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Paris Boum Boum

Paris Boum Boum

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Join Date: 04/02/2009 | Posts: 2491

03-23-12
Friday

I don't remember much. 


Bar 1:

-I get physical right off the bat with the first girls I see and they love it. This is how it works.

-I approach girls with "I'm hot and I'm cool". "I'm handsome". "Handsome". 

-A girl wants me but I don't find her hot. 

-There are not many legit hot girls, but also I don't push it super hard. 

-I have fun with my buddy talking to girls, absolutely no outcome in mind, it was fucking funny. 

-I remember blowing myself out with a Russian chick. It reminded me I should go hard. Good that I approached. 

-But I didn't approach her super cute brunette friend later on as I saw her in the toilets. I make too many excuses again. 

-Overall I talk to girls but don't go hard at all, I have a hard time finding hot girls, and when I finally do I make excuses too often.


Bar 2:

-I approach a Mexican looking chick who is hot as fuck. She was with a guy,n but I approached her when she was alone. "The BF never exists" - I forgot that. Still I plow hard with her. She gives me shit but OTOH her body says "keep on doing it man it's ok". 
"Do you speak French ? Did you know that french people invented horses ?"
What helped me to plow way longer than expected was that I was asking myself "why am I talking to her ?". It's money. When I can answedr "to fuck her", it totally changes my vibe. 
I give up, later on I see her wasted as fuck with the same guy. 

-I don't approach a blonde girl with boobz who was with a guy. Excuses again. 

-I talk to a beautiful foreign chick with not much boobz. She was beautiful, it was cool, but I pussied out. Why ? I didn't believe in it. Why ? I thought I was not enough. 
Key mindsets: why am I talking to her ? / I am enough in whatever circumstances with whatever people. 

-Approached the bartender's chick or friend or whatever. She kinda loved it. But the bartender who usually offers me drinks gave me some shit about it so I didn't push. 

-A married girl with kids, 28 and HOT is there, a friend of a friend of a friend. Her husband is here. They are cool. I feel she's attracted, she pays me a drink, we are a bit physical, then I bail. 

-I approach girls but I isn't workng the way I want. Also the super hotties are still to be found. 

-A group of foreign girls in high heels and classy dress are coming. My natural friend jokes about them, I approach them right away. I get in the gril of the brunette, hug her a bit, etc. Another natural friend says "you guys scare girls away". 

-Example: at closing time, my natural friend who is on fire approaches every girl and asks "do you want to go out with me / be my GF ? Quick it's closing time make up your mind NOW !" and goes to the other girls while the first one is in mid-sentence.  

-I talk to a blonde American chick. She was cool and cute. I want more boobz so I don't push.


Bar 3:

-An Eastern European girl approaches me. I'm hot. 

-I see finally a girl I find hawwt. Short hair, nice skin, good tits, nice ass. I approach -yeah. I plow a bit but I don't feel the attraction going. Also I was afraid of scaring her by being super physical on her ass. I forgot yesterday's lesson: girls liked to be imposed their reality. 
Also I was afraid she was a dyke / babydyke (she looked like one). 
I pat myself on the back though. 

-I see a girl I know with friends. I know that if I stay there she'll kill my night, she's a social leech. I don't do the same mistakes as before and decide to leave right away. 
But I don't approach a hot brunette that way. I thought the guy she was with before was her BF. BS. 
BF=BS


Bar 4:

-I ditch my friend who are going to smoke joints in their flat. I go out alone. 

-Super hot blonde passing by. I grab her and say "blonde hair tax" and get physical with her. My mistake here was that I didn't go for the make out right away. She was giggling and liked it - then her friends grabbed her and she left. That's how it's done son. 

-A nice looking girl with some boobz gives me hardcore shit. 
"Your shit doesn't work man" "what you say is lame" "go away" "let me alone" "what is this kind of bullshit you are saying" etc
I plow hard and finally her frame crumbles. 
She doesn't understand that I wasn't serious at first, so to me she's dumb as fuck with nice tits. I now say shit like :
"Noo don't go I believed in you I love I feel you in my heart why are you doing this to me blah blah". 
But it doesn't go anywhere as I finally don't give a fuck. 

-I don't approach a group of 3 UK girls that were ok but looked hot in their dresses. Totally irrational as the girl I fucked on Monday was less hot. 


