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Demonic Confidence
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Jaguar

Jaguar

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Join Date: 08/10/2010 | Posts: 229

 Day 4 of Demonic Confidence.
MIssion: approach 30 women and ask for directions. Time limit 2 hours. 

So today went smooth, but I think I got a little bit lazy. I took the full 2 hours to complete it. Not much to say. 
Turns out doing the affirmations is an option. I'm not gonna do it, the last time I did it it didn't help shit. Affirmations are bullshit in my opinion. 
Just need to write my beliefs for women. I really need to think about this, so I'll come back to this later.
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Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless. - Ciaran
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore." - Ciaran
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markzor

markzor

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Join Date: 11/25/2009 | Posts: 734

Affirmations are bullshit indeed.

In fact, confidence is a feeling, not something you tell yourself.
As soon as you need reasons to feel confident, you are trying to convice yourself,.. because you are not truely feeling and believing it.

Feeling is king. Thoughts only tell you what you "wish" to feel.

That being said, you can change your feelings with your thoughs.

I like this phrase: Identify with the people that inspire you, and see the differences between the people you dislike. (disidentify).

If you "act" as if you are an instructor ("What would Tyler do"), youc an generally create some good feelings of entitlement.
These are affirmations the good way.

Then you have limiting beliefs. Unlike affirmations, these work with thoughts.
Using reframes (and testing limiting beliefs in reality) will help you get another perspective.
They will prove the limiting belief is false.
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reborn09

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Join Date: 11/04/2009 | Posts: 769

Good stuff, man.

"That just feels useless, so I approached hot single women."

Sounds like progress to me. I actually timed it so Day 3 was on a Saturday and went to the mall...

For the next few days, if you see a younger couple, approach the girl. Day 3 is one of the best days, especially if you step to girls with angry, roid dudes, so try and get that extra 15 out.

Keep going.
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Jaguar

Jaguar

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Join Date: 08/10/2010 | Posts: 229

The past days from day 1 of demonic confidence I kept becoming sicker and sicker. I was already sick before I started. So today I decided to stay in the house to regain power. I know it's not because day 5 the compliment day is too out of my comfort zone, because I already gave 60 women a compliment like a month ago.
So tomorrow I'll move again.

@reborn09
Yeah man it's a good idea to get the other 15 in my pocket, I'll do that.

So from day 6 (tomorrow) to day 10 of demonic confidence I'll need to approach 3 extra couples and ask them for the time and give 6 women a compliment each day. That way by the end of day 10 I'll be back on track. 
So that means 39 approaches tomorrow and the days after that shades.

Have been thinking about my beliefs about women. And I don't know man. I really don't. I think I have none lol. Or maybe I haven't figured it out yet. 
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Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless. - Ciaran
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore." - Ciaran
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Jaguar

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 So last night I couldn't sleep all night. I have been thinking about all this stuff and basically felt lost. 
The day started with work that would end at 2.00 p.m. 
Just from the moment I began working I thought holy fuck my not giving a fuck-o-meter lol has become better, that felt good. So at 2.00 p.m. I was done with work. I felt fucked up. Tired and sick. I have been couching all day long. But shit happens. 
 To be clear the mission for today day 6 was: approach 30 women, ask them for directions, imagine they will spit at you after you approached them. So I go to this small city and get 25 approaches under my belt there. It went real smooth. So easy man. Than I go to Amsterdam for the final 5. I kept forgetting to visualize that they would spit at me, they were too nice. After that I approached 3 couples for day 3. And I finished it with complimenting 6 women. Oh man the compliments thing felt like a pain in the ass. But just after 2 complements I was flying. One women laughed real hard after I said to her nice bike. There were two hot chicks walking towards me, not wearing much, I was looking at them checking them out completely thinking what to complement on???? They starting yelling in a playful way noo don't look at us lol and covering their bodies. After I passed them they started saying like did he check us out. I didn't complement them on anything, well fuck it. I also complemented 3 women with nice shoes in dutch and one of them replies in english with thank you, I was like wtf, seriously why not respond in dutch? 

