THE FORUMS
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3F25ZjdQaG0&ob=av2e
That link is to a sogn that basically describes the feeling I have walking around a lot of the time (Sorry I don't know how to post the actual song here)- just totally calm and relaxed but having a blast and being me
Damn, so today was a little lame... I'm in a weird situation of legitimately having just barely enough money to make it to work and back Monday-Thursday.... but i figured out how I can still go out, I just have to change my living situatino arond a little and do some couch surfing- I couldn't do it today because it would have cost me additional metro swipes- but I've already packed my bags for tomorrow and after work I'll be heading straight for a couch I know is open, in an area that will be RAGING every night... so I'll still be able to go out 6 nights this week EVEN with LITERALLY ZERO dollars to my name lol... Life of a broke college student having wayy too much fun!
It's actually kind of funny cause my friends and I were sitting around at his apartment one Monday evening, licking our wounds from the weekend and I looked around and suddenly looked over at my friends and was just like, "Yo guys, our lives are so shitty right now!!" haha and like we all started to fucking crack up- It's funny cause here we are, 4 LITERALLY BROKE college students, sitting on the wooden floor of an apartment with zErO furniture, eating raman noodles that we bought at the dollar store.... MEANWHILE, the weekend before we were hooking up with models, and lording clubs with guys that had more money than we could ever DREAM of- for now- we also had shitty nights where nothing happened (but who cares about thsoe nights)... The best part for us- not once did we lie to anyone about our living situation. I can't tell you how many free drinks I have gotten by telling a girl my SOB STORY... The thing is that I actually think my situation is hilarious and I kind of wouldn't have it any other way for where I'm at right now so It doesn't come across as needy/ pathatetic/ wtvr else- it just comes across as funny/awesome/ really cool...Half of the girls probably think I'm just being funny and that I actually have lots of money because a lot of girls have a tendency to just project random shit onto guys when they are attracted to them- and the other half probably believe us but just think it's hysterical...
Anyway- I have to say that this is a journal that I am using to capture as much of a picture of this moment of my life as i can- the moment of my life where I take full action to start getting better with girls... What this means is that these posts are not just field reports but also my observations, feelings, thoughts and attitudes during this period- I am trying to create as authentic of a journal as possible, so that maybe later on I can look back and laugh at some of these posts in a year or two or three... we'll see where it goes.
Anyway- So tonight I got home and took a nap at 9 but FORGOT TO SET MY ALARM- SHITBALLS... so I woke up at 1 AM to 6 text messages and a missed call... haha fuck. I would like to note that this is probably one of the worst feeligns that exists on the planet- going to bed to take a nap and waking up, realizing you forgot to set your alarm, and it's the middle of the night.... so anyways- I check my missed call- it's from the girl i saw yesterday that wanted me to come out to her 21st birthday tonight. I check my texts- 5 of them are from that same girl.... 1 of them is from the othe girl who I got the # from last night and had told I would meet up with later in the week- I texted her today saying:
Me: "Hey [brunnete girl[ it was good seeing you again last night. I'll call you later this week and we will go downtown"
Her: "Wonderful, look forward to hearing from you"
Her (tonight): "Are you going out on cmapus tonight/'
The texts from the girl who wanted me to come out with her tonight were:
'Me: "Hey what are your plans for tonight"
Her: "Heyyy just gott outa class, headed to [bar] later" [9:52 PM]
Her: "If your around come!" [10:16 PM]]
Her: "Are ya drinking?" [11:24 PM]
Her: "21st bday shots!" [11:58 PM]
Her: "Come to (Barrrrrr) (haha she's drunk?) [12:21 PM]
So needless to say i can't go because I'm on the opposite side of town and have no money... but I texted her back (I genuinely felt bad for bailing in such a chode way (didn't tell her i wasn't going just completely flaked- I consider this chode because it's not cool- only lame people flake)
Me; 'Hey I feel horrible. I took a nap at like 9 and forgot to set my alarm and just woke up. I'm still on the east side. I was stoked on hanging out too, I promise! Lets hang out tomorrow, as long as your not too sick : )"
She hasn't responded but I hope she's having a blast- I'm pretty sure she is which is good. - I like hanging out with girls who want to hang out with me but aren't dependent on me to have a good time and she is definitley that kind of girl...
