THE FORUMS

 WHAT I LEARNED FROM being a SOCIAL SCIENTIST AND GOING OUT WED,THURS,FRI,SAT, SUN and opening 100+ sets and getting ¼ number/facebook closes.

I've noticed a correlation. The sets that I’d open earliest (8 -11) are the longest most solid interactions (25 + mins) and have the highest day 2 probability (responding to text), but are hard to extract for the fuck close due to the fact it is early in the night and they are in a logical mind frame.

Sets opened at 11:45 + are shortest interactions(girls drunk attention span), have the highest number flake ratio if you get the number(she was wasted when she gave it to you), but highest probability of fucking her that night, they are wasted so they want to fuck.

Numbers don’t mean shit.

NEW MENTALITY:
BRAD P: BLOW ME OR BLOW ME OUT.
ZAN: Everything you want is outside your comfort zone. 


Heading on plane to Costa Rica, lets see what escapades this brings. 

 Got back from Costa Rica Saturday. It was a good trip and I got to hang out with my pops and his friend. His buddy has been meditating every day for the last 10 years and I noticed how grounded he was in his reality. He literally didn’t let anything get to him, but he was composed. At one point in the trip while we were shooting the shit and sipping on brews he told me to stop analyzing shit so much and just FLOW. He was right.

It was funny cuz last night when I was a chode and trying to force approaches, I could do the easy sets, but when it came to the challenging sets (groups 5+, Boy/Girl groups) I shriveled up like a douche. Neighbor forced me into these sets. He said, “Why do you fucking care, (does she/do they) know you. What ever happens you will wake up tomorrow and your heart will be beating so who gives a FUCK”. Pretty on point.

The night took a drastic turn when I mustered the balls to approach a 2 girl/2 guy set in which one of the girls was a solid 8. I just sarged in and started plowing, not even acknowledging that the other dudes were there. It worked for about 30 seconds and I noticed that they started to lose interest. Out of now where, Neighbor comes in and starts plowing hardcore and passing shit test. He did this to the point where the other dudes got super uncomfortable and told him to back off or they were going to beat his ass. This leads to one of the guys telling us that we can settle this outside in the Alley. We were all intoxicated but we end up going. We meet the fools in the back and the guy starts verbally escalating with Neighbor asking him to apologize. Neighbor say’s I’m not apologizing because I thought she was cute. One thing leads to another and the next thing you know a scuffle breaks out. It lasted about 30 seconds and it was over. The guy was a lot bigger so I expected more damage to Neighbor, but it turns out he really didn’t get more than a hit on him. After the scuffle, we all walk to another bar and take shots and begin opening again.

Neighbor "Iron Toes" is truly mad of Iron. 

Pretty much shit night. I was in my Comfort Zone. Expect better. 

Everything you want in life is outside your comfort zone - ZAN

Its time to embark on another 7 day Adventure.

Opened about 15 girls at this high end mall in Arlington. This first couple set sucked but you build massive momentum by the 5 or 6th, so game nasty babes that belong in the sewer for the first 2 or 3.

Once you hit indifference when your sober at the mall its like your on a fucking drug. All the girls you talk to just feel that FLOW off you that you are the man. The words don't even matter. STATE handles everything. 

Gaming in the day is a joke, there is no competition. The girl hasn't talked to anyone all day and by you having the balls to go up to her 75% of the work is done. 

@ROC - yea, still here

Finally getting the success I want. I'm not chasing, i'm on the other side. 

I have a couple dates lined up as soon I as get back from Charleston, SC with a friend. 

Cheers