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ChinaBoy~

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Join Date: 02/20/2009 | Posts: 1828

Last 2 days were without any approaches.

I had quite a lot of momentum after this: www.rsdnation.com/node/195864/forum

I live in Brno (400 000 people), Czech Republic. But i´ll sometimes go to Prague or Krakow to party.

My purpose of going out:
-Get laid a lot
-Have fun, adventure
-Get more comfortable in social situations and around women

I am asian, short, skinny, have acne, look like 15, small dick. Does it matter? HELL NO.



30.8.2011 - 1st daygame ever

So i contacted a guy on another forum (czech). we just got to know each other.

I go for me 1st approach. Teenage blonde. I go up and say hi, i am Ivi. She gives me a weird look and turns her back. Was about to say that she´s cute.

Then i go approach 2 girls. I do the same. Tell them that she´s cute. They smile but walk away.

Then my wing wants me to approach a icecream girl. I was like noooo. But i did it. It was awkward. Told her to give me her FB and number. "No" Tried once more. "No"

Then we go to a park. My wing approaches 2 girls sitting on a bench in a quite park qith lots of people. props to him, because i was shit scared. He calls me over. He wants to eject so i tell the girls to give him their FB and number. No go, they want his number.

Quick number
We go to a farmer´s market. I see 2 girls. I say hi. They stop. Intro and say that she´s cute. She smiles. I ask them what are they doing now. They are going home. So i get her number and FB. The interaction wasn´t really solid. We spoke for like 2 min. Will see if it´s a flake. Will call her after she confirms my friend request on FB. Gave her a hug.

BF objection?
Then i see this girl on headphones. My wing doesn´t wanna go so i go. I go up to her, block her way. Gesture her to put the headphones away. Tell her she´s cute. Intro. Ask her what she´s doing right now. She´s going to meet her BF. I eject.

Super stunner
We are at the mall in a shop with clothes. I see this brunette stunner. I want to go but i am fucking nervous. My wing tells me no, he wants to do it. But he was hesitating so i told him: "fuck you" and go approach her.

"Hey"
She turns around.
"I am Ivi" "you are beautiful"
"I am ..."
"What are you doing right now?"
"..." i don´t remember
"Tell me about your hobbies, mine are travelling, i love it"
"i don´t tell strangers my hobbies"
"hey let´s go check out clothes"
I lead her around. Eventually she tells me her hobbies. She guesses my age (18). She´s 23. I lead her around the shop. Then she was like your friend is waiting. After a while she wanted to go.
"Gimme your FB and number"
"No"
I pull out my phone. Give it to her.
"No"
"FB and number"
She puts FB in.
"Now number"
"No" and walks away.

We spent together like 5 mins. Added her on FB but don´t know.

12 yo girl?
Then i approach a girl. From behind she looks hot. She´s sitting on a bench. This is out of my comfort zone. Girls sitting down.

I go up. Intro. Her face isn´t cute. She looks really young. She looks uncomfortable. I eject. Later see her with her grandma and realise that she´s probably 12-14 yo.

Then did 3 more approaches. But i don´t really remember. Jut remembered that i approached a girl directly and she was like no and walked away.

Conclusion:
-Was out like 6 hours (but spent like 2-3 hours just eating, buying ticked to Munich.
-9 Approaches
-2 FB, 1 number
-Gave high fives
-Physicality: handshakes, high fives

Lessons:
-Plow through BF objections
-Plow through if she´s resistant
-If she´s in a hurry, try to walk a little bit with her after you get her number/FB. So you can make to interaction more solid
-Stay as long as possible in the set, try to go for mini dates

I need to be more efficient with my time. I´ll dedicate cca 2-3 hours for daygame. I want to meditate, focus on internet marketing, krav maga, weight gain, gym.

So now i´ll focus on cutting out crap out of my life. Less internet. Less porn. Less movies, tv shows.

ChinaBoy
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 30.8.2011- Street and club

Went out at 11 PM with my wing (we went out earlier today for daygame).

Did like 3-4 street approaches. I smiled. Maybe i talked too fast. "Hey" "I am Ivi" "You are cute". But they never stopped.

Approached 2 girls sitting on a bench. "You are cute". Intro. Not really warm. Tell her to hug. No go. Some chat. Tell her to high five, no go. Then talk some more. High five. The interaction lacked physicality and they went away.

Then we met my wing´s friends. Unfortunately we were wasting our time there for like 1 hour. Sitting in a weak bar. Not doing anything.


Then went to the club LivingStone. It was pretty bad. Not really hot girls, sausage fest.

Approached a girl dancing with some chodes on the dancefloor. Low energy. Pull her in. Intro. Say that she´s cute. Hug. Try to isolate her. No go. Hug. 3 kisses. Peck on the lips.

Approach a girl going to the toilet. She doesn´t stop. Says she has to go to the toilet.

Approach 2 girls. They are backing away, weird looks, i try to plow but they turn their backs and go away.

Approach 2 girls on the dancefloor. What´s your name? she says: "Pig". Giving me resistance. Some shit i try to plow. Then her friend pulls her away and says we dance together.

