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I realized my introduction was vague as fuck so I'll make a coherent effort at a relevant one.

It is hard to do. After 3 nights a week of going out and approaching for like 2 months, I have fundamentally changed as a person. BIG TIME. I guess some people on this board say that blueprint fucked them up.( I was DEFINATELY a newbie at cold approach pick-up when I first saw it) The way I see it, it taught me a very valuable lesson about the importance of first hand experience. The bit Tyler goes on about how having the characteristic of "seeing things with a fresh set of eyes" is one of the most common in dudes that are natural with women. When I first saw blueprint I was in a relationship, circa one year ago.

I was definately co-dependant, and had no idea how much so. Straight value sucker of doom. Everything in my life had a grey taste to it. No passion, little drive, except to run home and be with my girlfriend. However when I saw that peice in the blueprint it hit home. It touched something inside me (no homo) lol. But seriously, I started hearing things differetly. My professors would talk about how mostly all discoveries in philosophy have already been made, and one must go back and study Plato, and Descarte to find meaning in life. Man don't get me wrong, I love me some Greek Philosophers, but that shit did not sound right to me. Not after reading Fountainhead and Atlas Shrugged. It was beginning to be clear that the world has 2 types of people: Those that seek to create, and those who are not inclined too, so feed off the ones that do, or worse DESTROY.

I know I'm speaking in generallities but stay with me here...

When my girlfriend left me, I was lost. I had almost fully adopted the "fresh set of eyes" concept so fully into my reality that I had no clue what I was going to do. I just hurt. for like a month straight, I would talk to her on-off get my hopes up.. than end up sobing because the "flame" had died so long ago, I just failed to see it. Went through this cycle like four times, each one MORE painful than the last. she had been my reallity.

So after I picked myself up, and decided that it was ultimately my decision how long I would allow the cycle to continue.. I began getting over her, still ever so slowly. I started to look at pick up, the game, and RSD. When I reintrodeced myself to the material I had incredible skeptisicm. This from a guy that had hailed the material as total gold two years before(which is how I met said GF). I didn't really think it was possible to meet a girl at a club quickly attract and have sex with her the same night. I started to think most guys on the boards, and coaches were making this shit up.

I wish I was joking.

I had to do something. I decided I wanted to be a player. With my skeptisicm about the game I made a commitment as follows:

I will apply myself to the game HARD, and approach women 3 nights a week, for 6 months straight. If I got "some" success, I would prabably continue on the path. If not I would leave pick-up material and RSD behind FOR GOOD.

My drive came from not wanting to be in pain... straight up. It was quite literally get laid or die trying, there was no choice.. I was in a rough spot in my life... easily the darkest.

I read NineBall cover to cover in about 2 days. AMAZING.

So I began to go out and approach. Man it was tough. but I had small progress early on, like increased comfort in social situations, and all around more confidance. This began to snowball into a buring desire to get better and better as I saw results.

This BTW was all in like the span of two weeks. So I decided I would break up the  6 month "Player" challenge into monthlong missions.

1. Lighter FLuid
2. Justvibe
3-6 to follow =)

This improved my results, as I would focus on these things solely throughout the month. Straight up "rounding out" my personality as Tyler calls it from the bottom up, begginning from scratch. Now I can, with good consistency, roll up, get the chick giggling and number close. The next thing for me is pushing past my admittedly weak "leading" game, which I think is that last link for me to get a girl home for a same night lay. Stay tuned for next week =).

Thats about it. I recently fixed my gaol for the end of the  6 months to have two 8+ hot fuckbuddies that are reliable, and possibly make one my GF. I love relationships, but after the stuff I've been through, I don't know if I want to stay in a committed relationship. I know I don't want her to cheat.

That's where I am at. I apologize in advance (and probably for the only time in this journal) for my blatant arrogance as I have illusions of teaching pick-up one day, and also dream of being very rich. All these grandiose aspirations of mine IMO make for at the least an interesting/funny/godawful/inspirational read, and I canonly hope it helps someone discover or re-discover the flame for cold approach pick up as Nineball did for me. =)

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Pretty much champed it up today. Blocked pervading negative thoughts about external events and just chuck norrissed the shit out of the day!

Pyyyyaaaaaaaaaaah mudafuckah!

Man what am I getting myself into!

It will be a photo finish to Jeffy’s seminar today, than relax and work tomorrow.

