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3% to 5% success from cold approach is actually descent
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djtetsu

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If you do 10 approaches on 2 nights per week, that's about 20 per week, about 100 per month (ok, 1.25 conservatively)

How many guys are getting even 3 lays a month?

More importantly how many are doing 100 approaches?

I just thought AsianRSD getting BLASTED on another thread needed some defense.
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djtetsu

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I will openly admit, I am probably close to 1 in 300! 

Some steps in alcohol recovery include acceptance, honesty, integrity, surrender..

I'd love to see posters coming forward..
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jlaix

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 I'd say 3 a month or even ONE a month is good for a newbie or even a somewhat intermediate guy, or just a guy who doesn't give that much of a fuck about being some "superhero". Personally, I bang 7.076 girls per month (one every 4.31 days this year, would be slightly higher but I've been sort of cherishing more for the past couple months to finish a lot of work stuff). As far as my percentage is concerned, really have no idea. Thinking about it now, I'd say online it's extremely "low" when you consider the sheer volume i work but to me it's just like playing mario kart or something so that's different. In real life, in the club? My shit is MUCH MUCH tighter, I'd say maybe one in five I approach? Certainly not 3%. 
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 it's really irrelevant, I cringe when I see guys trying to come up with percentages. Pick up is the FUNNEST most amusing thing in the world.
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AsianRSD

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3 a month is good for a newbie?!!

i'm a newbie, i've been cold approaching women for 7 months and i still didn't get a single lay. (as a matter of fact, 3 weeks ago I got a lay but it was from a frat sattelite party, not from a cold approach)

i would love to live with you someday to prove your statistic. Because I definitely don't believe it.  Is this all from cold approach? If so, I don't believe it. 

no disrespect to you. I'm a very logical person, I don't believe it till i see it
jlaix wrote:
 I'd say 3 a month or even ONE a month is good for a newbie or even a somewhat intermediate guy, or just a guy who doesn't give that much of a fuck about being some "superhero". Personally, I bang 7.076 girls per month (one every 4.31 days this year, would be slightly higher but I've been sort of cherishing more for the past couple months to finish a lot of work stuff). As far as my percentage is concerned, really have no idea. Thinking about it now, I'd say online it's extremely "low" when you consider the sheer volume i work but to me it's just like playing mario kart or something so that's different. In real life, in the club? My shit is MUCH MUCH tighter, I'd say maybe one in five I approach? Certainly not 3%. 
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djtetsu

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AsianRSD,

Ironically, 1 to 3 per month was infact your original argument if you read my op.
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This is bullshit.

I've gone 3 for 3 before. thats 3 numbers in  a row that translated into sex later that week / month.

And then I've gone 0 for 5 on another night and I have no idea what changed.

What did I take away from all this? I was fucking on my game when I was at my peak in terms of what I felt and how amazing my actions were that day/night.  When  I was going at it with hesitation, I did more approaches but got less success. 

Its not a numbers game by percentage, that shit is for faggots who dont understand that EVERYTIME you go out, you have a chance to get laid. IMO,  the only stats that matter is I have a 50% of getting laid today, and I got a 50% of NOT getting laid today. Thats fucking good stats for me.

50% of getting laid everyday. Thats it bitches. They either say yes or no.
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djtetsu

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Additionally, the real problem isn't the numbers but how much you are willing to defend your current way of looking at things. We are defined by our strength and our hopes. Numbers and results are simply reflect that over time.
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Can we rename this thread "The Asian RSD Topic" so I don't have to see "You can't have sex from cold approach unless you're a DJ Bartender frat" in every other topic
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AsianRSD

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 3-5% are VERY VERY modest numbers

in reality, it's roughly 1%. 

You have to take into account the BF objections you will get 
How high your standards are *this is actually important, girls with less options such as fatties and ugs tend to be more DTF
How good your game is
how good looking/tall you are(to see if she sees you as non-platonic)
To see if the phone number she gives you doesn't flake **this is where most guys don't get the girl, all the hard work they did in that approach to never see her again)


there are so many variables in which you cannot control except for how good your game is. Thta's why my approximation of 1-3% out of 100 women, you have a good shot.

the reason why people don't believe is because hardly anyone here keeps track of how many girls they approach. 
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Game is only 1 variable in which to increase your chances of getting laid. there are still a lot of variables that you cannot control. YOu would have lucky to manipulate have of the external variables


Mr.Madison wrote:

Drama wrote:
 As you get more advanced, you erase the socially retarded behaviors that turn girls off -- you don't even recognize you are doing it at this point, but as you go out more and experience more bullshit you adapt.


drama is right.
Most guys think they don't get laid cause they don't know GAME.
The truth is they have small socially retarded behaviors. Once you get rid of these behaviors you will get fucks by FLUKE and LUCK as long as you approach. Heck man, 1 out of 100 girls will fuck you just because. Yes, im talking about foolsmate. If you are not getting 1 out of 100 its cause you still have these bad socialy regardless actions. You don't even see them. Then later on ur your like due, of course it was bad to do that thing.

At this point in my game if i do 10 to 20 approaches. I am pulling 1 girl home. Maybe 2.

But 3 to 5 percent out of 100 is absolutely intermediate. As you get better you lean to look for and screen the DTF girls
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