THE FORUMS

THURSDAY

Go out solo and sober. Get to the venue after midnight some time. The place is over packed and hyped out, lots of dudes. I pretty much chode out the whole night. I see a few girls that are my style and very hot, just seeing them gives me a boner. I still dont approach them... Someone point a gun at my head and pull the trigger so we blow this weak pussy ass fucking mind away.... 
I mean I was talking with girls. And I ran into some buddys so had fun shooting the shit with them. But all in all I weasnt executing the program. I wasnt acting how  I wanted nor getting what I wanted.

FRIDAY

go out with a friend. Meet up with his group of peeps at a bar, which includes his very gorgeous cousin. She's a 10 and used to be in some American Miss USA crap or whatever? Anyhow forget about her she is unimportant.
The point is hanging with all of them actually got me sorta warmed up - as opposed to driving out alone and then being overwhelmed by a nightclub.

We branch off from most of them, so its just me and two other dudes. Get to the clubs just a little before 1am. Don't stay at this venue for very long. I get maybe 3 or 4 approaches in. The first girl I approach.
Me: This is my favorite song - - - (as I pull her in close to me... actually I been using this as an opener. Because its always there, its just a defualt. And some reason girls will always open up with it)
Her: Do you have a condom?
I was thinking wtf... But as we started talking I found out she was playing some bachlorette game and to win a free shot she had to find a guys condom. I let her know I did have a condom, but I didnt give it to her. I told her I needed it too much. Of course I was playing the typical angle of she could have it if she were using it with me... Made her feel inside my pocket so she could feel it herself. But we were stuck on the condom topic and eventually it burnt out. She left empty handed.

Opened a couple other girls - All in all I was feeling very relaxed and out of my head. But I wasnt approaching a lot yet.

We switch venues, why? I dont know why... Wait in line for this other venue. Get inside and only have like 20 minutes left. Its loud as fuck. We hit up the dancefloor. I grab some birthday girl and just start hugging her. She is not into it at first, but I keep hugging her. Picking her up and slowly spinning her as I walk her a bit from her friends. A bit of talking. Try for the makeout. No go, her friends are right there. After some point I pull back from pure physical dominance... Her friends kinda drift her into them, yet they dont exactly steal her away.... But I puss out, or dont push it hard enough I guess - and she leaves.

A few more interactions, but nothing major. Gotta get this momentum going.
I swear to god going sober has changed everything for me. Its like I'm relearning all sorts of newbie shit, but I know this time I'm REALLY learning them and I think I will quickly be at the level and surpassing where I was at just early last year.


.......I was gonna go to this girls house last night that I havent hooked up with yet. But since it was friday I decided to go out. Also my fuck buddy kept texting me all night, but after the clubs I just went home and passed out.
Tonight I was invited to this girls Bday party at a very big nightclub here. She is a 10. I gut her number while I was out one night a few months ago and never had the chance to follow up cause been out of town.... But she invited me out... I totally don't feel entitled to her, she is so out of my league, oh fuck she is hot. But I'm gonna go and just see what happens. In my stupid belief there is no way she is interested in me. But I always think like this.

I'm personally pretty tired of online game. I was mostly doing it because I had no time or opportunity to do much cold approach. But now that I'm in a better spot I think I'm done with that shit.... Search the main forums for Drama's online game thread - it will point you in the right direction... I also followed Jeffy's fusillade style of copy+pasting the same message and sending it out to like 20 chicks per setting.

And because I don't give a fuck I will give you some of my own personal openings copy+pastas that I made up and sent out.. maybe they suck, maybe they dont - but each one of these have lead to lays.

"damnnn you are gorgeous! You NEED to write me back, ok maybe not "need" but I definitely want you to."

"lets go on a date you little gold digger!"

"I'm the right guy, give me your fuking heart..."

"oh my gawd girl, youre so gorgeous. Do a little witchcraft spell on me to make me fall in love forever and I will fall in love with you forever... Well you know, Cause I'm highly susceptible to witchcraft and shit, whatever your face shut up!"

You get the idea....
I didn't always just copy paste... Sometimes for fun I would message like 15-20 girls in one setting but I would write a unique message for each one... going through and quckly firing off anything I wanted to say. I have had success doing that also.

