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#11

DJAX

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Join Date: 02/13/2011 | Posts: 265

So you did in fact lick your own cum off of her? Interesting.. Can't say I've done that myself.

Good journal though man! Keep it up.
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#12

John Smith RSD

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 Great reports dude. I'll post up a more detailed response soon. Beast mode tonight, whatever that means ;)
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RogueJedi

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Water wrote:
So you did in fact lick your own cum off of her? Interesting.. Can't say I've done that myself.

Good journal though man! Keep it up.

bface wrote:
Good read. But licking your own cum sounded a bit wierd to me but whatever. Good reports, keep em coming.
Lol - you guys don't know the half of it.

If you want your girls to be Level 10 sluts, sometimes you gotta take it to 11 yourself. (Not that licking cum off tits is anywhere near 11.)

You have to show them that you're completely comfortable and down with this shit. This gives them permission to open up and share their deepest fantasies with you because they know you won't judge them for it. Remember: Girls WANT to be sluts in the bedroom - they REALLY enjoy it. They DON'T want to be judged for it.

After knowing that you're the type of guy who's comfortable with and enjoys licking cum off their tits and then kissing it into their mouths (amongst other things) - which the VAST majority of girls really like, by the way - they feel safe, secure, and sexy opening up to you even more.

And that's when the fun really begins... ;)
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RogueJedi

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John Smith RSD wrote:
 Great reports dude. I'll post up a more detailed response soon. Beast mode tonight, whatever that means ;)
Yeah, baby - back on the beastmode.

I've not been out at all this past week in Ireland. Back in the groove tonight. ;)
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RogueJedi wrote:
Saturday 18 June



I hear someone cheer behind us. I think it may have been Neo but I’m not too sure - I wasn’t looking. ;) Time from approach to make out was about four minutes. Nice.



Ha! It wasn't me! But I was cheering on inside my head :)
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Thursday 30 June

Today's my first day out in about ten days - family business in Ireland called. Am happy to be back in Brighton so soon though because originally Ireland was supposed to be a month.

I arrived on Wednesday and I spent Wednesday evening / Thursday daytime with a FB in London - this girl responds so like clockwork to textbook game it's not even funny. I like her, she's very cool. (15-year old son, though... can be a logistical pain sometimes.)

So I arrive fairly late down to Brighton and meet John Smith RSD at his place. He leaves me there to take a shower and get changed, and goes to meet Joe for the first time - an RSD guy who's taken five bootcamps; not sure if he posts on these boards.

I have my shower and head to Revolution. I get there about 12.30am and meet the guys inside.

The only two people I've really spoken to in the past ten days are my mum and my nan - I feel like a social retard. My opener for tonight, therefore, is 'Hi, I feel like a social retard.' It opened successfully 100% of the time.

First set - cool but boring.

Second set - cool but boring.

Third set - cool but boring.

Hmm... there's a pattern here. The only common denominator in these three sets is ME - maybe I'm the boring one. Yes, I'm bored and I have no boner.

Come on, dickface - step up.

Outside - hot blonde, 8.5 - "Hey, I feel like a social retard and I'm boring as fuck.' This set goes much better: I'm more into her and she's into me. I run some cool cold reads on her and she's looking at me with puppy dog eyes, my hand is on her inner thigh.

A friend of her's comes outside and she excuses herself for a minute. I'm cool and chat to JSRSD (who's just shown up) for a couple of minutes while she does her thing. She then comes back round and sits back in her chair, facing away from her friends and towards me - waiting for me. It's so on.

Now... this is where I should have isolated and ramped it up - but I didn't. Why? Maybe:

i) Ten days away from the field
ii) Not enough boners - maybe from being with my FB for the last twenty-four hours, plus I was still a bit stoned

She goes to see her friends again, and they lead her inside and away into the night. BONERS, motherfucker - boners are one of the fundamentals of solid game: HAVE THEM.

No boners lost me this set. But, truth be told, I wasn't that bothered because I didn't have a boner. Be careful of this self-perpetuating insidious non-boner spiral - it needs to be snapped out of QUICKLY.

