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I am having problem with that.
I consider myself a philosopher/thelogian/nerdy and I am used to intelligent conversations.
So I have to dumb myself down to have conversation, in the end, girls only talk about bars and nightclubs, this usually wears off.
I know I should pull her out and fuck her by then, but how to really enjoy what they have to say would help my intention?
Holy shit, what a dick lol. Who says you have to dumb down to talk to a girl? About a third of the girls i meet out do philosophy courses but guess what? THEY'RE OUT IN THE CLUB HAVING FUN and they dont want to talk about it. Stop being such a prick and enjoy the moment - unless you actually want to stay at home crying and wanking over Kants' Metaphysics of Morals.I consider myself a philosopher/thelogian/nerdy and I am used to intelligent conversations.
So I have to dumb myself down to have conversation, in the end, girls only talk about bars and nightclubs, this usually wears off.
I know I should pull her out and fuck her by then, but how to really enjoy what they have to say would help my intention?
No more bullshit.
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I actually fucking love talking to women and getting to know them, whether they are stupid or not. I won't date a stupid girl again though, that's hell on earth. I want some artistic, musical, philosophizing woman that speaks multiple languages. (and of course black hair, tan body and brown eyes, she has to look like sex on legs). Fuck I just gave myself 6 boners.
I actually done like the initial conversations with women, but I enjoy talking to women when we have hit a comfort level. As with all people, some I really enjoy talking to and some I do not. I like goofy girls, smart girls, and sometime dumb girls are fun just because they are entertaining and usually sluttly lol. I dont like stuck up, reserved, snooty girls...I dont care how hot they are...I know some guys like that but not for me.
How could you not? Isnt this why guys get into the community? to fuck more women? But yea some women just arent worth talking to. Learn which ones you like and dont like. Saves you time.
I'm a dick, thanx.
And that is my sticking point or at least a excuse for having a sticking point.
My intention just don't rise. I am not used to enjoy talking to the girls at all.
Please help me.
I don't want to vitriol my thoughts to them, because, I don't want to prove any point and would just like to be away from my thinking mind.
But it is so hard. I usually get into discussions, because they are rooted in faulty traditions that they cannot discuss back, but they just think they're right and that is it.
This just turns me off.
I would love to turn off my mind and just have fun.
Usually tequila helps.
I can sustain just-fun conversations and hide my discussion impulses for the sake of pussy, but not for long.
It bores me.
Now, be tought on me, say in my face friends, if theres something I need to see and I am blind by my internalizations.
And that is my sticking point or at least a excuse for having a sticking point.
My intention just don't rise. I am not used to enjoy talking to the girls at all.
Please help me.
I don't want to vitriol my thoughts to them, because, I don't want to prove any point and would just like to be away from my thinking mind.
But it is so hard. I usually get into discussions, because they are rooted in faulty traditions that they cannot discuss back, but they just think they're right and that is it.
This just turns me off.
I would love to turn off my mind and just have fun.
Usually tequila helps.
I can sustain just-fun conversations and hide my discussion impulses for the sake of pussy, but not for long.
It bores me.
Now, be tought on me, say in my face friends, if theres something I need to see and I am blind by my internalizations.
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I am having problem with that.
I consider myself a philosopher/thelogian/nerdy and I am used to intelligent conversations.
So I have to dumb myself down to have conversation, in the end, girls only talk about bars and nightclubs, this usually wears off.
I know I should pull her out and fuck her by then, but how to really enjoy what they have to say would help my intention?
I'm the same man, but when I find the "intellectual" ones, I kind of find it off putting. I prefer to TEACH all the philosphy/theology to them. But I normally do this after a DAY2/fucking period.I consider myself a philosopher/thelogian/nerdy and I am used to intelligent conversations.
So I have to dumb myself down to have conversation, in the end, girls only talk about bars and nightclubs, this usually wears off.
I know I should pull her out and fuck her by then, but how to really enjoy what they have to say would help my intention?
Vibing about anything can be just as exciting fulfilling. "Broaden" your vibing skills, and you'll feel the same as when you feel when talking about the subjects you enjoy.
Just going out and beasting is one of the most fun, addicting things I've ever done. Every night I start out nervous and in my head and shit but by the end of the night I feel fucking invincible. Go Out.
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back when i was smart and didnt know how to talk to girls it really sucked. i had a year+ hard learning curve where i got a few makeouts and a few semi girlfriends. i felt so uncomfortable i wondered how this game shit was fun at all. I was so unsociable and socially retarded my mom even admitted i was socially retarded. it takes years to get to the point where the good guys are. it really isn't possible to go out and "just beast bro" if its your first night ever out picking up chicks. head out to the club and approach chicks until you dont care. repeat hundreds of times. if you feel like your going to die heading to a club solo just sit in the club and if you cant approach just hang out. baby steps
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≜Luke
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This is why when you go out, you dont go out to "Pick up" girls, you go out for yourself, to have fun, for self amusement and bring girls into your reality, give value, NOT try to gain something i.e. reactions from them.
Talk shit for YOURSELF, be expressive and opinionated. Make her test you. The more you help the girl to experience a wide range of emotions the more she will open up, be herself and you get to experience her unique personality