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December 5th, 2016
Newbie Guide For Young Men
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BAWLS

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1. Look at the links on my signature. Read articles, watch videos. Pick your poison. Start with the biggies. Tyler & Jeffy.

2. Approach 1000 girls.

3. Take a Bootcamp, see HotSeat, attend The Summit.

4. Read my Books To Read thread.

5. You're a teen? In your early 20s? Great. Lets get those Myelins firing up. They run wild in your 20s. That rage ends when you turn 30. Everyone who got world-class skills spent their 20s wisely. You have 10 years and then its over. So, make it count. Create the following habits:

i) Read 1-2 books a week (bonus points if you do this while traveling or at airports around the world to 'kill' time)

ii) Cold approach pickup. Approach 10 girls a day. More if you're in a bigger city.

iii) Find a skill you like, start mastering that. You have 10 years. Bonus points if this skill has to do with making you money. (read Outliers, Talent is Overrated, The Talent Code)


6. Do not have a girlfriend. Never ever ever have a girlfriend. No relationship before age 35. You should spend your 20s for yourself. Build your career, accumulate value, develop important skills, etc.

7. Watch the video on 21 convention - Top 10 Mistakes To Avoid In Your 20s. But if you ask me, Top 3 to avoid: Relationship, Facebook, bad/poor social circle.

8. Make some money. Get a job in sales. Start a business if its in your genes. Might want to go to college. (See #10)

9. Eat well. No need to do Paleo. Just don't eat junk food, avoid fried food, fast food. That way you don't have to "fix" your body later on. But protect your penis. Safe sex, no soy, eat the right kinds of meat.

10. Get plenty of senseless sex. Lots of it young man. Never miss a good college party full of hot chicks. Be at an environment where good looking women are everywhere around you. Always have 2 condoms in your pocket.



Bonus tips:

i) Move to New York City, Vegas, Miami or LA.

ii) In addition to pickup, have regular girl friends / lady friends down for sex, that way you don't have the situation where if you don't pull girl you're tryin to pickup, you go home and jerk off. Bad bad bad. So always have a backup.

iii) Read Tyler's developments from the early days to the present. All his new articles / videos. Also Jeffy 2.

iv) Improve your sex skills. Check out my resource. (here and here) Not all at once. Pick one or two, study it, and have fun applying it with your FB. Master it, then pick another skill and then another and another.

v) Get these condoms: Okamoto Crown, Beyond Seven. They're the best. Feels better than other condoms and 'bareback'

vi) Find this guide too long? Do this. Approach 1000 girls


You're welcome.
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natlex

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Good tips, I feel like I was having mroe fun conversations or wahtever when I was actively reading a lot. After I started internet marketting I dropped everything for that but now I'm starting to read more about pickup stuff but it's annoying, time to go back to non fiction books and aim for 1-2 a week.

I have a natural friend and he also advocates the "I'm in my 20s, no way im getting a girlfriend" idea but hes ridiculously good looking and gets laid every night he goes out... I guess I see the point behind that though.
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Paris Boum Boum

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Cool thanks.
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manos94

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Good shit, thanks.
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manos94

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Also, why do you recommend that guy from 21 convention??

I only watched till the first "mistake" and my brain processed this as bullshit, and I couldn't watch any more.

Is it worth it?
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BAWLS

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Take what you need, discard what you don't, move on and enjoy life.
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 Question for Bawls: I've been trying for financial independce but I really just want to be an actor. Should I just work on my degree in Theatre and pursue these dreams over working on some internet marketing idea that doesn't really reward me? or am I overthinking financial independence? I know if I get a degree the world won't end and I can probably get any kind of job with a degree in theatre.
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BAWLS

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You know what to do.
Knuckles wrote:
 Question for Bawls: I've been trying for financial independce but I really just want to be an actor. Should I just work on my degree in Theatre and pursue these dreams over working on some internet marketing idea that doesn't really reward me? or am I overthinking financial independence? I know if I get a degree the world won't end and I can probably get any kind of job with a degree in theatre.
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I didn't say its a mistake. I said its to be avoided. If you must use it, do it on mobile while out and about, waiting in line, using the toilet, etc. Facebook's design is to keep you on their site for long. The longer you stay, the better for the company's bottomline. They don't care about your productivity and success with women. 
dragoshsd wrote:
 Why did you list Facebook as being a mistake? As long as it isn't overused and you don't spend more than 10-20 minutes a day on it I don't see why it should be a problem.
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 I will turn 20 in a few months. This rings so deeply true with me, because of the shit I've been through lately. Will take this to heart. Thanks man. 
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Not as much as you can gain from not having one.

dragoshsd wrote:
 Why no girlfriends before 35? There are relationships from where you can gain a lot...
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