveSoldier

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UtopiaFive wrote:
try this if they're in a hurry pull out your cell phone and start saying MAAM YOU DROPPED YOUR PHONE and when you stop her put it back in your pocket then you then beast.  

this "plowing" shit can fuck you up but most of the time their blowoff is autopilot and you have to snap them out of it to 'get started.'  

might not actually help out but worth trying esp if its a super hot chick
Ha, got almost the same tip from a girl that gets approached a lot. ( I know I know, no dating advice from women, but...)

She said her dream approach would be like: "Ma'am, you dropped your earring!" <pointing somewhere on the ground> "Aah, it's just a small shiny pebble, nevermind."
Sounds funny in Czech : "Slečna, stratila jste náušnici." "Vlastně to je jenom smítko/kamínek, jsem se splet"

I tested it once on a street. Girl immediately stopped, touched her ear, then gave me wide smile. Got her from her autopilot.
Can go with transition: "Nice earrings by the way" while she touches her ears.
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CBAABC

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 MAJOR STICKING POINT FOUND:
-I made women the number 1 priority in my life.


Women (meeting women/pickup/...) Became the center of my life. My days are all centered around this.

And this makes me care too much about getting women/laid. Which in turn repels women.

I need to start focus more on studying (so i get into uni) and Internet marketing.

I am a pretty smart guy, but extremely lazy with studying.

Also have some other mostly innergame sticking points. Gonna do this tommorow www.rsdnation.com/node/210295/forum

ChinaBoy
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