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Posted July 26th, 2012 at 12:58 AM
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Cool - I'd avise April because the weather is better, and when the sun is shining, the girls are unbelievable. 

Best period is May-June-July to me, but March is cool too, you'll get the real Parisian experience. 

Also ou have no respect for french grammar, fuck you. . 
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 Yeah I'm still planning on it, I think I can make it around March/April possibly. Are there gonna be any hot french girls left by then? J'adore les femmes de francaise. 
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Posted July 26th, 2012 at 12:59 AM
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Come baby, come.
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 OMG. Want to go.
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Posted July 26th, 2012 at 6:02 PM
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Today I've realized my mistake: caring that it doesn't work. Why do I care ? Why do I care if people are weird / awkward / socially uncomfortable ?

If I care I'll feel bad. 

If I don't care
I'll find it funny and play with it.

1, 10, 20 rejections, even if they are weird as fuck like yesterday, don't say shit about me or my abilities. 

Gerrard, a.k.a. ZE UNIVERSE, wanted me to experience this, so that I question myself about my emotional involvment to the outcome of interactions with people I don't even know. He wanted to teach me that I'll be a slave to other people's reactions to me as long as I care in the slightest. He must also be teaching something else but I'm too dumb to figure it out. 
Paris Boum Boum wrote:
07-25-12
Wednesday

Tonight I got "rejected" a lot, and it made me think.

For example, a girl with big boobz, a 7, preferred to KISS HER BROTHER'S BF in front of me, instead of just talking to me. 

I had to reapproach a 2 set 6 TIMES before they would answer me after my first sentence. 

Usually I don't give a shit, because I end up meeting nice women. 

But tonight  I dunno... my friend was drunk also man... I dunno I just felt sad for me, and for the girls. 

I dunno. 

I'm barely human. 
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Posted July 26th, 2012 at 9:13 PM
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This is HUGE for me. I have come to the same realization. 

I've said this in countless threads at this point, but it's simply because it's been so intstrumental in my growth process so far... But what you just said boils down to simply putting your faith in "The Process". 

If you go out because your focus is on results, you will feel that you failed and it will be much easier to give up. 

if you go out with your focus on "The Process" and with your focus on simply approaching becuase you recognize that it's part of the process, you will be content with whatever happens in the night and simply be okay with the process taking its time and working itself out. 

Very nice post. 
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APPROACHING AND ABUNDANCE

This is something I wish I had focused on as a newbie, because I am intermediate and still struggling with this. 

You can see approaching in two different ways. 

You can see it as a way to interact with a new girl and try to bang her. That's what I did. 

Or you can see it as a way to make you live in abundance. That's what I didn't see before. 

Here is how I would analyze the difference between the two. 

In the first case, your end goal is to get a girl. It's all well and good. But if you're like me, if you approached a hot girl, you think you could fuck her, and then it doesn't happen, well you become a but upset. I am waiting to get girls before living in abundance. This is why it feels so bad when it doesn't work:  you're brought back to scarcity. 

As oddly as it sounds, you can feel scarcity even when you approach lots of girls, if you view an approach as a way to get a girl, and not as an abundance building process. That's why you see me whining sometimes in my FR when I didn't get a girl I really, really liked. 

Approaching as an abundance building process is precisely designed to be an outlet for that kind of feeling. 

When you approach just to approach and to show your brain you can approach anyone - WITHOUT CARING ABOUT GETTING THE GIRL - your brain gets it that you can meet loads of new girls effortlessly. 

You naturally feel abundance because you know you can meet a new girl in the next 5 min. There is no scarcity if it doesn't work with one girl. 

The key point here is that you have abundance BEFORE getting the girls, whereas in the first case you have abundance only AFTER you get girls. 

In a nutshell: approaching doesnt always build abundance per se, you still have to view approaching a certain way to make abundance a reality for you, because if you approach a lot out of scarcity you'll lose many girls you wouldn't have lost if you were feeling abundance. 

