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August 16th, 2017
Why is it so FUCKING hard to get laid?
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#51
Tyler

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This isn't accurate.  I know this from having slept with women who weren't initially attracted to me, including the mother of my children who thought I was a "pale disgusting ginger..."

I think pessimistic posts can be good because they give the poster a chance to get their head straightened out by other users, and to get back on track.  It's better to do this than just fake being all positive when you don't really believe what you're saying, right?

I also think you're right that meeting girls through social circle is a great way to do it, in addition to approaching them.  What you're saying isn't all bad or anything.

The problem is you're posting constantly, the same thing over and over, and it comes across insane.  So I'm letting the mods know that if you make one more pessimistic post to nuke your account.  I'm posting this on the forum and not PM because I believe the user base is "over" reading these posts, to the point of them looking like a self parody.

That said, would love to see you continue posting here.  And if you do get nuked (which to be honest I think you will, because I think these posts are compulsive and you can't stop them) I'd recommend checking out the RSD Free Tour in Los Angeles and meeting me personally.  Come check out the infield footage we show there, as it will help to disburden you of limiting beliefs.

I like that you DO go out regularly and ARE TRYING AS HARD AS YOU CAN.  So I want to encourage you to get the results you want, it's just that I can't allow you to continue to use the RSDN forums as a place to vent pessimism.  So take it as encouragement if you get nuked, because we want the best for you, and you're just using the forums as a place to brow-beat yourself. :)

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AsianRSD wrote:

lifestyle/social circle is what most NORMAL guys meet girls. Cold approach strategy only works a small % of the time.

It only works if the woman your approaching is already into you to begin with. 
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#52

ikelove

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jlaix wrote:

AsianRSD wrote:
this is a forum where we discuss picking up women

i didn't know this forum was reserved for the elitist members. so only the "elite" can give out advice and opinions eh?

No, not just the elite... but not the woefully ignorant either. I'm calling you out son, quit acting like you have any idea what the fuck it is you're talking about. 
LMAO...com'on Jeff, stop beating around the bush and share with us how you REALLY feel..
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#53
jlaix

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Tyler won't nuke him.

I will
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#54
tjawatdan

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justgowithit wrote:
i don't see the connection.  The kid is just a troll at this point, whether intentional or not.  He posts the same stupid shit using retarded logic that he can't back up with anything real.  At least that xflash guy who posted the same kind of retarded shit had a couple thousand approaches under his belt and years of experience to reach his conclusions.  I thought that guy was dead wrong and believed he had real self-esteem and self-hate issues but I didn't question his qualifications.  Nobody suggested that that guy have his account be removed.  And he didn't act like he knew everything like AsianRSD.  He just talked about his own experiences.

This AsianRSD kid is some 3-lay self-admitted nerd who gets picked on and has no fucking experience with women but acts like he knows everything about pickup.  It's not even that he wants to hold onto his incorrect beliefs, it's that he tells everybody that they're wrong about their beliefs just because he himself has no luck.  It'd be like me telling Michael Jordan dunking in basketball doesn't work because based on my personal experience of playing for six months I was never able to do it well.  

Kid's a troll
improvingame wrote:
sorry tyler but this is really fucked up

you sound like the way normal society treats guys who are into pickup

its like you are club bouncer/owner telling some pick up guy that he had come into the bar too often and "bothered" random girls


you are threatening this kid the same way club bouncers threaten you for having your students overuse the claw
Tyler wrote:
This isn't accurate.  I know this from having slept with women who weren't initially attracted to me, including the mother of my children who thought I was a "pale disgusting ginger..."

I think pessimistic posts can be good because they give the poster a chance to get their head straightened out by other users, and to get back on track.  It's better to do this than just fake being all positive when you don't really believe what you're saying, right?

I also think you're right that meeting girls through social circle is a great way to do it, in addition to approaching them.  What you're saying isn't all bad or anything.

The problem is you're posting constantly, the same thing over and over, and it comes across insane.  So I'm letting the mods know that if you make one more pessimistic post to nuke your account.  I'm posting this on the forum and not PM because I believe the user base is "over" reading these posts, to the point of them looking like a self parody.

That said, would love to see you continue posting here.  And if you do get nuked (which to be honest I think you will, because I think these posts are compulsive and you can't stop them) I'd recommend checking out the RSD Free Tour in Los Angeles and meeting me personally.  Come check out the infield footage we show there, as it will help to disburden you of limiting beliefs.

I like that you DO go out regularly and ARE TRYING AS HARD AS YOU CAN.  So I want to encourage you to get the results you want, it's just that I can't allow you to continue to use the RSDN forums as a place to vent pessimism.  So take it as encouragement if you get nuked, because we want the best for you, and you're just using the forums as a place to brow-beat yourself. :)

Tyler


AsianRSD wrote:

lifestyle/social circle is what most NORMAL guys meet girls. Cold approach strategy only works a small % of the time.

It only works if the woman your approaching is already into you to begin with. 



QFT

Anyway the cinema-date will take place next weekend.. But i don't feel like going.

I'm not feeling that attracted to her, she's not ugly that's not the point, she's just not my type i think.. I feel im just doing it to increase the change of losing my virginity and to just bang her.  Should have pulled that last week DAMNNN.. Would've been glory times  if i had my first f-close with a 28year old milf..

What would you guys do?

Will keep you guys updated..

For now lets relax and listen to this surf guy..

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Tyler

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Yeah sorry if it comes across that way.

