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June 18th, 2013
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#21
Die Nutte

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I find this post to be PHENOMENAL and easily in the top 5 pick-up articles/concepts there is (for me).

I dont understand this point though

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Many times it's not just you. When women become aroused they will try to reduce the tension by baiting you to break rapport. Of course you fall for this trap because you think you need to break rapport to create sexual tension. See the problem? The sexual tension is already there


Why would attraction cause them to want break rapport? And why do we "fall" for it? Why do I think I need to break rapport to create tension?


Can anybody help?
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#22
killacam09

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Stupid fuckin advice.
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#23

Pistola

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Die Nutte wrote:
I find this post to be PHENOMENAL and easily in the top 5 pick-up articles/concepts there is (for me).

I dont understand this point though

Tests/Asd
Many times it's not just you. When women become aroused they will try to reduce the tension by baiting you to break rapport. Of course you fall for this trap because you think you need to break rapport to create sexual tension. See the problem? The sexual tension is already there


Why would attraction cause them to want break rapport? And why do we "fall" for it? Why do I think I need to break rapport to create tension?


Can anybody help?

Yea sure. Its a test they might do. They want to see if you are comfortable with the sexual tension. During these silences and you are giving her eye contact, she might try to break it by asking you a question or will wait until you say something. If you say something it means you broke the tension. However you can put it in her boat and not say anything. This will cause her to be the one to say something and sometimes she will start qualifying herself to you. It keeps the tension there and you are still leading the interaction. The attraction remains there. What some guys do is they will say something or laugh, look away or something which will soften the sexual tension. This isnt the end of all the attraction that is there. You just missed an opportunity to strengthen the sexual attraction. She will backwards rationalize this in your favor. Its what causes her to qualify herself to you in these situations. Remember the less is more saying. The less you talk the less of a chance you have of saying something stupid or lessening the attraction that is already there. We fall for it because we think that awkward uncomfortable feeling(sexual tension) is a bad thing. Social conditioning has taught us this and its just something you need to see for yourself. 
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#24
BAWLS

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ASD refers to anti-slut defense. A process that women go through to avoid the perception of being “slutty” or “too easy”. While both of you are getting freaky, her ASD might kick in and she would reduce the tension to demonstrate that she resisted the sexual advances, which helps absolve her of her guilt of sex. So be a man, take the lead and take full responsibility for sex.



Die Nutte wrote:
I find this post to be PHENOMENAL and easily in the top 5 pick-up articles/concepts there is (for me).

I dont understand this point though

Tests/Asd
Many times it's not just you. When women become aroused they will try to reduce the tension by baiting you to break rapport. Of course you fall for this trap because you think you need to break rapport to create sexual tension. See the problem? The sexual tension is already there


Why would attraction cause them to want break rapport? And why do we "fall" for it? Why do I think I need to break rapport to create tension?


Can anybody help?

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Fred E. Rick

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Sebastian_Flyte wrote:
I have read thousands of posts on this forum over the last few years - THOUSANDS!  And often you know it's a case of the blind leading the blind, or somebody just re-packaging and regurgitating some kind of second-hand advice they believe to be true that they haven't tested out themselves.

But this thread, along with Robotboner's recent S.H.E.G thread, and Tyler's "Don't Try" video from the other week are amongst the most seminal pieces of information I've ever read on here and cuts through the bullshit to the very heart of the game.
I agree.

Also check out Pringles' latest gem which covers the same topics.
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#26

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Powerful post.
Awesome video.
THanks for both.
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#27

thosemotos82

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This post is fucking awesome!
Thanks a lot XXL
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#28

XXL

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Quote:
Why would attraction cause them to want break rapport? And why do we "fall" for it? Why do I think I need to break rapport to create tension?
girls want to see who's causing that attraction. girls don't want to be picked up by loosers

so they test..
- in order not to appear as easy slut
- to see how much tension a man can handle
- just to screen you
- check if he can handle the bitch in her

most men can't handle this tension (for example "the look") so they whatever they can to diffuse it by talking faster, justifying themselves, qualifying, making a joke out of that situation, doing anything to kill it (instead of staying with it) cause they can't deal with it. so these behaviours break the man-woman vibe and turn it into something less less charged

read Pistola answer it's very on point


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But this thread, along with Robotboner's recent S.H.E.G thread, and Tyler's "Don't Try" video from the other week are amongst the most seminal pieces of information I've ever read on here and cuts through the bullshit to the very heart of the game.
yeah it's just PRACTICAL so you can actually SEE the result right away. it's like telling a joke where you see the reactions right away so you know what's what


btw i find it very true that there's no need to show value. simple smile can tell so much more about you than for example some opener
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#29

thosemotos82

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Sebastian_Flyte wrote:
I have read thousands of posts on this forum over the last few years - THOUSANDS!  And often you know it's a case of the blind leading the blind, or somebody just re-packaging and regurgitating some kind of second-hand advice they believe to be true that they haven't tested out themselves.

But this thread, along with Robotboner's recent S.H.E.G thread, and Tyler's "Don't Try" video from the other week are amongst the most seminal pieces of information I've ever read on here and cuts through the bullshit to the very heart of the game.
Could you please add a link to the video?
Thanks
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#30
Setem

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thosemotos82 wrote:

Sebastian_Flyte wrote:
I have read thousands of posts on this forum over the last few years - THOUSANDS!  And often you know it's a case of the blind leading the blind, or somebody just re-packaging and regurgitating some kind of second-hand advice they believe to be true that they haven't tested out themselves.

But this thread, along with Robotboner's recent S.H.E.G thread, and Tyler's "Don't Try" video from the other week are amongst the most seminal pieces of information I've ever read on here and cuts through the bullshit to the very heart of the game.
Could you please add a link to the video?
Thanks

Frontpage dude, latest ones.
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