Was chilling outside the club Caribic. Saw a street fight. One guy got it quite hard. I was just sitting like 20 meters from the fight. I was fucking terrified. That guy got like 5-7 hits to the face, knee to the stomach. They he was lying on the ground. His fault, we was provoking it. Also he responded to some negative comments from the winner of the fight guy.

Then i saw a girl from the front. The face was ok. But then my friend told me to check her out. Holy shit. Her legs are sexy. So i had to run. As i run she hears me and turns around. I yell: "hey" "you are cute"....she speeds up a little bit. I say fuck it to myself and keep on running. As i am almost to her she looks back "what do you want", weird look, walk faster. So i didn´t continue and went back to my friend.

Then there was a packed club Caribic. We go up to the bouncers. They don´t want to let me in. My wing asks for the reason. Bouncer:"i don´t know, maybe i am racist?" So we didn´t got in.

Got back at 2 AM.

Conclusion:
-3 hours
-8-10 approaches
-1 peck on the lips

Lessons:
-Dance with a girl if you approach her on the dancefloor. don´t try to isolate her immediately. teeth (don´t know why i tried to isolate her)

-Fuck Approach anxiety. Brno sucks. You gotta approach everything that you see (and is cute/hot). There´s not really an abundace of girls.

-Don´t spend too much time with PU. You gotta get you other shit done.


My wings is a OK dude. On daygame did like 3 approaches. Tonight he did only some weaker approaches, asking for directions/clubs. Maybe i need to find a better one. But he still beats going out alone. Brno sucks. I can´t go to Caribic which has quite a lot of people. Maybe can´t even go to XXL which is one of the biggest clubs in Brno, because some Vietnamese people are making trouble. So many people that i know from high school, but i will eventually stop caring. Yes, i needed to vent and bitch.

I guess daygame will be the only good thing in Brno. Then on weekends go to Prague. But that can be quite costy. Like 20 Euro for the return bus ticket every week. I am actually considering going to Prague for the weekends. Go there for friday night. Daygame on saturday. Clubs on saturday night. Daygame on sunday and then take a bus back to Brno.

Today i spent way too much time on PU. 6 hours of daygame. 3 hours at night. I want to focus also on other areas of my life.

Glad i went out tonight even though i wasn´t really feeling like going out. I was sleepy and tired. Also nervous.

Now because i didn´t got laid, i am gonna cry and jerk off to bukkake porn using my tears as lubricant. Kidding. Haha. I am fucking horny but i don´t really care that much about not getting laid. I am a fucking newbie, so i don´t have high expectations.

ChinaBoy
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Serpicoo

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lol cool. Good work.
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 Thanks man.

31.8.2011- Daygame

Went out with some other guys from the Czech forum.

I approached a blonde. "hey" "you are cute". Ignore.

Approached 2 girls. "Hey" "you are cute". Intro. She´s smiling. They are in a hurry. So i tell them i´ll walk with them. Ask her about her hobbies. She´s like i don´t know. Then i stop them. They ask how old i am. I make them guess. I say 41. Then i tell my girl to give me her FB and number. She´s like no, you are 41. I try once again. No go. So i show her my driver´s licence. Then she gives me her FB, number. Asks for my FB. I call her immediately, she has my number. But she was avoiding EC for the whole time. I was like look into my eyes...she didn´t wanted to.

Now i am home...I see a friend request from her. She has a BF living in another city. I´ll try to meet up.

Conclusion:
-2 hours
-2 approaches
-1 FB, 1 number

Lessons:
-Do it faggot. You could have approached a lot more. Sieze every opportunity.

-Be less abrupt with the inicial "Hey". I think it was too sharp. I need to tone it down for daytime.


I texted the girl from yesterday, texted her my FB and told her to add me. No reply, no friend request. I want to call her after she adds me on FB, because she doesn´t even know me.

Glad i went out today. Didn´t felt like going out. Was really tired and sleepy. Tonight also going out for 1-2 hours. Tommorow the school starts! That sucks. Gonna have even less time.

Now i´ll chill at home. Then gym. Then some stuff at home. Then go out at night.

My plan is to go out at least 7 days in a row for daygame. I am still scared of it. Wanna get accustomed to it.

ChinaBoy
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 Hey man.

Those pics are mostly Latvian girls, Not czech girls.

Check out my previous mini journal: www.rsdnation.com/node/195864/forum

In this thread i approached most of the night at least 15 approaches. One night in Helsinki like 40. Depends on the night and venue.

For daygame my goal is: At least 5 approaches everytime i go out.

ChinaBoy
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Join Date: 06/11/2011 | Posts: 327

Those chicks in the video are hot bro.

Looking forward to seeing how you progress, what age are you?  You look so young, but it could work to your advantage.  Keep approaching man and you will get laid eventually! ;-)
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 @Cam: Yeah, wanna go back to Riga and tear it up there. Next time i get there i want to fuck a Latvian chick.

I am 18 (on halloween i´ll be 19). Chicks either guess that i am like 15 or 20+.