Bar 5:

-I see the girl from before with short hair. I decide she's a lesbian now so I don't do shit. 

-I approach a hot girl in the toilets. She kinda likes it but I am sure she has a BF hence her confusion. I pussy out outside when I see her again. I'm afraid that guy is her BF. I am gay.

-I talk to a blonde girl, I plow, but she's a chode and I think the guy was her BF.


Houseparty:

-A female friend calls me, there are less than 10 people left but I go there. Not much talent. We leave late. We go at McDonalds, and I'm with my friend and another girl. It reminded me how thirsty for sex girls are :" God I haven't been fucked in 10 days I want to fuck so much right now". Then a guy I knew comes by says hi and they're like "OMG he's hot he's mine back off bitch Imma get him". Lol. 


Final bar:

-I don't stay late. I approach the first "hot" girl, who was also the only one. I bail because of my female friend because I am a beta loser lol. We leave.


The end.  
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Paris Boum Boum

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"Hello Paris Boum Boum,

Zis iz ZE UNIVERSE. My name is GERARRD. 

I wanted to tell you that you are not allowed to be super pimp extreme until you learn a few hard lessons.

You know I want to be nice to you. But if I want to be nice to you, I can't give you what you want. Otherwise I would always do the work and you would have no responsibility in your success. What I can do however is giving what you need. To be nice to you is to give you what you need to get what you want. 

You could be super pimp extreme now but it wouldn't be as fun for me - and for you. 

So every time there's a night with no tangible results, remind yourself zat ZE UNIVERSE a.k.a. GERARRD is teaching you a lesson you need to learn before becoming super pimp extreme. Every night without result, I am giving you what you need to get what you want. 
You just have to find it, learn it and apply it. 

Yours truly,

ZE UNIVERSE a.k.a. GERARRD"
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Paris Boum Boum

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03-24-12
Saturday

BE LIMITED BY REALITY NOT BY YOURSELF - KING OF THE JUNGLE WINS

House party.
Meet female friend (FF) and her BF.
I am happy to be here because the last time I went to a new year's party here I was an effortless pimp.

See girl I wanted to fuck last week. She invited us.
It's her birthday, she's Birthday Girl.

Talk to everybody.
I feel good, everything is easy.
Then I postpone a few approaches.
Still good anyway.

Talk to a short blonde.
She's got beautiful eyes.
At first I thought she was only ok.
But the more I talk to her the more I like her.
Plus I realize now it's in the bag. When I get slightly physical, she blushes.
Then FF comes in.
Vibe is broken.
I think short blonde thought she was my GF.
I don't reapproach soon after.
She leaves early. I ask for her #, but meekly, and I don't get it.
I don't understand because my intuition told me it would be super easy.

I talk to an Italian girl with very nice boobz.
But her face is so so.
I hesitate a lot because I like her boobz.
She seems to like me.
I don't push and I leave.

I talk to Stripe Girl.
Huge boobz.
Butterface.
She seems to like me, but I leave.

I start to lose my state for no reason.
Oh yeah I know: I am tired, hungry and sober.
I stay in my corner and I become super sad for not reason.

I talk to Mary.
She's super hot.
Totally my type.
Super cute. Hot. Big tits.
She's nice. But I don't feel her much.
My first mistake is to think the she was with when I approached was with her.
But I plowed through so it's ok.
Then I assumed she was with one of the guy of her group.
I didn't reopen her, she didn't reapproach me.

I talk to Anastasia.
It's ok but she's not super hot so I don't care.

I talk to Big Boobz.
I try many many times but she never stops and blows me out every time.

I talk to Nederlands.
I thought she was hot.
But she's only ok.
I hesitate.
I stop interacting with her.

I talk to Blondie.
I get physical right off the bat and she likes it.
I grab her and hold her around like a doll. It's super fun.
I go for the make out. She has a BF.
She leaves to fetch a friend.
Then I don't reapproach her much.

I talk to many other girls, but not worth mentioning.

I remember I talked briefly to a guy who was so good looking it made me sick. His eyes had a color I've never seen before. Plus the guy is cool as fuck, he's confident, etc, etc. I caught myself thinking "fuck him, it's too easy for him because of his eyes / face / whatever". 
But I realize later on (2 days after), that it doesn't say shit about me, my skills, and what I can do. I can have fucked up eyes, and still have the most hardcore self-confidence ever. In that case I would get the girls. So it's not an issue. 

