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May 25th, 2017
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pringles

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Paris Boum Boum

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Nice post. 

My pattern of relaxation is this: I enter the club / bar, I breathe and I think I feel good right now, I look at all the cool lights and all the people having fun and I think "damn those lights and all those people having fun, life is awesome", then I really believe that all the music and all the people emit a powerful pleasant energy and that this energy flows through me, and they all give it to me because I am so awesome and they all came here for me. By this stage (it takes 10-30sec) a huge smile comes on my face, I genuinely feel happy and hurr durr, and my night begins. 

It sounds kind of retarded when I write it down lol, but the feeling is awesome and the technique effective.

Also I tend to hit state the hard way: I feel bad /  not in the mood, so what I do is I spot a group of people nearby and I walk up to them and I start to talk, as soon as I am blown out or the conversation ends I approach the people nearby and I do the same 5 to 10 times in a row. When I am in a bad state it can require me to do that 10 times but eventually I reach state by the 10 th approach. Luckily enough I don't need to do that many warm up sets most of the time. But this is a technique in my arsenal, and it feels good to know that even when you are in the worst state ever you just need to follow your script to become awesome again, it brings you much confidence. The difference with a newb is that the newb doesn't know that his bad emotional state is bullshit / doesn't exist, IOW it is the RESULT of him doing nothing, so he just needs to approach and he'll feel better. He believes that in the arcane of his psyche something well hidden is preventing him to be happy and that his life is shit and that he is not socially adjusted, whatever. 
Solution: Walk up, move your mouth, repeat 10x.

I still need to find a way of consistently reaching asshole state, ie when you are that asshole who can get away with anything, and girls become sexually aggressive with you.
As I am writing that I realize the solution is action, as you put it. I used to be dependent on finding a girl who seemed really attracted and doing what I wanted with her. But the solution isn't the girl, it's the action you perform on this girl because you feel entitled after you see how much she reacts to you.

Keep it up. 
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 i loisten to music music form mortal kombat and then look at my mirror to get into state, it is important for being pumped up, for the big night! if you cant get it then FYM
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pringles

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Timf Bhraowhn wrote:
 i loisten to music music form mortal kombat and then look at my mirror to get into state, it is important for being pumped up, for the big night! if you cant get it then FYM
i know i've seen you owning with ure trinkets......i need to get more trinkets
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BarSpin

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Wow. Nice just what I needed I really do need to chill out.
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