Oh this past weekend during the hurricane I also got a text from the girl I met at the beer garden who had flipped out at me upon seeing my living conditions that said,
Her: "In Jersey at a hurrican party wishing I was having hurricane sex..."
Me; ' ; ) '
I didn't really know what to say so I just sent back a smiley face cause I felt it was the best way to express wtvr my response would have been...
I texted her a little today, this is how the convo went:
Me: "How was your hurricane?"
Her: "Haha my hurrican was amazing. I got hurrica drunk and hurricane high haha how was yours/ Were you in the city?"
Me: "Yeah I stayed in the city. It was crazy. We went out in our bathing suits got drunk and ran into random bars with ski goggles on. Ended up at some random girls hurricane party in our building"
Her: "Coming now in 5 Mins"
Her: "Oops sorry that wasn't for you. Haha that's so funny! Were you rocking a speedo? : ) Haha"
Me: "Lol no speedo! Back in the city yet?"
She hasn't responded to the last one yet- she usually takes a little bit- prob busy...
So I guess those are the three gals I was texting today- didn't go out so figured I'd post some text conversations... I plan on going out 6 nights this week and then hitting it HARD next week when I have money again and managing the money I do have MUCH better so that I can rage 7 nights without a problem.
-Keep It Real,
Buddha
That link is to a sogn that basically describes the feeling I have walking around a lot of the time (Sorry I don't know how to post the actual song here)- just totally calm and relaxed but having a blast and being me
Damn, so today was a little lame... I'm in a weird situation of legitimately having just barely enough money to make it to work and back Monday-Thursday.... but i figured out how I can still go out, I just have to change my living situatino arond a little and do some couch surfing- I couldn't do it today because it would have cost me additional metro swipes- but I've already packed my bags for tomorrow and after work I'll be heading straight for a couch I know is open, in an area that will be RAGING every night... so I'll still be able to go out 6 nights this week EVEN with LITERALLY ZERO dollars to my name lol... Life of a broke college student having wayy too much fun!
It's actually kind of funny cause my friends and I were sitting around at his apartment one Monday evening, licking our wounds from the weekend and I looked around and suddenly looked over at my friends and was just like, "Yo guys, our lives are so shitty right now!!" haha and like we all started to fucking crack up- It's funny cause here we are, 4 LITERALLY BROKE college students, sitting on the wooden floor of an apartment with zErO furniture, eating raman noodles that we bought at the dollar store.... MEANWHILE, the weekend before we were hooking up with models, and lording clubs with guys that had more money than we could ever DREAM of- for now- we also had shitty nights where nothing happened (but who cares about thsoe nights)... The best part for us- not once did we lie to anyone about our living situation. I can't tell you how many free drinks I have gotten by telling a girl my SOB STORY... The thing is that I actually think my situation is hilarious and I kind of wouldn't have it any other way for where I'm at right now so It doesn't come across as needy/ pathatetic/ wtvr else- it just comes across as funny/awesome/ really cool...Half of the girls probably think I'm just being funny and that I actually have lots of money because a lot of girls have a tendency to just project random shit onto guys when they are attracted to them- and the other half probably believe us but just think it's hysterical...
Anyway- I have to say that this is a journal that I am using to capture as much of a picture of this moment of my life as i can- the moment of my life where I take full action to start getting better with girls... What this means is that these posts are not just field reports but also my observations, feelings, thoughts and attitudes during this period- I am trying to create as authentic of a journal as possible, so that maybe later on I can look back and laugh at some of these posts in a year or two or three... we'll see where it goes.
