THE FORUMS
Call me phil collins, I felt something in the air tonight.
Jeffy’s talk was amazing, brad was awesome.
Hit the field solo to xs, but it really wasn’t solo. Alex, Brad, Todd and more all at this venue, and hotties were ripe for the picking. Like u can fall out of a bathroom stall and land on a hot bitch. Seriously.
This night was one in which the most sets that I opened actually hooked a very high percentage of the time.
I was pretty on.
“I’m a BOSSS!”
I talked to this hot latina an 8. Led her and friend to dance, than I picked up said latina, did a full circle and let her down. Proceed with the makeout times.
I lost that jefer, and opened more, or helped alex with his students, who were pretty on as well. I wish my boot camp was done at a venue like this… just crazy.
After some shit, I retreat to the strip find a black girl that I was about to makeout with, but her friend came and I was too tired to give a fuck. On my way to the room another two set didn’t hook properly, and the rest of the way I was just self amusing. Haha.
Vegas.
Jeffy’s talk was amazing, brad was awesome.
Hit the field solo to xs, but it really wasn’t solo. Alex, Brad, Todd and more all at this venue, and hotties were ripe for the picking. Like u can fall out of a bathroom stall and land on a hot bitch. Seriously.
This night was one in which the most sets that I opened actually hooked a very high percentage of the time.
I was pretty on.
“I’m a BOSSS!”
I talked to this hot latina an 8. Led her and friend to dance, than I picked up said latina, did a full circle and let her down. Proceed with the makeout times.
I lost that jefer, and opened more, or helped alex with his students, who were pretty on as well. I wish my boot camp was done at a venue like this… just crazy.
After some shit, I retreat to the strip find a black girl that I was about to makeout with, but her friend came and I was too tired to give a fuck. On my way to the room another two set didn’t hook properly, and the rest of the way I was just self amusing. Haha.
Vegas.
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"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
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"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
1st day of gaming since being back from Vegas.
Hit up some university bar. Walk right up to the bar, banter with the bartender, she loves me. Than I engage a dude next to me. Sitting their for like 15 minutes and some other guy came up to talk, than he said he was gay and I got really wierded out.
Left after that. Bars were dead since its a Monday, and it was pouring tonight.
Lesson for the night: when I "ease" into the venue and just sit down by the bar my night usually goes nowhere. next time I'm at a bar I'll either stay standing or immediately approach.
Hit up some university bar. Walk right up to the bar, banter with the bartender, she loves me. Than I engage a dude next to me. Sitting their for like 15 minutes and some other guy came up to talk, than he said he was gay and I got really wierded out.
Left after that. Bars were dead since its a Monday, and it was pouring tonight.
Lesson for the night: when I "ease" into the venue and just sit down by the bar my night usually goes nowhere. next time I'm at a bar I'll either stay standing or immediately approach.
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The blog: youcangetthatgirl.blogspot.com
"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
The blog: youcangetthatgirl.blogspot.com
"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
Last two days have been cool.
Joe's Tuesday, which is always money. A friend was actually celebrating her 21st, so I got pretty trashed, didn't do many approaches, like 3 maybe but was a blast and got introduced to some of her friends, who now love me.
Last night was cool. Wrigleyville to kick off the night. An old friend was their, and had 2 8's (HBblondie/ HBbody)with him. One was slightly taller, and a solid 8.5 (HBbody), I like it. So we drink bullshit at this bar, I open a two set immediately, which is something I improved on from mondays chode night. The set went good, they are from Spain in town for 4 days. I get hotter girls # and tel her I will text her to come out and party.
Fast forward the night, myself and earlier group of friends head to Spybar-my weds. night playground.
I immediately grab HBbody and start grinding and dancing with her. Body is amazing, and I am falling in love on the floor. I go in for the makeout various times, like 6 to be exact, each one was met with giggley push aways, and I realized I was being kinda gay, and not physically leading. So I go out for a smoke, say wassup to a few regulars that I know and kick it with 2j. He was here as well with friends. This party is CRACKING, like crazy for a weeknight. I do about 2-3 approaches and than go back to original group of girls. HBblondie is solo because my other guy friend is going nuts somewhere, he is also a community guy. So I grab HBblondie, with my earlier folly in mind and proceed to jack her up. I pick her up off the floor, and bounce her on my lap. She loves it, pat on the back for physical escalation. I go in for the makeout with this one, no dice... and I have had it for the night.