I had two other messages that got an insane amount of positive feedback. I dont have them saved in my outbox anymore cause I havent used them in awhile.
But one was about making her my insta girlfriend. I would start off pissed cause she was so hot that now I HAD to make her my insta girlfriend, and she didnt have a choice in the matter, and that I was so proud of my new girlfriend and couldnt wait to show her off to my friends and then from what I remember I would say something like - We are boyfriend and girlfriend and we havent even met yet, what the fuck girl!?.... eh I dont remember it exactly, but girls loved it. 

The other one was even better.. Almost every girl would reply back and say it was the best message they EVER got. Essentially it was a role play message about how they were gonna join my gang of goonies and help me search for Chester Copperpots treasure while avoiding pirates and booby traps... Strangely enough I didnt even use it much and I didnt follow up on any of phone numbers I got because of it. Not sure why.

So just blast messages out... Anything really will work. And read through Drama's thread cause it will give good tips on how to write out your profile etc...
 

SATURDAY

I head out alone much later than when I wanted to be going out. Get to the club that I was supposed to meet up with the bday girl at. Spend some time walking around searching, not finding anyone I know... I talk my way into the VIP lounges upstairs, cause I figure thats where this girl will be.
Still can't find anyone. Should be approaching girls anyhow... I see a group of black chicks and a couple of black dudes in a private table/booth area with a nice balcony overlooking the whole club... I walk into their section and look out at the club aware of the fact that I'm probably invading their space.... I can see out of the corner of my eye the girls all making faces at me like "what the fuck is this person doing!"... One of the girls come behind me and starts dancing acting like she is grinding me. When I turn around and look at her with a questioning expression she gets all nervous and giddy "noo I was just acting like I was dancing on you", I turn back around to look out at the club again "Oh let me assume the position then". She cracks up laughing at this. The hottest girl of the group comes up to check whats going on I guess - giddy chick tries to explain to the hottie what I had said (not that it was all that great or even funny for that matter), then giddy girl points out to me that its hot girls bday. I quickly pull her in and give her a big hug wishing her happy bday.. She seems surprised by this. Me and her pair off and talk for a good 15 minutes.
Was actually pretty carefree with my conversation topics - just trying to run my mouth - I talked about my old sophisticated age (cause I'm a year older than her) and I talk about how cool my new shiny dress boots make me. I also kept pretty focused on my eye contact with her --  I kept catching my eye contact drifting off as I would speak, then I would remember and snap my eye contact back hard to her eyes. Right when I would do this I could feel a noticeable differance in the interaction. The eye contact would automatically make me feel aroused and flirty. It would create that tension.
She asks to see me dance. I tell her I will only dance WITH her. She turns around a presses her ass into my crotch... and does the booty shake. You know how a girl can make her ass vibrate essentially? Well thats what was happening she was just vibrating her ass and within 2 seconds at the most I had a solid hard on tenting away like crazy, no shame!
She stops and I say "damn! vibrating like my own little toy." I was truthfully shocked at how good she just made me feel in no time at all.
In a bit we smell the aroma of bud being smoked. She gets all excited and claims to be a daily smoker. I say "lets go find it" I grab her by the hand and pull her away from her table and friends. Once isolated from her firends I get alot more physical, I grasp her hips and keep her pulled into me. We make out a bit... I'm feeling a bit self concious because I was pretty much one of the only white dude in this whole place, and I could tell alot of black dudes were watching me pull this girl around and manhandle her....

I start probing her and screening "What you doing after this?", I find out she lives really far away and has some family there with her that night too... so I assume its not gonna work between me and her. I make out a bit more and then tell her I'm gonna find my friends (meaning bday girl), she tells me I'm welcome to come back and join her at her table if I want....

After a bit more searching for the bday girI I was there to see, I go back to hit up black girl and as I expected she is cold and distant now - I didnt really care, I talked to her friends a bit then I leave that club to meet up with some friends that were partying at a nearby club.  The rest of the night is pretty chodey, I do approach a bit more but nothing note worthy happened. The night is over before I know it... Then on the streets I watch like 3 different fights going on and girls puking all over the place... Ahhhh to be sober and get to witness all this!!!!

Kinda sucks I didnt find the bday girl, and I choded alot this night - but ohwell I still had alot of fun.

Yeah I pretty much quit for health reasons too. It was fucking with my mood too much. Instead of getting hang overs I would often just get a severe depression that lasted all the next day... Physical pain I can handle no problem. Mental inbalance FUCK THAT - time to make a change.
On top of that I hated the fact that I NEEDED alcohol to approach girls. Like all my skill and confidence was fake... Which turns out is pretty true.