Anyway- So tonight I got home and took a nap at 9 but FORGOT TO SET MY ALARM- SHITBALLS... so I woke up at 1 AM to 6 text messages and a missed call... haha fuck. I would like to note that this is probably one of the worst feeligns that exists on the planet- going to bed to take a nap and waking up, realizing you forgot to set your alarm, and it's the middle of the night.... so anyways- I check my missed call- it's from the girl i saw yesterday that wanted me to come out to her 21st birthday tonight. I check my texts- 5 of them are from that same girl.... 1 of them is from the othe girl who I got the # from last night and had told I would meet up with later in the week- I texted her today saying:
Me: "Hey [brunnete girl[ it was good seeing you again last night. I'll call you later this week and we will go downtown"
Her: "Wonderful, look forward to hearing from you"
Her (tonight): "Are you going out on cmapus tonight/'
The texts from the girl who wanted me to come out with her tonight were:
'Me: "Hey what are your plans for tonight"
Her: "Heyyy just gott outa class, headed to [bar] later" [9:52 PM]
Her: "If your around come!" [10:16 PM]]
Her: "Are ya drinking?" [11:24 PM]
Her: "21st bday shots!" [11:58 PM]
Her: "Come to (Barrrrrr) (haha she's drunk?) [12:21 PM]
So needless to say i can't go because I'm on the opposite side of town and have no money... but I texted her back (I genuinely felt bad for bailing in such a chode way (didn't tell her i wasn't going just completely flaked- I consider this chode because it's not cool- only lame people flake)
Me; 'Hey I feel horrible. I took a nap at like 9 and forgot to set my alarm and just woke up. I'm still on the east side. I was stoked on hanging out too, I promise! Lets hang out tomorrow, as long as your not too sick : )"
She hasn't responded but I hope she's having a blast- I'm pretty sure she is which is good. - I like hanging out with girls who want to hang out with me but aren't dependent on me to have a good time and she is definitley that kind of girl...
Oh this past weekend during the hurricane I also got a text from the girl I met at the beer garden who had flipped out at me upon seeing my living conditions that said,
Her: "In Jersey at a hurrican party wishing I was having hurricane sex..."
Me; ' ; ) '
I didn't really know what to say so I just sent back a smiley face cause I felt it was the best way to express wtvr my response would have been...
I texted her a little today, this is how the convo went:
Me: "How was your hurricane?"
Her: "Haha my hurrican was amazing. I got hurrica drunk and hurricane high haha how was yours/ Were you in the city?"
Me: "Yeah I stayed in the city. It was crazy. We went out in our bathing suits got drunk and ran into random bars with ski goggles on. Ended up at some random girls hurricane party in our building"
Her: "Coming now in 5 Mins"
Her: "Oops sorry that wasn't for you. Haha that's so funny! Were you rocking a speedo? : ) Haha"
Me: "Lol no speedo! Back in the city yet?"
She hasn't responded to the last one yet- she usually takes a little bit- prob busy...
So I guess those are the three gals I was texting today- didn't go out so figured I'd post some text conversations... I plan on going out 6 nights this week and then hitting it HARD next week when I have money again and managing the money I do have MUCH better so that I can rage 7 nights without a problem.
-Keep It Real,
Buddha
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90 Days Challenge (Currently in the Final Third): "It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great"
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
Fucked up one of my goals- Said I wasn't going to post on any other forum but I posted on the main forum today... lol not a huge deal but gotta be honest with myself. Just a waste of time
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90 Days Challenge (Currently in the Final Third): "It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great"
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
I was talking with a good friend of mine who has been practicing Buddhism for 30 years who actually helped to establish a monestary in California up on Mount Shasta- all this after dropping out of college and almost killing himself with drugs (He is now INCREDIBLE successful- makes a fuckton of money doing something he ABSOLUTELY LOVES) and I texted him saying:
"It's interesting how im returning to a more baseline level. Kinda nice though taht I can have these crazy moments of joy and come back again without crashing. I feel like this was a big step for me but I still have a lot to work through but having the reference experience of the last three weeks is amazing. I have complete trust in myself and the process. Im slowly building an incredible foundation of confidence for myself based on actual experience which takes much longer than the other kind"
Background- For me, whenever I have a big step forward in my progress, it is accompanied by an intense mindstate that lasts for about a week or two- this last one being the most intense I've ever had- and with this one came the craziest results I have ever seen with women. There were literally nights where guys followed me around just to watch my interactions with girls... but slowly I came off this mindstate and am returning to more baseline- girls still reacting positively but just not at the insane level it was at for a week or two there
His response was very astute and something I wanted to share with you guys:
"... the body is initially wired toward intensity and complacency in a way... it all changes the baseline to less extremes, the middle way.. hopefully we all keep our crazy wisdom!!"