I saw fucked up things.

An Italian natural was ready to fight a guy for her GF. Then the GF was madly in love with him. She pulled him.

I want to fuck BG.
FF likes her. We joke about 3somes. I explain her the plan: bring the girl here, make out with her, then I make out with them and we go to the room nearby.
She does it but then she stays with her.
BG doesn't want me, she only wanted FF.
So they go to the room and I wait for my friend.

I get angry because everybody starts suddenly talking to me when the girls were making out and I was trying to get the 2 of them. As though suddenly the universe made everything to wreck my plan.

I hesitate to go to a room where 2 girls are sleeping. I talked to them and I did a nice gesture to them.
But I didn't dive in their bed, so nothing happened.

I go home, wondering.

V:
-I approached Mary and it was cool until I put limits on myself for no reason. Approaching is always good. 
-I approached the blonde girl and it was cool until I put limits on myself for no reason. Approaching is always better. 
-I tried to make the 3some happen. 

L:
-Approaching is always better
-King of the jungle wins
-Being apologetic and not pushing the interactions lead to no interesting results. 
-Every night I don't approach enough hotties I reduce my chances of getting a hottie that night. 
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Paris Boum Boum

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03-25-12
Sunday


Go to gay bar. 

Talk to a very very hot black girl. Better than not approaching. She's gay. 

Talk to a tall chick before leaving. Goes nowhere. 

Not many hot girls. 

Go elsewhere. 

Get pissed because friend of friend doesn't love me. Lol. 

Talk to 3 set in the street. 

V
-Talked to the tall girl. Didn't like her that much. 
-Talked to the super hot girl. It was cool. 

L
-When I go to place with close to no hotties I can't get what I want. 
-When I crush my own confidence before approaching it's not as good as when I don't think about it. 
-It's always better to approach. 
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Paris Boum Boum

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Tears in my eyes...

"Wannabe PUA fails at becoming TylerCookfromakarealsocialdynamics but writes FR all the time - Becomes acclaimed Pulitzer prize winner - Fucks 10s all the time because of drugs, fame and money". 


maxil wrote:



Paris Boum Boum wrote:
Hey, come in!

Long time no see. Let me get your coat. How are you doing ? Have a seat, and get yourself comfortable. We need some nice music, and a fine bottle to celebrate. 

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Look at what I've found ! The ancients used to call this "the blood of the earth" - not a bad name for something that makes us more alive inside. This bottle was given to me by a friend of mine, whose aunt living in the south of France...

...exactly, so I told him...

...no! I knew it !....

...money comes and goes, man. I wish I had more, but ...

...which one, the one with the...

...so that's when I decided ...

...you're never aware of your own progresses. But they are there. Look, yesterday, I was typing on a public internet computer. There was a bunch of guys, 5 or 6, speaking super loudly, not even using the computers, just hanging out and speaking loud next to me. I couldn't focus, write or hear anything from the music in my headphones. The manager told them to leave, but they didn't. Then after waiting a bit, I said 2 sentences, and they all vanished. Like this. Funny uh ?
Then I realized it worked for a reason: my voice was projecting more than all of them at once, I wasn't afraid to cut them and impose my self over their conversation, I took my time as I was speaking, I showed I could handle far more pressure than they could. They just said "oh ok sorry" and left. The same guys who didn't obey the manager twice before. 
So this is not a big deal, but when I look at the evolution of my social skills, it's huge. 
The improvements are there, but when you're deep into it you don't even realize it...

...yeah my computer is rubbish, what do you think of ...

...and when I did this...

...have you ever been to...

...my goal at first was to become so attractive that I could get the most awesome and beautiful girlfriend I could, and have her not dump me. Yes, there was a bit of scarcity behind it. But you could also view it as "I want to be with the girl of my choosing". 
So I thought "I should be able to attract and fuck consistently the hottest girls", and wanted to get better at that...

