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December 9th, 2016
Playing the Game Right
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Summit God~

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hello guys.

this is a new phase in my life. after going to the Summit II 2010 and having an Alex~ BC, lots of my mindsets have changed. I have come into congruence with a much more attractive man. and things are looking better and better. however, I have not pushed myself far enough. I won't cover it in detail: you can pretty much guess.

so this thread is a new start. as a proud student of Alex~, as an actualised man. no more excuses. no more negativism. there is only one path for us RSD guys. glory. the glory I have been afraid to take. time to blow shit up and achieve congruence. 

as a reminder to myself, and a reference for people who followed my progress and sticking points so far, these are the 5 things Alex~ indicated to me after my BC.

THE 5 THINGS I NEED TO FOCUS ON AFTER BOOTCAMP TO KEEP GETTING GOOD:
1. CHILLING OUT, SLOWING DOWN, NOT ASPIRING TO BE PICKUP NINJA
2. BE INTUITIVE WITH PEOPLE
3. ACKNOWLEDGE MY VICTORIES AND SUCCESSFUL ASPECTS OF MYSELF
4. NOTES ARE GOOD, BUT NOWHERE AS GOOD AS LIFE EXPERIENCE
5. SHARPEN UP MY LOOK

the title of the thread is inspired by an Alex~ quote on BC about my progress that pretty much summed everything up. I've been too hyper, unchilled, dancing monkey in my past. so Alex~ told me: "you already proved to yourself you can do crazy shit. now it's time for you to chill out and play the game right".

so, time to tighten my shit and go for it.

it's time to play the game right.
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Lateralus

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Summit God~ wrote:
there is only one path for us RSD guys. glory. the glory I have been afraid to take. time to blow shit up and achieve congruence. 
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Summit God~

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Goals for day game 6/5
- have one long interaction.
- use the Alexander logical question + illogical question + shoot the shit + number/coffee date + qualification steps.

opened just one girl. asked her if she knew any places to go out at night, then asked her if she thought disney movies were a reflection of real life. she laughs. she wasn't that cute so I just let her go. warming up purposes.

Victories
- opening a girl. one more step towards being used to natural day game.
Lessons
- day game is pretty easy.
What's Next
- open mixed sets. girls with guys/groups/etc.

Goals for night game 6/5
- have centered baseline chill.
- express negative+positive emotions.
- last the whole night.
(self-amusement and life is good attitude are understated)

went out. first mistake of the night - tired - not rested the proper amount. big festival. not used to it. people hurrying in every direction and bashing agains each other every few seconds. there's a badass concert and I spend much of my energy jumping and screaming. fucks me up later.

I open a two set. one of the girls is pretty hot. I just try and introduce a social vibe, no intent from the start (chill), they say they're lesbians and bla bla. I persist. ugly friend tries to push me away. persist. says shit about me. irrelevant. test test test. I pass tests for like 15 minutes among she physically pushing me away, telling me I'm gay, I'm wearing a female's jacket, I'm useless, they're lesbians again, threatening to punch me. I try to do the jewelry inspection on the girl and the fat friend pushes me away and tells me "don't touch her!". more tests and persistence. I tell the girls to kiss to see if they are really lesbians and they make out passionately. ejected the set. to this point I don't know if they're lesbians or it was another test.

at the end of the night I see two girls exiting the area. I start chit chat with some illogicality and walk with them. I try to go for one of them that has a pretty hot ass and is cute. run the physical stack - jewelry inspection. talk talk talk - shoulder push. talk talk talk - neck kiss. I try and go for the neck kiss various times and she evades. I claw her. talk. let it breathe, claw again, on and on. I persist, try going for the kiss, talking more and more.
they're going home so I try and convince them to have coffee. ironically my girl's friend is into it but my girl is like "no i'm tired I wanna go home". try and change it with illogicality, try and convince her again. wash, rinse repeat. persistence for around 10m. not into it. okay. they're going in the direction of their home so I go with them.
more persistence, but my girl doesn't seem that into it and my mood changing capability is not at its best either, so I eject.

