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January 21st, 2017
What's the deal with pick up and not seeing progress?
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#21
slothfulpizza

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Join Date: 10/19/2009 | Posts: 920

2 nights a week.

uhmmm..

2 nights are weak!
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#22
ludvig

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I did not read the answers this far.
Anyway. You sound like me, dude.
I went out 1-2 nights a week for 2 years. Didn´t get far.

Now I feel I´m making progress.

Why?

- decisiveness. I decided to be manly. Not weak ever again.
   * AA used to be the main problem for me. AA is history because I decided it will never happen again. Not once.
   * not get good at this? Fuck, I don´t want to be that loser guy.

I read Brad´s stuff and he said he went out 6-7 nights a week for about 2 years and got great. Tyler went out a lot. I thought why the fuck am I not doing that.
So I tried going out A LOT more. 5-6 nights a week  (with a job. I started working again and realized it sucks so much I´m gonna make my life awesome by going out every night and sleeping in the day)
 - you face a problem every night. You go on the forum to find a solution. You go out the next night and fix it. When you go out 6-7 nights a week and keep fixing things you should get
    pretty good. At least I hope I will.
 - You can experiment stuff. No biggie if you don´t pull. You´re going out the next day again.

Also

I got muscles.  Now the girls magically liked me. Not enough to get results though.

I´m more motivated.
    = horny. I keep myself as horny as possible. If not -> no progress
   
I decided I will get awesome at this.
  - It will be so fucking cool.

I USE the tips I learn here in the bar
  - I realized I read the forum and know every detail here. But in the bar I apply about 10 % of it and keep doing things the same way.

I´m focused on how to get there
  - focused on getting better. Not just going out and trying to get a girl tonight. Brad wanted to be the best. I want to be like Brad, heh.


This has been my case. I hope something here helped you too.
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#23
jlaix

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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 8772

wow bro, two nights a week, a whole YEAR and A HALF? I'm surprised you're not fucking pornstars yet. 

There is a distinct difference between "just showing up" and "putting in WORK."
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#24
Paris Boum Boum

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-Go out more
-Make 1 or 2 or 3 30 day challenges. Annihilate your inner loser. 
-"Just close" (Ozzie), "Just pull" (ambiguity), ie make moves, kiss and try to pull EVER NIGHT, you'll be going somewhere. Or don't do it and suffer in silence for another 20 years of frustration and loneliness. 

Also this may help: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/158652
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#25
Steve-0!

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 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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#26
Colt

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fullysick wrote:
 LOL what cupcakes said. 

go out 7 nights a week and push things HARD. 

escalate hard. 

do things you're scared to do. 



ditto

pushing yourself is confidence is game
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#27
Colt

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learn. take pua classes
go out and implement it ..


when u r first going at it you have to be willing to make a million mistakes and fail over and over again until the path is shown. u are a social scientist.
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