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I noticed you were reaction seeking a lot...you keep saying shit like the girl wasn't too into it and it went nowhere and I left or she left...no, fuck that..you shouldn't care about here reaction and think shes not into you..keep plowing untill she threatens to call the bouncer or physically attack you ..I think you're trying to have good interactions and look for good interactions with these girls man.
I don't see why your interactions aren't going anywhere. You have to lead them somewhere, in a sexual direction. Go in and step hard to the girl. If you step hard and take up her space and maintain strong intent for the first minute or so she will either stay or run the fuck away. She will either like you or hate you..you're trying to be in the middle I think. If you're 5 minutes in try making out with her by that point. If she stays keep going for the makeout every minute or so untill she leavese. I think you're focused on smaller aspects of the pull like moving them around and shit like that. Just focus on fucking pulling ...practice pulling your dick out and looking for dark corners...i swear this one advice alone that i gave to koolaid started getting him laid a lot and it's what helped me the most..
why the fuck are you playing games with your wing man where you have to be in for 30 mintues ,etc....dude when I'm in full beast mode I fucking ditch my wings to fucking pull ..stop this bullshit ...if you don't even have enough motivation to be in set the whole time you are out then you probably wont get laid that night anyway.
dude you had so many opportunities to escalate where you didn't..when the stunner put her hand near your balls you shuda pulled your dick out and make her jerk you off...or .like on the dancefloor when you were dancing you should have pulled one of the girls away and started fingering her and pull...or when the girl who was grinding on you and asked if you could fuck all 11 girls you should have madeout with her then grabbed her hand and not let her go to her friends and leave you...
I bet you anything that every other person on this forum who is good will agree with most of the things I just said. I know i seem angry but its cuz I spent a lot of time making these mistakes so it pisses me off to see them I guess..
You only have one sticking point: Approach and try to pull every set untill you are physically forced to leave them alone or threatened. You can either do this for a week and make quantum leaps and get laid like crazy or you can spend years on the forums analyzing bullshit field reports of sets going nowhere..
I don't see why your interactions aren't going anywhere. You have to lead them somewhere, in a sexual direction. Go in and step hard to the girl. If you step hard and take up her space and maintain strong intent for the first minute or so she will either stay or run the fuck away. She will either like you or hate you..you're trying to be in the middle I think. If you're 5 minutes in try making out with her by that point. If she stays keep going for the makeout every minute or so untill she leavese. I think you're focused on smaller aspects of the pull like moving them around and shit like that. Just focus on fucking pulling ...practice pulling your dick out and looking for dark corners...i swear this one advice alone that i gave to koolaid started getting him laid a lot and it's what helped me the most..
why the fuck are you playing games with your wing man where you have to be in for 30 mintues ,etc....dude when I'm in full beast mode I fucking ditch my wings to fucking pull ..stop this bullshit ...if you don't even have enough motivation to be in set the whole time you are out then you probably wont get laid that night anyway.
dude you had so many opportunities to escalate where you didn't..when the stunner put her hand near your balls you shuda pulled your dick out and make her jerk you off...or .like on the dancefloor when you were dancing you should have pulled one of the girls away and started fingering her and pull...or when the girl who was grinding on you and asked if you could fuck all 11 girls you should have madeout with her then grabbed her hand and not let her go to her friends and leave you...
I bet you anything that every other person on this forum who is good will agree with most of the things I just said. I know i seem angry but its cuz I spent a lot of time making these mistakes so it pisses me off to see them I guess..
You only have one sticking point: Approach and try to pull every set untill you are physically forced to leave them alone or threatened. You can either do this for a week and make quantum leaps and get laid like crazy or you can spend years on the forums analyzing bullshit field reports of sets going nowhere..
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Did you #close them?
I have a feeling you are not.
I know you are virgin and trying to get laid and shit.... but # doesn't hurt/.... you should have at least setup a d2
Did you #close them?
I have a feeling you are not.
