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May 21st, 2013
Persistent or Creepy?
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~DiamondCreator~

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 Hey guys, 

I sometimes find it hard to know whether when you push for a day 2, number or whatever your being persistent or needy/creepy? I dont normally care for the outcome anyway, but obviusly I must be doing something wrong when girls dont give me the day 2, number or whatever. I must state that I REALLY DONT CARE whether I get the outcome (simply because I am very rarely emotionally invested in that shit) but I still would like to see a clear distinction.

Take this facebook interaction for example:

Thanks for any input.























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SMASH 99

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Personally, I refuse to play the game on the internet, and I don't even have a facebook account. The logistics just get in the way of solid game, and its waaay to easy for her to flake. Guarenteed, that if you came with that cocky/funny/confidence vibe in real world interactions, your results would be much more better.

The girl won't play that "Whaaat?!? Im so stupid" game.
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J.Sark

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 As for the example, I don't consider it persistent neither creepy, just plain stupid. If you are wondering if it's persisten or creepy is because you care about the outcome. Do what you want to do, when you do that you don't give a fuck about if it's persistent or creepy, that would depend about you, about how the girl considers it, the mood she is in and unlimited number of random facts
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~DiamondCreator~

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Wonderland wrote:
My input:

Should have built more rapport maybe , cant build rapport over text, also girls are moody, any indication of bad mood (like losing phone) and you probably wont get a good response


Thanks bro, I guess that if she just had a shit day then it really doesent matter what I say...although I'm wondering if there is any point in pushing it further at another point in time?
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Bitme

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Your in love ;)

I would never use FB or msn to chat a girl up. Only number (well thats lame too, but what you gonna do?)
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like for me you doing too much with this flirting which she doesn't find that much fun anyway
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 That whole thing was really bad on your end
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justgowithit

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 based on this and your okcupid profile, I can't help you.  don't think anyone here can.  your style is weird.  Not sure if it's just bad or if it's just your style.  In any case, it would be like trying to correct Shawn Marion's shooting stroke.  
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Magi

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 Just my opinion from the info you provided, nothing about you personally (since I don't know you)


You seemed needy.  If you had to ask her multiple times for her number, then she probably didn't want to give it to you anyways.  I applaud the persistance, but the whole interaction seemed so laborious, like pulling teeth for the number (she can feel you REALLY wanted the number).  

If its that hard to get it, most likely once you get it, its going nowhere.   If she's really into you it would of been given to you right away.  

That my opinion.  best of luck to ya mate
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~DiamondCreator~

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justgowithit wrote:
 based on this and your okcupid profile, I can't help you.  don't think anyone here can.  your style is weird.  Not sure if it's just bad or if it's just your style.  In any case, it would be like trying to correct Shawn Marion's shooting stroke.  
hmm that may be true..although this girl did say the following:

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shua

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 I agree, Chodeyyy.

Don't be such a chode. Maybe try having a solid conversation with her first, then grabbing the number to continue it. Cmon son, be real.
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