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Posted July 28th, 2012 at 11:06 AM
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"In 6 months from now, will a rejection from that girl still affect me ? In 5 years ? In 10 years ? 
No.
But the confidence I'll get from approaching will still affect me. 
I might as well approach".
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Posted July 28th, 2012 at 11:57 AM
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Posted July 28th, 2012 at 12:09 PM
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"You have to believe in yourself as strongly as people believe in God" - Paris Boum Boum. 
Buddhagames wrote:
This is HUGE for me. I have come to the same realization. 

I've said this in countless threads at this point, but it's simply because it's been so intstrumental in my growth process so far... But what you just said boils down to simply putting your faith in "The Process". 

If you go out because your focus is on results, you will feel that you failed and it will be much easier to give up. 

if you go out with your focus on "The Process" and with your focus on simply approaching becuase you recognize that it's part of the process, you will be content with whatever happens in the night and simply be okay with the process taking its time and working itself out. 

Very nice post. 
Paris Boum Boum wrote:
APPROACHING AND ABUNDANCE

This is something I wish I had focused on as a newbie, because I am intermediate and still struggling with this. 

You can see approaching in two different ways. 

You can see it as a way to interact with a new girl and try to bang her. That's what I did. 

Or you can see it as a way to make you live in abundance. That's what I didn't see before. 

Here is how I would analyze the difference between the two. 

In the first case, your end goal is to get a girl. It's all well and good. But if you're like me, if you approached a hot girl, you think you could fuck her, and then it doesn't happen, well you become a but upset. I am waiting to get girls before living in abundance. This is why it feels so bad when it doesn't work:  you're brought back to scarcity. 

As oddly as it sounds, you can feel scarcity even when you approach lots of girls, if you view an approach as a way to get a girl, and not as an abundance building process. That's why you see me whining sometimes in my FR when I didn't get a girl I really, really liked. 

Approaching as an abundance building process is precisely designed to be an outlet for that kind of feeling. 

When you approach just to approach and to show your brain you can approach anyone - WITHOUT CARING ABOUT GETTING THE GIRL - your brain gets it that you can meet loads of new girls effortlessly. 

You naturally feel abundance because you know you can meet a new girl in the next 5 min. There is no scarcity if it doesn't work with one girl. 

The key point here is that you have abundance BEFORE getting the girls, whereas in the first case you have abundance only AFTER you get girls. 

In a nutshell: approaching doesnt always build abundance per se, you still have to view approaching a certain way to make abundance a reality for you, because if you approach a lot out of scarcity you'll lose many girls you wouldn't have lost if you were feeling abundance. 


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Posted July 30th, 2012 at 12:46 AM
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I had a strange night yesterday, and it was supposed to be my "last before September", but I want to make it as fruitful as possible, so here is an analytical FR. 

THE 10PM RULE
Action wise it wasn't the greatest night. But this is my fault, in the sense that 1/ I didn't use all my willpower 2/ There are things I did the hour before and the day before etc that led me there. 
I wasn't in the mood AT ALL. I went out late after spending too much time surfing the internette (typical mistake numero uno).
Before I had a rule that no matter what happened, I'd be out of my house by 10PM. I forgot that rule when I realized I didn't have to show up that early to get girls. But this rule is good not for what it does, but for it prevents you from doing : if I go out at 10PM, I stop being a fucking basement neckbeard internet retard at 10.

WILLPOWER AND BRAIN POWER
Using willpower is using energy. When you lack energy you can't use your willpower all the time for everything. The trick is to internalize some habits so that it doesn't take much brain power to do them. 

THE HOT GIRL APPROACH PARADOX ?
On my way to see a friend, I stopped to a bar I used to go to. It was filled with girls. I didn't approach. I remember there was an American girl who was hot as fuck, cute brunette with massive boobz. 

(cont2morrow)
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Posted July 30th, 2012 at 6:09 PM
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yesss

"You have to believe in yourself as strongly as people believe in God" - Paris Boum Boum.
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Posted December 2nd, 2012 at 11:40 PM
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Keep it going bro ! What about the blog ? :)
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