Remember that an effective troll doesn't just go on and say "Tyler is a big faggot!" because that gets nuked instantly.  A good troll has a character and subtley annoys you, but stays just under the radar of what it takes to get nuked. :)

I don't think AsianRSD is a troll but many people have thought he's a troll, and it reflects that he's asked the same questions and posted the same limiting beliefs over and over, to the point that it gives people a feeling that it's not a conversation but just him venting.

Like I said in the thread though I'd like him to continue to post here, and if he's posting compulsively and cannot stop, I'd still like him to attend the Free Tour and continue to learn from RSD through other means. Just not venting. :)  Regardless it looks like he has the intention to improve, based on his other thread.

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improvingame wrote:
sorry tyler but this is really fucked up

you sound like the way normal society treats guys who are into pickup

its like you are club bouncer/owner telling some pick up guy that he had come into the bar too often and "bothered" random girls


you are threatening this kid the same way club bouncers threaten you for having your students overuse the claw


Tyler wrote:
This isn't accurate.  I know this from having slept with women who weren't initially attracted to me, including the mother of my children who thought I was a "pale disgusting ginger..."

I think pessimistic posts can be good because they give the poster a chance to get their head straightened out by other users, and to get back on track.  It's better to do this than just fake being all positive when you don't really believe what you're saying, right?

I also think you're right that meeting girls through social circle is a great way to do it, in addition to approaching them.  What you're saying isn't all bad or anything.

The problem is you're posting constantly, the same thing over and over, and it comes across insane.  So I'm letting the mods know that if you make one more pessimistic post to nuke your account.  I'm posting this on the forum and not PM because I believe the user base is "over" reading these posts, to the point of them looking like a self parody.

That said, would love to see you continue posting here.  And if you do get nuked (which to be honest I think you will, because I think these posts are compulsive and you can't stop them) I'd recommend checking out the RSD Free Tour in Los Angeles and meeting me personally.  Come check out the infield footage we show there, as it will help to disburden you of limiting beliefs.

I like that you DO go out regularly and ARE TRYING AS HARD AS YOU CAN.  So I want to encourage you to get the results you want, it's just that I can't allow you to continue to use the RSDN forums as a place to vent pessimism.  So take it as encouragement if you get nuked, because we want the best for you, and you're just using the forums as a place to brow-beat yourself. :)

Tyler




AsianRSD wrote:

lifestyle/social circle is what most NORMAL guys meet girls. Cold approach strategy only works a small % of the time.

It only works if the woman your approaching is already into you to begin with. 


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#57

Jarno

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Damn i see all this posts about why they cant get laid etcetc..
I'm blessed i think that i just dont have that issue.. why the fúck would you put so much value on sticking your dick in a hole. Its nice sure, but its no big deal lol.
The outcome wont bring you happiness.. it's the journey.. it's being who you want to be that's what really fulfills you and makes you outcome dependent, that way you will not only
get laid 1000times more.. cuz no outcome dependecy/notgivingafuck/actingnormal/noneedyness/unreactiveness/abundance/beingyourself.. lol it's ALL the same thing and its the core of good game !
And on top of that, when you lose that outcome dependency you will enjoy the outcome (sex) even 1000times more !

It's such a paradox.. glad i dont have that problem thát much.. that i care about sex that much.
But yeah ive got enough other problems and shit to work on lol, GOOD LUCK !
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#58

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what i like about tyler isn't that he's so easy to troll (which he is lulz) but the underlying reason why: he has such contempt and disgust for the common man, it's literally impossible for someone to post something so stupid that it makes him say "ok, this is obviously a troll". nope, in his mind the typical candy-ass poster is a pitiful creature indeed. in fact, the more egregious the post, the more it confirms his low opinion of the masses.

i tend to agree actually, but it's still not that hard to spot a troll if you have any social intuition. i bring this up because i never understood the whole "no one is better or worse than anyone else" spiel. is thomas jefferson the equal of adolf hitler? it's just bullshit society says to help grease the cylinders of a fundamentally unequal world. 

it's ironic how much tyler is under social conditioning

it's ironic how much tyler is under social conditioning lol
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#59
Tyler

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LOL yup.

But it's not a low opinion of the potential that exists in the masses, just that we are all essentially  "sponges" of our environment, and the environment is so fucked that many people can't help but to be the way they are.  Underneath there is so much potential.  I know this because I was totally fucked up for the first 2 decades of my life -- so I'm all too familiar with the psychology, thought patterns, and engrained emotions involved.

I also know that because people were willing to help, I was able to elevate myself and create a life of my own design.  I believe ALL people have the ability to do this.

But you're right that nothing appears too stupid, and also that the reason I'm able to "put myself out there" without worrying about people's opinions is that I don't take the average person's viewpoint overly seriously, to say the least. :)

Tyler




Gorgias wrote:
what i like about tyler isn't that he's so easy to troll (which he is lulz) but the underlying reason why: he has such contempt and disgust for the common man, it's literally impossible for someone to post something so stupid that it makes him say "ok, this is obviously a troll". nope, in his mind the typical candy-ass poster is a pitiful creature indeed. in fact, the more egregious the post, the more it confirms his low opinion of the masses.

i tend to agree actually, but it's still not that hard to spot a troll if you have any social intuition. i bring this up because i never understood the whole "no one is better or worse than anyone else" spiel. is thomas jefferson the equal of adolf hitler? it's just bullshit society says to help grease the cylinders of a fundamentally unequal world. 

it's ironic how much tyler is under social conditioning

it's ironic how much tyler is under social conditioning lol
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#60
tjawatdan

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My phone fell in the fucking toilet ;'(

Damn lost all my contacts!!!!

Phone is lying in uncooked rice now, hope this will work..

Probally will go out tonight, my throat is fucking soar but whatever..
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