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December 8th, 2016
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So Ive started one of these before and ended it quite quickly. I have been inspired by a couple other threads i passed by, so im gonna give it another shot. Im not approcing on a daily basis right now, so this "social" FR thread is a good start. I study nutrition, i work out, diet somewhat, play hockey, work full time, so im gonna be hella busy. My goal right now is to be as social as possible when im out, mostly it will be day game, bu im gonna analyse the changes in my emotions, state, and overall being after random interactions and social gatherings. I really need to start writing again. Cheers. 
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 In tonight and for the rest of the week, only for the nights. I sprained my wrist, so im stuck playing the xbox most nights, can go out in the day, gym n what not, is actully kinda exciting now knowing i am able to recite my day. Im not living alone, sitll with the rents. So going out at certain times and where is sometimes retriced, only a little, there not strict.
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10 minute book store ACP. So today i had about a half hour to go to the bookstore to pick up the main version of The Power of Now, not the practice edition which ive read twice. I went up the escalator feelin decent. Once I entered the book store i browsed around, found jeefys book to by suprise, I didnt think it would be in the store but it was. I picked that up aswell. I said escuse me to one girl and told her she had a nice hat, thats about it. There was a blond 8 but I didnt approch she had a serious face and seemed young. Good excuse eh? So yah picked up the books, and felt good because I said Hi to some strangers and asked how they were doing along with the hat girl. Not much what so ever but it put me in a good mood. Im gonna read the power of now first, then dive into get laid or die trying , so yah not much of day as I had a time contrait. But after watching tylers free tour chicago alst ngiht, I had thos "epiphanies" I had a while back when I was focusing on this. Thats what I got most from it, Focus. I need ot make this a focus. So once again im on here with some new knoledge and ready to make some more transformations. I am also seeing a girl I got a numeber from when I was at my buddies house with his gf and her friend. Shes an eight blonde, but shes busty, short, and I would day DTF. This is my first big attempt at landing a gal. Ive only partied and hooked up with chicks, but now my FOCUS is on sober girls and getting laid via gf. Yah it feels fuckin good having the confidense to do this. Im going to be on RSD very often from now on. Because Tyler has real inspired me once again. It's amazig what words can do. Biggest goal, make my priorities, girls, reading, going out, FOCUSES. And stay disipline and consistant. Thats it. Push the confert zones and get laid.
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 Quick post: I start to drift in and out of nervousness if you know what i mean. It's only when I think about haning out the chick that i asked out. But its not constant, just odd spurts. Very weird. I can be completely present, then nervous the next moment. Fuckin fantastic!!!! But I am really focused on having my own intenchions and being proactive, just self ammusing completely and generating state constantly. It's tough, but once you star to do it, everything is easy, and flows... I hat impressing, IK think its fuckin retarded, im also getting down the cocky front, jsut being cocky funny helps, it shows im dominant and i dont give a fuck. Did it last night and it got rid of my nerves. Which were acting up once I started playing pool with my bud, his gf, and the girl. Shes not perfect, mabie an 8, 7.5, but I know shes fuckable. Just gotta work on it a bit. I really dont have to try much, because shes already texting me 24/7. It's amazing what you can do when you dont try to impress and jsut be your self. Good shit. And from writing this, Im getting nerves, Weird shit, the only way to get rid of em, is to do CApproach and go out. Get experiance, consistantly, nuff said. 
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 4/30/2011 - First sober makeout
Today I got my first makout completely sober. First time! Feels good. I hung out with a girl for about 3 hours, playing with her little sisters, chilling, taking a walk. Then when we were waching a movie, I told her to sit closer, we cuddled even with her little sister wth us (well with her, other side of couch) and when she left the room, we started making out, stopped when she came back. When I left with my buddy picking me up. I took her hand's and kissed her. I said text me and took off into the sunset. Good fuckind day! BTW, I didnt want to intially hit up this chick, but Tylers chicago vid inspired me, that and I jsut said fuck it, Im stepping up. Confident as fuck. Yes.
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 4/30/2011 
Good day, Just meditate'd 12 minutes and read a little tolle. Was feeling nervous and contracted. All this due to projecting the future of this girl and me, and thinking what I should and should not do. Like how to be physical, when, blah blah blah, just brain static. All not worth pondering up what so ever. So Im realling focusing on not thinkning at all. Just letting this shit flow. Lead, attract, chill. Im likely hagning with her today. So will see what happens. 
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 3/30/2011 
Good day, didnt get to hang out with my girl, which blew. But mabie tommarow. Im posting this snappy one to foreshadow tommarows post. I am going to hit the mall and do some warm up approches, saying things like, Hi im retarded, or, Hi im a fag, Hi Ive got mental dumbass disease. Im doing this to see the affects on my state and how much momentum I can build. Also when I start thinking of doing this, I can feel my ego trying to stop me. It's like a wall, and I need to smush and smash through it. The first few may be shit, but im going to stick at it, and see the fog clear, peace.
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Congrats on the success, keep it up bro!