However... I don't fight this as what you resist persits, so I choose to shift my focus to FEAR TECHNOLOGY. You don't need a boner to feel scared.

Ozzie's Fear Technology

JSRSD gives me an off-the-wall opener: 'I like water' and then say nothing - eye contact and body language only.

First set – ‘I like water’, blow out, persist - 'I like water'... run off, lol.

Second set – ‘I like water’, blow out, persist - 'I like water', blow out, persist - 'I like water', cockblock friend - 'She's got a boyfriend', persist - 'I like water', Open Sesame... awesome. :)

I tell her I want to test some dance moves out on her. On the train to Brighton I'd been watching this video of Grimble busting out some moves:


I tried the second spinny move on her a couple of times but couldn't get it quite right (after watching the vid again I could see where I was going wrong) - whatever, we had a laugh.

By this time I was clawing her a lot and she was definitely into me - I could see her cockblock friends getting worried. 'She's got a boyfriend' was mentioned more than once, again. Irrelevant.

I was in set for about ten minutes - cool vibing, went to isolate - 'No, I can't'. Try again – ‘Really, no. I can’t.’ Grr… oh well, good plowing to open. Nice lesson.

Chatting to a brunette outside in the garden. Vibing well, hands on thighs. Cockblock friend ‘She’s not going to fuck you.’ Ignore. Friend gets pissed… throwing lots of shit at me. My girl is still into me but friend is getting more pissed that I’m not reacting or going away. The set’s burned at this point but I stay for the hell of it – persisting, drilling, getting more comfortable with discomfort like has been suggested to me. I stay to the bitter end.

Friend storms off with ‘We’re going’ – brunette and male chode (who apologizes to me on her behalf) go too.

Outside the club - street sets

JSRSD suggests I open with an awkward vibe. I can’t remember what I opened the first with but I put on my best awkward voice and body language. I ended up getting a number and kiss close.

Second awkward street set was a pretty (British) Indian girl. This set was so awkward she said:

Her: Oh my God, this is so awkward.
Me: Yeah, let’s make it even more awkward.
Her: Err… I don’t think it could be.
Me: Let’s see. On a scale of 1-10 – 1 being completely comfortable and 10 being so awkward that you want to die – how awkward do you feel right now?
Her: 9.
Me: Cool. Let’s make it a ten. Can you Salsa?
Her: No.
Me: Perfect. [Go to Salsa her in the street.]
Her: Nooo! I can’t! Ha ha…

We carry on talking, now it’s not so awkward. We talk about us both having drunk water all night. I say I can tell because her skin is so soft and vibrant, lol. Number close.

Text later:
Me: Hey Heidi – wee should totally get married. Our kids would have skin so soft we’d have to call them Fairy.
[Context: Fairy is the UK’s leading dishwashing liquid. Slogan from a few years ago "Now hands that do dishes can feel soft as your face, with mild green Fairy Liquid."]

Her: Ok fine, but I’m not consenting to any salsa lessons. We’re not passing on any of that awkward shit.
[I didn’t know what she meant at first but JSRSD pointed out she meant ‘passing on any of that awkward shit [to our kids]' – right, got it; she’s playing along, nice.]

Me: Haha, cool. Monday daytime I’ll be on the beach if it’s nice. Come down and hang out – I’d like to explore us further. ;) [‘I’d like to explore us further’ is a text line from Alex. I think it’s a little cheesy but it gets results.]

Her: I go to Canada for a month next week so that’s rubbish. Maybe another moon cycle.

Me: Yeah cool. I’m in no rush. ;) I’ll call you sometime in August. And your Facebook is…?

Her: [Facebook details]
--

Cool. That’s solid. I’ll see her when she gets back. I’ve never fucked an Indian girl before. The nicest British-Indian girls are super-hot.

I followed up the other number close with:

Me: Hey Lucyann – cool to meet you. You seem like a lot of fun. I like cool people; we should totally hang out. Enjoy Life. ;) Get home safe – Tom
[Life is the club she was going to.]

Her: Haaha I am cool. Enjoy life too tom you are also cool. XX
[I told her I was going to Life but didn't end up going.]