I know you are virgin and trying to get laid and shit.... but # doesn't hurt/.... you should have at least setup a d2
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@Bruce: ya your right, its something that has been a bit of a paradox for many guys in this position because they DONT realize how far they could push it. But your right I could have been even more aggressive. And for the record the game we played was my wings idea and im never doing that shit again, messed me up. I didn't realize that would slow down my beast mode at the time, lesson learned.
@DJMarco: I # close occasionally but i'll admit it something i just sort of forget to do because im so in the moment usually. I should do it more often though
anyways back to the show....
7/18/11
Tonight I took my biggest leap forward ever. I got my dick sucked.
It was an okc date. She was pretty hot, blonde and tight bodied and tan. She works out a lot. I met her at her place since she lived near the woods. She was pretty chill right off the bat. Right away we have pretty good banter back and forth. We hop in the car and head down to a bar down the street. She gives me some playful shit tests but I just roll with the punches. We get to the bar and its pretty cool inside. We grab a seat at the bar and she suggests some good beers. We get to talking and it goes well for the whole time, the conversation gradually escalating in terms of content. I don’t remember what was said but I get her laughing very genuinely and after that it just seemed “on”. It was a very subtle shift in the energy but we got closer and were touching more after that. We go outside and share a smoke, talking about past experiences. It may sound cheesy but it felt very romantic, there was a vibe in the air. We go back in and sit at our seats, we get closer, my arm around her. She leans and puts her hand on my leg rubbing it. Sexual tension was rising a ton, what was cool was that I felt so relaxed. Not an once of nervousness unlike past situations. She I guess couldn’t take it anymore and leaned in very close. We kiss. We chill at the bar a little more and finish our drinks, pay and leave. When we’re outside I suggest we go for a walk, she tells me there is a park nearby. We go walking arms around each other, its also dark outside now. Turns out the park is actually a skate park. Its empty, we sit on the top of a step. Insta makeout. We lay they there making out her on top, I guide her hand to my cock. As she rubbing it I undo my pants and whip it out. She goes to suck it and as I just lay down looking at the stars. I then pull out her tits and start sucking on them. I try fingering her but she doesn’t ever let me put my hand down her pants. I was trying to fuck her right then and there but it’s a no go. (or maybe it was I just didn’t know) Either way we finish up and head back to the car, makeout many times on the way and outside her house (she unfortunately lived with parents and had to wake up early). She definitely wants to see me again and doesn’t live far away so I’m pretty certain I’m fucking this girl. I drop her off and drive home into the night feeling awesome.
@DJMarco: I # close occasionally but i'll admit it something i just sort of forget to do because im so in the moment usually. I should do it more often though
anyways back to the show....
7/18/11
Tonight I took my biggest leap forward ever. I got my dick sucked.
It was an okc date. She was pretty hot, blonde and tight bodied and tan. She works out a lot. I met her at her place since she lived near the woods. She was pretty chill right off the bat. Right away we have pretty good banter back and forth. We hop in the car and head down to a bar down the street. She gives me some playful shit tests but I just roll with the punches. We get to the bar and its pretty cool inside. We grab a seat at the bar and she suggests some good beers. We get to talking and it goes well for the whole time, the conversation gradually escalating in terms of content. I don’t remember what was said but I get her laughing very genuinely and after that it just seemed “on”. It was a very subtle shift in the energy but we got closer and were touching more after that. We go outside and share a smoke, talking about past experiences. It may sound cheesy but it felt very romantic, there was a vibe in the air. We go back in and sit at our seats, we get closer, my arm around her. She leans and puts her hand on my leg rubbing it. Sexual tension was rising a ton, what was cool was that I felt so relaxed. Not an once of nervousness unlike past situations. She I guess couldn’t take it anymore and leaned in very close. We kiss. We chill at the bar a little more and finish our drinks, pay and leave. When we’re outside I suggest we go for a walk, she tells me there is a park nearby. We go walking arms around each other, its also dark outside now. Turns out the park is actually a skate park. Its empty, we sit on the top of a step. Insta makeout. We lay they there making out her on top, I guide her hand to my cock. As she rubbing it I undo my pants and whip it out. She goes to suck it and as I just lay down looking at the stars. I then pull out her tits and start sucking on them. I try fingering her but she doesn’t ever let me put my hand down her pants. I was trying to fuck her right then and there but it’s a no go. (or maybe it was I just didn’t know) Either way we finish up and head back to the car, makeout many times on the way and outside her house (she unfortunately lived with parents and had to wake up early). She definitely wants to see me again and doesn’t live far away so I’m pretty certain I’m fucking this girl. I drop her off and drive home into the night feeling awesome.
