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#41
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1. assuming attraction. girl is equal with me. and that working as a pygmalian affect becoming a self fulfilling prophecy
2. understanding that the self [=yellow]is always coming thru. if you are in alignment, with yourself, and you know that you are fully living your own values and living your own standards, you "walk thru the world with ease" and even if you say all the wrong stuff, and break the rules, it doesn't change the fact that you are a cool guy, and that is what comes thru, not the surface level stuff. make sense? 

THE INTERNAL ALWAYS OUTFRAMES THE EXTERNAL (i'm coining is phrase)

so, even somebody who is running off of a rutine stack, its not the stack that will get you the success. it's the person behind it. so, you can use it, but it won't work very well until you internalize it and it becomes who you are. because the self is always coming thru. and the weaponry is only as powerful as the one behind it. you can use it, and generate attraction thru botton pushing, and entertainment, but it's fleeting because it's just a matter of time before your internal reality of insecurity or neediness shines thru and outframes the attraction you just produced. if your goal, is to get laid, and not just be some entertainer chode, you need to have your internals dialed. then you can just focus on things like leading, plowing, logistics, and so forth and just trust that your authentic self is enough, and that people can see your best self shining thru. then, when you get to this point, you start to take out alot of the game that you have been using, because it just becomes unnecisary 
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Instant sub- communications that convey that YOU are the high value MAN TO FUCK

a sexy girl walks by and you don't 'wait for her to go a few yards and check out her ass'
then, when an even more attractive girl observs this, the instantly understands that you are different and must be getting sex from other even more attractive girls than that one because you didn't check her out like ALL THE OTHER GUYS, and therefore she sees you as high value and thus will feel more attracted to you than if you D=did decide to oggle her and eye her

you with her and there is some sort of distracting nonsence or drama going on in the enviroment, and you remain remain relaxed and unreactive and keep on doing whatever it is you are doing
this communicates that you value what you are saying doing, and focusing on more than anything else, and that you see yourself as the center of your own world and will not be coerced into anything else

you say things like, "every guy gets laid"  and communicate that 'in your reality YOU GET LAID A LOT' and therefore you assume that every other guy does too
yes, she will instantly pick up on this and think that you have always been getting laid like a rockstar, are high value as fuck, and hop on and ride

you do not bash other people, and only see the positive in them
this communicates a very pure self esteem that is very magnetic to people because they feel that you are un judgemental and they feel that they casn just "be themselves around you" IE fuck you on the first date




you know how you view someone who drives a car as being bette off than you when you are in a period of having to take the bus?

you know how you view a guy who know how to do all this super nerd computer shit when you know nothing about it?
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#43
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 the fastest way to become confident with approaching women and dating multiple girls at a time

1. see yourself as the center and most important part of your world. 
this does not mean being a dickhead. it simply means that you are not the average nice guy that just wanders around life looking for people and situations in life to validate his own sense of greatness and importance.

2. have some sort greater vision for your life that is so tasty to you that it drives you and pulls you to be the best you can be, and put your foot down when it comes the negativity that most men welcome into their own lives through treatijng their body like a trash can, accepting second rate behavior from people, and blindly accepting social "norms" like watching 3+ hour of television a day. good grief! this sets you apart from allll the other guys she meets , makes you more attractive in her eyes, and changes you own self image and allows you to see yourself as, and be proud of the fact that you have high standards that you are absolutely aligned with and living out on a daily basis

3. have 3-5 daily habits in your life that automaticly create abundance and success for you like, working out HARD, meditating for 20 minutes+, and going out and approaching LOTS of hot girls, no matter what your emotions are telling you

4. seek out books that expand you as a person, and INSPIRE you, and pump you full of positive examples of what human beings are truly cqapable of when going after what it is they want out of life

5. let go of using the pickup lines, techniques, and routines and just push yourself to say what arises from you spontaneously like when you are talking face to face with your very best friend in the world. why? because who you are trying to come across as externally will always be overpowered and outframed by who you are internally. so, even somebody who is running off of a rutine stack, its not the stack that will get you the success. it's the person behind it. so, you can use it, but it won't work very well until you internalize it and it becomes who you are. because the self is always coming thru. and the weaponry is only as powerful as the one behind it. you can use it, and generate attraction thru botton pushing, and entertainment, but it's fleeting because it's just a matter of time before your internal reality of insecurity or neediness shines thru and outframes the attraction you just produced. if your goal, is to get laid, and not just be some entertainer chode, you need to have your internals dialed. then you can just focus on things like leading, plowing, logistics, and so forth (like i talk show you in my blog) and just trust that your authentic self is enough, and that people can see your best self shining thru. then, when you get to this point, you start to take out alot of the game that you have been using, because it just becomes unnecisary 
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#44
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it is very true that the dogs of doom stand at the doors of destiny. you aproach the goal or dream or whatever it is, because you have made a decision to got get it, then, as you get closer to it, the dogs start barking. 

