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October 21st, 2017
How Do I Do It? How Do You NOT Do It?? Seriously.
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#81
Tyler

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Yeah this is what's happened to me 100%.

The changes in my brain these past two years have been really startling, like I have so much fun with this shit it's insane.  I'll be on bootcamp and look around the room and think to myself "OH MY GOD THIS IS SO FUCKING FUN HOW CAN THIS BE SO MUCH FUN????"

And it's getting more intense by the day. :)

Tyler
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Re: Tyler

When you have an interest in something and you do it for many years and you get good at it, your brain construct itself for optimum performance for that activity and your mind creates aesthetic in what you're doing in order to give you the emotional fuel to find joy and happiness in that activity.

The thing is, the brain doesn't disciminate, it doesn't share your bias. If you got interested in pickup, and you got good at that, you'll find aesthetic in that. But with the similar process, someone who got interested in politics, starts to live and breath politics early on and got good at it, will find joy and happiness in doing just that. You mentioned you wanted to take Richard Dawkins to a bar. Well that is YOUR bias. You find nightlife enjoyable. He might like it, be okay with it or totally hate it. Because what really tickles Richard Dawkins' balls is mocking religious people. You know this because that's what he's been doing for many years and we have videos to prove it. The man obviously gets rewarded by his brain for his high level of sophistication and skill in what he does. Just like what your brain does to your lifestyle choice.

Bill Maher is obsessed with comedy and political satire. Donald Trump would rather build buildings and inflate his ego. The man have sex with supermodels but closes his eyes and imagines himself jerking off. Ron Paul saw and touched more than 4000 pussies when he delivered babies and then later on became a hero of the Libertarian cause. Chode? Yes, to our point of view. But in his mind? We're the ones who missed out on all the fun. His brain made him that way and rewarded him well. When asked about his wikipedia bio & a news report, Christopher Hitchens immediately brushed off the question from the reporter saying its all trivial to him. He said he doesn't have time for such silly things. The man is joyfully obsessed in debates, oratory, sophistry, philosophy and religion. This is confusing for the reporter who passionately and blissfully spent his entire life in journalistic pursuits. It would be tantamount to persecution and human rights abuse for Neil Tyson & Michiu Kaku, if you are to take them out of their world and in to your world of pickup. Their brains are wired of theoritical physics and astronomy. Neil literally gets orgasmic reading Isaac Newton, worships the man, and communes with the Universe. While others are chasing skirts, Michiu in high school was building a highly radioactive device in his garage. The biggest chodes in the world, I agree. But in their blissfully happy minds, we're nothing but a blithering bunch of losers. And maybe we are.

So, how can they "not do it"? Well simple answer, their brain didn't wire them to receive pleasure in the activity that your brain gives you pleasure. Just like your brain thinks its a waste of time and boring to debate politics, and would rather cold approach, another person finds that activity enjoyable, highly addictive and would think pickup is not that mentally or emotionally stimulating.

Note that all these men are experts in their domain just like you are in your chosen pursuit. The wiring of the brain reward system only happens when you really are truly interested in the activity you chose (as in finance, business, politics). NOT if you are forced to do it and had no other choice. So for most people reading this, the above don't apply to them. The fact that they're here tells me they've chosen pickup as a worthy pursuit. So this is the answer to YOUR question. But I think what you should have asked is how come those who ARE interested in pickup "not doing it"? Well I guess we know the answer to that. Excuses, anxiety and laziness. But in general, when people (passionate at what they do) do something different than yours, its simply because their brain gives them glorious euphoric climax doing what they love doing just like your brain does with your chosen activity. You think they're missing out. But that's your bias and they have it too. In their mind, you're missing out on a lot of fun and wasting so much of your time. But in reality, all you guys are equally happy and fulfilled. 