I felt shit after this, but still did like 2 more approaches, nothing stuck, go home.
Joe's Tuesday, which is always money. A friend was actually celebrating her 21st, so I got pretty trashed, didn't do many approaches, like 3 maybe but was a blast and got introduced to some of her friends, who now love me.
Last night was cool. Wrigleyville to kick off the night. An old friend was their, and had 2 8's (HBblondie/ HBbody)with him. One was slightly taller, and a solid 8.5 (HBbody), I like it. So we drink bullshit at this bar, I open a two set immediately, which is something I improved on from mondays chode night. The set went good, they are from Spain in town for 4 days. I get hotter girls # and tel her I will text her to come out and party.
Fast forward the night, myself and earlier group of friends head to Spybar-my weds. night playground.
I immediately grab HBbody and start grinding and dancing with her. Body is amazing, and I am falling in love on the floor. I go in for the makeout various times, like 6 to be exact, each one was met with giggley push aways, and I realized I was being kinda gay, and not physically leading. So I go out for a smoke, say wassup to a few regulars that I know and kick it with 2j. He was here as well with friends. This party is CRACKING, like crazy for a weeknight. I do about 2-3 approaches and than go back to original group of girls. HBblondie is solo because my other guy friend is going nuts somewhere, he is also a community guy. So I grab HBblondie, with my earlier folly in mind and proceed to jack her up. I pick her up off the floor, and bounce her on my lap. She loves it, pat on the back for physical escalation. I go in for the makeout with this one, no dice... and I have had it for the night.
I felt shit after this, but still did like 2 more approaches, nothing stuck, go home.
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"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
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"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
So Friday now. Last night was wicked, and I have a few huge updates on my life that I neglected on this journal over the last few days.
Soundbar to kick it off. Torres with me. I get in we go back and forth little bit, than I remember Monday night’s lesson again… APROACH.
2 set next to us by the bar, both girls love me, this Taiwanese chick is smoking. I didn’t pursue because I was busy getting my friend involved in set, and plus the other girl was diggin me, she’s married!
I go out for a smoke a few times, and also open 2 more girls, both with “boyfriends” there. Meanwhile I’m also getting very hammered, and I notice Torres is a bit uncomfortable because he’s usually the one leading the party, but I was kind of eclipsing here, this is my playground B-).
He tells me to walk with him through the club, so I do for the hell of it, and to not be a dickhead. Soon some hot girls that he called over come in, and he than eclipses me. I’m cool with it, smoking the cigarette and chillin. We go in and one of the girls is half black n Puerto Rican, solid 7. I go in and say very little than spin her and start grinding her. She actually got really passionate with it, I like. Didn’t feel like approaching many more here, so I tell Torres lets book.
We head to some Lincoln Park bar and drink more beer, I’m too drunk to hold a conversation, we just play shuffle board for awhile, than leave.
Quick assessment- For whatever reason when I’m with Torres(an old friend) I don’t game as hard, but I have made great strides just on the improvement of being able to open and hook while he’s there. I feel uncomfortable when merging my “regular social life” with my “gaming social life”, for whatever reason, but the gap between the two is noticeably getting smaller, and I am slowly implementing game into who I am, and what I do.
Tonight will be the 5th day in a row that I’m out, and 15 out of the last 17 days I have been out. That’s pretty fucking impressive.
Still since this month is all about amplification, leading up to the beginning of the school year I’m going to go out every night until than to make 14 straight days and 24/26 days gaming. This is what I got in this for, I vowed if I experienced even the slightest successes I would pursue the journey even harder, right now I’m like a shark in the water, WHERE’S MY MEAL!?!
Anyway…
I have come to a point where a high percentage of sets hook, I just have to dig in, and let the girls become aroused slowly, by my self amusement and my vibe.
But still need to improve on approaching more, and challenging myself with HARD approaches. I’m money at the bar, or a sitting set, dancing is much harder, and I really want to go back to the night at soundbar when I dragged the hottest girl off stage and beasted her into grinding with me, just because I was scared shitless, but when I pulled it off, I had an unbelievable surge of confidence.
So on to the meaty stuff…..
I quit my job when I got back from Vegas vacation. No regrets, I feel great about it. My priorities are now as follows:
1. Gaming
2. School
3. Fitness
In that order, I love having the extra 40 hrs a week of my life back… :D
I have been slacking on meditation, but I’m picking it up again today with a healthy 20 minute one, full peace.