Than bum bum BUMMMMM.

My first day in the field. New set of guidelines, and frankly new man. It is not the destination but the journey fools. To often I reflect on a future time in which my game will be better. Shit, I AM the game, and everything happens through me. That means I will not be gaining a damn thing, but stripping things that stifle and hold me back from the shining light of all holy glory.

1st field report to come tomorrow, start spreading the news bitches!.

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1st field report.

Went down to this bar called the crossroads, supposed to be poppin.

Wasn’t, but across the street Third rail was buzzing. Jumped in ordered a scotch and watched the sox lose

Haha, wanted to post it as a status but didn’t-enter “my better judgement”

Made my way down to River north, some of those places were buzzing as well, ducked into Mo’s Cantina, absolutely exquisite place. Had a Coors that tasted llike urine. Looool

Than I spent the rest of the night scouting places to hit up on Tuesday nights. It will get better in the summer, I’m just out doing recon.

I have an early day tomorrow to study for poli sci test.
Smoooooooth.
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Seminar last night was incredible. Met cool people, and some not so cool people. Lol

I don’t discriminate anymore. Project Chicago, lets do it! The creepiest PUA I don’t care, this is my lifestyle now.

After seminar me and an older dude (that tyler just so happened to pick on for wearing a Punisher T-shirt) were on the Redline. I am absolutely glowing. I am mostly talking to dude. He points out this decent looking girl, she is aight, but giving me the eyes. J

I walk right past her, and she kinda follows us halfway through the terminal.

Me in my head “Dude u just left a “pick up seminar”, u’d be extra lame if u didn’t approach this girl RIGHT now.lol

So I go in before I can think twice. Straight tunnel vision.

Me- Hey, u play soccer? :D

Star(sounds like porno I know, swears it is her name)-Yeah.

Me- nice, blah blah What school do u play for Blah Blah

Her- Curie

Me- cool…(I go on about my life and how I played soccer in college, also went into “Mentor chode mode” I’ve noticed this with younger girls I just revert to imparting my “worldly wisdom” to them, kinda lame, but I think I kept a decent vibe, and frame.

At this point I get a text from dude, “close her now!”
I’m like haha this guy is pushy, I was gonna wait till my stop but f it.
Hey we should hang sometime…
Pull out my phone, and hand it to her. She takes it with a slight grin.

She hands me hers, and I’m like,” just call it from your phone…”

She agrees and takes back her blackberry.

Turns out we were getting off on the same stop, crazy.

I step off, and we exchange a few back and forths, nothing dumb or weird.

Than I hug her in the lobby, and we part ways. J

I invited her to the party tonight, which I don’t think I am ready for, Physically.

She said for sure, we’ll see if she shows. I went out afterward, all my main spots were either completely empty or completely packed to the gills, it was a strange phenomenon. So I ended at Simone’s a decent place with cool art deco, and friendly staff. I buy a beer, and tip the keep 15 bucks, think I just settled on a day 2 hotspot.

Pretty much nothing their to talk to, I chat with these two guys, one who appears like a natural, than I take off into the pouring rain to get some rest for Friday party of pure destruction. lol
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Oh yea, so I went out last night

FR times fuck.

Haha.

Me and Torres planned this on the fly party and invited everyone with like 6 hrs notice lmao.

Gangsta. It was just me him Ralph and will up at my place, shooting the shit and things. Soon it was apparent that no one else was going to show, so instead of choding abute at club danny we hit the scene.

Hawkeyes: fail

But across the street their was a yet to be identified bar that was crackalating.

Go in, and I am slightly feeling myself. I am feeling it to a certain degree. Course I wasn’t monitoring, just something I remember feeling.

I prance around like a gay hyina, this only adds to my amusement. The guys are looking at me like wtf???

Hmm, to bad they don’t see the humor. I proceed to walk around the bar to look for something to approach. Their were definitely possibles. Bayem.

I strike a quick convo with will, and notice a strange dynamic between torres and Ralph n My guy will. He is pretty much solo, and I can tell he is kinda in his head. I go by him and start acting somewhat stupid. I am enjoying it, he doesn’t seem to mind.

10 minutes later(probably more like 2) Closing time.

Fuck. I quickly scan for anything to approach.

Barista. Looks somewhat hot. I step “HEY, danny!”

Her-uh uh uh.