This comment, I felt, is so true and really drove home the point I was trying to get at:
Basically with each step up in confidence// wtvr it is- our baseline increases so that the spike isn't as huge, so when we come down we come down with a much softer landing... anyways really just watned to share what he said, thought it was really cool.
"It's interesting how im returning to a more baseline level. Kinda nice though taht I can have these crazy moments of joy and come back again without crashing. I feel like this was a big step for me but I still have a lot to work through but having the reference experience of the last three weeks is amazing. I have complete trust in myself and the process. Im slowly building an incredible foundation of confidence for myself based on actual experience which takes much longer than the other kind"
Background- For me, whenever I have a big step forward in my progress, it is accompanied by an intense mindstate that lasts for about a week or two- this last one being the most intense I've ever had- and with this one came the craziest results I have ever seen with women. There were literally nights where guys followed me around just to watch my interactions with girls... but slowly I came off this mindstate and am returning to more baseline- girls still reacting positively but just not at the insane level it was at for a week or two there
His response was very astute and something I wanted to share with you guys:
"... the body is initially wired toward intensity and complacency in a way... it all changes the baseline to less extremes, the middle way.. hopefully we all keep our crazy wisdom!!"
This comment, I felt, is so true and really drove home the point I was trying to get at:
Basically with each step up in confidence// wtvr it is- our baseline increases so that the spike isn't as huge, so when we come down we come down with a much softer landing... anyways really just watned to share what he said, thought it was really cool.
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90 Days Challenge (Currently in the Final Third): "It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great"
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
Went out again last night- Was kinda in my head all night. I had just gotten back to my apartment and was sweaty and wearing grunge clothes and as soon as I walk in there is a huge rager going on which I wasn't expecting- I was down but at the same time I just wanted to take a shower and it kinda just hit me by surprise.
Ended up just chiln sorta observing... a couple girls actually came up but I was just not that interested... had about a 15 minute conversation with one girl and was getting surprisingly physical but like not really caring about it at all lolll... eventually she tells me she has to go and I'm just like, "Okay, see you around' she gets up, pauses, and then goes, "Well do you have a phone... we should exchange numbers"- okay- she number closed me... fair enough.
End up getting my shower in and going to a bar... chat up this one girl and start making out and then I grab her hand to pull her out of the bar and she goes, "I can't... you've hooked up with 2 of my friends" and I instantly want to try and logically convince her that this is stupid- but realize that this will just dig my hole deeper so I just keep making out with her and try again about 5 minutes later- more resistance... so I just look at her and go, "okay" and walk straight out of the bar and go home...
I end up passing out but I wake up today to a facebook message from thsi girl saying, "Buddha my bad... wanna hang?" and it was sent at 3 in the morning- god damnit, shoulda checked my facebook that night.. oh well
Tonight will be better- got my paycheck... got my shirts to the dry cleaners... moving into my apartment and I'm ready to go HARD tonight...
Ended up just chiln sorta observing... a couple girls actually came up but I was just not that interested... had about a 15 minute conversation with one girl and was getting surprisingly physical but like not really caring about it at all lolll... eventually she tells me she has to go and I'm just like, "Okay, see you around' she gets up, pauses, and then goes, "Well do you have a phone... we should exchange numbers"- okay- she number closed me... fair enough.
End up getting my shower in and going to a bar... chat up this one girl and start making out and then I grab her hand to pull her out of the bar and she goes, "I can't... you've hooked up with 2 of my friends" and I instantly want to try and logically convince her that this is stupid- but realize that this will just dig my hole deeper so I just keep making out with her and try again about 5 minutes later- more resistance... so I just look at her and go, "okay" and walk straight out of the bar and go home...
I end up passing out but I wake up today to a facebook message from thsi girl saying, "Buddha my bad... wanna hang?" and it was sent at 3 in the morning- god damnit, shoulda checked my facebook that night.. oh well
Tonight will be better- got my paycheck... got my shirts to the dry cleaners... moving into my apartment and I'm ready to go HARD tonight...