what is even more true, is in pickup, whats guarding the door is not dogs. you get to the door, and its YOU. it's you standing there. the part of you that you don't like. 

see, there is no one stopping you from walking thru that door and into your destiny. 

just you.

have the courage to stand face to face with the part of you that you don't like. and nurture him back to strong health. 

only then, will the door be open for you to walk thru, and into your destiny
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An Approach That's Worked Well For Me

so.. i'd say, of the 5 or 6 times i've tried this, it's gone really well. and i'm writing this so to ingrain it into myself. and then i'll just do this every session.

1. first, i SEE a blueprint. my blueprint girl. dark hair, tan, dressed well, cool rock n roll style with a few tats. what many people would call "emo".

2. FEEL attraction. physically in my body. thought process is like "mmmm girl good, want, girl." and my before i know whats going on, i am walking over, or reaching to claw her into my reality.

3. i say something like, "hey, i just thought you were cute, and wanted to meet you, i'm JACKSON" (in a between NR and almost SR, so i don't intimidate the SHIT out of her) being very relaxed and non-chalant.
like, "of course i just did that, in my reality this is how i do things."

4. she responds, usually wide eyed and a little shy, and i go right into "are you's"
- are you fun? cuz i don't hang out with people who aren't fun - do you like music? what kind?

5. then, i reward her for qualifying herself to me, by qualifying her on her style. for example i'll say "I really like the way your dressed. like, your style, is really cool, most girls i see out here dress like X, and you are pretty Y."

6. then i fluff talk about whatever is on my mind, for example i might be like, "yeah, i love it here, me and my friends always come here on thursdays, blah blah blah." and then she will keep it going by fluff talking

7. i'll playfully touch her a bit throughout, and then lay off,

8. then i get her number, HUG, and then take off with my friends

in reading this, it actually seems a little weird to me. but i've had success with this. i think what i should do from there is try to talk to her group a bit more, and merge social groups a bit', and go for the venue change before the number. hhmmm, something to think about..
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OLD LAY REPORT (FROM 2009)

*update* (don't use push-pull, its for fags and try-hards and people with no polarity who have to putton push their way thru life)
I posted this on the seattle lair the other day.  Here's a FR that is...fucking awesome to say the least. This was my first lay from after getting into all this. Pulled it from the old forum. It was written a few months ago.

Well here we go. I was going to go with a friend to party in pioneer square around ten thirty. started getting restless around nine thirty so i drove down to capitol hill and called him from a payphone. we dicided to meet in front of cafe vita. i go in the the cafe, chat with the barista for a sec about club havana and why it sucks an d then proceeded to put six bags of sugar into my tall cup of drip coffee. i stand outside of the cafe and just started warming up because i knew i was about to be inside the comet and i remembered how last time i felt all awkward and anti social. open a moving 3 set. 

i see this chick walking past me i say hi and she keeps walking like she didn't hear me. i see a 2 set walking towards me and i realize its this girl from my school! i've never talked to her before, i've maybe seen her two or three times and i'm like "hey you go to my school" and we chat for a sec. i introduce myself to her friend. this guy is like super cool and obviously gay. wow this is going really well. she asks if i want to join them because they are just on the way to moes bar. cool but i can only stay for a sec cuz i have to meet my friend on the street. 

we get in the bar, talk about school. she asks me what i like to drink, buys me a shot. "heres to my new friends." she starts dancing in front of me like she's trying to turn me on, i get her on my lap, "you can stay if your a good girl." telling her funny stories and making her laugh. call my friend from her phone. ten minutes later he's in the bar with us. we bounce to a different bar. bartender gives us free drinks. 

get her back on my lap. tell her about when me and my x saw this old lady get run over by a SUV in front of the Broadway Starbucks. she goes to the bathroom. i talk to friend. then i see her writing down her number on a napkin at the bar and give it to the bartender. i act like i didn't see it. 

me, my friend, and her friend are sitting on the couches. i realize that i left my debit card at moes. me and my friend walk over there and on the way run into and old friend from middle school. get her number get my card. go back to bar. tell the cutie that were gonna split in a bit because our friend liz from back in the day is in town and wants to meet at the redwood. she's like "noooo stay with me." hmmmm what do i do. there is compelling evidence that i might get laid tonight if i stay. but i want to see my friend liz. 

