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AustinCC

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 You guys don't know me, that is unless you know cc members. CC=Casanova Crew. It's the local socal crew, that just so happens to be the largest in north america. I'm not here to promote it or anything like that, it's just where i started, learned, and now podcast for. It's just for background. Hell, owen even spoke for us and manwhore does his podcast on our board. 

Anyway, I'm leaving for my brothers' wedding then to basic training in a month, so in the meantime, I'm volunteering my manly man arms for a charity organization and helping dudes have sex with girls. I guess, you can say this is going to be a log of the events in this upcoming month, which should be INSANE. I decided to do this, mostly because I found jeffy's book, get rich or die trying at my local barnes and noble, and powered through it. THERE. I didn't even have to buy it ;). But the idea of keeping a log enticed me, and I wanted to record all the crazy things that happen to me in this last month before I leave california- might as well be on the worlds' largest social science board. 

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April 22 (day 1)

Shit. Tonight, I've got a 12 dollar lottery ticket, Alice in Chains in the background, and the intent to get laid like a motherfucker. I've been laid twice this week, but they're all girls I've fucked before. I want fresh blood. I just got off the phone with my wing, Ace, where i described where I want to end up with my game.

We were out with some senior CC members last weekend at one of the high end clubs in Hollywood, and I realized, that all the motherfuckers, naturals, promoters, socialites all had one thing in common: they were cool, as in, socially calibrated and fun people to hang out with. Moreover, girls were really comfortable around them- fuck buddies, friends, and flirts alike. Something that's sorely missing from a-many of puas lives. Then it hit me, one of the models I had been promoting for..well almost as long as I've been gaming hardcore, is that cold approach is practice, not the means to the end. I mean, they can be, but if I wanna fuck really hot hotties on a consistent basis without working myself into a kidney stone horror show, I need to bring nearly all my women into my social life. Like Mr. Gastby before everything hit the fan.  

Anyway, I'm not dissing the importance of cold approach, but I think where I'm at now, it's secondary to me developing my life and working on my foundations of beliefs. 

Tonight, however, I wanna snl. I'll post the results later. happy sarging gents!
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 Last night was a wild one, and I'd love to get to it, but I've got girls to hit on. TOMORROW, i swear I'll post it.
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 aaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh 

i lied. the problem is, when you're going out all the time, that's all you want to do, so things like FIEEELD REPORTS go by the wayside. Actually, I had an important realization last night: accurate field reports breed competence. What I mean is, field reports where you document how you did certain things (like teasing, humor, kino, leading, et cetera) let's you build really solid reference points. Again, the more you build reference points, the more competent you become, and the more confidence you develop. This came to me in a very roundabout fashion. 

My wing, (ace, or as his handle on cc goes "Ace of Spades") runs attraction material in a mish-mash between mehow's material and his own. One of things that he always does when he has a good night, is drills the fuck out of his material. As he says, "I drill it so much that I know it's going to hit when I'm out in the field." Essentially his confidence sky-rockets because he trusts the reference points he's developed via his stack. On the other hand, other than patterns and quips I've developed, I do not run a stack- I never have. I'm what you call one of those sort-of "naturals" when I got into the game. Basically, I fucked like 18-20 girls before I got into game and I felt extremely sexually comfortable. DGAF. Anyway, so I was listening to some material off of Brad's site and he was talking about the ridiculous confidence he developed by hitting the field for thousands of hours and developing a massive backlog of reference points. 

Sometimes I have off nights where nothing hits, and my confidence in my seduction disappears. Then it hit me: if I spend more time running through my successful or certain sections where i did something right, like teasing, I can strengthen my game and thus, become more consistent. And what's the best way to remember all my reference points? Field Reports. DUH. 

so on to my reports.

WEDNESDAY (4/21): THE BRANDING IRON
If you're from southern california, chances are, you don't live in the inland empire. Other than 3 or 4 cities, most of it sucks. When it comes to gaming, spots are limited, and you have to deal with what you can get. Whatever, no excuses. The branding iron is a country club that has college night on wednesday. Fortunately, it draws a ton of girls week in and week out, but unfortunately, it's a bro bar and logistics are absolutely terrible. 