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90 Days Challenge (Currently in the Final Third): "It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great"
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
Anyway- I just wanted to point out an interesting point that I have noticed:
As you begin to actually take action and go out more and more, and you get past that point of like not being able to approach sets and you start approaching more and getting that SERIOUS attraction at the venue that before you may have thought was tough , there is like a whole other level that you didn't even know existed and it kind of just starts all over again... like the same issues start coming up again...
Like as you start to not get flaked on Day 2's you realize that they are tougher than you initially thought they would be- EVEN when the girl was initially SUPER attracted to you... Like, it's so easy in your head to be like, "oh i'll be really good at Day 2's... it's just the cold approach that's hard etc. etc." But the thing is that it's all one big interweaving puzzle- the kind that's so simple and yet at each step seems so complex and difficult. Anyway, once you get out of your head and stop dreaming and you start going out and hitting the pavement every night (or close to it) at first you get a fuckton of #'s and they are all flakes and then,, in my experience so far, I started getting actually less numbers but they were more solid- still a lot of flakes, but not nearly as much. I started staying in sets longer- sometimes in a night I'll end up with just like 3-4 interactions but they will be like 30 minutes - an hour in length each with me fully escalating... That's one of my rules... that I sorta have been adhearing to- as long as I'm escalating, im staying in set- as soon as I can't escalate any longer I'm ejecting... haven't been strictly adhearing to this but I plan on slowly adapting to this rule.. it's a good one and will keep me honest.
Also, I've noticed myself just vomiting recently- like before I wasn't saying ANYTHING and now I'm vomiting and I have a feeling as I continue to go out I will find a realll nice MIDDLE PATH between the two- THE MONEY ZONE. Also, I've noticed that I'm getting comfortable escalating with a certain level of hottness but like even though I feel comfortable approaching girls who are smoking- I find myself not escalating as hardcore... It's like my sense of entightlement just hasn't reached the point where I expect these girls to respond receptively.
Anyway, Tonight I went out and I had a day2 with the girl I met on sunday- she was texting a lot and i told her to stop, took her phone, she took it back.. kept texting... i told her next time she texts I'm leaving- she texted again, I left... HAHA so apparently this girl is a HUGE socialite in New York and like routinley chills with bloomberg/guliany and ilke all those, i guess, big personalities in New York... I had no fucking clue lol- just funny cause the whole night she kept saying how everyone always texts their friends when they are hanging out with her and like at the time I was like, "Well your cute but like... really?" but yeah, anyway i stand by my decision to leave- like I have enough fucking self respect where if a girl is texting to the point of not being able to have a conversation, and I communicate to her that this is not okay and that it crosses my boundaries, and she continues to do it- I am leaving...
Went and met up with another girl on the east side and I get there and some like super huge rugby alpha was talking to this girl and i just walked up and kinda just danced to the music and she was dancing back and I ignored the guy and just kept eye contact and kept getting closer to her... we made out and I grabbed her hand we left... I literally blew this rugby dude out of the fucking water haha not gonna lie-as I was walking out with her I looked back and literally he was just staring at me and I threw up my hands and just gave him the hang loose sign...
Anyway- we peaced out and we were making out and i was fingerbanging her in a phone booth and then she just PEACED OUT... it was weird. Went back to the bar- and just went straight up to thie girl talkign to another guy and started making out with her- he left... by the way- THE BEST way to blow a dude out is to makeout with the girl he's talking to... guys just don't know wtf is happening haha... the girl's friend didn't even know what was going on- she just goes to her friend, "OMG DID HE jUSt COME UP AND MAKE OUT WITH YOU"- but it wasn't in like a negative tone- she was really positive about it and laughing but just confused... I grab her number and leave... the majority of my night was spent with these two girls...
Anyway- I also wanted to say:
Advice from anyone who knows the point I'm at and what I'm talking about? Obviously I'm going to keep going out but I'm at the point where I'm read yto start really reading game shit while AT THE SAME TIME going out as often as i've been going out because up until now I haven't really been focusing on actual game tactics- just goign out and getting reference experience.. but I think I'm at the point where actual outer game techniques will help...
Going out again tonight. Going to ALWAYS BE ESCALATING
Thanks
-Keep It Real,
Buddha
As you begin to actually take action and go out more and more, and you get past that point of like not being able to approach sets and you start approaching more and getting that SERIOUS attraction at the venue that before you may have thought was tough , there is like a whole other level that you didn't even know existed and it kind of just starts all over again... like the same issues start coming up again...