I see moments of leading. You need to make sure you are the one making her react. It's cool she is saying no to you but that doesn't mean no forever just no at that moment.. The more you get comfortable in that situation the more you see what that means.
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Ozzie - July '09 - London - Destroy your social self and become you.
"In those moments that most people say I can't, most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie
"i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee
If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek
"I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." -
"While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
Awesome man.
When you are relaxed this is where the magic happens. No neediness, no anxiety...just being yourself.
Also a virgin...lately fingered a girl and got a handjob with no happy end. Haven´t even kissed her yet.
What i learned is that you´re gonna get resistance...If it´s with a smile then just keep going. If that´s an angry "no" then it´s no go.
I am not really a fan of leading over the top when you are in a public place...Saying you should always lead...some guys go over the top and it seems try hard.
Where you wanna lead like a muthafucka is when you guys are alone. Manhandling. She´s usually gonna give resistance, just don´t react, ignore it and keep going.
ChinaBoy
When you are relaxed this is where the magic happens. No neediness, no anxiety...just being yourself.
Also a virgin...lately fingered a girl and got a handjob with no happy end. Haven´t even kissed her yet.
What i learned is that you´re gonna get resistance...If it´s with a smile then just keep going. If that´s an angry "no" then it´s no go.
I am not really a fan of leading over the top when you are in a public place...Saying you should always lead...some guys go over the top and it seems try hard.
Where you wanna lead like a muthafucka is when you guys are alone. Manhandling. She´s usually gonna give resistance, just don´t react, ignore it and keep going.
ChinaBoy
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@Bruce: ya your right, its something that has been a bit of a paradox for many guys in this position because they DONT realize how far they could push it. But your right I could have been even more aggressive. And for the record the game we played was my wings idea and im never doing that shit again, messed me up. I didn't realize that would slow down my beast mode at the time, lesson learned.
@DJMarco: I # close occasionally but i'll admit it something i just sort of forget to do because im so in the moment usually. I should do it more often though
anyways back to the show....
7/18/11
Tonight I took my biggest leap forward ever. I got my dick sucked.
It was an okc date. She was pretty hot, blonde and tight bodied and tan. She works out a lot. I met her at her place since she lived near the woods. She was pretty chill right off the bat. Right away we have pretty good banter back and forth. We hop in the car and head down to a bar down the street. She gives me some playful shit tests but I just roll with the punches. We get to the bar and its pretty cool inside. We grab a seat at the bar and she suggests some good beers. We get to talking and it goes well for the whole time, the conversation gradually escalating in terms of content. I don’t remember what was said but I get her laughing very genuinely and after that it just seemed “on”. It was a very subtle shift in the energy but we got closer and were touching more after that. We go outside and share a smoke, talking about past experiences. It may sound cheesy but it felt very romantic, there was a vibe in the air. We go back in and sit at our seats, we get closer, my arm around her. She leans and puts her hand on my leg rubbing it. Sexual tension was rising a ton, what was cool was that I felt so relaxed. Not an once of nervousness unlike past situations. She I guess couldn’t take it anymore and leaned in very close. We kiss. We chill at the bar a little more and finish our drinks, pay and leave. When we’re outside I suggest we go for a walk, she tells me there is a park nearby. We go walking arms around each other, its also dark outside now. Turns out the park is actually a skate park. Its empty, we sit on the top of a step. Insta makeout. We lay they there making out her on top, I guide her hand to my cock. As she rubbing it I undo my pants and whip it out. She goes to suck it and as I just lay down looking at the stars. I then pull out her tits and start sucking on them. I try fingering her but she doesn’t ever let me put my hand down her pants. I was trying to fuck her right then and there but it’s a no go. (or maybe it was I just didn’t know) Either way we finish up and head back to the car, makeout many times on the way and outside her house (she unfortunately lived with parents and had to wake up early). She definitely wants to see me again and doesn’t live far away so I’m pretty certain I’m fucking this girl. I drop her off and drive home into the night feeling awesome.