Here we go.
Soundbar to kick it off. Torres with me. I get in we go back and forth little bit, than I remember Monday night’s lesson again… APROACH.
2 set next to us by the bar, both girls love me, this Taiwanese chick is smoking. I didn’t pursue because I was busy getting my friend involved in set, and plus the other girl was diggin me, she’s married!
I go out for a smoke a few times, and also open 2 more girls, both with “boyfriends” there. Meanwhile I’m also getting very hammered, and I notice Torres is a bit uncomfortable because he’s usually the one leading the party, but I was kind of eclipsing here, this is my playground B-).
He tells me to walk with him through the club, so I do for the hell of it, and to not be a dickhead. Soon some hot girls that he called over come in, and he than eclipses me. I’m cool with it, smoking the cigarette and chillin. We go in and one of the girls is half black n Puerto Rican, solid 7. I go in and say very little than spin her and start grinding her. She actually got really passionate with it, I like. Didn’t feel like approaching many more here, so I tell Torres lets book.
We head to some Lincoln Park bar and drink more beer, I’m too drunk to hold a conversation, we just play shuffle board for awhile, than leave.
Quick assessment- For whatever reason when I’m with Torres(an old friend) I don’t game as hard, but I have made great strides just on the improvement of being able to open and hook while he’s there. I feel uncomfortable when merging my “regular social life” with my “gaming social life”, for whatever reason, but the gap between the two is noticeably getting smaller, and I am slowly implementing game into who I am, and what I do.
Tonight will be the 5th day in a row that I’m out, and 15 out of the last 17 days I have been out. That’s pretty fucking impressive.
Still since this month is all about amplification, leading up to the beginning of the school year I’m going to go out every night until than to make 14 straight days and 24/26 days gaming. This is what I got in this for, I vowed if I experienced even the slightest successes I would pursue the journey even harder, right now I’m like a shark in the water, WHERE’S MY MEAL!?!
Anyway…
I have come to a point where a high percentage of sets hook, I just have to dig in, and let the girls become aroused slowly, by my self amusement and my vibe.
But still need to improve on approaching more, and challenging myself with HARD approaches. I’m money at the bar, or a sitting set, dancing is much harder, and I really want to go back to the night at soundbar when I dragged the hottest girl off stage and beasted her into grinding with me, just because I was scared shitless, but when I pulled it off, I had an unbelievable surge of confidence.
So on to the meaty stuff…..
I quit my job when I got back from Vegas vacation. No regrets, I feel great about it. My priorities are now as follows:
1. Gaming
2. School
3. Fitness
In that order, I love having the extra 40 hrs a week of my life back… :D
I have been slacking on meditation, but I’m picking it up again today with a healthy 20 minute one, full peace.
Here we go.
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The journal: www.rsdnation.com/node/185359
The blog: youcangetthatgirl.blogspot.com
"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
The blog: youcangetthatgirl.blogspot.com
"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
Friday night social at hearts. Dead when I came in, didn't really feel it tonight. Approached 3 sets, got 2 numbers, nothing to light fireworks about, BUT every night counts.
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"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
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"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
Eh, rough night. Goal tonight was to get at least 3 approaches on the dance floor, the difficult ones.
I actually got 4, and each one was an iteration of, “no, I’m with my friend”
This has been the response lately, an improvement from the girls just running away from me as was the case when I started. I approached only the hottest girls too, the last one had 3 guys talking to her simultaneously, I got in their grabbed her hand “White shorts, I like that!” and spun her around. She was receptive for like a split second after the spin but than she said she was dancing with her friend.
I also saw Hbdancefreak here, which threw me off… I just said hello and went on my way. As mentioned earlier things fell off between me and her, although I wanted to fuck her 1 more time. She was dtf tonight but friend kept pulling her away, and I didn’t really pursue.
7 approaches total.
Meditation before hand went well, it is becoming easier to get into the “ghhhhh” state quickly.
I’m trying something new tomorrow, but I think that will mark the longest streak of going out for me EVER.
Also have a day2 with girl from last night.
I actually got 4, and each one was an iteration of, “no, I’m with my friend”
This has been the response lately, an improvement from the girls just running away from me as was the case when I started. I approached only the hottest girls too, the last one had 3 guys talking to her simultaneously, I got in their grabbed her hand “White shorts, I like that!” and spun her around. She was receptive for like a split second after the spin but than she said she was dancing with her friend.