And then later when I was home I went for broke with:

Me: I’m staying on my friend’s couch. I’m by myself – you should come and warm me up. ;)
Her: [No reply]
Me: We're so broken up. I want my CDs back.
--

Lol, not too surprising but you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.

I’ll text her again later today.

So there you go… it was a fairly quiet night with some good lessons learned - good to get back in the field. Two solid number closes, one of which I may have blown out. We’ll see. :)
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#17
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RogueJedi wrote:
...Yes, I'm bored and I have no boner.

...No boners lost me this set. But, truth be told, I wasn't that bothered because I didn't have a boner. Be careful of this self-perpetuating insidious non-boner spiral - it needs to be snapped out of QUICKLY.

lol!

Nice report man, can feel your energy pouring through the screen.

Welcome back to our little city by the sea. 
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#18
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dude what you are looking for are playmates not a harem. harem means you mary all the girls
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prince charming_ wrote:
dude what you are looking for are playmates not a harem. harem means you mary all the girls
Lol. Don't get caught up on the words, dude... it's the intent - and you get it.

If, however, you want to get all picky about it you're actually wrong. The word harem is Arabic for 'forbidden' and refers to the female living quarters of a household (not actually the women), where all males except the head of the house are forbidden. The harem would include other female relatives and children as well as wives and concubines... got it?

But hey... I'll settle for a harem of Playmates. ;)
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#20
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14 June

John Smith RSD and I are having a business meeting over coffee today. We park the car up and as I have my head in the boot JSRSD points out a hottie walking by on the other side of the road – I can tell she knows we’re checking her out. ‘Go on then,’ I say to him.

He throws some token resistance and I point out that could be his future wife or the best fuck-buddy he’s ever had. Off he goes, laptop and iPad clapping away over his shoulders as he trots down the street after her. He turns back and doesn’t make it, saying he’s in business mode. See his report here.

So… it’s now my dibs and by this time she’s a good forty metres up the street. I run after her – my pockets are full of coins and are jingling as I run; it won’t be long until she can hear me approaching: jingle-jangle jingle-jangle jingle-jangle… getting closer and closer – I wonder what Mystery would say about approaching from behind sounding like a tambourine, lol.

As I get closer I put my hands in my pockets to stifle the rattling and by this time I can see she has an awesome little butt. About five metres behind her…

Me: [Out of breath] Hey!
Her: [Keeps walking]
Me: [Tapping her on the shoulder, still out of breath] Hey… I saw you walking by and I had to say Hi – you’re amazingly cute.
Her: [Very receptive] Hi! Blah blah…

She’s fit – 8.5. Nice.

I make a joke about me being out of breath and we chat a little while. She’s on her way to meet her cousin and can’t find her house. I tell her I’ve just moved back to Brighton and we should hang out. Cool.

I go to take her number and realize my phone’s still in the car, so I take her phone and call myself so I’ve got a missed call.

As I leave she says ‘Nice one, that was smooth.’

Obviously. ;)

I get back to the car and JSRSD is feeling a little chode (his words). Lessons learned all round.

I text:
Me: Hey Maisy, awesome to meet you. Hope you found your cousin okay. ;) Tom
Her: It was really nice to meet you too, yeah I found her finally! X

JSRSD and I have our meeting and as we pick up the car an hour later we see her and her cousin, who’s also fit, walking down the street. I point them out to JSRSD who tells me to stop. I get out the car and invite them to join us for lunch.

‘We don’t normally do this, but okay!’

They get in the car and we go to lunch at a cool little organic place.

My girl’s cool, she’s training to be a masseuse – nice – and we chat over lunch. I have a sore shoulder so I get her to massage me. We’re into a lot of the same stuff and talk about energy healing, which is cool. I would have liked to have got more kino going but it was a little difficult while eating – I must work on this: café kino.

Her cousin is an emo chick and is chatting to JSRSD. The vibe is good but I would have liked it to be more sexual.

After lunch we drop them off in town as they’ve got stuff to do. They tell us where they’ll be that evening and we say we’ll join them. JSRSD and I then go to the pier for some day game.

Pier set

Not many targets around. JSRSD opens a girl with a dog, pretty cool but she was just about to go home out of town.