...I am not so proud of my results. Yes, on one hand I now I am rather negative when it comes to my progression. But OTOH, when I look at the facts, I am not actually fucking the girls I really want. 
It seems so hard. I don't always approach them. And when I do it's not easy to hook them, then to hold their attention, then to escalate, and even less to pull them or fuck them. 
When I compare to less hot girls that I've fucked, the main difference is this: I am not afraid to lose the less hot girls, and I am having fun in the process, whereas I am afraid to lose the hottest girls and the process becomes something painstaking where I am deeply emotionally involved.
In the first case, the girl gets tested, in the second one I feel I am the one who is getting tested...

...I remember I got jealous lately when I saw a natural I know making out with a nice hot girl. Not because of that one girl, but... Sorry I'm a very bad host, take some more wine.

...so not because of that girl, but because of what she represented. She's a nice normal looking girl (ie not a supermodel, superflashy girl), but very very hot. That's the kind of girl I want to be surrounded with, and fuck consistently. Unfortunately this is not happening...

...the hard part is to see every failure from you as a part of the learning process. Every obstacle is just a problem that needs to be solved. Not a moutain that can't be moved...

...first you have to admit that you suck. That's a very important part. As long as you think that you're the shit, you don't think you need to learn anything. You want the results, right away...

Hold on, wait a second.

(to be continued)
This is it. The BEST writing on this journal (the music, the mise-en-scène, the style ... It's perfect)
Bravo ! Keep it up
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Paris Boum Boum

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03-26-12
03-27-12
Monday & Tuesday

I almost didn't go out. I went out on Monday but it was social time ie no cold approach, just chilling. 
Also I want a healthier lifestyle and I have to pay more attention to my sleeping patterns, so I go home early.

03-28-12
Wednesday

ATTRACT CUTIE - PLOW LIKE A BOSS

I don't remember much, but I've finally realized that I don't acknowledge that I am pimp. And by failing to do that I adopt weak chode behaviors.

I talked to a cute tiny girl. She seemed to like me. Then she saw me talk to another girl and getting physical, she didn't like it, she told me she didn't want to hear my story because she saw me with her. She left with her friends to another bar, and I didn't follow. Sometimes jealousy plotlines don't work lol. 

I talk to a blonde waiting near the toilets. At first she didn't like it, but I plowed like a boss and she finally became sweet and I could get physical with her. 

I talk to a short girl with nice boobz. It didn't work at first. I reopened her 5 min after, this time totally chill, ie "hey, my name is Paris, how are you, blah blah". She was happy to talk. I couldn't get super physical. Then I realized it was because her BF was here. But it was cool and good. 

I must have talked to other girls in that bar, but that's all I can remember: attracting a cutie and plowing like a boss. 


03-29-12
Thursday

BE SOCIAL: MISSION ACCOMPLISHED

My only goal for tonight was to be social: talk to 10 different people, that's it. Why ?
I want to be home early and take care of my sleep. Also I go out late, so I only have 1h. The best use I can have with that time is to work on getting momentum. 

I talked to people, frankly many were lame. I would grab girls and ask them if the people I were with were hot (sidenote they were). One girl said "NO!!!!", another "I can't see", another "meeeeh".

Talked to guys, nothing interesting, at least I went out and grabbed girls. 

Also during the day a hot girl had a huge smile when I looked at her from the opposite stair. Also I realized that if I don't approach the result will be nothing. 
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Paris Boum Boum

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Money thread and reply by Pringles (one of rsdn's best posters nowadays I think)

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/216608?#comment-855725

pringles wrote:

Dude come on you have been in this game, you have pulled ass already....acknowledge that you know everything you need to know to pull a lot and consistently in this game....give yourself some trust....go into your sets from now really believing that you've got ALL the info you need and that the right thing to do or say will happen on automatic.

Paris mate how the fuck do you not know what you are doing? Fucking focus on the fundamentals, go out an execute them.....that is winning in the game. The results are inevitable.

But for your sake i'll give you background info. Started pimping at about 16, i remember my first couple of sets, i was stifled as it was miles out of my comfort but i applied the mystrey method tactics i knew anyway, taking right action despite my emotional headspace made me feel awesome. I read adam lyons's shit. Applied that too with the mystrey method bits that worked for me and boom i started getting numbers and dates, and was fucking excited about the possibilities. Can you see how my RAS was being shifted? It was on the process, it wasn't like i was getting every girls number...but i knew if i kept at it it would improve, i was at perfect peace with where i was and fully excited about improving. Soon i ended up bumping into RSD material.... it opened my eyes to the world of social dynamics....i had been dodging it previously because of everyone bashing it. But i wanted to get good at this and ended up finding the material that was closest to reality.