Victories
- persisting and doing things right, in a festival environment/context where I'm not used to gaming. gained flexibility.
Lessons
- not caring about what people think. too much caring made me hesitate and lose some opportunities.
- should be self-amusing. not actively doing nothing put me in a sort of passive frame.
What's Next
- kill the hesitation, go for what you want, don't care about others, persist.
- have that good feeling inside. that LOVE AURA.
- find a source of self-amusement.
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Summit God~ wrote:
hello guys.

this is a new phase in my life. after going to the Summit II 2010 and having an Alex~ BC, lots of my mindsets have changed. I have come into congruence with a much more attractive man. and things are looking better and better. however, I have not pushed myself far enough. I won't cover it in detail: you can pretty much guess.

so this thread is a new start. as a proud student of Alex~, as an actualised man. no more excuses. no more negativism. there is only one path for us RSD guys. glory. the glory I have been afraid to take. time to blow shit up and achieve congruence. 

as a reminder to myself, and a reference for people who followed my progress and sticking points so far, these are the 5 things Alex~ indicated to me after my BC.

THE 5 THINGS I NEED TO FOCUS ON AFTER BOOTCAMP TO KEEP GETTING GOOD:
1. CHILLING OUT, SLOWING DOWN, NOT ASPIRING TO BE PICKUP NINJA
2. BE INTUITIVE WITH PEOPLE
3. ACKNOWLEDGE MY VICTORIES AND SUCCESSFUL ASPECTS OF MYSELF
4. NOTES ARE GOOD, BUT NOWHERE AS GOOD AS LIFE EXPERIENCE
5. SHARPEN UP MY LOOK

the title of the thread is inspired by an Alex~ quote on BC about my progress that pretty much summed everything up. I've been too hyper, unchilled, dancing monkey in my past. so Alex~ told me: "you already proved to yourself you can do crazy shit. now it's time for you to chill out and play the game right".

so, time to tighten my shit and go for it.

it's time to play the game right.

haha, it seems everyone goes the chilled route after awhile. I spent the first 2-4 months as a higher energy type, but it's it hard to keep up such energy all night. I was kind of forced to downshift into lower energy. Sometimes I find it fun to bounce around a be high energy when I'm dicking around. good luck man! :)
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Summit God~

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Goals for night game 5/7
- express negative and positive emotions (don't be someone the girl can fuck with)
- focus on self-trust. realize only my actions will arouse myself, not these dumb cunts.
- have a nice good feeling inside. no doubts or micromanaging.
- stay in set as hard as possible.

on the way to the festival grounds I see two girls. knew one of them from before in my club. open set. I'm chilled, say silly stuff, go with them to the festival grounds. run some solid game for about 15-20m. when we reach the festival grounds they meet up with more guys/girls and the girls wanna stay outside I wanna go in. get one of them's number.

hang out with a female friend and her group.
as I exit the festival grounds at 7 AM a spanish chick opens me.
I open a group of girls on the street at 7 AM.
as I'm heading home I see a guy pulling a girl.

need to complete this FR. wrote down which sets to remember later, will flesh out the detail soon.

Victories
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Lessons
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What's next
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Ozzie fear breakdown
What are my biggest fears right now:
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Summit God~

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Goals for 5/9
didn't write them down.

FR 5/9
pretty good night. opened few sets, but each set was solid and of long duration.

found girl from Lisbon BC again. stayed with her and friends. I'm with them, but even though the girl is cute, she's not that hot, and I wanna see if I can find something better in a fucking festival where there are DOZENS OF HOT DRUNK CHICKS. so I go away from the group.

I open a 2 set of lithuanian chicks. one blonde and one redhead. I talk to them, dadadada. I like the redhead. I find a male friend of mine and throw him into set to take care of the blonde girl. it's going well for him. we chill for some time more. we eventually lose the girls when they go dance in the middle of the crowd. some time later I find them again, they're with a guy and a beautiful black haired girl. also eastern euro. I talk to black haired girl, after 5 minutes she's all giggly and attentive and looking at my lips so I go in for a small kiss. get it. we keep talking. the guy is actually pretty cool. I talk to him just to defuse him but he's full abundance, value giving, we chill. some time after the blonde girl starts kissing the black haired girl. I go in for the threesome makeout but the blonde stops me with her hand. she was cold the whole conversation and I never made friends with her. cockblocked. I could have stayed in set and probably persisted but I just eject.

I roam around having until venue closing times. open a two set. hot girl with yellow glasses, 5 star girl. I open her and she's attentive on my words but after some time she just gets pissed and her fat friend too. I persist. they physically run away from me. I didn't understand. at the time I thought I was doing something wrong, but later at the end of the night when I'm with a new girl and they're walking by me, alone and pissed, I realize it's just them. cool.