LOL. The chick i approached today added me on FB. Messaged me. I guess she was attracted but really shy. And her friend was whispering something, i guess it was something about how awesome i am. haha.

I need to assume attraction, assume that i am fucking awesome.

In like 1-2 hours i am going out...it´s going to be a pretty weak night. Tommorow the school is starting. So no high schoolers, no college people (college starts in 3 weeks). I hope to do at least 5 approaches tonight.

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 31.8.2011 At night

Went out with my wing i met today. Did a crucial mistake, forgot to bring my phone with me. Not many people out tonight so i took almost every opportunity to approach.

My 1st approach
Saw 3 girls really quite far away. So i relaxed and started walking towards them. Because they were really far away i started to have approach anxiety.

"hey" "you are cute"

They said something but didn´t stopped. My wing told me they were talking about me. Said that they though the approach was good but what i said wasn´t good. Total bullshit.

Then went to a club. It was really empty. Like 10 people.

2nd approach
On the stairs down to the club. "Hey" "i am Ivi". Basically dismisses me with "i need to go up" and keep going up.

3rd approach
See 2 chicks on the dancefloor. Go approach a one. Pull her in by the back of her neck. Intro. Say she´s cute. Hug. Then i say let´s go sit by her friends. Intro to the friends. Tell her to sit down. She sits down by me. She dosn´t really like me. We chit chat for a little bit. Was pulling her in everytime we talked so i could hear her. But then she was like they have to go. Hug. 3 kisses on the cheek.

4th approach
2 girls. Intro. Say she´s cute. They say something and go away.

5th approach
Saw this quite sexy blonde. Approach her at 90 degree angle (i am a fucking PU nerd haha), i prefer to go straight to her, frontaly (this is really direct) but i couldn´t in this case.

"Hey" "hi"
She keeps walking.
I speed up. Tap her. "Hey"
She stops. Intro. Hug. Try to go for 3 kisses but she puts her hand on my chest so no go.
"What are you doing right now?"
"i am going home. To my BF."
"Cool, today is a good weather"
We talk. She asks me where i am from. Let her guess. Found out she´s been in Hong Kong for over 6 months. High five. Then we walk i try to lead her by telling her to slow down or by stopping.
We talk about liberalism, how Brno sucks, etc. Also told her to look me into the eyes when talking.

Then her bus was arriving. So i gave her my phone number. Told her to ring me and send me her FB. No ring yet, i guess there won´t be any.
We hug. 3 kisses.

Conclusion:
-1 hour
-5 approaches (3 street, 2 clubs)
-i was more chill, more relaxed, having a better time (smiled even more)

Lesson:
-Never fucking go out without your phone
-Be persistent. If she doesn´t stop when you are yelling at her from distance just keep going and tap her.
-Be physical. I should have clawed her on my 5th approach.
-Ignore BF objection. I did tonight.

The girl from today...messaged me on FB. Tried to see her out. BF objections (got like 4-5 times). She´s attracted to me. Gonna plow and try to meet her. I want to fuck her (i want to hear her scream in ecstacy).

ChinaBoy
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 can't you drop the "hey you are cute" opener?
you have been using it so long, you *must* feel comfortable with that, and I thought you or somebody else commented that is was fake (which I can imagine, if it's just standard!)

why would you go from text to facebook? that's a step backwards in my opinion! but I guess that depends...

also, you were too pushy when asking that stunner for facebook and phone - she is definately going to flake.
on one hand, why not try? on the otherhand, you might have gotten more results if you were less pushy but more free from outcome.

good that you notice how the girl looked (i.e. when you ran but bailed)

furthermore, good as always that you are taking action :)

and on one hand, it's good to tone it down a back (i.e. not too direct, too much escalation), but OTOH, be sure to self-amuse and not suck value with interview questions.
asking about hobbies is very good (comfort, building a connection) but shouldn't be done too soon -- first give some value with self-amusement first
think of teasing, genuine compliments, joking around...... 
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 I don´t know any better for daygame. I think it´s really important to go direct on daygame.

At night i could try something else.

"Hey, you are cute" Maybe sometimes lacks intent.

With the stunner. She gave me just the facebook. Told her to give me number but she went away. Added her on FB, didn´t added me yet. So i guess she won´t add me. Happy that i approached her.

I suck at self amusement...gotta figure this out.

Yeah, on Daygame i´ll share something about my day. Or say something about me. Not straight into "what are your hobbies/passions."

Today i´ll do some daygame...maybe nightgame street/clubs but i am really tired.

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 1.9.2011 Daygame

Did only 3 approaches today.

1st one ignored me totaly.

2nd one gave me a weird look and went on.

3rd slowed down a little bit said something like "ok..." and kept walking.

Today i was going in too strong even though i smiled. Next time i´ll tone my BR tonality down a little bit and also smile like i did today.

I still have some approach anxiety...especially do not feel comfortable approavhing on open areas like the main street and the main square. But it will get better.

Tonight i want some rest...so i won´t go out tonight (last few days i haven´t slept much). Also the school started, gonna have less time for internet, porn, movies/tv shows, yay.

ChinaBoy
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