@DJMarco: I # close occasionally but i'll admit it something i just sort of forget to do because im so in the moment usually. I should do it more often though
anyways back to the show....
7/18/11
Tonight I took my biggest leap forward ever. I got my dick sucked.
It was an okc date. She was pretty hot, blonde and tight bodied and tan. She works out a lot. I met her at her place since she lived near the woods. She was pretty chill right off the bat. Right away we have pretty good banter back and forth. We hop in the car and head down to a bar down the street. She gives me some playful shit tests but I just roll with the punches. We get to the bar and its pretty cool inside. We grab a seat at the bar and she suggests some good beers. We get to talking and it goes well for the whole time, the conversation gradually escalating in terms of content. I don’t remember what was said but I get her laughing very genuinely and after that it just seemed “on”. It was a very subtle shift in the energy but we got closer and were touching more after that. We go outside and share a smoke, talking about past experiences. It may sound cheesy but it felt very romantic, there was a vibe in the air. We go back in and sit at our seats, we get closer, my arm around her. She leans and puts her hand on my leg rubbing it. Sexual tension was rising a ton, what was cool was that I felt so relaxed. Not an once of nervousness unlike past situations. She I guess couldn’t take it anymore and leaned in very close. We kiss. We chill at the bar a little more and finish our drinks, pay and leave. When we’re outside I suggest we go for a walk, she tells me there is a park nearby. We go walking arms around each other, its also dark outside now. Turns out the park is actually a skate park. Its empty, we sit on the top of a step. Insta makeout. We lay they there making out her on top, I guide her hand to my cock. As she rubbing it I undo my pants and whip it out. She goes to suck it and as I just lay down looking at the stars. I then pull out her tits and start sucking on them. I try fingering her but she doesn’t ever let me put my hand down her pants. I was trying to fuck her right then and there but it’s a no go. (or maybe it was I just didn’t know) Either way we finish up and head back to the car, makeout many times on the way and outside her house (she unfortunately lived with parents and had to wake up early). She definitely wants to see me again and doesn’t live far away so I’m pretty certain I’m fucking this girl. I drop her off and drive home into the night feeling awesome.
You earned that. Good shit man.
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Action,
I would like to know more details about how you open sets like the bachelorette parties if you wouldnt mind. It seems like they either love you or you get blown out, which is what I'm going for, don't want to beat around the bush anymore. I'm getting the impression that you open imediately physical? hugs and maybe some other stuff? any specific things you say? I feel like if i can just open strong enough I should be able to "keep the plates spinning." Opening is really half the battle for me.
I would like to know more details about how you open sets like the bachelorette parties if you wouldnt mind. It seems like they either love you or you get blown out, which is what I'm going for, don't want to beat around the bush anymore. I'm getting the impression that you open imediately physical? hugs and maybe some other stuff? any specific things you say? I feel like if i can just open strong enough I should be able to "keep the plates spinning." Opening is really half the battle for me.
Thanks guys. Looking forward to more bj's in skateparks.