I open a petite black haired girl. hot as fuck. I think I see her, beforehand, pulling a guy's sweater and almost throwing him on the floor. nah, my impression. as soon as I go open her, she kicks me in the chest. it's a weak girl kick but still, WTF? I call her out on it and she kicks me the fuck again. I ignore it and keep talking. this is clearly a 5-star daddy's girl. I talk to her. a friend of mine comes, drunk, he knows her, he laughs and says retarded shit and goes away. the girl turns to me and kicks me the fuck again. I pull her in, I tell her I do not fucking like this and call her out on it and she just gets sad. I ignore her while I mess with my cellphone. she stands far away from me and looks at me. I keep looking. she tries to hold eye contact for like 20 seconds and I hold it even more than that. she comes up to me and apologizes and says I must hate her (lmao!). I tell her it's cool, I think she's cute. I introduce myself, but clearly the fucking interaction has a bad aftertaste after she kicked me and I called her out on it. I could change her mood on the spot but I was tired and lazy. I just eject. thinking back I was stupid. maybe I could have fucked her. now i'll never know.

7 AM closing time and I have no girl. I enter hunter mode. game is ON!

4 set. I open this relatively cute girl. I talk self amusing shit, dadada penguins hormones transformers sex on the beach (faux pas). she laughs. she's talking to me but kinda meh. I befriend all her friends cause I know what's coming and I wanna defuse problems before they happen. one of them is pretty cute, she's overstimulated. you know when girls are really fucked up, not even drunk, just tired and zombie-like. this one is pretty cute, staring at my lips and hanging on every word I say. while the girl I opened goes away to talk to her female friends. okay, time for switcharoo!

I pay attention to this one girl and keep talking. this girl is actually pretty fucking smart, so every time I say something or beat a test, she has a fucking comeback. I like it. set goes as usual in natural game - she gives me shit, calls me ugly, insults my physique, tells me I'm an idiot, turns her back, giggles when I draw boundaries and break rapport on her... the usual. they say they're going away - I go with them.

so what happens in the next hour is something like:
- her friends like me. i persist
- then they try and stop me when they see I wanna take the girl. i persist.
- then they get REAL pissed. i persist.
- then they give up. i persist.
- then they get pissed again. i persist.
- then they give up again and tell me to take her. I persist.

they test me hardcore and I just keep walking with them. they say really nasty shit to me some of which even hits me inside. sometimes the girls can find the one fucking thing that is your weak point and they just fucking attack you on it. on the outside I'm like: normal, normal normal.

I try and kidnap my girl for "coffee". friends don't let me, after 30m of persistence they're like "yeah just take her. go ahead. we wanna go to sleep". then they try and kidnap her again and then they give up again.

after about 1h and a half of persistence, when it's 8 AM outside, for some reason I lose attention of the girl and she runs away. I ask her friends and they say she went home.

this was probably the best interaction that I ever had. me and the girl know all of each other's life details, I used illogicality, smooth physical escalation, playfulness, role playing, got her facebook, got her quiet and attentive on my words. very very solid.

so I just go back home. fun night. haha.

Victories
- most persistent set in my life
- quick kiss with fucking gorgeous lithuanian girl
Lessons
- approach approach approach
- persist persist persist
- chill chill chill
What's Next
- approach, persist, chill. about it.
- free up my mind and let awesome random illogicality come out.

Ozzie fear breakdown
What are my biggest fears right now:
- probably day game. approaching in day game and sucking. haha.
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Awesome bro - I like the way you're writing shit now - you're very focused on the positives - much more than before - it will help you for sure. And you're enduring some shit man - you're mindset is getting strong as fuck bro. Those girls who said they were lesbians LOL - Alex calls sets like that for us Aussies 'Gallipoli Missions' - basically it's fucked and you take hits left right and center and things don't look good but you do it anyways haha.
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Summit God~

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TOOBAD wrote:
Awesome bro - I like the way you're writing shit now - you're very focused on the positives - much more than before - it will help you for sure. And you're enduring some shit man - you're mindset is getting strong as fuck bro. Those girls who said they were lesbians LOL - Alex calls sets like that for us Aussies 'Gallipoli Missions' - basically it's fucked and you take hits left right and center and things don't look good but you do it anyways haha.
gallipolli as in the fucking world war I ?? haha.

true. it's like Alex~ says... with 5 star girls his sets look like the girl abusing him for 4 hours... then they make babies.

dude, for me it's easier to persist when it's just talking. but when they fucking slap me, when they physically push me away or when they call a random guy to get rid of me i'm like "should I persist?". now I know they answer - yes !
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Summit God~

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Goals night game 11/5
- be chilled and self-amused
- manage my energy levels so I reach the end of the night
- screen logistics and go for pull

FR 11/5
fucking crazy night... bathroom pull.