I also saw Hbdancefreak here, which threw me off… I just said hello and went on my way. As mentioned earlier things fell off between me and her, although I wanted to fuck her 1 more time. She was dtf tonight but friend kept pulling her away, and I didn’t really pursue.
7 approaches total.
Meditation before hand went well, it is becoming easier to get into the “ghhhhh” state quickly.
I’m trying something new tomorrow, but I think that will mark the longest streak of going out for me EVER.
Also have a day2 with girl from last night.
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The blog: youcangetthatgirl.blogspot.com
"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
The blog: youcangetthatgirl.blogspot.com
"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
So I’m waiting on this girl to come by, Hbenigma from hearts, but I have a feeling she is flaking. Situation sounds remarkably similar to Mariana, I know its negative thinking but hey I call a spade a spade. She actually just texted me and said she was on 39th, hmm.
Anyway the meditation went well, I actually noticed that it takes some effort to maintain the mantra, but when I consciously bring awareness to my body, the tension built up in my head is released. It’s a cool feeling, and finding.
So yeah, its either this girl shows up or I go to tease tonight…
Either way I’m cool with it.
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Hbenigma showed up, surprise surprise. We went on a chode icecream date, than I pulled her back to my house and I didn’t escalate. Fuck.
She was saying she had to leave soon, and just came up to my place on the pretense that I would show her around. She didn’t want a drink or anything, I had 1 and we began a good chodeversation. Halfway into it I could see the window for the makeout, I even said it to myself, but I can tell she was getting a little aroused so I figure let the tension build. Bad mistake, 2 minutes later I said some dumbshit, and she said she had to go. I walked her out, looking visibly disappointed (told her this), but I kept my cool I just joked about her not liking my drink.
Outside I opened the door for her like a chode/gentleman, and went in for the makeout. I got a half kiss, which kind of freaked her out, and she was gone in a flash. It was REALLY awkward, so I texted her some bullshit about me being tipsy after one drink.
This girl was hot, that’s why I had a problem escalating. Fuck.
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Well, lesson learned still went out to Tease. Had some approaches on the dance floor. I’m still hooking on the open, but very soon after girls say they have to go, so so frustrating. Had like 5 approaches tonight. Also working out, I am officially on Nazi mode.
Anyway the meditation went well, I actually noticed that it takes some effort to maintain the mantra, but when I consciously bring awareness to my body, the tension built up in my head is released. It’s a cool feeling, and finding.
So yeah, its either this girl shows up or I go to tease tonight…
Either way I’m cool with it.
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Hbenigma showed up, surprise surprise. We went on a chode icecream date, than I pulled her back to my house and I didn’t escalate. Fuck.
She was saying she had to leave soon, and just came up to my place on the pretense that I would show her around. She didn’t want a drink or anything, I had 1 and we began a good chodeversation. Halfway into it I could see the window for the makeout, I even said it to myself, but I can tell she was getting a little aroused so I figure let the tension build. Bad mistake, 2 minutes later I said some dumbshit, and she said she had to go. I walked her out, looking visibly disappointed (told her this), but I kept my cool I just joked about her not liking my drink.
Outside I opened the door for her like a chode/gentleman, and went in for the makeout. I got a half kiss, which kind of freaked her out, and she was gone in a flash. It was REALLY awkward, so I texted her some bullshit about me being tipsy after one drink.
This girl was hot, that’s why I had a problem escalating. Fuck.
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Well, lesson learned still went out to Tease. Had some approaches on the dance floor. I’m still hooking on the open, but very soon after girls say they have to go, so so frustrating. Had like 5 approaches tonight. Also working out, I am officially on Nazi mode.
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The blog: youcangetthatgirl.blogspot.com
"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
The blog: youcangetthatgirl.blogspot.com
"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
Just finished grocery shopping, workout and meditation.
I am on 1 right now.
Pushing myself in every aspect of my life, and taking away habits and distractions that stifle progress.
Incredibly it is 1 am and I am just about to head out to some bars that are open till 4.
Something I noticed in pick up is when I hook a set I don’t commit, or give my all to the set. Than I noticed this is a sticking point from long ago, sticking through with things in life. That is why I set this challenge up the way I did. I can’t even begin to understand the effect that I am having on my entire life with this whole six month thing, and the past 2 months especially, but SOMETHING has to be happening, I am taking so much action its ridiculous.