Me- let me have ur number… ?( I don’t know why the fuck I asked)

Her- uh I don’t give my number out.

Me- ok.

Bounce.

That’s about it. I feel the juice coming. Comfort is settling in. I’m probably gonna hit it again tonight. I have come to peace with the fact that, in whatever I do it takes time for me to settle in to it, than when I feel all around comfortable I explode.

Perhaps This challenge needs to be about cultivating the ability to go in immediately and do warm up sets. Something to think about baby.
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Took a glorious picture of me and uploaded it to FB. I look super official. Like I have a 40th fl office, and I pace around intensely as I weigh crazy business decisions.

Lol

I got a comment from this model girl I know, she was like “looking good!”

Damn that was it my validation hit the fucking ceiling. J

I was in a buzz last night. When I finally got my brothers car, I was just cruising the night away. Enter Transit times.

Here I was expecting to meet some old friends. I am striking random convo with bouncer door gentlemen, than with the girl that I pay cover to. Than to bartender. This place looked to me to be filled with zombie people. Maybe they were just drunk, or maybe I wasn’t drunk enough! Lol

Anyhow… Operation spittin lighter fluid is well under way! :D

I fizzled after a few sets with girls that were eyeing me and I didn’t approach, than I sacked up and cut this girl off in the hallway

Me- “Heeeey! Danny” stick my hand out.

Her- confused, still shake my hand “hi nice to meet u’

She was obviously hammered, stalled a bit and than walked off.

That was pretty much it. This place was kinda fucking with my state.

In retrospect I could have stayed and gamed a bit more. One thing I need to completely cut out is, well there are 2: Half assed approach and Relating to girls I approach as a friend to a friend.

Cut.

Still, last night was a success. Approached a number of people, talked to the bouncer and stuff….
And a halfway decent looking chick.

Spittin that lighter fluid.

I was on my way to work today, and saw these hot girls sitting in a group. I felt completely chill and natural, and just made my way up to them and took the seat next to a hot one with low cut shorts. This may sound at once chode, but considering where I was just a month or two ago when I would probably freak out, and elect to not even consider the idea of sitting next to them, it is a vast improvement. Cannot be taken for granted. I am so much more relaxed around others. I straight up approached this older black gentlemen at the bus stop and just chatted him up. He was super cool about it too. It’s surfacing, just gotta continue putting the time and effort in.

Co worker beginning 7th fl detex patrol, and I feel like that’s where I’m going with my game, to the high executives, high priests of pick-up and REAL gansgsta‘s with crazy heads. It is a bit unnerving. Crash and burn, and sex in the night, adventures to be had. One thing is for certain: under NO pretense will I be going back to Transit

Had something juggling in my head about the Ex and walking my path. They seem interlinked, and something tyler said at the seminar hit me. Referring to Neill and Tyler’s depiction in the book “The Game”: “I think he did that subconsciously because I needed it. I really do think people will do certain things, and put you through adversity because they know you need it”

Deep. Now time to climb out of the whole and get to… errrr…. Work????


hahahahahaha
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Began the morning kinda shit…. Personal stuff.

Trucking through the workday. Passing gas, ate a double bacon cheeseburger, and side of cheese fries this afternoon, it was exquisite.

J

Been having lingering feelings, and thoughts about having the Ex back in my life. Think it’s just a side effect of not going out. The co-worker having his hot girlfriend come by didn’t help any. Lol

I need to stick this through, there is no going back now. I have a healthy momentum, and am well on track on this 6 month journey of sexual desire and destruction. This is the time where I would let myself slip in the endeavors I dabble in throughout life. A little success, than chilling back and letting things come as they may. Reactive.

Not now! Oh no sir. Fuck you Mr. postman.

Haha. I have a solid fuckbuddy that I could turn into a GF if I wanted, and flirting back and forth with a hotter sweet thang online. J
Not to mention the number I got after the seminar last Thursday.

Shit life is good, it’s just that the companionship thing is not their at the moment, but that doesn’t mean I have to focus on it. My focus needs to be on making this part of my life as fruitful as possible. No relenting, no receding, simply Beasting.

Done with rant. I have to take a shit.

Something else….. I just don’t remember.

It was just some bs, I wanted to make a logical connection between wanting Ex back and not going out, oh yeah I did cover that, in true fashion: with no logical conection, just flow.