I open a set of girls. one of them is not actually that hot. maybe a high 3-star low 4-star girl. but for some reason I like her so I go in. I start slow. go in and introduce myself to the people. no up in the grill from the start. cool, eject, go with my friends dance and do crazy shit.

I'm not even that warmed up. I'm just trying to mantain my energy levels. I didn't get sleep at all after dinner before heading out so I'm kinda dying.

as a chance meeting we find the group of girls. with more people now. so the girl's ex is there. they make out. I think to myself: boom, screwed. guy she knows with her, on top of that ex... not gonna happen for me. can't compete. however, I still mantain an open minded frame. I talk a bit more to the group, just in case.

I head with my friends and we go do some more shit, dance and screw around. later in the night I find the group of said girl, but she's not with them. ex is there too. so, I think, could the girl be somewhere on her own? guys themselves ask me where the girl is. I dunno lol.

so I find the girl dancing on her own in some area. I go in, it's on, hugs, we start making out, she's intense as shit, she wants to eat my face and bites my lip. I go to her group and tell them I'm kidnapping the girl for a shot. it's cool. I stop at the entrance of the tent and pin her against a wall. making out. I start to rub my cock on her thighs and she's receptive to it. I just grab her tits, which is that thing most girls will definitely not let you do in public, and she just makes out even harder.

okay, so it's kinda obvious what needs to be done.

I should thank the porta-potty producers at this point. because in the festival we have some kind of fucking ventilated modern porta-potty that does not fucking smell at all. these things are like fucking hotel rooms. thank you technology.

so there's a tree near the porta-potties. they're like lined up. I'm like to the girl - sko sko - she asks "where?". I point to the tree and tell her I'm tired and need to rest (makes perfect sense). I pin her against the tree and start making out again. baby steps, baby steps.

I slowly start to walk while I'm making out with her until she's against the door of the bathroom. the one next to us is occupied but a girl comes out and leaves it free. while I'm making out with her I innocently open the door behind her. "I wanna show u something, sko sko" and pull her inside the bathroom. no fucking resistance.

lock the stall, making out hardcore, I start grabbing her and rubbing her. I take her tits out and start doing the honors. she has some kind of fucked up zipper on her pants. it's like a bra hook. I don't know how to undo this shit so I fumble for some minutes. she gets logical for a second and is like "omg I can't do this, there's a guy I love" and puts her tits back in the clothing. yep, you love the guy you were making out with before and now I'm in the BR sucking your tits and fingering you. I bet he would love to take you back.

I just change the mood with some illogicality "do you think electricity was invented so we could eat toast", she bursts out laughing. it's on again. making out. it gets heavy again. then suddenly she's like "NOOOO i can't do this", dresses up and runs out of the bathroom (i'm not even fucking fully dressed yet when she opens the door - bitch!).

and then proceeds to avoid me and become hostile the rest of the night. buyer's remorse. she gets hostile and shit.

well, by this point it's still 4:45 (yeah it's pretty soon) so I go hunting. however I am kinda sleepy so I don't really stimulate expression/self-amusement/value-giving on most sets and just fumble around sleepily.

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Summit God~ wrote:


dude, for me it's easier to persist when it's just talking. but when they fucking slap me, when they physically push me away or when they call a random guy to get rid of me i'm like "should I persist?". now I know they answer - yes !



Yeah man. Slaps are hilarious: Look at how hard you hit me and how unsuccessful it was! as for them pushing you away, maybe learn some martial arts posture; learn to be centred. Screw your feet into the ground. If the girl pushes you and you barely move, she's demonstrated your physical dominance to herself. When they call a random guy over it's like Oh hey yeah great another eunich to work for me!
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Summit God~

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okay, I hereby baptize the next two nights MISSION GORGEOUS.

I will only approach 5-star girls. I wanna have reference points of the hardest sets.

I haven't been doing day game. only 2 more days of festival. after the festival I'll travel to Lisbon and start a new generation of day game for me.

Goals for NG 12/5
- only approach 5-star girls.
- entertain yourself and don't give a fuck about the girls. have your own fun.
- stay in set as hard as possible.
- screen for logistics / watch for quiet and attentive reaction.
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