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#82
Sorcerer's apprentice

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Are you saying cold approach pick up is the shit?
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#83

Pistola

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 i dont go out 5 nights a week, but I love going out to meet girls. Its become a very fun hobby. I dont go out just to meet girls though. I meet everybody and its fun just being a guy who can go into any place and meet people. Now if I went out 5 nights a week. Id be a fuckin monster at this game, how many girls I approach every night no problem. Maybe I should start doing it every night.
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#84
K0l0S

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Tyler wrote:
I'm in the house after the SF, Chicago, Miami, LA, Seattle trip.  Resting today -- NOT because I want to, I HATE resting -- but because I have to in order to recover brain neurotransmitters so I can go on another FULL ON RIP.  Basically what happens is after I do this shit from morning till night for weeks at a time my brain stops processing information properly and I get all weird and twitchy -- so I have to take 24 to 48 hours off.

As I sit waiting for my brain to recover I am reminded of how much it sucks not to be out.  There's a sick club open in Hollywood tonight, and I'm sitting here on RSD Nation.  BOOOOOOOO!!!

The irony is I'm always asked "How do you maintain the discipline to go out for years after years?"  What I wonder is HOW THE FUCK DO YOU NOT GO OUT??

Like do you sit there doing..................what?.............like this is so outside my reality that you wouldn't be out constantly, I don't even know what you'd do.  Do you watch television?  How do you do this?  Do you watch movies?  Why?  What's the point in doing anything OTHER than going out?

I mean there's cool stuff like.......actually I don't even know.  And how do you let so-called "approach anxiety" overwhelm you from having sex with attractive women??  I never got that one.  For real -- like even back when I had it sooooooooo BAD, I soldiered through that shit for years until I got over it, because I knew IT WOULD BE WORTH IT.

So the question to anyone who doesn't go out regularly -- how do you do it??  What am I missing?  Why does life suck so bad when you don't go out, and how do you live with the suckiness?  Do you pretend to be happy while you're just sad?  (Serious questions).

Tyler
Hey Tyler,

I see it as a question of habbit and positive responses about which you were talking in the blueprint. You're getting a lot of them so you want more and more and you're indifferent to negative responses, so nothing is stopping you. A newbie like me needs a great leverage to approach and find out that I won't die from the approach, I know it's stupid, but I must admit it. You were telling in your videos that you had no other option so you kept approaching no matter what. And now it's so great for you so you don't see any reason not to. I guess your point of view is right, because if you know what to do and how to do it, it should be a blast.

Thanks for everything you're doing, from where I was coming from it was like the light of hope in the darkness :).

P.S. Tyler with all this night life how much do you sleep? Like Tyler Durden from the movie 1 hour :D?
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#85
ambiguity

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  Tyler mate, I saw this before. I did watch it again cause it was a good view.

I think it comes down to balance.

I am not saying, I am not into hitting on girls, doing my part or work.

And yes, calling girls out is importance.

I was out a little while ago (I think I posted this too) and had a similar situation.

This stunner was acting out of sort. Totally stuck up snob type. And I called her out.

INTERACTION:


Her: I use to like you but, you were mean.

Me: LOL  Just cause your cute (down play her looks) doesnt mean I wont call you out unlike most men (faggots). One, I am cuter, and two, clearly the better dresser of the two of us.

Her: OMG... I HATE YOU!


It was less then a week and I pulled her. lol


One of the things I hate about the forum here is that the majority of guys are all about "read ecky bro" or preaching unreactive but, its absurd to tolerate girls running a muck and getting out of line.

You can dress them up but, you cant take these ones out lol.


I like you Tyler (no homo). The videos, content, the fact you take the time to read forum posts even.

Even more so, your a man of your word.

We had the disagreement on the "sex worthy" situation where Jeffy posted a pic, I brought up about her looks, and he said they protect her anonymity which I respect.

You made the sex worthy comment and you came back around saying you may had misunderstood. That takes balls. That I respect.

I actually like the fact that you guys protect the anonymity of both BC students and the girls.

With the grid, internet, search engines and all, nobody is safe these days any more.

Our privacy is always invaded and someone is watching us all.

Sort of off topic but, most blokes have no clue about facebook, and think its for free.

Nothing is free. Everything comes at a price and we are all being watched online.


Any way, to end off, your point is taken.

I met a really cool kid in the community. Weve had quite a bit of adventures with girls, partying and puling SMOKE SHOWs.