Here we fucking go.
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L

Been in my head all day. Something about hanging with Torres gets me reactive, Agh frustrating, I get all spectator mode, not always though, just recently.

Man thug life blew me off, and I played the fifth wheel ALL FUCKING DAY

Eh, it wasn’t too bad. I don’t think it can get much worse than today, and today wasn’t that bad. I’m just tired, Be back at it tomorrow son!
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Seconds away from calling the Ex today. CANKED!

Haha. Will be going out tonight for some fun in the night. Just approach. I’m experimenting with this cool meditation sequence I came across while sitting idly bored at work. Sit perfectly still, focus on a point in the room, and SLOWY bring my attention to my entire body, methodically starting at my finger tips and toes and spreading it inward. I found that my pelvic region is the most challenging to bring that attention to. It feels numb. In any case it helped clear my mind and put me in a chill state.

FR to follow.

2 things: Approach and lighter fluid times!

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Meditation worked. Or maybe I am just unleashing the pimp inside with some ancient Chinese secret. Lol

Spybar once had an intimidating effect on me, and would render me a gosh darned wall flower of doom.

I did the whole body awareness/breath technique and felt chill. I stepped into this place after the bouncer decides to pat me down.

I shrug it off, and actually find it a bit amusing. I’m in. once inside I was on my way to the bathroom, and at once remembered the goal for the night. Lighter fluid serves no purpose in the restroom, so I literally do a 180 on my way to the bathroom, girls by me find this a bit ackward. I dropped some comment and continue to the bar. I chat up some guys, intro back and forth order my drink.


Head to the bathroom after this successful warm-up on the way back I know its time to step up now, or have a chodely night. I spot a halfway decent looking Hispanic girl and Indian in the corner. Fuck it I’m in. I actually approached so strong that I scared the one girl. I apologize and commence authentic banter. They both love it. Hispanic chick who I’ll call smiley cause she was all smiles, and found me absolutely hilarious is, big surprise laughing her arse off. I’m kinda close to her, and intermittently clawing, lightly hugging and tapping her throughout the interaction. Than she peels off to talk to some guy. I stand my ground, and begin chatting some guys next to me. They look like they are seriously on the hunt. I’m super chill, catching glances from some other good looking girls around the place. I like this. Feeling great. J

Smiley makes her way back over to me, and I’m all fucking party. She loves it, soon she’s hanging off me, and I am getting aroused. I draw her in close, and say something while going for the makeout.

Smooch.

Wow that was sooo easy. So fluid. My first makeout with a girl that I met at a club, and it feels like I have been doing it for years. Nice. I talk to her some more, do a slight hair pull, which she responds to very well. I tilt her head back and start kissing her kneck. She likes, but its kinda TOO much for the area (right next to the bar, in full view of ALL her friends, including 2 guys that were fighting for her attention. One of the guys tried to cut in on us by asking her if she wanted another drink. LOL) So I pull back, and head for the dance floor, whilst in a horny state. I approach a group of girls, again don’t know what I said, but it only halfway opened.

Target( a legit 8)- “I’m here with my friends.”

Usually I’d be a bit flustered by this, but in this state I FEEL immovable. She senses this and is a bit intrigued. I notice it. I say some more stuff, and just feel like bopping to the music a bit. Wasn’t too crazy, not very high risk.

I walk off and return to smiley. She is in convo with some asian cat. Ok cool. I vibe some more, grab another drink and smiley comes up on me hard, grabs my dick. :D I am pleased. J J

At this point a girl that previously identified herself as cousin to asian dude that is trying somewhat hard (a bit harder than me) to hold smilies attention comes upm to me and starts talking. She’s cute. Immediately conspiratorial thoughts pervade. Lol

She says she’s smoking a cigarette, I ask if she has another, she acknowledges, and I lead to the exit. She brings some other dude with her as well… another cousin. They’re deep in herrrrrrr. outside whilst talking to her she tells me how it’s odd to talk to someone like me, because she feels that I don’t have some UNDERLYING motive. She tells me I’m different blah blah. I shrug it off and say some shit about my life, than claw her in real quick. Release and soon its time to go back inside. I return and see smiley not having a blas. I go up and instruct, “Let’s go dance, and take her by the hand.” On the dance floor I prop her against a pillar, and begin some crazy version of a juke/makeout.

Hehe.

