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January 20th, 2017
Being Yourself: that's all there is to it, seriously.
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#81

Pistola

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Join Date: 07/12/2008 | Posts: 256

RagingHormones wrote:
There are a lot of things in the community I don't get.   It isn't exclusive to any one particular guru or company.  

There was recently a post by zoom (I think) about how a lot of guys here are really into eastern spirituality. 

I think a lot of guys get too much into that when it has little or nothing to do with getting girls.  Tyler responded to the post and said that he basically agrees with zoom.

Then he said he basically isn't into eastern spirituality as much as people think.  And, that basically he just meditates and that is the only important thing.

So why didn't he just come out from the start and say "guys just meditate" and save everyone a lot of time?  If the rest is not necessary, why even bother?

The only explanation I can come up with is that a lot of guys in the community are self help junkies.  These type of things just lead to way more mental masturbation.

True... I think Tyler said something that was spot on in one of his old speeches. He said something along the lines of "if you havent gotten something its because you havent wanted it enough." I think this is true. I think a burning desire is really important for something. Doesnt matter what it is. If you really want to get in shape youll do it at any cost. You wont just talk about it. Youll do it. If you desire women and sex strongly enough.. youll go for it. If you want a job bad enough... youll go through the necessary things to do it. No amount of talking about something will ever make something happen. Youll find out exactly what you need to do to get there and youll do it. Thats why I say its so important for guys to just go out and talk to girls if thats what they want. They will learn so much more just going out and talking to them that way then being on here or listening to products. They will naturally tell themselves.. damn I should have kissed her then. Next time. Boom the guy didnt need to learn that from a product. He got a real time shift there. Thats the essence of what I think the OP is saying. Going for what you really desire is really being yourself. Otherwise your constantly lying to yourself and surrendering to fear or you just plain dont want it bad enough. I know that stuff is hard for some guys to see or hear. Its the truth though. So what can guys do?? Just start owning their desires and going for what they want? Go at them hard. Go at them hard enough where rejection or failure is irrelevant. Where that stuff isnt even in your vocabulary. To me thats staying true to yourself and staying true to your desires. Whis is what I think the OP was going towards. 
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#82

Victor4real

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Join Date: 07/18/2011 | Posts: 522

progress-now wrote:
Okay, so you argue me because I am wrong.  You're on forums created by a guy named Tyler, and yet you disagree with Tyler who AGREES that my post IS relevant and accurate?  To quote Tyler in regards to my post on being your true self, he said: "Fantastic Post!  Glad to see you GET IT! :)"  Strange...

Am I the only one who thinks its a little out of character for a guy (Victor) who has gotten laid around 300 times to be on these forums getting angry at a bunch of "hopeless chodes"?  Maybe its just me, or maybe Victor's a troll.  Personally, if I'd banged 300 girls, I'd be busy banging girls, not arguing with what must be a bunch of misguided fags on the internet....
Victor4real wrote:
 
"Insecure" ? How fucking old are you anyway, 20? 

So If I make a thread, "you cannot drink water", and people argue with me, they are "insecure" ? 
Fucking retarded argument.


We argue him cause he is WRONG, not just a little bit, but very much fucking wrong and people are reading it trying to understand it. 

Its fucking overcomplicated, you can "make it seem right" if you use circle thinking, you can make ANYTHING sound "correct" if u use that kind of shit, that doesnt mean its logically correct, tho.
Victor wrote: "you better start listening to the guys who actually GETS laid and stop the fucking overcomplication of bullshit "

haha!  overcomplicating?  How is "be yourself" overcomplicating?  Two words...wow, real complex formula I got there.  The only overcomplication is your encyclopedic post on the fundamentals of pick up.
So only cause Tyler agrees with you, you can tap yourself on the shoulder and say "yep Im right.. tyler says so.." ?

Listen, again, I dont give a rats ass what you think of me, about me or whatever crap. If you believe Im some kind of KJ internet troll, YAY for you. Unfortunately, there are tons of people on here who know who I am, some who even know me very personally, there are people on here whom Ive met IRL, I can provide over a thousands of club pictures, over hundred of porno pictures if thats what you want. Only cause u get laid alot doesnt mean you wont spend time on a fucking internet forum, look at Jeffy, 50% of his postings is pure trolling the shit out of you chodes asses, why? cause he is fucking tired of your bullshit, thats why. People who "gets it" just laugh their asses of, jesus fucking christ you are writing 3400000000 word replies trying to justify your post, ure hugely invested into this. U think there are alot of people out there "just fucking all day" ? Not doing other shit with their life?