Like as you start to not get flaked on Day 2's you realize that they are tougher than you initially thought they would be- EVEN when the girl was initially SUPER attracted to you... Like, it's so easy in your head to be like, "oh i'll be really good at Day 2's... it's just the cold approach that's hard etc. etc." But the thing is that it's all one big interweaving puzzle- the kind that's so simple and yet at each step seems so complex and difficult. Anyway, once you get out of your head and stop dreaming and you start going out and hitting the pavement every night (or close to it) at first you get a fuckton of #'s and they are all flakes and then,, in my experience so far, I started getting actually less numbers but they were more solid- still a lot of flakes, but not nearly as much. I started staying in sets longer- sometimes in a night I'll end up with just like 3-4 interactions but they will be like 30 minutes - an hour in length each with me fully escalating... That's one of my rules... that I sorta have been adhearing to- as long as I'm escalating, im staying in set- as soon as I can't escalate any longer I'm ejecting... haven't been strictly adhearing to this but I plan on slowly adapting to this rule.. it's a good one and will keep me honest.
Also, I've noticed myself just vomiting recently- like before I wasn't saying ANYTHING and now I'm vomiting and I have a feeling as I continue to go out I will find a realll nice MIDDLE PATH between the two- THE MONEY ZONE. Also, I've noticed that I'm getting comfortable escalating with a certain level of hottness but like even though I feel comfortable approaching girls who are smoking- I find myself not escalating as hardcore... It's like my sense of entightlement just hasn't reached the point where I expect these girls to respond receptively.
Anyway, Tonight I went out and I had a day2 with the girl I met on sunday- she was texting a lot and i told her to stop, took her phone, she took it back.. kept texting... i told her next time she texts I'm leaving- she texted again, I left... HAHA so apparently this girl is a HUGE socialite in New York and like routinley chills with bloomberg/guliany and ilke all those, i guess, big personalities in New York... I had no fucking clue lol- just funny cause the whole night she kept saying how everyone always texts their friends when they are hanging out with her and like at the time I was like, "Well your cute but like... really?" but yeah, anyway i stand by my decision to leave- like I have enough fucking self respect where if a girl is texting to the point of not being able to have a conversation, and I communicate to her that this is not okay and that it crosses my boundaries, and she continues to do it- I am leaving...
Went and met up with another girl on the east side and I get there and some like super huge rugby alpha was talking to this girl and i just walked up and kinda just danced to the music and she was dancing back and I ignored the guy and just kept eye contact and kept getting closer to her... we made out and I grabbed her hand we left... I literally blew this rugby dude out of the fucking water haha not gonna lie-as I was walking out with her I looked back and literally he was just staring at me and I threw up my hands and just gave him the hang loose sign...
Anyway- we peaced out and we were making out and i was fingerbanging her in a phone booth and then she just PEACED OUT... it was weird. Went back to the bar- and just went straight up to thie girl talkign to another guy and started making out with her- he left... by the way- THE BEST way to blow a dude out is to makeout with the girl he's talking to... guys just don't know wtf is happening haha... the girl's friend didn't even know what was going on- she just goes to her friend, "OMG DID HE jUSt COME UP AND MAKE OUT WITH YOU"- but it wasn't in like a negative tone- she was really positive about it and laughing but just confused... I grab her number and leave... the majority of my night was spent with these two girls...
Anyway- I also wanted to say:
Advice from anyone who knows the point I'm at and what I'm talking about? Obviously I'm going to keep going out but I'm at the point where I'm read yto start really reading game shit while AT THE SAME TIME going out as often as i've been going out because up until now I haven't really been focusing on actual game tactics- just goign out and getting reference experience.. but I think I'm at the point where actual outer game techniques will help...
Going out again tonight. Going to ALWAYS BE ESCALATING
Thanks
-Keep It Real,
Buddha
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90 Days Challenge (Currently in the Final Third): "It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great"
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
Hey,
Awesome journal!
BTW: Write headlines. Or use LR: (headline)
Like your honesty with that chick. Opening up sexually. I don´t really tell girls that i am virgin, to me it doesn´t really make a big difference.