To be honest it feels like right now I'm beginning to feel the changes happening. Shit man turns out the human mind changes real slow. Tyler is right there is no magic pill. Only hard work. 

Cool video:
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Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless. - Ciaran
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore." - Ciaran
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Jaguar

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Day 7 of demonic confidence. Missions was approach 30 women, ask for the time, expect that she will say it's time for you to fuck me. Did the mission, I think I failed it, but whatever. I was too fucking tired after work to think about sex, I tried it thought. After doing 30  of those approaches I did 3 of day 3 and 6 of day 5. Seriously complementing women still sucks balls, I hate it. You get this WTF look like 90% of the time if you say nice shoes. So did 39 approaches today in 2 hours and 15 minutes. I'm still sick and not knowing if this is the right way that I'm going, but I'll keep going this way. So tomorrow day 8. After day 10 I get a 2 day break and after that BOOOM stepping out of comfort zone BIG TIME. After this program it's time to play this game to win, instead to get to this ridiculous number of 30 approaches every day. 
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Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless. - Ciaran
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore." - Ciaran
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Jaguar

Jaguar

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Today was day 8 of demonic confidence. Mission was approach 30 women, ask for directions and be excited for their answer. 
I woke up pretty late today and wasn't very motivated to get out the house, but I did it. Went to the city where I go to college: Utrecht. Seriously when I got there I thought wow many chicks here unlike Amsterdam. So I started approaching, I was doubting myself in the beginning, but no anxiety to detect cool. 25 out of 30 women were definitely hot. People were way more friendly here than in Amsterdam. To be honest I couldn't get myself excited for their answer, I just wanted to finish the mission. I did it in 1 hour and 20 minutes, could have done it faster but who cares. Every time I go to a new place I notice myself needing to warm up or something like that. After some time I'm able to do approaches in rapid fire, but it takes time apparently. Nothing really exciting happened, or maybe it's just that I've already seen a lot and shit doesn't faze me anymore. Well see you guys tomorrow. 
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Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless. - Ciaran
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore." - Ciaran
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Jaguar

Jaguar

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Join Date: 08/10/2010 | Posts: 229

 Day 9 today of demonic confidence. MIssion: watch movies lol. Maybe my audio track is fucked up or something. I'm just gonna watch some Jersey Shore. For tomorrow day 10. Besides the 30 approaches for tomorrow I need to approach 9 couples for day 3 and give 18 compliments to complete my quota and get back on track. So for tomorrow 57 approaches, nice. Giving complements is really a pain in the ass, it seems like you get something like the look. Other times you just get laughed at lol, real hard.
 
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Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless. - Ciaran
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore." - Ciaran
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Jaguar

Jaguar

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Join Date: 08/10/2010 | Posts: 229

So everyday of doing this missions from day 1 I kept getting sicker and sicker. Today I felt like I could faint any second, so I went home. Fuck man I had to quit. But this was the best decision for my health. 
My confidence has gone up definitely, but this isn't enough man. I'm sort of using this demonic confidence to warm up for doing night game alone. I want to follow this: www.rsdnation.com/node/146155
And do shit like this there: www.rsdnation.com/node/83708
That shit is way more productive. 
But look, I know day 13 of demonic confidence is: go to a stripclub and read a book for 1 hour there and don't look any moment at the chicks there. That is HARDCORE. Just way out my comfort zone. So I need to see what I'm gonna do right now. First I need to get better again. 
I feel like I just need to get to day 15 of demonic confidence (coffee day) and after that I'm ready to hit the clubs. 
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Success is nothing more than pressure over time, so be relentless. - Ciaran
"You put your personality on the line and get cut down. You step back up and get cut down, again. You do this again and again and again because you no longer give a fuck what happens to you, as long as it isn't that shit [mediocrity] anymore." - Ciaran
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