I offer a no bullshit attitude to pickup, something which IMO is RARE on this board, people all round this community is loling their pants when they talk about "the main forum at rsdnation", and theres a fucking reason why, TOO MUCH fucking bullshit, you are overcomplicating things. "Just be yourself, with that I mean your TRUE self, like a caveman self but... at the same time, you gotta work for your confidence.. I mean... be in the moment.. like read tolle and meditate... but be yourself, but fuck those girls, have a boner, but trancend your ego" you just doesnt make fucking sense, and thats final.
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progress-now

progress-now

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@Victor, nah man, I don't care if Tyler agrees or not.  The point is your on the "RSD" forums, based on Tyler's philosophy of  dating/pick up. I assume you're on these forums cuz you dig RSD principles.  If the founder of RSD comes here and says I'm onto something, what're you so frustrated about?

yeah, Pistola, that's basically my point.  Own your desires, pursue them to the best of your knowledge and experience, fail, learn, succeed, improve.  That's it.  You really don't need mental masterbation on forums for hours, or a bootcamp (though they help significantly, a real jump-start), or all that other stuff.  Action is the only Answer.

yeah, I don't mind victor's input, but everything he says is fused with smug arrogance.  I don't like smug arrogance.  This thread is about 5 posts away from being locked up, just like Victor's thread on "the fundamentals of pick up", which self-destructed due to bickering between Victor and "people who did not show photographic proof" of their skills.

If there's one thing I've learned over the past few months, its that all these "terms" and ideas (including mine on "being yourself") are just vague terms that mean completely different things to different people.  When I say "be yourself", I'm grasping a whole differnt understanding of it, based on my experience and the way my mind works.  When someone else hear "be yourself'", they see something else entirely.  IN THE END, experience is what matters most, taking action and learning things at an intuitive level, not an intellecutal level.
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#84
MonkeyMind

MonkeyMind

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Join Date: 03/04/2011 | Posts: 169

None of you bitches get it........ just watch this vid.

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#85

Victor4real

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 I agree with some of Tylers principles, completely disagree with others, Im on this forum cause all the other forums are invaded with indirect pussys.

So how good are you? How many girls have u banged? How many girls do u fuck every week? What makes you feel entitled to first tell people about your theories, and when they dont agree argue with them? What do you have to back it up?
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MonkeyMind

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Victor4real wrote:
 I agree with some of Tylers principles, completely disagree with others, Im on this forum cause all the other forums are invaded with indirect pussys.

So how good are you? How many girls have u banged? How many girls do u fuck every week? What makes you feel entitled to first tell people about your theories, and when they dont agree argue with them? What do you have to back it up?

Who cares??...  Why does it matter??...  Why is your sense of self wrapped up in these posts??
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#87

RagingHormones

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Join Date: 07/27/2011 | Posts: 280

MonkeyMind wrote:
None of you bitches get it........ just watch this vid.

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I saw the first few seconds of it then stopped, the guy comes across as a total faggot.
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#88
progress-now

progress-now

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 lol, there you go again, DEMANDING proof of people's skills.  Don't take my word for it, take Tyler's experience and his agreement with my post as validation of the credibility of what I'm saying.  If Tyler gets laid like a rockstar and agrees with what I said, who cares about MY credentials? Then you wonder why I call you a troll.  I'm done wasting time quarreling with you.
Victor4real wrote:
 I agree with some of Tylers principles, completely disagree with others, Im on this forum cause all the other forums are invaded with indirect pussys.

So how good are you? How many girls have u banged? How many girls do u fuck every week? What makes you feel entitled to first tell people about your theories, and when they dont agree argue with them? What do you have to back it up?
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#89

Victor4real

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MonkeyMind wrote:



Victor4real wrote:
 I agree with some of Tylers principles, completely disagree with others, Im on this forum cause all the other forums are invaded with indirect pussys.

So how good are you? How many girls have u banged? How many girls do u fuck every week? What makes you feel entitled to first tell people about your theories, and when they dont agree argue with them? What do you have to back it up?

Who cares??...  Why does it matter??...  Why is your sense of self wrapped up in these posts??
"My sense of self" ? wtf! well thats enough, Im off this shitty topic, have fun mental masturbatiors
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#90

RagingHormones

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Join Date: 07/27/2011 | Posts: 280

Sense of self LOL.
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