I open a two set, the fittest one has just bought some chips.

Me: Hey, those chips look good… give me one. I want to try them before I buy some.
Her: [Laughing] Okay!
Me: [Eating chip] Urg… they’re shit. You’re hot though, here… come and sit with us.

We sit down and vibe. Good vibing, high energy… lots of laughing, definite high attraction. Shame the other girl isn’t fit at all. JSRSD does a noble job of winging. Thanks dude.

Qualifying is good… this is something I’ve been working on. Happy with the way it goes down, good kino too… although JSRSD cringes whenever I pull out the handshake routine. This often prompts him to exclaim ’Gay’ whenever he can sense it coming. I like it though. :)

She’s an air stewardess and we’re talking about all the stuff that goes on behind the scenes. Push-pull and teasing is on point. Attraction is good.

We bounce them to the end of the pier. I grab my girl’s hand and lead her to the Ghost Train. It’s shit… maybe should have escalated more here but it’s early days and there will be time.

We then go on this cool ride that goes high and fast… my favourite.

Taking heed from the lunchtime set I turn the conversation very sexual as we’re sitting in the ride ready to go. I figure she can’t run off as we’re now bolted in, lol.

‘You’re very sexual,’ she says.

I look at her with ‘I’m gonna own your ass’ eyes and challenging / flirtations tonality – ‘If you don’t like it, you can ask me to stop.’ She doesn’t say anything.

‘I didn’t think you would,’ I say and take her hand giving it a squeeze. She squeezes back. Nice.

We finish the ride and walk back down the pier, hand in hand. There’s future projection going on here too. She’s into it.

We’re walking and vibing for about twenty minutes. They need to get back to London so we walk towards their car. I take her number and say ‘I’ll put you in as Becca Pier.’ This is a mistake as she immediately says ‘How many other random Beccas have you got in there?’ This puts me in the Player category – mistake.

I go for the makeout and she laughs… ‘I’m not that easy,’ and turns away playfully. I go again, there’s lips but no tongues.

Lessons here:
1. Go for the makeout a lot earlier and then if she gives the amber light the precedence is set for a solid makeout later. Going for the makeout at the last minute gives us no second chances. Should have started in the Ghost Train – escalate without fear.
2. Take the number earlier so it’s not a quick number and makeout double-whammy at the end. Too pick-up-like.
3. Don’t tell her you’re saving her ass as ‘Becca Pier’ = Player.


So they go, and we make plans to see each other when she comes down next.

After all that ‘Becca Pier’ stuff I’ve just scrolled through my text messages and realised I actually sent her ‘Get home safe’ message to the wrong Becca – D’oh! No wonder she didn’t reply, lol.

So anyway… they go.

Back to Maisy...

I text Maisy:
Me: On the pier. Come and join us if you’re still in town. :)
Her: Still got to sort a few bits out in town maybe see you later?x

Cool.

JSRSD and I go home to chill out and take a nap. We wake up late and have missed meeting the girls in the bar. Schoolboy error, whatever. I call them and she says they’re with two guys 'who are friends' - she quickly adds - and may come back into town in an hour. She doesn't.

Pants, she was damn fit. If we'd have met them earlier as planned it would have been a different story. A little frustrating but ultimately irrelevant.

We head off into town for night game.

Night game, coming soon...

Subsequent Maisy texts

I’ve been texting Maisy since then - it's in the balance. This is what’s gone down:

Two days later:
Me: Hey Maisy, come and join me in town tomorrow for a glorious day. Will be fun – let me know. ;)
Her: I can’t I’ve got lots to do tomorrow sorry! Thankyou x
Me: I’m leaving Brighton on Monday and I’d really like to see you before I go. When’s a good time for you?
Her: Ahh I’m so busy at the moment but possibly Sunday daytime?x
Me: Yeah cool. I’ll be free from about 1pm. I’ll call you Saturday and let you know the plan. x
[I’m keeping my options open here as if the weather was nice JSRSD and I were going to a hottie’s barbecue = lots of new hotties.]