From here it got a bit crazy, my results went good incredibly fast. I hadn't fully worked out the mechanics of pulling because i had no where to pull to. But the interactions i was having were ridiculous.....i'd go in and say some stupid shits and girls would be completely all over, i still had issues approaching the super hotties. But this was taken care of in the same way as everything else was....through focusing my RAS. The whole 'ohh she so hot thing' is a socially conditioned mindset anyway...the fact that she is hot should only make it easier for you to get horny and thats it.

I got a lot of handjobs in clubs, three way makeouts, four way makeous, fingered a lot of chicks, started getting laid on the street a bit, guys following me around in clubs etc. The most fun was pimping in the night though because my RAS would be completely focused then and it was when i'd be having the most fun....it was approaching for the process's sake, and the process was fucking fun....as fun was one of the main parts of the process. I'd love to approach not knowing what i was about to say because thats when my best shit came out. I was gettign into stte by like the 2nd or 3rd set of the night and running around macking on the hottest chicks no matter where they were, i learned skill of difusing fights really easily and apart from that i knew how to fight and so was unconcrned if they happened (they NEVER DID).

With the super hotties sometimes there was the odd bit of AA, because my RAS was still not full focused on the process, the super hotties were why i was in this after all? so it only made sense they'd be harder to get.....bull fuckign shit. Oh yhh i forgot to add i really really worked on my indifference and from there started reveling in high social pressure situations, people would project shit on to me and i'd enjoy it because i knew that my indifference would make girls even more into me. Apart from that getting everyones RAS on you and still following the process is probably the easiest way to be high value ever, its one of those glitches (next time ure out go to the biggest set shout 'OOOOIIII' get everyones focus and do the first fun positive thing that comes to your head, all the girls will eat up your shit) .

Anyway back to the point went to summit saw the hottest girls i'd seen all in a big place, i was fucing excited went out hit on all the hottest girls and they loved my shit all the time, like huge beaming smiles and fawning all over, these are the 9's and 10's im talking about. But then they'd bounce shortly after we'd make out or something. This was because my RAS was more focused on their hotness than my own fun.....i was stil having a shit ton of fun, but sometimes i let it slip and it fucked shit up, if i went back now it would be a different story. Anyway i ended up pulling a load of ass at summit and having the sickets time i'd had in my life. The last couple of days were disgusting my RAS was fully focused on me, it was that 'ultimate man' shit owen describes. Anyway i came back here and it became a joke im a young dude and finally got my own place...and the lays rolled in to the point of over kill, so idecided to take a month and a half off talking to girls just to tone it back a bit.

After that it was back to pimping while trying to sort out other areas of my life...i got the hot girls but now my friends who were freaked out by my transformation and anyone who knew of me was projecting qualities on to me of some super playa or whatever....it lead to a fucking year funk that ive sorted out but still. It stopped me from approaching as people would come up and be like lets see you get that girl. It should have made me step up more, and become even more indifferent and pull even easier but i got lost in my ego and my shit stalled slightly. Its all good now though.

Paris start expecting good results by following the process, they will happen its a full proof game plan....keep improvign yourself and removing blind spots....trim the fat of your expression (validation seeking behaviours, just remove them all) Find out why you do stuff you do,find out who you are etc, all the self help stuff helps. Then go into any social situation and just let your mind go....(unless you need to actively practice certain skills)
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Money thread and reply by Pringles (one of rsdn's best posters nowadays I think)

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/216608?#comment-855725

pringles wrote:

Dude come on you have been in this game, you have pulled ass already....acknowledge that you know everything you need to know to pull a lot and consistently in this game....give yourself some trust....go into your sets from now really believing that you've got ALL the info you need and that the right thing to do or say will happen on automatic.

Paris mate how the fuck do you not know what you are doing? Fucking focus on the fundamentals, go out an execute them.....that is winning in the game. The results are inevitable.