This is kind of weird as well because there are not a lot of people around. I get kinda weirded by this strange new experience lol. She read into it and is all smiles, giggley push aways. Her one Indian friend than comes up and takes her by the hand and disappears into the club. I don’t care. Mainly cause she wasn’t very attractive. A more attractive girl I would have probably had more incentive to just caveman and shit. Haha.

I stroll through the dance floor and decide I will make 1 more approach. Well, well if it isn’t girls from the dance floor! I approach again and the one girl is so so into it apparently, she than asks whats my name again, a bit ashamed of herself.

Hahahaha

I than begin to talk some stuff, and some alpha looking dude who looks like a cheap Cuban link talks at the group, my girls attention wanders to him for a bit, than I see him and proceed to want to tool the shit out of him. “I love u man”. bllah blah.

Him to girl I was talking to: Are u sure ur ok(cuts in smoothly between me and her, and hugs)

Blownout

What I need to work on is the “blah blahs” lol, but it was a great night, I was so pumped about it I couldn’t sleep until 5 am. Had to wake up at 8:30, and was still on charge. I just pulled a 12 hour shift and I feel exhausted now.

Proceed with the good times. Rest night.
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Show me a good time.

I produce. Bam bam bam, duck from the shots.

I’m taking the next week off of going out because of the papers and projects all due. All about finishing strong.

Period. I can do it, and I’ll do it well.
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Took the night off to rest. Woke up feeling pretty sexy.

I felt shit for a part of the day. Co-worker threw some bs at me. I have a thing at work where I treat everyone with respect, I don’t try to be a hard ass about things. So this dude saw it as indecisiveness and called me out on it. I asked to get a smoke break, and he said not till everyone cleared the lobby. This pissed me off but, I held back. This really fucked the rest of my day.

I’m wondering if the workplace should be approached with lighter fluid as well. Hmm. Don’t know until I try it, 10 days baby.

It’s certainly better than what I’m doing now, seemingly moping around like a fucking troll.

Anyway, I’ll be at redno5 tonight… Time to release.

Breath exercise while at the train terminal should get my mind right.

FR to follow.

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Body awareness exercise done, I feel better…. More peaceful, present if you will.

So as I said earlier I hit up redno5 with Eddie paul, and some other girl who’s name I forgot. I will not say the night was a total waste, I approached some hot girls, but state was just not their, I did it anyway though, and for that reason the night was a success.

I sense that me talking and hanging out with eddie is deeper than just wanting to see him out in the field( he is in fact a ball of energy, and is pretty consistant at generating attraction). I feel like I hang with him in part to rekindle feelings of being with the ex, and also to stregthen my resolve, as a right of passage or trial by fire, if u will again.

This may just be mental masterbation, but either way I consistently experience a pattern which is:

1. Go out with others at my level of game or higher= I act like a tool, get treated like a tool, and end up washing down unhealthy amounts of alcohol and being reactive, overall SHIT.

2. Go out alone, or with others that don‘t have as good game as I do= more incentive to approach, which leads to more success, and in turn also more fun and am more in control. Just like that

Now last night was not disastrous. I played it real chill, and also sacked up on more than one occasion. However I felt and feel like doing #1 is taking the past of MOST resistance instead of the least. Like I want to take the longer route somewhere I’m driving to, not for sheer enjoyment, but to VALIDATE to myself that I won‘t get pissed for doing extra work. (I know, I have to work on examples hehe)

This is not working out well, so it is now canked. Is that the second thing I have canked in the past 2 days?

God I am on fire!

lol
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I’ve noticed I haven’t been analytical in documenting the interactions I have. Something to work on, co-worker just pissed me off. Yes it was my fault that I forgot to lock up the retil lobby, but I was off the clock and he had me lock it up anyway. I mean I agreed to it. Fuck fuck fuck. Fuck. Stop that shit kid!

Anyway, in text with smiley today,

Me: Hey, you wanna grab some icecream 2morro, I kno this great place around the way

smiley: what time

Me: 2pm

smiley: where is this place at

Me: (at this point I just take it as a yes) Meet at my place, I’ll text u the address, headout from there :D

smiley: ok whats ur address, do u have a fb????

Me: blah blah (I basically lead off the fb thing and ignore the address question, experimentation purposes)

Pretty solid.

So in class tomorrow I’ll text her the shit, and I should be cooking with grease.

I’m taking the week off, but from the looks of it my field work last week may payoff yet J

I still gotta follow up with star
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