I absolutely BOMBED the whole night. Granted I hate the venue, and it is my game cryptonite, but fuck, I CAN GAME WHEREVA I WANT TO. No bro bar is going to stop me from practicing. I couldn't figure it out till later, but a few underlying issues were hurting me. 

1. my ego. At this point, I've ran two workshops, I have a pickup podcast on the casanovacrew site, and I have a reputation of getting shit done. Devil's threesome and spitforked girl included. That week I had taken on 4 students with my wing, and my attitude was "I'm fucking austin LOOK AT ME MOTHERFUCKERS!!!" Any fan of rsd should know that's destined to fuck you up. So instead of approach like a mad man and not giving a fuck if I blow the set out, I became timid and shy. 

2. Lack of enthusiasm/drive. Some of this was because I got laid 10 minutes before I hit the club, but at that point, for the first time, I felt a lull in interest for pickup. To be honest, I wanted to stay home, read, and pass out. I could have made it fun, i could have been self amusing and just have a bunch of awesome conversations, but again, my ego got in my way of success. 

3. Intent. Because I was being shy and timid, my usual sort of loud dominance and direction wasn't there. Brad had another article on intent and staying out of your head, where he had a 10 point scale of scale of verbally stating your intent. 10 being something like "can I get a female opinion on something..." and 1 being "I want to fuck you over the dumpster." The idea is that you should always strive to be in the 1-3 range. So true. I never pushed sets when I went to the bi that night. shitty.
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 FRIDAY (4/22): COCKBLOCKED BY MOMMA

It starts off with me meeting up with some good friends in downtown redlands. The one thing I'm super duper grateful of, is the fact that my hometown has the strongest bar scene in the I.E. I sympathize with anybody who has to travel to sarge. It sucks. I can't tell you how many times I've gone out to la, burned through 40 bucks in gas, and head home half asleep at 4:30 in the morning. 

We head to one of our favorite spots, The Underground. As I walk downstairs, I'm blasted by heat and then I see it: the largest crowd I have ever seen at such a small bar. I run into a bunch of old friends and we make plans to get out of there. One of them, would be what you guys call a "hb9" or as I call it, super cute. I've sort of wanted to get with her for years. To be honest, most of the time I thought of her as a friend. Maybe because I thought she was out of my league at some time, because I know about her past, or just because she dated (what I used to consider) a close friend of mine. 

As we bounce locations, I notice, her friend is super into me. We made tentative plans for after bar closing. I want to fuck tonight. 

Time goes by and I end up juggling 3 or so different sets. 

1. Cute Face: Friend of a friend. I don't quite remember what I did, but I knew the seduction started when I sat in her lap, dominant style. Eventually we switched, and she was flirting, but on a kind of reserved level for the sort of kino that was going on. One of things I always say is that you can't create attraction, but you can amplify what's all ready there. Fortunately, there's almost always some attraction to work with. I just found out today that Owen's bt principle is practically the same. Cute face goes ADD on me, so I decide to split and work my other sets.

2. Original pair of girls that i bounced. Let's call them old friend and Curly. 

3. DTF girl: Some girl I hooked up with a couple months ago. We ran into each other not realizing that we've met. Started talking, and within a couple minutes we were making out. I set up backup plans with her in case my initial pull fell through.  

After sometime, Curly, Old Friend, and I decide to take off to an afterparty. In an unusual twist of fate, all FOUR girls i had been flirting with that night, showed up. Apparently, curly is quite the bisexual and invited DTF girl along and Cute Face is friends with the owner of the house's girlfriend. FUUUCK I found myself in quite the quality pickle. On one hand, I could play it safe and stick to Curly, but on the other hand, i could push myself and go for old friend and cute face. 

We entered the back enclosed patio. The house was of an usual sort. The front room was dimly lit and covered with fake, cheesy vegetation. Off shooting from the front room, was the kitchen which led to the back enclosed patio, and a room filled with a dozen, dusty arcade machines, a pool table, an path that led to a bathroom and a band room. 

I sat down with Curly and Old friend and made small talk, when cute face came out and joined us. Now that we were out of the bar and I was the center of attention, cute face vied for my attention. 
FUCK IT! I was going to push the harder set of girls: cute face and old friend. 