But for your sake i'll give you background info. Started pimping at about 16, i remember my first couple of sets, i was stifled as it was miles out of my comfort but i applied the mystrey method tactics i knew anyway, taking right action despite my emotional headspace made me feel awesome. I read adam lyons's shit. Applied that too with the mystrey method bits that worked for me and boom i started getting numbers and dates, and was fucking excited about the possibilities. Can you see how my RAS was being shifted? It was on the process, it wasn't like i was getting every girls number...but i knew if i kept at it it would improve, i was at perfect peace with where i was and fully excited about improving. Soon i ended up bumping into RSD material.... it opened my eyes to the world of social dynamics....i had been dodging it previously because of everyone bashing it. But i wanted to get good at this and ended up finding the material that was closest to reality.

From here it got a bit crazy, my results went good incredibly fast. I hadn't fully worked out the mechanics of pulling because i had no where to pull to. But the interactions i was having were ridiculous.....i'd go in and say some stupid shits and girls would be completely all over, i still had issues approaching the super hotties. But this was taken care of in the same way as everything else was....through focusing my RAS. The whole 'ohh she so hot thing' is a socially conditioned mindset anyway...the fact that she is hot should only make it easier for you to get horny and thats it.

I got a lot of handjobs in clubs, three way makeouts, four way makeous, fingered a lot of chicks, started getting laid on the street a bit, guys following me around in clubs etc. The most fun was pimping in the night though because my RAS would be completely focused then and it was when i'd be having the most fun....it was approaching for the process's sake, and the process was fucking fun....as fun was one of the main parts of the process. I'd love to approach not knowing what i was about to say because thats when my best shit came out. I was gettign into stte by like the 2nd or 3rd set of the night and running around macking on the hottest chicks no matter where they were, i learned skill of difusing fights really easily and apart from that i knew how to fight and so was unconcrned if they happened (they NEVER DID).

With the super hotties sometimes there was the odd bit of AA, because my RAS was still not full focused on the process, the super hotties were why i was in this after all? so it only made sense they'd be harder to get.....bull fuckign shit. Oh yhh i forgot to add i really really worked on my indifference and from there started reveling in high social pressure situations, people would project shit on to me and i'd enjoy it because i knew that my indifference would make girls even more into me. Apart from that getting everyones RAS on you and still following the process is probably the easiest way to be high value ever, its one of those glitches (next time ure out go to the biggest set shout 'OOOOIIII' get everyones focus and do the first fun positive thing that comes to your head, all the girls will eat up your shit) .

Anyway back to the point went to summit saw the hottest girls i'd seen all in a big place, i was fucing excited went out hit on all the hottest girls and they loved my shit all the time, like huge beaming smiles and fawning all over, these are the 9's and 10's im talking about. But then they'd bounce shortly after we'd make out or something. This was because my RAS was more focused on their hotness than my own fun.....i was stil having a shit ton of fun, but sometimes i let it slip and it fucked shit up, if i went back now it would be a different story. Anyway i ended up pulling a load of ass at summit and having the sickets time i'd had in my life. The last couple of days were disgusting my RAS was fully focused on me, it was that 'ultimate man' shit owen describes. Anyway i came back here and it became a joke im a young dude and finally got my own place...and the lays rolled in to the point of over kill, so idecided to take a month and a half off talking to girls just to tone it back a bit.

After that it was back to pimping while trying to sort out other areas of my life...i got the hot girls but now my friends who were freaked out by my transformation and anyone who knew of me was projecting qualities on to me of some super playa or whatever....it lead to a fucking year funk that ive sorted out but still. It stopped me from approaching as people would come up and be like lets see you get that girl. It should have made me step up more, and become even more indifferent and pull even easier but i got lost in my ego and my shit stalled slightly. Its all good now though.

Paris start expecting good results by following the process, they will happen its a full proof game plan....keep improvign yourself and removing blind spots....trim the fat of your expression (validation seeking behaviours, just remove them all) Find out why you do stuff you do,find out who you are etc, all the self help stuff helps. Then go into any social situation and just let your mind go....(unless you need to actively practice certain skills)
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Paris Boum Boum

Paris Boum Boum

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Join Date: 04/02/2009 | Posts: 2491

This is a money thread by one of the best posters on rsdn:

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/216608/forum

Also this:

pringles wrote:

Dude come on you have been in this game, you have pulled ass already....acknowledge that you know everything you need to know to pull a lot and consistently in this game....give yourself some trust....go into your sets from now really believing that you've got ALL the info you need and that the right thing to do or say will happen on automatic.

