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All you had to do waa walk in after her. If she didn't intend that, she would've pushed you out. You were leaving anyway, so what ever happened wouldn't have mattered. Should've tried it.
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I don't know if I have any ground to give you advice, but I would say this:
If your conversation skills sucks, you need to spend those 3 days a week in bars. Not clubs, because people aren't there to have long drawn out conversations. They're there to dance and / or hook-up. In my experience, the annoying part of clubs is that it seems like you have to talk in interesting soundbites in the beginning to grab her interest. And then LATER you can have a conversation. But I hate clubs, and I'm probably just bad at it.
And not daygame because I suspect most of the time you spend either getting blown out immediately or just wandering around. Of all the time you spend out, the majority of it isn't spent actually talking.
If you go to bars, the girls are there to TALK, and are in a talkative mindset. You'll still get blown out some, but the odds of finding girls receptive to talking are way higher than clubs and daygame.
I've been doing mostly bar game for a little over 3 months now and my conversation skills are way better than they used to be. I remember back in April I made a post about 'running out of things to say'. I haven't made a post saying that since. I can pretty regularly have 30 minute to 1 hour+ conversations now, to the point where I'm tired of fucking talking and just having conversations. This is almost entirely thanks to just spending so much time in bars talking to group after group.
Just my suggestion.
If your conversation skills sucks, you need to spend those 3 days a week in bars. Not clubs, because people aren't there to have long drawn out conversations. They're there to dance and / or hook-up. In my experience, the annoying part of clubs is that it seems like you have to talk in interesting soundbites in the beginning to grab her interest. And then LATER you can have a conversation. But I hate clubs, and I'm probably just bad at it.
And not daygame because I suspect most of the time you spend either getting blown out immediately or just wandering around. Of all the time you spend out, the majority of it isn't spent actually talking.
If you go to bars, the girls are there to TALK, and are in a talkative mindset. You'll still get blown out some, but the odds of finding girls receptive to talking are way higher than clubs and daygame.
I've been doing mostly bar game for a little over 3 months now and my conversation skills are way better than they used to be. I remember back in April I made a post about 'running out of things to say'. I haven't made a post saying that since. I can pretty regularly have 30 minute to 1 hour+ conversations now, to the point where I'm tired of fucking talking and just having conversations. This is almost entirely thanks to just spending so much time in bars talking to group after group.
Just my suggestion.
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Go to my blog and read the 'on the inside' post in the right sidebar. Then read everything on my blog after the date of that post. How I felt then wasn't all that different from how you feel now.
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DJMarco
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Join Date: 03/21/2011 | Posts: 441
Do not expect much from me at the moment, coz I am still a fucking newbie with AA.
anyways, I will try to keep this updated all the time.
and you will hear how didn't I approach the cute blondie coz I thought blah, blah , blah, and how my night sucked.
anyway, I am starting now.
Let's see what will happen
Fuck it, let's all stand up
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