So something I will work on for the rest of the week: end game. In the sense that EVERY girl I approach I will commit to seeing that shit through. Coincidentally Brad wrote a blog about this today, how living in a small town forced him to go for broke EVERY set. I live in a big ass city, where a plethora of hot women are around I have the opposite sticking point of Brad.
So there it is. This week I am going to calm down on approaching like crazy, I got that down satisfactorily at this point, now I have to follow through on EVERY set. Yes I mean EVERY set, unless the girl runs away. It will be straight leading/escalation and working out logistics to pull. On EVERY.. Okay you get the point.
I’m kind of charged about this, as this was the reason I didn’t fair so well in Vegas, I was just an approach madman, and not committing.
From D,
With love :*
I am on 1 right now.
Pushing myself in every aspect of my life, and taking away habits and distractions that stifle progress.
Incredibly it is 1 am and I am just about to head out to some bars that are open till 4.
Something I noticed in pick up is when I hook a set I don’t commit, or give my all to the set. Than I noticed this is a sticking point from long ago, sticking through with things in life. That is why I set this challenge up the way I did. I can’t even begin to understand the effect that I am having on my entire life with this whole six month thing, and the past 2 months especially, but SOMETHING has to be happening, I am taking so much action its ridiculous.
So something I will work on for the rest of the week: end game. In the sense that EVERY girl I approach I will commit to seeing that shit through. Coincidentally Brad wrote a blog about this today, how living in a small town forced him to go for broke EVERY set. I live in a big ass city, where a plethora of hot women are around I have the opposite sticking point of Brad.
So there it is. This week I am going to calm down on approaching like crazy, I got that down satisfactorily at this point, now I have to follow through on EVERY set. Yes I mean EVERY set, unless the girl runs away. It will be straight leading/escalation and working out logistics to pull. On EVERY.. Okay you get the point.
I’m kind of charged about this, as this was the reason I didn’t fair so well in Vegas, I was just an approach madman, and not committing.
From D,
With love :*
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The blog: youcangetthatgirl.blogspot.com
"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
The blog: youcangetthatgirl.blogspot.com
"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
Monday went out, evil olive was bumping but they closed while I was in line. Just went home.
Yesterday had 2 spots to go to, but I settled in with HBsmiley2.0 from hearts, who is now somewhat of a regular FB.
Movie and cherish in the night. These 2 days broke my streak of going out, now I have to pick up the pieces.
I’ve always Known that my weakness for going out on full pimp mode is having a girl on the side. That helps me defend against it though. I was very distant from Hbsmiley2.0 last night, and there was times when she wanted to cuddle and I just did to not make her feel bad. Obligatory cuddling, what I really wanted to do was put her out so I could go out and pimp, but after 2 hard bang sessions I was tired and couldn’t get myself to tell her that she had to leave. Next time, on designated days, I cannot let a girl bog me down from going out, period.
Also skipped workout and meditation, it is incredible how 1 day could completely throw me off. As I said today will consist of picking up the pieces. Full workout, and Full meditation, than full pimp mode.
For now I have to get some fresh air to ice out the frustration.
Yesterday had 2 spots to go to, but I settled in with HBsmiley2.0 from hearts, who is now somewhat of a regular FB.
Movie and cherish in the night. These 2 days broke my streak of going out, now I have to pick up the pieces.
I’ve always Known that my weakness for going out on full pimp mode is having a girl on the side. That helps me defend against it though. I was very distant from Hbsmiley2.0 last night, and there was times when she wanted to cuddle and I just did to not make her feel bad. Obligatory cuddling, what I really wanted to do was put her out so I could go out and pimp, but after 2 hard bang sessions I was tired and couldn’t get myself to tell her that she had to leave. Next time, on designated days, I cannot let a girl bog me down from going out, period.
Also skipped workout and meditation, it is incredible how 1 day could completely throw me off. As I said today will consist of picking up the pieces. Full workout, and Full meditation, than full pimp mode.
For now I have to get some fresh air to ice out the frustration.
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The journal: www.rsdnation.com/node/185359
The blog: youcangetthatgirl.blogspot.com
"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
The blog: youcangetthatgirl.blogspot.com
"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle
dzdevil®
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Join Date: 10/31/2007 | Posts: 491
This week literally took me back to my first month of gaming...
Yea that bad.
Haha I recently reread those FR's and it was pretty rough, however the theme than is the theme now 4 months later, stay on the path, and continue actively looking for improvements.
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"Man is a political animal" -Aristotle