One of the first things he said of me is that, I got game, that he notices girls come to me quite a bit, and warns me not to be lazy with it.

To still do my part. He is right. I must say, a lot of things in my life have come to me. Women, people, jobs, and well, living the good life.

The next thing is money but, the hard part is balance.

I would love to get out to Vegas and do a summit. So focused on being financially independent, self sufficient, and making my millions.

2010 was epic. I lived like a boss. Still, fast forward to the new year, none of those girls are around to present day minus the few exceptions.

Also, dealing with testicular cancer, having a testicle removed, its hard to fathom how much has changed, and to be in sync with both spirituality as well as ones desires.

What is really mind blowing is the fact that, one sec your on top of the world pulling SMOKE SHOWs and the next sec, your in a hospital bed half the man you were before (literally) and the girls are a no show.

You can't be half a ganster. It further in grains this mindset. Life can be tough and cruel but, it can also be awesome.



You commented on a post I made about relationships as well. Being in one, having kids, now adding a relationship forum to RSD, it all shows diversity.

One thing I realized too in the year and a half or 2yrs in the community is that, you cannot be pulling a SMOKE SHOW inside and out, the sort of girl you recognize as being your counter balance in another, and yet, settling for mediocrity too. 


Break it down mate. How is the girl you are with now different from all those you've pulled, had flings, and experienced? Also, having a kid, a second child did I hear (congrats mate), your thoughts in the game must have changed significantly. 

The same with money but, I agree with getting out, and yet, up holding balance in all areas of life. I also got sacked from work during the same time I was getting screened for cancer. Stuff is in mediation at the moment but, I am still doing my thing. 

Not out as much as 2010 but, given the year, the way things have gone, I am back, and well, as close to being on top form as one could be.
Tyler wrote:
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ambiguity wrote:
Its absurd to imagine the Donald tolerating shitty women, toxic human beings, girls flaking or shit testing him. LOL

I'll take it even further and say, this is my destiny, and no sloppy woman will pull me away from my direction.

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#86
ambiguity

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Jlaix: You are rather cheeky I admit but the self amusing authentic avi makes it impossible to hate!
Tyler:This is ultimately one of the keys to the game -- viewing EVERYTHING AS A JOKE. It's ALL funny.
Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
Alex: "The famous ambiguity!" + "This is what happens when your naturally attractive; cheekyinnit#! Ambiguity: I don't chase, I replace.


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#87

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getting money, drinking, learning/reading, watching something i really enjoy, thinking of ideas and making plans
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#88
Phred!

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I know it's hard to fathom outside of being the CEO of a pick up company but people do have lives and responsibilities outside of trying to get validation and get STDs from drunken sluts. Going out 7 days a week is exhausting to anyone. How do you actually go out, work double digits hour like you say you do, work out, spend time with your kids, and bang the regular rotation of girls you may possibly have? I don't see how fitting all that into your schedule is possible unless one of those is being neglected more than the others? You sound like a sex addict actually. Which actually sounds great to the average guy but when it takes over your life and you need it all the time, it becomes a problem for sure

I actually got better with women by going out less than I did when I really into this lol I have a life outside of trying to score another +1 on my lay count that really no one truly gives a shit about outside of myself. How many MORE women do you need? When I was racking up the numbers, they all felt like the same archetype of the same girl, only with a different name.
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#89
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that made me smile hard
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#90

taipan

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Sometimes I am just like - WTF?


who else says shit like this in an internet forum if not 16 year old kid
"gf = death"
" of course you "can't see it." Do you realize who you're talking to here son?  "

Sometimes jeffy seems brilliant and sometimes you just can't help but to hate him.
Jeezz man act your age hahaha. Even the new  instructors have more Gravitas.
It reminds me of a stupid movie I saw were two cops go back to high school as undercover agents and the big buff no bulshit guy  is no longer popular
but the nerd is the popular one. SImply because the nerd is smarter and more easy going.
Peace!

anyways -
Addressing Tylers  First question -

Creating something that didin't exist before can be sometimes more fun that influencing 21 years olds to fuck you.
Some of the things I have created in the long run give me more pleasure than one night stands.
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