I distinctly remember at that moment, I figured out why I was having trouble amplifying more attraction with cute face when I was at the bar. She was attracted to the leader. I watched an adam lyons 2010 21convention speech earlier that day, and he talked about how there are three main types of distinct male characteristics that different women are attracted to. The leader, the nice guy, and the bad boy. I'm not going to go into it, but each women is highly attracted to one of those when you interact with them. This explains why jeffy talks about 1/3 of the girls he meets love him, 1/3 are so-so, and the last 1/3 hate him. I take it that jeffy plays up the "bad boy." 

just watch it here. good shit: http://www.the21convention.com/2011/04/24/afc-adam-lyons-t21c-2010/

Overtime, I decide to stick with old friend. We made plans to get food and rolled up to my house. Finally I was going to close the deal! The only thing that stood in between me and sex was my parents (I live at home) and LMR. Fortunately, it's 4:30 in the morning and I can handle LMR. 

But it turns out I'm wrong about the parents part. ahaha oh fuck!

We get food, head down to a secluded part of my house and nom down. While all that's going on, I'm dealing with LMR. 
"No I can't let you keep turning me on, because I'll wanna fuck" 
"I promise you, we're not fucking, i ran out of condoms." (half true, I really did run out of condoms and I would be perfectly happy with a bj)
"I've got trust issues...hey, let's eat more" 

She shoves me off, and we eat a bit, when we realize, the food is way to hot to even taste, so we talk a bit more. She tells me about how her ex boyfriend cheated on her and she hasn't fucked for two months. I asked her what happened to her previous relationship with my friend, and I guess, he got way to needy and didn't have a life. I could see that. Although, this all sounds like I was getting friend zoned, and she was crying on my shoulder, the reality is that I was still plowing kino. I asked her why she found me attractive and she responded with
"I don't know...it's weird, I didn't find you attractive up till recently. It's like there's something about you."

I think that's the first time that a girl has told me outright, that purely my game had her attracted. awesome!!!

...And then my mom walked in. Lucky timing, because if had been 5-10 minutes later, she would have caught me half naked and that would have been..AWKWARD!!

Overall, I'm glad how the night turned out. Cool, I didn't settle and pushed for the hotter lay. More importantly, I push my skill set, and made uncomfortable choices. Sometimes, I think the best nights of game are just like that. smile
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 SATURDAY (4/23) 

I went out to fullerton with my wing, ace, and met up with sixpack and Giagantor (Stylelife intern). I didn't get to fuck the night before and I wanted it.  I told everyone that I wanted to pull and that we were going to make shit happen. My game went down the shitter  for the second time that week. At this point, i still hadn't dealt with the issue from friday, nor had I acknowledged them. Ace had a three set on lock down and I couldn't muster my game for shit. To be honest, i didn't like them either and i was tired as fuck, but no excuses. 

After saturday, it was at that point that i took a look at what the fuck happened to my game. WHY THE FUCK COULD I NOT DEAL WITH IT!!!

TUESDAY (4/26)
Went out with vann vanuzzio, and we dealt with some shit. As one of the four students that my wing and i took on, I became a little nervous. Prior to this, I had only taught the basics- body language, some threadcutting drills, and some other shit. Whatever, We entered my local tuesday spot and it was dead. fuck. I started implimenting some new ideas and making sure shit was handled, but i ended up dicking around too much and missing a couple snl opportunities. It doesn't bother me anymore, because i realized at this point what was causing my slump and i dealt with it. 

WEDNESDAY (4/27) THE BRANDING IRON STRIKES BACK

I only had an hour this time, but unlike last week, I destroyed. I met up with some of the cc boys (hydro, vann, eman) and my steady wing, Ace. I made sure when I walked in, I did two things: a set that made me feel uncomfortable and started cracking jokes immediately. I've learned, it takes 20 or so bad jokes before my shit warms up. Moreover, I tried some shit out. I kept everything pretty direct and full of the CCM tonality that brad talks about. A few cute numbers got away in the early part of the night. But I ended up sticking to one for 5-10 minutes before she let me in on fiancee issue. I felt like something was off, because in all the ways that she acted (token sexuality, extreme attraction, then random ADDness), but i figured that given the chance, i could plow. When I found out she had a fiancee, i let it go. I'm no homebreaker...most of the time ;)

Anyway, I had to leave for a friends birthday and get drunk. I'm bummed i couldn't stick around because shit was turning out for an epic night!. 