7/19/11
...I did not open well at all tonight. Haven't had a night of blowouts like this in I can't even remember. My friend told me about a cool 18+ social night at a rock club that happen on tuesdays which is cool since i've never found a good tuesday spot. I get there a few minutes before my friend and am completely thrown off by the venue. Literally everyone at this place looked 14 years old and dressed way different than I am all with their hs social circles it seemed. My friend arrives and as we enter I realize this event is actually a weekly hardcore dubstep venue. If you have seen that episode of South Park where Stan hates dubstep and can't connect to his friends anymore that is exactly how I felt. I have never had the feeling of feeling too old but I was pretty close in this place. I was so not dressed for the occasion either as I had my nice shoes on and cool jeans and a stylish shirt on, and everyone was dressed "dubstepy" like glow in the dark shit, tanktops, shorts, bikini, shirts off, baseball caps etc. This all put in my head a bit as I was not mentally prepared for any of this. I had to get acclimated to the venue so I went in the middle of the dancefloor surrounded by sweaty teeneagers grinding each other. Iol I totally felt like that older guy trying to be hip as I try and get into a rhythm with the music. I can't really because dubstep was never my thing but I give it an effort. Also this venue closes about 2 hours earlier than what I am used to so we have way less time to make something happen. I go back to my friend and start approaching. Blowout fucking city. Maybe its because these girls aren't used to being cold-approached, maybe its because I wasn't "with it", maybe it was too fucking loud, or maybe everyone was just on ecstasy but I could get no interaction going for longer than 10 seconds. I watched some other guys at the venue trying to game but even they were getting the same reactions. Endless blank stares and nods and walking off. Girls would barely even verbally respond. However it seemed that if you did get a girl into you, not only was it on, it was mega on. Haven't seen this many dance floor makeouts in one area. I did what I could in perhaps the hottest (temperature wise) and sweatiest venue i'll ever go to in my life. I was drenched in sweat by the end. Not the best of times but at least I got to see many half naked barely legal chicks. I signed up for a free pass for next week so i'm going to give this venue a couple more tries. i'll be more ready the next time hopefully.
Action,
I would like to know more details about how you open sets like the bachelorette parties if you wouldnt mind. It seems like they either love you or you get blown out, which is what I'm going for, don't want to beat around the bush anymore. I'm getting the impression that you open imediately physical? hugs and maybe some other stuff? any specific things you say? I feel like if i can just open strong enough I should be able to "keep the plates spinning." Opening is really half the battle for me.
Yeah im actually very good at getting the plates to spin super fast in the beginning. My sticking points mainly have to do with after to keep it spinning. I think Bachelorette parties are pretty easy since its the one group that WON'T try and cockblock you right off the bat, they are one of the few groups in the club welcoming the dick as its a final night of being "single" ladies. I didn't write in my FR's but about 2 weeks ago I had another cool experience with a bachelorette party dancing with one in the middle of her group cheering me on. I then flirted with her cute friend a lot. I think you just got to open these sets the same as you should any set, there is no real difference. If I were to give an outer game tip i'd say approach them by making it about the bride. I open by saying things like "OH SHIT Bachelorette party!" to everyone, "Uh oh whos the bride?" to the friends then they get excited and point her out in which case I go up to the bride and get physical with her, the friends never object. Im saying this hard though, strong vocal tonality, good eye contact, cutting space and getting close, bringing a good energy probably while being physical like putting my arm around someone. Once the bride likes you, your "In" with the rest of the group and can become a part of their party if you want and flirt with her other friends. But then there is the other half of the battle after opening which is the rest of the interaction which is a battle i'm still fighting. Speaking of opening well....I would like to know more details about how you open sets like the bachelorette parties if you wouldnt mind. It seems like they either love you or you get blown out, which is what I'm going for, don't want to beat around the bush anymore. I'm getting the impression that you open imediately physical? hugs and maybe some other stuff? any specific things you say? I feel like if i can just open strong enough I should be able to "keep the plates spinning." Opening is really half the battle for me.