ChinaBoy
Awesome journal!
BTW: Write headlines. Or use LR: (headline)
Like your honesty with that chick. Opening up sexually. I don´t really tell girls that i am virgin, to me it doesn´t really make a big difference.
ChinaBoy
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Yeah man I opened up to that girl- in the past that relationship would have been fucked cause I would have been a dick to cover up my insecurities- now... SHE'S the one who texted me like 6 times on her birthday to come to that bar- authentically opening up to girls in a confident and direct way WILL lead to attraction... honesty man- it's a gift.
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90 Days Challenge (Currently in the Final Third): "It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great"
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
Went out again last night and met with a girl i've hooked up with a couple times.
i was just chiln out having a good time and we're chiln- her friends are actually hitting on me which is nice but I'm there for her so obviously I'm nice to them, I buy her friend a drink because she looks bored and we shoot the shit- her friends LOVE ME... I obviously didn't buy her a drink as a way of getting her to like me but more just because I wanted to buy her a drink
Anyway- towards the end of the night a ReALLL cutie walks in with a big group and she sits down in the back near where my group is sitting. So I head to the back of the room and sit down next to her and everyone else.. I'm just relaxing, chillin out and one of the guys starts talkin to me and we're shootin the shit- and the girl he's sitting next to (not the one I think is cute) actually leans over and is ilke, "So how long have you guys known each other?" and we both kinda just laugh and we're like, "oh we just met" and the girl goes, "Then WHY are you talking to each other like you've known eachother forever...?" and me and the guy laughs and the guy just goes, "Idk.. cause we're both chill dudes"... and that's that.
the cutie leaves and comes back and I'm sitting in a standard chair with a back to it and I kinda just lean way back and bend my back over it so my face is looking directly up at her and I just smile and I'm like, "So what's your name"- obvioulsy I'm coming from a place of relaxation and chinl out like a boss... she opens up and we start talking She's obviously into me.. guys are talking with us but it's very clear that this is My conversation- I'm the alphe here and the guys know it- they don't even try to blow my spot up- they actually are just really nice to me and pump me up... also helps that me and the other dude in their group hit it off immediately- so we already ahve a little bond
Some dude from their group who had been talking to some other girls across the room gets up (he's in their group) and he sits next to the blonde (The girl I think is cute) and I stand up and before I can even say anything or grab her, the cutie immediately says, "Where are you going??' and I tell her, "I'm going to the bar... come with me" and I grab her hand.. she is very receptive and comes.
Haha her drink is actually completely full but she obviously just wanted to come with me... anyway- we sit down on a bench to talk (i don't even go near the bar lol- don't worry about the logic) at this point I see the girl I've been hooking up with and I realzie that if I commit to this cutie- I will fuck things up with her and it's just not worth it so I tell the cutie to hold on for a second and i go and dance with the girl i came with and make out a little... I go back to the bench and obviously the cutie has left... so I chill out with the girl i came with for a bit (she's with her friends- she's chill because she doesn't NEED me around all the time- we both are just social people and talkign to everyone and she doesn't get jealous or wtvr because she's really grounded in HEr own reality which is pretty attractive to me) anyway- after a bit I tell the girl I came with that I'll be back and I go and sit back down next to the blond cute- she's obviously a little pissed... doesn't acknowlledge me at first but I command her attention and grab her hand (she holds it- even though she's not talking to me at first) I tell her I'm with another girl but I want her number so she gives it to me and I head back down to the girl I came with
I'm definitley going to hit up the blonde for a day 2- she was reallll cute and seemed pretty chill..
In the meantime tihs girl who I went on a day 2 with a little bit ago is trying to play games with me and it's funny haha like I sent my good friend a text saying:
Me: " Haha this girl is trying to play games with but she doesn't get it.. YET... I'm not her ex lol. I'm a real man- the kind she hasn't deal with before, way to groudned in my own reality to think anything she says or does is anything but a funny joke- nothing more than a ripple in the ocean of my own existence"
That basically describes how I feel about it- like obviously it gets my attention a little bit but really I just don't care that much... Like I'm going out every night and talking to a lot of girls and getting a lot of attraction- and when this starts to happen... the games some girls try to play just kind of fizzle out and it's as if girls aren't even playing games anymore like their attempts are just kinda cute/funny....