Her: Ok speak soon x

Saturday:
Me: 1pm tomorrow… inspiring times. ;) Meet in town or I’ll pick you up if easier – let me know. x
[Should have led more here, with a shitload more certainty.]

Her: I’m so sorry I can’t my brothers planned a day with my dad for fathers day! When are you back?x
Me: Boo… lame! Well, dads are cool so I’ll let you off – but only once, missy, okay? ;) I’m moving here in 4-5 weeks. Gives you plenty of time to get excited about seeing me again. ;) x
Her: Haha ok see u soon x

Three days later:
Me: Hey Maisy, on the boat now. What’s your email address – I’ll add you on Facebook. ;)
Her: Its maisy _____ on facebook. Just to let you know I’ve started seeing someone.. But would still be good to see you when your back. Safe journey x
[Now… this could be one of the guys they were with the night JSRSD and I overslept, oh well… game on. ;) ]

Me: Lol – I like your style. ‘Seeing someone’ or not, I’m still gonna own your ass. ;)
Her: Haha you think x
Me: Maisy, I eat girls like you for breakfast. ;) Five weeks…
[In hindsight this may have set too much of a Challenge frame which she now feels compelled to play into. That’s okay, challenges are good… and I’ve got lots of girls in the pipeline so am not really attached to this one. She IS fit though and would make a worthy addition to the harem. We’ll see.]

Her: You can try…
[See – Challenge frame and no kisses. Lesson learned. I recalibrate and pull back a little here.]

Me: Whatever happens, we’ll have a lot of fun. Good night. ;)
Her: Night x

I look her up on Facebook. My GOD – she has some FIT FIT FIT pictures here. Yum yum, and her one listed ‘Activity’? Perving. Nice.

I add her with the message:
Top interest: Perving - You've totally just gone up in my estimation.

I thought you were maybe a little on the quiet side for me.

Maybe we'll get along after all...


She hasn’t accepted my friend request yet. In light of no additional knowledge I’m assuming that’s because she’s seeing someone and doesn’t want him to know that she really wants to fuck me.

I get back to Brighton after two weeks not five and call her. She’s out shopping with her mum and sounds happy to hear from me. She says she’s looking forward to meeting up.

I text her the next day:
Me: Monday-Wednesday is good for me most weeks, sometimes Sunday night. And a good time for you is…
Her: [No reply]

Two days later (today):
Me: Maisy, don’t be shy. ;) There’s this cool little tea room I’ve wanted to check out for ages. Join me for afternoon tea. It’ll be fun. x
Her: Today’s not a good day, not very well :( - under my duvet catching up with breaking bad you’d be glad to hear!
[I don’t know if this is real or if she’s just blowing me off here, so I ramp up some vibe.]

Me: Ah bless… Maisy’s not feeling well. *Sniffle sniffle tear* :*( … I’ll come round and plush and flump your pillows so they’re all nice and fluffy like soft little clouds of joy, and tuck you up all nice and snug in your cuddly duvet – like a cute little glow-worm in a toasty-warm cocoon, stroking your hair gently as we (loudly) slurp rich and creamy delicious hot chocolate with pink and cream marshmallows bobbing on top, watching Breaking Bad; listening to the wind gushing as we’re snuggled up inside feeling all toasty… or you could just get your shit together and come for one cup of tea. ;) Come on… I’ll pick you up, it’ll be fun. X
Her: Haha hilarious! Honestly I had to cancel so much stuff today so I’m not leaving the house! Sorry x
[I’m still not sure if this is the truth, although I get the feeling it probably is…]

Me: Okay… so option 1 it is. You got marshmallows? ;)
Her: [No reply]
[Hmm… really not too sure here, but what the real situation is is irrelevant. The game is still on. I recalibrate and go for a different, less direct, vibe.]

An hour later…
Me: By the way, Breaking Bad Season 4 starts next Thursday… fuck yeah. ;) What season / episode are you up to?
Her: [No reply]

This was about seven hours ago.

This is still blatantly on – it’s in the balance. It’s now down to solid game.

Feedback and suggestions welcomed and appreciated - I know my text game could have been tighter. ;)

Also text Becca Pier today, it’s still on. She’s moving to Brighton in September. Nice. :)
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