7/19/11
...I did not open well at all tonight. Haven't had a night of blowouts like this in I can't even remember. My friend told me about a cool 18+ social night at a rock club that happen on tuesdays which is cool since i've never found a good tuesday spot. I get there a few minutes before my friend and am completely thrown off by the venue. Literally everyone at this place looked 14 years old and dressed way different than I am all with their hs social circles it seemed. My friend arrives and as we enter I realize this event is actually a weekly hardcore dubstep venue. If you have seen that episode of South Park where Stan hates dubstep and can't connect to his friends anymore that is exactly how I felt. I have never had the feeling of feeling too old but I was pretty close in this place. I was so not dressed for the occasion either as I had my nice shoes on and cool jeans and a stylish shirt on, and everyone was dressed "dubstepy" like glow in the dark shit, tanktops, shorts, bikini, shirts off, baseball caps etc. This all put in my head a bit as I was not mentally prepared for any of this. I had to get acclimated to the venue so I went in the middle of the dancefloor surrounded by sweaty teeneagers grinding each other. Iol I totally felt like that older guy trying to be hip as I try and get into a rhythm with the music. I can't really because dubstep was never my thing but I give it an effort. Also this venue closes about 2 hours earlier than what I am used to so we have way less time to make something happen. I go back to my friend and start approaching. Blowout fucking city. Maybe its because these girls aren't used to being cold-approached, maybe its because I wasn't "with it", maybe it was too fucking loud, or maybe everyone was just on ecstasy but I could get no interaction going for longer than 10 seconds. I watched some other guys at the venue trying to game but even they were getting the same reactions. Endless blank stares and nods and walking off. Girls would barely even verbally respond. However it seemed that if you did get a girl into you, not only was it on, it was mega on. Haven't seen this many dance floor makeouts in one area. I did what I could in perhaps the hottest (temperature wise) and sweatiest venue i'll ever go to in my life. I was drenched in sweat by the end. Not the best of times but at least I got to see many half naked barely legal chicks. I signed up for a free pass for next week so i'm going to give this venue a couple more tries. i'll be more ready the next time hopefully.
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7/16/11
What a night. I get there early, barely anyone there. After getting a water I approach a bachlorette party (there would be many of them this night). Escalate on the bride because its fun, eventually get into a convo with her friend(nyc girl). We talk about how she has all this penis paraphernalia and she mention how the picture on the party hat has nice balls, I casually tell her “those look like my balls, my dick is a lot bigger tho”, she stays with me as we are off near the bar away from her friends. She tries giving me shit for being alone and I tell her im waiting for friend (my wing),We talk a bit more and she goes to buy a drink, she mentions shes not ditching me and jokes that I should be buying her the drink since im hitting on her. Eventually her friend comes over to check on her and mentions they are about to hit the dancefloor. We talk for a bit more until she makes her way to the dancefloor, she mentions “you can dance with us if you want” and I reply that im instead “going to find my friends” and leave. In retrospect this was mega fucking stupid, It was like I needed to preserve my social value or some bs that compelled me not to go. I regretted it immediately after.
Hit up another bachorlette party, more hugs for the bride lol. Doesn’t last long. Eventually make my way back to nyc girl with all new dudes trying to hit on her as the venue is now starting to fill up, eventually I make my way in and she gives me more shit about not having friends. Probably because I left the vibe is slightly different. Shes getting hit on left and right now but alas there is yet another bachlorette party near me of total hotties and I open one of the girls briefly.
I get a text from my wing that hes coming in so I head to the front part of the bar near the door to wait for him. As I lean back against the bar, two smoking hot blonde girls from the hot bachlorette party including the hottest one of the group (and prob the whole club) are in front of me. I open them and its instantly on. Immediately they are up on me. I put my arms around them. I never got into this game as an ego thing but holy shit did I look fucking pimp, everyone was turning their heads. Just then my wing comes in and I introduce him, we have a fun exchance ending with the stunner in my arms grinding her vag in my crouch. She tells shes here with 11 girls total and asks me if my cock can fill all 11 pussies, I humbly yet matter of factly say ya I could do that and shes replies “I think you could do it” as we embrace. Eventually she goes back to her party now in the vip section but mentions she will come back.
