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do you actually enjoy talking to girls?
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korbbit

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Join Date: 03/27/2010 | Posts: 47

noob here,

To anyone whose getting any level of success:
Do you guys actually enjoy chatting with random chiks??
And did you enjoy it before you got good at it?

Like even without any anxiety, i still dont find it fun.
girls are rarely actually funny, and almost never have anything interesting to say...

Is the only reason we talk to them because we like the feeling of them reacting to us?
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Cupcakes

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Yes. I do't like your whole attitude here, you should go out and have some FUN.
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slothfulpizza

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yeah man talking to chicks is so much fun.in fact everything with them is so much fun! most guys go out with the wrong attitude, chicks are awesome and primarily love to be in an envirnoment which is fun filled. if you adopt the same attitude theres no reason why you wouldnt get mad success.
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Polarize

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 I love women
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Johnathan Sampson

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Korbit go in the clubs and find out

Basically two options:

1) They're are some chicks that have a personality, peronally I like the feminine and funny ones
2) They're are ones that want you to do all the leading. They are so attracted they don't do anything but let you lead in everything. Empty slate

Having an interesting n kewl personality is a masculine quality
Looking fucken hot and beautiful is a feminine quality.
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TableDance

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The key is not relying on them to bring the fun in to the conversation.  Use them as your toy.  Use them and your interaction to entertain yourself.  Rather than waiting for them to say something interesting/entertaining/profound do something that you find hillarious.  A couple of weekends ago I had a girl yelling at me because I tried to grab her hair and make out with her to start the convo.  Mid yelling I grabbed her hand and put it on my cock.  I was laughing my ass off and all the sudden she loved me.  Chances are this won't always work.  And was probably really stupid.  The point of the story though.  No matter how much of a boring cunt she was, I was having fun with the interaction, I could not be denied fun.

So to answer your question.  No.  Usually haveing a regular conversation with most girls is pretty boring.  Why?  because they like shopping, gossip, and drama.  I like sport, cars, and pussy.  We don't have much in common so naturally I'm going to find them boring and uninspiring.  However, I enjoy the challenge of going for the SNL and I love being a bit of a dick and seeing how far I can go and still recover.  To me it's not about the girl entertaining me.  It's about the interaction entertaining me, and that's all on my shoulders to make it happen or not.

If you aren't haveing fun talking to girls it's not because they are boring.  Think about it.  If you had a set of real tits and a real pussy alone in a room with you.  You could still have fun.  Girls can ALWAYS entertain us because of those beutifull luscious fun bags and who whos.  It's just up to you to not be boring and find a way to entertain yourself.
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Sunny667

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I am having problem with that.
I consider myself a philosopher/thelogian/nerdy and I am used to intelligent conversations.
So I have to dumb myself down to have conversation, in the end, girls only talk about bars and nightclubs, this usually wears off.

I know I should pull her out and fuck her by then, but how to really enjoy what they have to say would help my intention?
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TableDance

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Dude... It's guys who identify with being smart who have this problem.  It's not that you are too smart.  Or that she is too stupid.  It's because you are a pompus ass and believe that you are above this shit because of your (and many times this isn't really true) above average intelligence.  You don't have to dumb yourself down.  You just have to stop being a douche.  Sorry for the tough love.  I'm an engineer and I spent a whole lot of time with guys like you who think they are gods gift to intelligence and that they can't relate to girls because the girls are too stupid.  The reality is that you are to stupid.  You are to stupid socially to let your guard down and comunicate on a natural level.  You have to prove your intelligence and talk only about smart things.  Stop that shit or you will not only chace off hot girls, but cool fun guys too.

I'm not saying to change your content.  Not saying to dumb yourself down (whatever the fuck that means).  I'm saying quit hiding behind your intelligence (or facad of).  Quit worrying about you content in your conversation.  Content is crap, no matter what.  Communicating isn't about talking.  It's about fellings/emotions/and shareing them.  Don't change your comment, change your approach to communicating with women.  Stop talking at them and start sharing with them.  It's not the content that needs to be fun and entertaining.  It's you... personally... that needs to be fun and entertaining.  Enjoy yourself be goofy, don't finish thoughts.  Make jokes, dumb faces, asshole comments etc.  If you truelly are as smart as you think you are then this should be easy.  You should be 1 step ahead the whole time and able to relax and just flow because your brain is so fast it's not working.

Also you should not even need input form the girl to have a fun conversation.  If you are entertaining yourself then you don't even need her.  Funny thing is, if you are doing this not only will she have a desire to participate, but she will actually do it in a fun manor.  Your conversations are philosipher/thelogian/nerdy because you are talking at her.  So your talk is going to center around what you identify with.  Try identifying with being a man and wanting vagish, then communicate with her as a woman.
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blu3boy

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Girls are fun as hell.

I agree with slofulpizzas comment.

From a noob to a noob at first it sucks but after a while its fun man.
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Goran~

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Yeha, talking to chicks is fun, they always have a funny point of view on something, its amusing and fun.

There are some where you talk to them and theyre not very interesting, you either pull fuck and forget if shes hot enough, lol, or just leave and go talk to a nother chick...
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killacam09

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Yes it is fun lol.  Just cos they have vagina's doesn't mean they are not fun people like us guys can be :-)
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