THE FORUMS

NEWBIE'S GUIDE:

Common obstacles: no action, too much anxiety, no approach, no fun, lame interactions, coming off weird / creepy, blow outs

Goal --> Get the right foundations, get solid foundations

How --> Focus on implementing the most important habits right from the start

1-Go out. Go out according to a plan of action: that way you make sure you remain on track when you are not yet succesful

2-Talk to people instead of choding out. Get social momentum: that way you make it a habit of talking to people when you are out. And implementing the habit of getting social momentum every night out. 

3-Positivity. Focus on what's awesome in any situation you're in, especially the bad ones. Practice by puttin yourself in bad situations and keeping a positive outlook. That way on the long term you prevent your state from fluctuating too much

4-Desensitize yourself from rejection. Reach the indifference threshold: become indifferent to getting rejected, by getting the habit of being blown out repeatedly and staying positive about it, at least 10x a night every night. Approach the hottest girls right off the bat, approach impossible sets.

5-Beastmode. Don't think just act: you'll never find enough good reasons to approach when you are anxious, so you'd better stop mind games right off the bat. Approach with without knowing what to say before you approach, approach with an empty mind

6-Approach X-number of hot girls a day / night / week (whatever). It doesn't matter if it goes well or not. It just matters that you get the habit of approaching girls, and approaching girls you'd love to fuck. 

7-Face your fears. Face your fears in a bee line: the more you avoid what you fear the more confidence you'll lose. Approach girls with guys, approach in uncomfortable situations, etc. 

You go out regularly, you approach a lot, you don't feel bad about PU or about any lack of success, you learn how to have fun, you train yourself make the most of every opportunity you see, you win a winner. 

06-24-11
Friday

House party. Decided to talk to people again. Need time to warm up. Not many legit hotties. 
I do a weak approach on one of the hottest girls. 
I could have gone for the make out and ze sex with a girl with beautiful eyes, but no boobz, so instead I went back home.
It's funny that when I first talked to her she thought I was a real asshole. Then she seemed to like me when I talked to her about ancient Greece.

Focus:
-No expectations
-Social momentum

Lesson:
It's better to be blown out quickly than to become a chode quickly

06-29-11
Wednesday

Went out for one hour. Boring drink with a grop of people I know. 
So with my buddy we left for a bar nearby. I didn't approach. He talked to a cute girl with curly hair. We thought upon pulling her with her friend. I didn't have the drive, so we left and I went home.

Lesson:
The gun is always loaded - I only need to believe it

06-30-11
Thursday
BATHROOM PULL + PULL

Chill with friends in a flat. Then we go out. 

I open girls in the streets. Blow outs are fun. We go crazy in the streets, like really. 

Bar we wanted to get in is closed. 

I approach a group. OK.

I approach 2 girls with 1 guy. 1 girl is hot but wasted. We have fun. I leave. 

My buddy is chatting the girl from yesterday. Then she leaves. I grab her and I instantly feel "DINGDONG SLUT TIEM". I start isolating her, then
I let her for my buddy. 

I take care of the friend. She likes me but not super hot. The guy who was picking her up since I arrived got vaporized. 

I talk to her group. 1 legit hottie. Befriending. 

Now I am alone. My buddy is with the first girl somewhere, and the other friends are elsewhere where I can't go. 

I go help my buddy, who was surrounded by guys looking at the show. 

We go to another bar. 

I hook with a girl but she's not super hot. 

I get blown out here and there. L-O-L

Closing time. I talk to a tall chick. Ok, but not super cute. Body is ok. After the 2nd sentence, I think "DINGDONG SLUT TIEM". She tells me she
is with her friend / boyfriend. Meanwhile I am putting my finger in her pockets to massage her pussy. 

We go to another bar. 

I scare 1 cute girl. 

I talk to the ok girl again. She tells me to leave, to go away, she says goodnight, about 10 times. I understand she wants to get dick, and the guys
she is with is gonna provide her with it. I plow, I am cooler than cool. 

I tell her I don't want sex, it's dirty, blah blah. She says she loves it. I ask her what's the point of sex. She says it feels good. 

I tell her we are getting outside. She says no. I try again 3x. 

Then we both go to the toilets.

Of course. 

It's full so meanwhile I pull her hair, teaser her, touch pussy, put her hand on my cock. She says I am a dirty bastard, she thought I was shy, and
now she sees I am a dirty scumbag, but she likes it it seems. 

I throw her in the bathroom. 

I pull my cock out. 

She gets very logical. I understand, there is piss everywhere.

I slowly realize there is no way to get my cock sucked. And to fuck. 

Then she seems to be receptive. Because I am so funny. 

But now bouncer is opening the door. 

We leave. 

She wants to get back to her friend. She tells me he told her today that he was in love with her. 

I mindfuck her to come home with me. She can't. She won't. She tries. Then she does. 

She tells me she's on her period, no fucking.

I bring her home. 

I massage her tits while reading "La princesse de Clèves", a 17th century novel.

She likes it but no fucking. 

It was fun though.