I go off with my wing into the venue. I haven’t seen this particular friend in a couple of months so hes a bit blown away by my progress as I immediately hit up yet another bachlorette party. Im in full beast mode, put arm around girl walking down the hall and have a quick chat with her; arms around 2 irish girls then lead them to the bar (I didn’t want to buy them a drink tho so it ended); hit up some other girls, some of them blowouts.
My wing needs to get more warmed up as were walking around I open up 3 girls sitting alone in the lounge. I joke that they are they only girls not with a bachlorette party and them im glad I met some regular chicks. I sit on the couch next to 2 of them and chat them up for prob 10 min or so, nothing crazy, mainly talking about what we do with our lives. Tell her some of my interesting things ive done with my life. I can tell my wing wants to leave and is going nowhere with the 3rd chick so eventually we bounce.
Here is where I get a bit of a crash as I go back to hit up the NYC chick and the blonde stunner and see them both talking up tall good looking guys. This puts me slightly in my head so I head back to my wing in the front area. He’s doing alright now so to get things really going we decide to play a game where we have to be in set always for the next 30 minutes with no longer than 30 seconds downtime. This gets him going hardcore. This ends up fucking me up a bit as now I get conscious of when im NOT in set. I do what I can but more or less chode about. Get insta blowouts left and right. I find that in general as the night goes on I become more outcome dependent vs the beginning when im just looking to have fun and warm up.
Eventually I occupy the miserable friend of this cute girl my wing is talking to. They go to the dancefloor and makeout after a time. I use this time as im just chilling to take some notes on myself. I approach 2 older woman just to get myself back in a groove. It goes nowhere but it helps a bit. After a time I find my wing again and he pushes me into a set. The girls are being antisocial and giving me nothing to work with but I stick in there, eventually I get one of them to open a bit as she finally starts cracking a smile. After about 5 min of it though I come to the conclusion that she just plain sucks so I leave.
I make my way back to NYC girl this time with my friend to prove im not alone in a joking kind of way. We chat for a bit and I ask her about her logistics, turns out shes staying over her friends place and they are all about to call it a night. We say goodbye and I go and try to find the blonde stunner. Her group is surrounded by only the douchiest of guys all trying to get them (they were the hottest girls in the club) . I find an opening in the crowd and meet her and her friends on the dancefloor. Right away she has her hands on me (literally on my face trying to mess with it in a playful way) I try going for the makeout but there is too much chaos going on and I am in a bachlorette sandwhich of awesomeness and they are all grabbing me and we all grind. Stunner puts her hands near my balls (my grundle to be exact) and they all try and lift me. We dance a bit more and at this point I have like 5 vaginas grinding up on my shit. Suffice to say this is fucking awesome. My face gets grabbed by like 3 different hands and I cant see shit. That ends and she goes back to her closed off vip section with some of her friends who haven’t met me. In retrospect I should have just went in after her. I saw an opening but choded out. I can see her getting drunker as the night went on.
The club winds down as people start to leave. I think there was a couple of more approaches but nothing memorable. We eventually leave and get pizza around the corner. I want to give one last try for the stunner and figure my best bet will be as they are leaving. As we come back with our pizza I mention that we should wait outside. She comes out but is being held my her friend as she is a bit drunk now. We make eye contact and she lights up looking very dtf. She tries to come over and talk to me but the friend is being a total cockblock. I do what I can but the friends just aren’t having it even though shes trying to say “no hes my friend”. I give up but I was happy that I tried. We go home. In all this is the most fun ive had going out in quite some time, probably since BC.
Things I feel I should work on
-Screen for logistics sooner
-work on maintaining a good energy throughout the night