Paris mate how the fuck do you not know what you are doing? Fucking focus on the fundamentals, go out an execute them.....that is winning in the game. The results are inevitable.

But for your sake i'll give you background info. Started pimping at about 16, i remember my first couple of sets, i was stifled as it was miles out of my comfort but i applied the mystrey method tactics i knew anyway, taking right action despite my emotional headspace made me feel awesome. I read adam lyons's shit. Applied that too with the mystrey method bits that worked for me and boom i started getting numbers and dates, and was fucking excited about the possibilities. Can you see how my RAS was being shifted? It was on the process, it wasn't like i was getting every girls number...but i knew if i kept at it it would improve, i was at perfect peace with where i was and fully excited about improving. Soon i ended up bumping into RSD material.... it opened my eyes to the world of social dynamics....i had been dodging it previously because of everyone bashing it. But i wanted to get good at this and ended up finding the material that was closest to reality.

From here it got a bit crazy, my results went good incredibly fast. I hadn't fully worked out the mechanics of pulling because i had no where to pull to. But the interactions i was having were ridiculous.....i'd go in and say some stupid shits and girls would be completely all over, i still had issues approaching the super hotties. But this was taken care of in the same way as everything else was....through focusing my RAS. The whole 'ohh she so hot thing' is a socially conditioned mindset anyway...the fact that she is hot should only make it easier for you to get horny and thats it.

I got a lot of handjobs in clubs, three way makeouts, four way makeous, fingered a lot of chicks, started getting laid on the street a bit, guys following me around in clubs etc. The most fun was pimping in the night though because my RAS would be completely focused then and it was when i'd be having the most fun....it was approaching for the process's sake, and the process was fucking fun....as fun was one of the main parts of the process. I'd love to approach not knowing what i was about to say because thats when my best shit came out. I was gettign into stte by like the 2nd or 3rd set of the night and running around macking on the hottest chicks no matter where they were, i learned skill of difusing fights really easily and apart from that i knew how to fight and so was unconcrned if they happened (they NEVER DID).

With the super hotties sometimes there was the odd bit of AA, because my RAS was still not full focused on the process, the super hotties were why i was in this after all? so it only made sense they'd be harder to get.....bull fuckign shit. Oh yhh i forgot to add i really really worked on my indifference and from there started reveling in high social pressure situations, people would project shit on to me and i'd enjoy it because i knew that my indifference would make girls even more into me. Apart from that getting everyones RAS on you and still following the process is probably the easiest way to be high value ever, its one of those glitches (next time ure out go to the biggest set shout 'OOOOIIII' get everyones focus and do the first fun positive thing that comes to your head, all the girls will eat up your shit) .

Anyway back to the point went to summit saw the hottest girls i'd seen all in a big place, i was fucing excited went out hit on all the hottest girls and they loved my shit all the time, like huge beaming smiles and fawning all over, these are the 9's and 10's im talking about. But then they'd bounce shortly after we'd make out or something. This was because my RAS was more focused on their hotness than my own fun.....i was stil having a shit ton of fun, but sometimes i let it slip and it fucked shit up, if i went back now it would be a different story. Anyway i ended up pulling a load of ass at summit and having the sickets time i'd had in my life. The last couple of days were disgusting my RAS was fully focused on me, it was that 'ultimate man' shit owen describes. Anyway i came back here and it became a joke im a young dude and finally got my own place...and the lays rolled in to the point of over kill, so idecided to take a month and a half off talking to girls just to tone it back a bit.

After that it was back to pimping while trying to sort out other areas of my life...i got the hot girls but now my friends who were freaked out by my transformation and anyone who knew of me was projecting qualities on to me of some super playa or whatever....it lead to a fucking year funk that ive sorted out but still. It stopped me from approaching as people would come up and be like lets see you get that girl. It should have made me step up more, and become even more indifferent and pull even easier but i got lost in my ego and my shit stalled slightly. Its all good now though.

Paris start expecting good results by following the process, they will happen its a full proof game plan....keep improvign yourself and removing blind spots....trim the fat of your expression (validation seeking behaviours, just remove them all) Find out why you do stuff you do,find out who you are etc, all the self help stuff helps. Then go into any social situation and just let your mind go....(unless you need to actively practice certain skills)
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