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I guess that is the reason why i rarely fuck girls
Post almost had a point until I read this.
Great post. I've been thinking the same way. This is just what I needed read about.
I wonder why I always find the stuff I need to hear in RSDnation? Like every time I check the forums and check some topics there are actually something there that I needed to hear in that moment. It's almost like.. Everything has a purpose.
I wonder why I always find the stuff I need to hear in RSDnation? Like every time I check the forums and check some topics there are actually something there that I needed to hear in that moment. It's almost like.. Everything has a purpose.
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You are not weird. It's really your own choice. If you completely feel no attraction towards girls who you deem are below whatever scale you run on, then that is completely fine.
The only reason you are not having enough sex, is because you are not approaching enough hotties.
Approach more hotties = More sex.
Not enougn hotties in the venues you go to? Might want to consider find a new venue. There's always one or two places in bigger cities with an abundant of hot women. Go find it.
The only reason you are not having enough sex, is because you are not approaching enough hotties.
Approach more hotties = More sex.
Not enougn hotties in the venues you go to? Might want to consider find a new venue. There's always one or two places in bigger cities with an abundant of hot women. Go find it.
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Well there is of course a abundance of beatiful women, and i do approach them, but my game isnt on the level to lay them consistently. I get lots of make outs though and i feel very comfortable and entitled to the most beautiful girls.
I thought maybe if i would lay more "not-so-hot" girls it would benefit my endgame with the real hotties, but i juzst dont want to do that. It disgusts me.
I thought maybe if i would lay more "not-so-hot" girls it would benefit my endgame with the real hotties, but i juzst dont want to do that. It disgusts me.
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I have the same thing more or less but I think it's better to just let it go. even the hottest girl, if you look at her at the wrong moment when she's having a bad day, or from the wrong angle, you can find something wrong with her. if you look for them, you can always find things that are wrong with anyone. we're all humans, no one is perfect, even superhot girls (reality check: even supermodels and porn stars need to take a shit, and sometimes they have a cold and disgusting snot oozes out of their noses). on the other hand, if you just forget about putting every girl under the microscope and just get in there and get to know her, there's probably something about every girl that you'll like. of course some you like more than others, and it's good to have standards, but I think you're overdoing it.
if you're disgusted with girls because they're not perfect, then that's your problem, you're uptight and aren't able to enjoy life as it comes to you. you're judging girls with your head rather than with your body. your body might feel a rush of attraction for a certain girl, but then your head interferes and starts to give logical reasons why this girl isn't good enough.
It happened to me so many times, I would reject a girl because of some stupid reason, and later I'd regret it because I did feel attraction for her, and we had good chemistry, why did I have to get out? even if she's not perfect, being with a girl who's kinda cute is still more fun than being alone!
and realise the knife cuts on two sides: if you are rejecting girls because they have a tiny detail that's wrong with them, then the girls that are supposedly perfect in your view, you put them on a pedestal and you get reactive.
so if you ask the question, should I get it on with semi-hot girls in order to bang the really hot girls, my answer would be yes. I think it's an ego-protection mechanism because you (& me too) have some glorified image in your head of what sex is supposed to be like. that image doesn't exist in reality, sex is dirty, with sweat and bodily fluids and odors, getting down in the mud and doing the hard work. it's just your dick in a vagina, that's all. now that dick and vagina are ripe fruits, and later they'll sag, wrinkle and rot.
I promise you, when that girl that you think is 'imperfect', when you're actually fucking her, of course you'll enjoy the shit out of it.
if you're disgusted with girls because they're not perfect, then that's your problem, you're uptight and aren't able to enjoy life as it comes to you. you're judging girls with your head rather than with your body. your body might feel a rush of attraction for a certain girl, but then your head interferes and starts to give logical reasons why this girl isn't good enough.
It happened to me so many times, I would reject a girl because of some stupid reason, and later I'd regret it because I did feel attraction for her, and we had good chemistry, why did I have to get out? even if she's not perfect, being with a girl who's kinda cute is still more fun than being alone!
and realise the knife cuts on two sides: if you are rejecting girls because they have a tiny detail that's wrong with them, then the girls that are supposedly perfect in your view, you put them on a pedestal and you get reactive.
so if you ask the question, should I get it on with semi-hot girls in order to bang the really hot girls, my answer would be yes. I think it's an ego-protection mechanism because you (& me too) have some glorified image in your head of what sex is supposed to be like. that image doesn't exist in reality, sex is dirty, with sweat and bodily fluids and odors, getting down in the mud and doing the hard work. it's just your dick in a vagina, that's all. now that dick and vagina are ripe fruits, and later they'll sag, wrinkle and rot.
I promise you, when that girl that you think is 'imperfect', when you're actually fucking her, of course you'll enjoy the shit out of it.
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I think it´s a sex drive thing/ low libido.
I felt like you do now for years and years.
When it´s low. You only want the hottest ones. (You wonder how other guys fuck less hot girls and you´re jealous to the guys that get the hottest girls you would like)
When it´s a bit more normal, you will go for the 8s too.
When you´re really horny like Jeffy. You just want to fuck. You will get the pleasure of sex by penetrating anything. (And that´s the beast mode btw in my opinion. I love it.)
This has been my experience with my sex drive that goes up and down.
I felt like you do now for years and years.
When it´s low. You only want the hottest ones. (You wonder how other guys fuck less hot girls and you´re jealous to the guys that get the hottest girls you would like)
When it´s a bit more normal, you will go for the 8s too.
When you´re really horny like Jeffy. You just want to fuck. You will get the pleasure of sex by penetrating anything. (And that´s the beast mode btw in my opinion. I love it.)
