THE FORUMS

I agree as well.

I think Tyler's message is for the bloke who has tons of excuses.

In 2010, I spent my time in clubs 7x a week with my mates, some girls I had picked up who club promoted, my mate that club promoted, models, small time actor/actresses, girls I had pulled or went solo, and pulled.

It was epic. Ironically enough, I was no closer to making my million(s) then or in alignment with my core purpose but, I was pulling stunners.

I also had made more money in 2010 then ever before while, I had travelled more too, and best, I had worked less.

I came here after trying to compete with my mates who have 10 GAME.

I wont elaborate as I've did before but, its a thing of beauty.

Fast forward to the present and I am doing shit I would never have before.

Credit goes to RSD, my mates with 10 GAME being the fun bunch that they are, and my quest for self mastery.

In NYC pulling a SMOKE SHOW doing the robbery on parents at a jets game in NYC.

Doing the similar stuff in MIAMI @ Klutch night club - getting bombarded by Jersey Shore wanna be roid faggots "wanna fight/fuck" and responding, "cool story but, I gotta get going," grabbing girl, up over my shoulders, & exiting only to take a walk on the beach which results in beach sex. lol

Pulling stunner in Vegas @ Vanity night club after losing a testicle due to cancer, a manic low and getting sacked.

Getting cock blocked by girls only to take numbers, suck her back into getting food later with my mates, only to pull same night.

Just several references to my epic greatness.

I was still no closer to making my million(s) unless I make drastic changes.

Again, of those pulled, how many do you think are the sort I recognize as being my counter balance in another?

My point is that, yes, pulling is fun but, there is more to life, and if you are the one in the hospital with a testicle being removed for example, do not be shocked when your phone stops ringing.

Do not be alarmed when the girl who calls you huney or all the feminine logic they put out goes to shit, and they start their disappearing act.

It comes with the territory. Now, my tune will change if Tyler rings me up, and throws me on payroll. Till then, I am looking for my cash cow.

Let me add, when you do recognize your counter balance in another, when you are in alignment with your core purpose, your values, and beliefs, things come together in harmony.

There shouldn't be relationship drama or complicated issues. If its not helping you, its hurting you, and even with club promoter mates, VIP, bottle service, it comes with a price.

You wont get time back, it will be costly for most, and while guys pull 6s or amateur hour girls, its time away from making your million(s) or obtaining the caliber of girls you truly desire.

Cause most guys settle. Most guys are followers, shepple. Scared little boys afraid to step up in the world, and do something.

It comes down to order of importance but, most are busy trolling the forums, "read ecky bro" or talking shit over the internet.

Reminds me of the ones calling me or talking shit in that SMOKE SHOW thread only during their post, I am getting picked up while Xmas shopping with my mate while passing through a star bucks.

To take this further, the same guys I see in my own life, the go hards, the ones chasing girls and obsessing with pick up.

They hate when they see others or hear other succeeding. Why?

They are too busy trying to size up everyone else in a manner of greater than they are or less than and or liviving up to other peoples standard instead of being their best self and implementing their own standards.

Steve-O, you seeked life experience and I imagine, you were excited come time to leave for your great adventure.

At some point, you realize the preciousness of now, the time you have together with loved ones, and yes, when you recognize your counter balance in another.

Its all prioritizing but, sadly, the way people set up their value system and beliefs, there is a ton of contradictions and underlying dissonance conflicting in their own success.

The best lesson I learned since coming here is not to hold onto "success" but, to just enjoy it, and not get disheartened when it fades.

Its not personal and its part of the learning process.

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Good points. Still, its always much easier if this is your profession versus just pulling. 

At the sametime, the thrill is in escaping the mundanity of everyday life.

As your level of income increases, say your position in social status rises, you become an actor or say, you have a multi million dollar business, suddenly, your expectation of women changes.

Would you be out spending 7nights a week trying to pull girls? Accepting women flaking? Well, you could be rich, have a awesome business, and yet, not acquired these skill sets to pull.

Still, the thought of the Donald tolerating flakes or being stood up is rather absurd. It would not happen. People would be executed. Wars would be fought. Lives would altered. Not quite but, you get where I am going.

MM thoughts on this and mine differ but, that is part of setting your own standards and expectations in life.

I've been out more at different points in my life. Yes, some are excuse makers and others just have a life outside women. Like all areas of life, balanace is needed in order to be centered.

of course you "can't see it." Do you realize who you're talking to here son?

You told Dotty that most guys will shit their pants if a girl says lets fuck.

Its true. You are aware but, those with limited life experiences, those closet homosexuals and huge flaming faggots will never understand.

This isn't hanging from Jeffy's nuts again. Its the reality of being that guy and learning. I've had those fucked up weaker moments,

I;ve had girls who have pretty much rapped me and pushed for sex the whole time.

I would be subtle as fuck and let her do all the work. Her being more experienced, she just carried things forward, and I was happy to pull or get pulled.

Since RSD, I am getting laid, pulling, take numbers like a man who just got set free after a life sentence, and romping like the baddest man alive only would do.

Still, I have more to learn, and being a monk gone hit man, preaching "Read Ecky bro" like so many carbon copies do is not the mark.

Some will never understand what it is like to be on top form, to pull girls, and others think its a means to just fuck sluts.

I think there is a middle ground here and I faulter frequently before finding my balance again.

I only assume this is part of the journey. My thoughts are also that cause guys are usually faggots, BEAST MODE was implemented to really oush community guys out there.

With more calibration, life experience, and increasing awareness, it is fine tuned into a working system of success.