BTW- I think Tyler's bit on making pick-up a "focus" is the most powerful stuff that ever affected my life. Period. I remember when i first heard him talk about his dedication to it on Transformations... Special.

Anyway, Cheers!
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 Thanks for the response Devil!
5/1/2011
So the girl ive been seeing suprises me by sayin shes just up the street from me, I had no clue. So i told ehr we can hang cuz i gotta pick up a few things. I got nervous as fuck when she said she was here. Fuck, I hat the feeling, but I know the only thing I can do is the thing that is making me nervous. If your afraid of x, then x is what you need to do. ITs an awesome feeling knowing im growing, none of this fuckin shit anymore. Al i need to do is lead, and live in ym own reality!
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 Wow, just from writing tha I feel better, thoughts need to leave my head i guess.
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 5/1/2011
Wow, an odd day for sure. Well nto really but in a sense not what I expected. So as I listen to my beloved Kid Cudi album, I reflect on my venture with this girl, who I now believe will not be in my life for much longer. I went to my buds house and chilled with her(she goes there alot because my buds gf is her bf). I played some pool with her, was inside my head a little because of the social pressure of everyone around, parents, sister's etc etc. I was fuckin nervous when I found out she was there, I only live a block away, and I assumed she was 35 mins away as usual. So  worked up the courage to go up their. Courage? Why did I have to work up the balls to see her you ask? Well, heres the "realization". My nerves are not arising because I like her with a mushy mushy feeling. I was having these nerves because I was not sure what to do, how to lead, should i kiss her when io see her. All the bs. Today I realized I really dont like this chick that much, Im not that attracted to her that much, well not enough to push and push to see her. My nerves were stemming from a lack of experiance, and scarcity of fucking up. But what I realized was I have nothing to worry about, I actully realized when I was with her how much better I could be doing. I know im thinking like an asshole, but I fully believe with my whole being I should be with someone who I really enjoy hanging around with. I guess thats what this dating thing is all about. It's not whether she enjoys your company, or how much she likes you. Truth is, it's how much she laughs at your jokes, how much she enjoys your company, and how much she DOSNT try to impress you. Because I noticed over and over how many times she looked at me or made an attempt to impress me, it almost made me laugh. It really sucks not liking someone that much, because all that time you put in to see if there was a spark, just feels like a waste of time. I dont know If im going to tell her we should remain friends, beacuse i kissed her goodbye and walked into the sunset. But I dont get and nervous feelings when she texts me anymore, I like those feelings if they are there for the right reasons. But when I just feel like turning off my phone when she trys talking to me, I think thats a sign I dont want to see this chick anymore. Ive made the attempts to see ehr multiple times, I didnt just send a breakup text before we even started to get to know each other, which happend with a girl a couple months back. I went to the trouble of seeing her a couple times, seeing if I felt that nervous feeling of LIKING her. But really, the only anxiety I conjured up, was stemming from social pressure. Well, it was some good experiance. Overall this is what I accomplished this weekend
1. Kissed my first girl sober.
2. Saw a girl three times. 
3. Kissed a girl goodbye twice.
4. Realized alot of the nerves that some whens seeing a girl, may not actully be about the girl, but inner game problems, such as lack of experiance, entitlement, or just plain lack of dominence. 
5. When I act through my own intenchions, I can get out of my head. 
6. If a girl is not in your league(which I believe in this case) she will not to impress you and even make moves on you more often. Trying to secure you as a bf. 
7. Experiance is good, even if you think you wont like her alot, which in this case is true, you need to get first hand experiance. See what happends. 
8. Strength and props must be take of experiance, dont spot the negatives, always look for what you did right and build on it. 

I dont think the realtionship is going to last very long, I barely ever get to see her as she is stuck at home alot and is 35 mins away. Second, I just plain dont feel the want to see her like I have in the past with other girls. 
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