more drinks. i stay. my friend leaves, and we move to a different bar. more drinks. make out on the street. "that's all you get" haha. gay friend starts seriously trying to block. she's like whatever to the friend. im like "lets go pass out at your place, i can't drive home." gay friend says something like "god, you just want to fuck her." i am un affected "come on lets go i want to pass out" so we grab a cab. gay friend is coming too. we are in the back of the cab making out and i start pulling her hair and fuckin grabbing her by the throat and shit. we get to her place. she is in the middle of moving in so there is shit everywhere and boxes all over the place. gay friend goes in the back bedroom. 

we lay on top of some blankets next to a futon. gay friend comes out and is like "oh my god its too cold back there", and lays next to us on the futon. FUCK!!! he knows exactly what he's doing. this mother fucker. about two minutes go by. i whisper in her ear "come on, let's go in the bedroom." i don't wait for an answer i just stand up, pull her up, and lead her by the hand into the bedroom where there are stacks and stacks of boxes and a bare mattress on the ground. PERFECT. 

first success in the field. first success with girl that wasn't met thru social circle. i don't know if you would call this warm or cold approach. 

i don't know what to do from here. when i see her at school, i'm thinking i should try to gain some real rapor with her. because all we did that night was just playful shit. because i would like to go out again. maybe she feels awkward about it and will feel uncomfortable if i try to hang out again with her without us having like, a real conversation. or, maybe if i try to take it to a rapor level, she'll just get turned off because i'm one night stand guy from the weekend. maybe i should just keep being playful and push pull. i dunno. does anyone have advice for a situation like this? -jackson

Haha ignore that last part. Late.
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OLD LAY REPORT (2010)

so. around a month ago i did an approach at the gym. walked up to this girl and was like "hey i just thought you were cute and wanted to meet you, i'm jackson" and talked to this girl for about 3 minutes. later, she comes back over and her twin sister follows her. we chat it up for about 10 mins and i'm like "i like your sister are you cool with that? to the one i didn't approach. and she was like 'yeah that's cool. 

so they go to the locker room to get changed and i told them i'd wait for them in front to get their number. they come out and the girl is like, "yeah i have a boyfriend, da da da", and was shit testing me a bit. i think i failed. but the sister is like, "i;ll just write down MY number" and then like the wind they were off.

i dissreguarded the number as pointless, but gave myself props for going for it. i felt good.

FRIDAY
so like a month goes by, and i see that number taped to the inside of my notebook. i was actually looking for a diffrent number. but i call that one.
this girl picks up "is this _??" yeah she sez. "this is jackson, that crazy guy who..." and she cuts me off "OH HEYYY!!" 

she was super stoked to talk to me. i just talked to her like i would to a friend i hadn't spoken to in a while. after i hang up i just think "wow, thats awesome"

later that night she texts me "i can't believe i forgot to mention it, but we are having a party tomorrow night at our house"
i text her that i wanted to go, and asked if i could bring friends, she says yes. awesome

SATURDAY
so the next day i call her again just to shoot the shit and vibe for a minute or two, she after a few minutes is like, "i have to get off the phone so i can take a nap" 

so then it felt a little like, that was an IOD and it made me wonder for a minute.

that night, the guys i were going to go to the party with ended up not able to make it. i was considering just bailing myself. i thought that i would look lame showing up alone. but i was like fuck it time to stretch, time to grow, and i went alone

i showed up, and in the front lawn immediately is someone i know from school.

the 2 sisters see me thru the window and come out .
w go back inside and there are like, 5 girls and maybe 4 guys. i take 2 shots with the girl i was talking on the phone to. she walks over to to where i am, standing in the kitchen by the fridge. she starts asking me all this stuff

"what have you been up to? areyou still going to the gym?ect...

her sister come over and were just vibing for a minute, and we start talking about how we met. the one with a boyfriend is like " yeah, after i met you i was talking to my sister and i was like "this guy was talking to me...he like..APPROACHED me!" "we were like," that takes SERIOUS BALLS" saying this as they are looking at each other smiling.

the one o like and i walk into the living room. these 2 drunk guys come over to us and try to take over. i just casually talk to them. after about 2 minutes they leave.