Some of the things i took out of the night:
presarging rituals are sweet. 
new tonalities that I can play around with
a better diet aka lot's of exercise= high sex drive
I've gotta watch myself when i get in interviewer mode in the beginning of the night, and combat that with some sharp escalation. 
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 FRIDAY (4/29) CHODEFEST PARTY

Slump gone! I went out with Ace and his natural buddy, whose got some of the sickest daygame tactics I've ever seen. Literally, he fucks 10-15 new girls a month with DAY GAME and that's conservative, because he's in a relationship. Total SEX ADDICT! hahahaha 

We go to a party in Riverside to meet up with one of the natural's girls. It's like a bro party with the worst women: men ratio- like 10 to 1. It's cool, i can deal with that. Besides I love parties and when you're new, it's all about social value, or as i put it: pour everyone drinks and go "woooo!" Nah, but anyway, i get talking to everyone, round up a group for flipcup, and DOMINATE. By the end of it, I'm yelling "I'M THE LUCKY CHARM BITCH! HOW'S FOUR WINS IN A ROW!"

But more importantly, my game was on and better than ever, so i wanted to build up some reference points of things i did. Some of this may or may not of been a byproduct of watching the jeffy show 2 hahahaha. 

1. I did not give a shit what anyone else thought of me, but more importantly, I put extra emphasis with being totally internally validated and momentum. 
2. Speaking as a man to a woman. This just clicked in my brain. Before I would wonder why, "can't I escalate further??" and now I realize I was coming in to certain sets as a friend not a M2W. 
3. Sexual jokes. Seriously, I realized I can do them all day and night. The easiest way for me to speak as a man to a woman is if I lay a thick of sexual jokes AS SOON AS I MEET HER. My current favorite one is getting her to admit she's efficient/uses her hands/(if they smoke ganja)like hitting the pipe/anything that could be construed as jacking off or blowing and while she's says it I'll be like "oh yeah? you're good with your hands?" while staring her in the eyes and making a subtle jackoff motions with my hands. I don't look down or point it out, I just wait for them to realize what they've been saying for the past 30 seconds.
4. I've been making further use of CCM and unreactive facial movements. My favorite openers of the night were "HI, WHO ARE YOU?!" and "WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU?!"
5. again, saying whatever is on my mind, using the brad 1-10 scale. I probably spoke in 3-1 most of the time. 
6. holding to the principle of "when in doubt, escalate."
7. Persisting. I did the best I could for what I had. I got a couple girls partially isolated, but I couldn't take things further. They were in "party with my close friends!!!" mode and I was in "let's hook up!!" mode. That's the problem with small parties, is sometimes that is a role of the dice. 
8. calibration. This is one that I have down pretty well, but again, calibration is built over experience, and so I'll continually work on this shit till the day i die. 

anyway, off to IV!
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 SATURDAY- SUNDAY (4/30-5/1) ILSA VISTA (UCSB)
I was only supposed to be there for one day, but my buddy's car broke down so i stayed till the wee hours of sunday night. 

Anyway, if you've never been to IV, you gotta go. It's retarded how many hot girls are there, best I've seen since the last time I was at the Roxbury in Hollywood. IV is a square mile that sits adjacently to UCSB that's filled with college students. On the weekends, DP (it's the last street and it runs right up to the ocean) is covered in people. 

Anyway, not much happened except a bunch of drinking and smoking. I made the crucial error of actually trying shepherd my friends, which if you've ever been to IV, isn't such a good idea. 

There were a couple notable sets. 

Saturday I had a three set I worked. We ended up back at their place, and then to a pizza shop, but because I didn't have any wings, I couldn't really make much of it. It's hard to get all my friends acclimated to pulling, when I don't know if they know even how to start sexually escalating without overt signs. 