This has been my experience with my sex drive that goes up and down.
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@gogl
you have some very strong points there. I live in orange county and there are more hot girls than ugly girls here. It really depends on your location bro.
if you go to san diego, las vegas, hollywood, orange county, there is an abundance of hot girls here because the social conditioning and culture in these areas are more superficial.
Lets say you go to san francisco where most girls are ugly, the culture there is more liberal and is focused less on beauty. if I were you, I would keep my standards and only approach hotties. In your situation, it's mostly due to location. Where do you live?
you have some very strong points there. I live in orange county and there are more hot girls than ugly girls here. It really depends on your location bro.
if you go to san diego, las vegas, hollywood, orange county, there is an abundance of hot girls here because the social conditioning and culture in these areas are more superficial.
Lets say you go to san francisco where most girls are ugly, the culture there is more liberal and is focused less on beauty. if I were you, I would keep my standards and only approach hotties. In your situation, it's mostly due to location. Where do you live?
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My standards have gone down because pussy is pussy, and believe it or not, I'd rather take home a 6 or 7 than nothing at all. Plus, you will invariably fuck it up with a "10" or "9" because you have so little experience pulling.
I'm guessing you have very few lays under your belt, which is pretty much standard for guys with this sort of attitude.
You also might secretly be gay if you wouldn't fuck a hottie because her nose is a little crooked.
Unless you yourself are ridiculously good looking and fucking cool (which let's be honest, you probably aren't) you have no reason to have this high of standards.
I suggest psychotherapy.
I'm guessing you have very few lays under your belt, which is pretty much standard for guys with this sort of attitude.
You also might secretly be gay if you wouldn't fuck a hottie because her nose is a little crooked.
Unless you yourself are ridiculously good looking and fucking cool (which let's be honest, you probably aren't) you have no reason to have this high of standards.
I suggest psychotherapy.
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My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.
"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.
"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
I had (and still kind of have) the same mindset for a long time. I still won't do anything with unattractive girls, and if there were enough 9s and 10s out on a given night I'd probably only approach them. However, there aren't, and I've realized that Jeffy is right to some extent: you get better at fucking girls by fucking girls. Moreover, you get better at getting girls by approaching girls, escalating with them and trying to take them home.
I think we'd all love to skip a few steps and only fuck 9s and 10s, but you're not gonna get there without some trench work along the way.
I think we'd all love to skip a few steps and only fuck 9s and 10s, but you're not gonna get there without some trench work along the way.
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before you get the tens you have to go through the process. well you can, but not always. lol
get me 10 right now dude. come on. instant ten 123. you pull it off good. you don't, im not judging you.
Is the OP asking permission on what to do? hahah like "I hope they approve, i'm not so sure of myself."
so nobody here can say shit. amirite. I get attractive girls. And I've done my share of the not so good ones.
The truth shall prevail, always. hahaha
admit it guys. im not ashamed. I bet even the rsd crew etc have done this before. LOL
why do people must project the best image? "this game everyday I see-yoda" lol
alienantfarm is right. you have no idea how right he is. hahaha
get me 10 right now dude. come on. instant ten 123. you pull it off good. you don't, im not judging you.
Is the OP asking permission on what to do? hahah like "I hope they approve, i'm not so sure of myself."
so nobody here can say shit. amirite. I get attractive girls. And I've done my share of the not so good ones.
The truth shall prevail, always. hahaha
admit it guys. im not ashamed. I bet even the rsd crew etc have done this before. LOL
why do people must project the best image? "this game everyday I see-yoda" lol
alienantfarm is right. you have no idea how right he is. hahaha
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I always wondered if im a special snowflake on the topic of "how hot has the girl to be that i'd fuck her"
When there is a "hot" girl, but she has some minor thing to her, like maybe a strange nose, or her hips are few inches to broad, I WOULD NOT FUCK HER, I probably wouldnt even approach her because i dont want to approach when there is no purpose. I would focus into the shortcoming and i turns me off completely.
I really do think that way, and i find it weird that most guys I know, fuck chicks, that i would never ever want to fuck, even though those guys are better in pickup than I am. I have lots of natural friends that had super hot girlfriends that i dream of at night, but they also consistently fuck girls that I would never fuck.
I was super weirded out at Jeffy'S presentation at World Summit 2010, I really just wanted him to end the videos because 80% of the girls were straight up ugly or not HOT in my opinion. And after the presentation i suddenly heard people say, how awesome the videos were. I couldnt believe it.
I oftentimes had the same thoughts on lots of other instructors' videos that i've seen. Basically every instructor.
OTOH I see them pick up the hottest hotties and i wonder why not only those types when they can have them?
Ive seen guys picking up chicks that were fat, ugly, easy, low selfesteem, idiots and they were super happy with it. I just cant get it. How do they do it???
Friends ask me why i didnt take that or that girl, and i wonder how i could tell them that i couldnt fuck her because she wasnt hot enough, without them thinking that i was just a pussy and didnt want to take action.
Another friend of mine once said to me: "Wouldnt you take a minor/ugly girl, just to put you wiener into a pussy because you havent done it since xx months?" I could not get it.
Is my libido low?
I know that I prefer the feeling of power and awesomeness over the sex itself. (even though I really love SUPER HOTTIES! of course)
I guess that is the reason why i rarely fuck girls, even though my CA-skill is quite alright now. It also might be the reason why i am so super slow in learning this game. A buddy of mine once told me you first have to win in the lower leagues before you can win in the first league (soccer metaphor). I see the point in that statement, but I cant do that. That is an absolute non-go for me and it makes 100% sense in my head.
What do you think?
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