the she asks me "do you want to see my room?" (lol)

i follow her to her room, sit on her bed and we say like a sentence each, and then she just turns off the light and says "ok" in the tonality of "ok, its time to have sex" and pushes me backwards and gets on top of me. we make out. then we meve further onto the bed and rip ourclothes off.
i put a condom on and we start doin it. then she stops me, and shes like, trying to verbally rationalize whats going on. saying "WAIT. I NEVER DO THIS, THIS FAST, BUT WERE BOTH YOUNG, AND ARE JUST HAVING FUN." I'm like, yeah, exactly" and we get back into it. then she says "WAIT. everyone out there knowswhat were doing. i feel weird, i never do this, this fast." 

and i could tell she was being real. but i just wanted to keep going. so, we kept going and like five mins later she says that again. i'm like "ok, lets stop. i dont want you to feel uncomfortable." and we stop. then we put our clothes on. 

i'm like "let's go hang out in the living room." and she's like, "no, i dont want to go out there." so i take her out to my car so i can grab my portfolio/picture album. we walk thru the hall, half the people in the living room stop talking and look at us. we keep walking. we are on a serious emotional high. we talk about some funny shit outside, and i make her try on my lether jacket that was laying on my seat. then we go back into the house, walking straight to her room. we sit on her bed. i show her pictures of my friends, and of me when i was super skinny. she tells me all this personal stuff about her family.

her sister half hour later comes in the room and is like "we can't find jeff. he got all depressed and then said he was going for a walk. that was like an hour ago. he won't pick up his phone and nobody can find him." she kinda laughs and is like "so..let him do his thing." the sister leaves and then she explains to me that jeff, one of the guys that was trying to take over in the living room, has a huge crush on her, and how she's known him sinse highschool, but doesn't like him, and has even told him that, but he won't take a hint." i offer to give him the hint for her, and or, beat his ass." lol. we giggle a bit. 

for the next hour we lay on her bed, her head on my chest, me showing her cool bands on youtube, and vice versa. 

we keep talking like we're already boyfriend and girlfriend. like "we have to go to X, have you ever been to X? we should go down to X and do X." we turn off the light. i'm dead tired. she keeps kissing me. i'll be drifting off, then she'll kiss me, and we'll start talking again. this goes on for like an hour. talking and kissing in the dark. feeling the snuggles. i fall asleep in a warm bubble of love.

i wake up. and she starts talking to me. i'm half asleep. close my eyes and sleep for an hour. wake up, and she's like "so, did we have sex last night?" but theres no way that she could have been drunk enough to not remember. it was really weird. i just got the vibe from her that she felt uncomfortable. her friends were still around. she says "do you want me to walk you to your car?" sure, i say. then we hug, and i'm like "do you feel awkward?" she's like "no" and then i open my car door, and say "i'll call you." as she walks away.

so WTF i don't understand. i send her a text like 4 hours later. she gives me this weak response. and then i tease her playfully, and she doesn't text me back. that was sunday. so. i dunno. 
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#48
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3 Quick Fixes To Instantly Reduce Fear Of The Approach


-----------------------Step One-------------------------


Eliminate or dramatically reduce your intake of caffeine


Yes it’s obvious and I’m sure it has already crossed your mind but are you actually DOING it? Caffeine without a doubt, has been scientifically proven to make you produce more adrenaline and raise your blood pressure. Lower your caffeine and you INSTANTLY lower the overall level of anxiety and fear that you experience on a daily basis.


-----------------------Step Two-------------------------


Illiminate or dramaticly reduce your intake of ASPIRTAME.


What is aspirtame? It’s an artificial sweetener found in things like spl*nda and diet soda’s. I’m just gonna tell you point blank period because no one else is gonna, ASPARTAME IS A VERY DANGEROUS TOXIN AND CHANCES ARE YOU ARE CONSUMING IT BLINDLY. Go do even just a few minutes to find out about aspartame and you will be horrified. It is absolutely polluting your ability to think correctly and experience a health nervous system or even feel “Normal” because it’s clogging up your brains neural pathways with grotesque toxic waste.


-----------------------Step Three-------------------------


Take A B-Vitamin Supplement 


Most human beings on the planet today are greatly deficient in vitamin b. B-vitamins are essential to keeping stress down, and thinking clearly, and promoting overall mental and emotional health. Go to Radiantlightnutrition.com for the best on the market. I take their "Max Stress B" supplement every day, and have for some time now. But whatever you do, make sure you avoid the kind that they sell at many grocery stores, and health stores. Almost all are scientifically manufactured in a laboratory, and are not nearly as effective as something that is gathered from all natural sources.
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 New Video Blog- 

Quick Morning Success Ritual

http://youtu.be/AlbFUfGXDnA
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New Video Blog "How To Stop Negative Thoughts"
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