Sunday, my wing, Ace, came up to pick me up with a buddy of his. We ended up at a gay pride festival in the middle of IV, when we spotted a two set. He went in, and I winged, but he made the mistake of sitting on the opposite side of his target, so I swooped. My girl was a damn cute swede, who was a college track runner. The only problem is that swedes are friendly, and they do like flirting, but when it comes push to shove, they're prudes. It's happened to me before. Actually, we ended up back at they're place, but unfortunately, they neglected to tell us that they had two other roommates, so instead of closing the deal, I ended up entertaining them with various youtube videos.

Azz Everywhere- big freedia (she played that day. It's like my new favorite song)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2iTc2vtjxXk

EPIC SAX GUY (SAX ROLLED)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9-seDrv1eQo&feature=related

Sexy Sax guy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GaoLU6zKaws

Friday- Rebecca Black
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CD2LRROpph0

FUN FUN FUN FUN FUN FUN FUN
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jqq3cgvZSTE

I'M THE JUGGERNAUT BITCH!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bSuvOVH0aSQ

Anyway, despite the fact that I haven't closed any new girls in three weeks, I'm glad. I'm pushing myself in tougher situations and taking on hotter girls than ever before. 
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 TUESDAY (5/3) THE VAULT 

I've probably spent more time sarging at the vault more than any other venue. Shit, i go there so much that now we have a regular cast of dudes i sarge with there every tuesday night. I spent most of the night working over sets that I've already been in contact with. The first was old friend (from the cockblocked by momma fr) and the other is blonde we will call partygirl. 

(que ...and you will know us by the trail of the dead)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tMBl_5idBs4

As I stood in line, Old friend came up with her cast of friends. We stood around and chatted, and I set up a semi-tenative date for wednesday. My verbal game really wasn't there, but  I decided to run with it and have a good conversation with one of the friends that my good buddy is dating. We end up having a hilarious talk about bros and trucks and i get her amped up to head inside. Ace, and another guy we're working with (theultimatechristopher) show up and they start chatting it up. Chris Is kind of quite tonight, but I couldn't figure it out. Ace was flirting as usual, but shit was not hitting. He one of those "you and I are all ready divorced in my mind" teases, but it did not hit at all. I suspect that it's not a very good takeaway/tease for the most part, because if the interaction is all ready going sour, then it seems kind of needy. 

After we got inside I ran into Partygirl, who seem very much in a dtf mood, but like old friend, the logistics were fucked. So I hung out for awhile, slapped her ass, and did a few more sets. I ran a few with ace, but nothing seemed to really go anywhere. We had a set with two German girls, but they gave us, what i call, token flirting, where they'll flirt, but there's no real substance behind it. 

Some girl stood next to me while I was watching some random guy hit on a couple girls. We started talking, and she was all over me, but she's fat and semi-unattractive. Not that I haven't tapped such girls, but really, I'm trying to push for hotter girls. To be fair, old friend and party girl were two of the most attractive girls there. 
I texted party girl
"I'm bored of the vault. I want to hang out more :)"

"Im drunk at the boiler room haha" 

"Im going to hop over. stay put."

"k"

I head over and she's full drunk and being a pain in the ass and unlike the vault, she's playing hard to get. She comments on how she hates pda, and i get the idea that she's into the idea of us fucking, but hates intimacy. She's also all over the place and hard as hell to lead. I've had several of these types before and I'm not exactly sure how to lead them, other when I'm in full on "MPUA" mode. Ace is having a hard time with her friend too. Eventually we all took off and they walked us back to my car, and I took off.

Lessons:
1. LEAD LEAD LEAD, and be proactive.
2. learn to deal with add party girls more effectively 
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 WEDNESDAY (5/4) OUT BY THE POOL

Old Friend flaked again. Not really surprised, so I called up one of the girls I fooled around with awhile back, 

In a commanding tone, I said,
"Hey, what are you doing?"

She responds,
"sitting out by the pool tanning"

In the same tone,
"come over, my pool is better"

...and that was that. Simple as fuck. I'm going to make a habit of calling girls straight up more often. A half hour later she comes over, we go upstairs "to check out my new carpet," dry hump and get our orgasms out. God she gives good dome. I never really thought about this, but I just read a post about non-compliant pulling and I realized, I do it ALL THE TIME. I just need to make it a habit when I'm out at bars and clubs. 
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 Keep it up champ 
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