Anyway- I'll be going out again tonight. Post Later
-Keep It Real,
Buddha
i was just chiln out having a good time and we're chiln- her friends are actually hitting on me which is nice but I'm there for her so obviously I'm nice to them, I buy her friend a drink because she looks bored and we shoot the shit- her friends LOVE ME... I obviously didn't buy her a drink as a way of getting her to like me but more just because I wanted to buy her a drink
Anyway- towards the end of the night a ReALLL cutie walks in with a big group and she sits down in the back near where my group is sitting. So I head to the back of the room and sit down next to her and everyone else.. I'm just relaxing, chillin out and one of the guys starts talkin to me and we're shootin the shit- and the girl he's sitting next to (not the one I think is cute) actually leans over and is ilke, "So how long have you guys known each other?" and we both kinda just laugh and we're like, "oh we just met" and the girl goes, "Then WHY are you talking to each other like you've known eachother forever...?" and me and the guy laughs and the guy just goes, "Idk.. cause we're both chill dudes"... and that's that.
the cutie leaves and comes back and I'm sitting in a standard chair with a back to it and I kinda just lean way back and bend my back over it so my face is looking directly up at her and I just smile and I'm like, "So what's your name"- obvioulsy I'm coming from a place of relaxation and chinl out like a boss... she opens up and we start talking She's obviously into me.. guys are talking with us but it's very clear that this is My conversation- I'm the alphe here and the guys know it- they don't even try to blow my spot up- they actually are just really nice to me and pump me up... also helps that me and the other dude in their group hit it off immediately- so we already ahve a little bond
Some dude from their group who had been talking to some other girls across the room gets up (he's in their group) and he sits next to the blonde (The girl I think is cute) and I stand up and before I can even say anything or grab her, the cutie immediately says, "Where are you going??' and I tell her, "I'm going to the bar... come with me" and I grab her hand.. she is very receptive and comes.
Haha her drink is actually completely full but she obviously just wanted to come with me... anyway- we sit down on a bench to talk (i don't even go near the bar lol- don't worry about the logic) at this point I see the girl I've been hooking up with and I realzie that if I commit to this cutie- I will fuck things up with her and it's just not worth it so I tell the cutie to hold on for a second and i go and dance with the girl i came with and make out a little... I go back to the bench and obviously the cutie has left... so I chill out with the girl i came with for a bit (she's with her friends- she's chill because she doesn't NEED me around all the time- we both are just social people and talkign to everyone and she doesn't get jealous or wtvr because she's really grounded in HEr own reality which is pretty attractive to me) anyway- after a bit I tell the girl I came with that I'll be back and I go and sit back down next to the blond cute- she's obviously a little pissed... doesn't acknowlledge me at first but I command her attention and grab her hand (she holds it- even though she's not talking to me at first) I tell her I'm with another girl but I want her number so she gives it to me and I head back down to the girl I came with
I'm definitley going to hit up the blonde for a day 2- she was reallll cute and seemed pretty chill..
In the meantime tihs girl who I went on a day 2 with a little bit ago is trying to play games with me and it's funny haha like I sent my good friend a text saying:
Me: " Haha this girl is trying to play games with but she doesn't get it.. YET... I'm not her ex lol. I'm a real man- the kind she hasn't deal with before, way to groudned in my own reality to think anything she says or does is anything but a funny joke- nothing more than a ripple in the ocean of my own existence"
That basically describes how I feel about it- like obviously it gets my attention a little bit but really I just don't care that much... Like I'm going out every night and talking to a lot of girls and getting a lot of attraction- and when this starts to happen... the games some girls try to play just kind of fizzle out and it's as if girls aren't even playing games anymore like their attempts are just kinda cute/funny....
Anyway- I'll be going out again tonight. Post Later
-Keep It Real,
Buddha
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90 Days Challenge (Currently in the Final Third): "It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great"
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
Easily one of the best active threads on RSDN right now. Highly motivating.
Really enjoying the chill vibe from your last post. Much luck on the journey bro
Really enjoying the chill vibe from your last post. Much luck on the journey bro
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eh - read the entire thread?
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha