THE FORUMS
Day 1 - 'Awakening the Beast' 11/03/2011
After 2 minutes of fumbling conversation with the selector I enter the bar. Its like an oasis of honnies. My first sight is a random couple at the bar, she's a 6 but what ever, the first few are practice..eh.
Ask em to get the barman's attention for me and end up, isolating the girl, she's into me from the start, hip bumping and touching me, she asks my star sign, I answer pisces my calibration is all off, she says "oh thats the wrong sign for me" and turns back to her friend, lol negged by a 6!
A few sets later and I spot a couple of 8s by the bar, im straight in with some rubbish about how the girl looks like my cousin, she smiles 'really',
'yeah you do but I hate my cousin'. She lights up, its on. They are dancers from Barcelona, one is a friend on holiday the other lives here. The blond goes to the loo and leaves her friend, good sign.
turns out she makes her own clothes accessories so I say "what are you homeless or something" she doesnt think its funny, damn busted on her too hard, she probably has a homeless friend or something. I'm all like "ooh I didnt mean to..." (Internal monologue: what are you doing, its probably a test) Blown out! she is upset and goes off to find her friend, damn I need practice.
Some guy just grabs my hat "cool hat man" (Internal Monologue: forgot about these pricks) I get all physical on him back slapping and loud voice, grab my hat back "yeah your really cool man, they sell them at the bar, whatever."
I see a hottie screwing up her face writing a text message. I go up to her and tell her to break up with him, she laughs. I need to grab her attention some more. "hey he must have really pissed you off" ( I make a screwed up face) "oh no its nothing like that" a few hip bumps later I whip out the CLAW - she says "hey your really friendly how come you know everyone hear" (I prevent myself from pointing out the obvious fallacy of her question, but its good that I'm putting out that vibe. she says she doesnt like my hat, "yeah well I'm not so sure about your dress with those shoes"
"What are you the fashion police" - she says, so I launch into roleplay mode, Im a fashion photographer and shes my model, I spin her and shes into it, she gets so exited she gets on the bar to dance, with someother girls, damn this place just became coyote uglies.
A girl from behind taps me on the shoulder "where are you from?" - she says (Internal monolgue: I'm Back) I say the moon she's from France, I say it wouldnt work, long distance relationship. She laughs, I spin her and sit down at their booth, I am blown away but her friend shes a 10. I start reacting to her and it goes south. (Note to self: only constant exposure will numb me to the power of the 10)
I go to the little boys room and the cute bar dancing girl has gone...damn. So I go upto the dancers and try to number close the one who doesnt hate me, I come out with some chodey rubbish "hey we should exchange numbers" "what for?" - she says it then spirals as I try to salvage it. Exit bar tail between legs.
Oh well, on reflection I suppose I cant complain since I havn't been out in weeks. I built up some good social proof in the bar, need to work on my body language still lean in too much, and the rest should take care of itself with practice, tonight I will try opening sets by staring being unreactive and speaking slowly like Tyler outlined in a video on the site.
After 2 minutes of fumbling conversation with the selector I enter the bar. Its like an oasis of honnies. My first sight is a random couple at the bar, she's a 6 but what ever, the first few are practice..eh.
Ask em to get the barman's attention for me and end up, isolating the girl, she's into me from the start, hip bumping and touching me, she asks my star sign, I answer pisces my calibration is all off, she says "oh thats the wrong sign for me" and turns back to her friend, lol negged by a 6!
A few sets later and I spot a couple of 8s by the bar, im straight in with some rubbish about how the girl looks like my cousin, she smiles 'really',
'yeah you do but I hate my cousin'. She lights up, its on. They are dancers from Barcelona, one is a friend on holiday the other lives here. The blond goes to the loo and leaves her friend, good sign.
turns out she makes her own clothes accessories so I say "what are you homeless or something" she doesnt think its funny, damn busted on her too hard, she probably has a homeless friend or something. I'm all like "ooh I didnt mean to..." (Internal monologue: what are you doing, its probably a test) Blown out! she is upset and goes off to find her friend, damn I need practice.
Some guy just grabs my hat "cool hat man" (Internal Monologue: forgot about these pricks) I get all physical on him back slapping and loud voice, grab my hat back "yeah your really cool man, they sell them at the bar, whatever."
I see a hottie screwing up her face writing a text message. I go up to her and tell her to break up with him, she laughs. I need to grab her attention some more. "hey he must have really pissed you off" ( I make a screwed up face) "oh no its nothing like that" a few hip bumps later I whip out the CLAW - she says "hey your really friendly how come you know everyone hear" (I prevent myself from pointing out the obvious fallacy of her question, but its good that I'm putting out that vibe. she says she doesnt like my hat, "yeah well I'm not so sure about your dress with those shoes"
"What are you the fashion police" - she says, so I launch into roleplay mode, Im a fashion photographer and shes my model, I spin her and shes into it, she gets so exited she gets on the bar to dance, with someother girls, damn this place just became coyote uglies.
A girl from behind taps me on the shoulder "where are you from?" - she says (Internal monolgue: I'm Back) I say the moon she's from France, I say it wouldnt work, long distance relationship. She laughs, I spin her and sit down at their booth, I am blown away but her friend shes a 10. I start reacting to her and it goes south. (Note to self: only constant exposure will numb me to the power of the 10)
I go to the little boys room and the cute bar dancing girl has gone...damn. So I go upto the dancers and try to number close the one who doesnt hate me, I come out with some chodey rubbish "hey we should exchange numbers" "what for?" - she says it then spirals as I try to salvage it. Exit bar tail between legs.
Oh well, on reflection I suppose I cant complain since I havn't been out in weeks. I built up some good social proof in the bar, need to work on my body language still lean in too much, and the rest should take care of itself with practice, tonight I will try opening sets by staring being unreactive and speaking slowly like Tyler outlined in a video on the site.
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"Woman begins by resisting a man's advances and ends by blocking his retreat." - Oscar Wilde
Day 2 - 'Crazy Fithy Midget Antichrist' 12/03/2011
Amazing night, I have made a big sale at work and Im in a great mood. I rock up to one of the hot spots in Tel Aviv 'Zizi's' music's pumping and I've already downed half a bottle of wine and 3 chasers, Im late so the place is wild. My first set opens up like a butter. South African hottie 8, she just came from my home town London so she starts telling me all about it, I cut her off 'hey why do I feel like I know you, I think we have a connection already, did we fuck?' she look at me seriously and I don't flinch, what seems like an eternity passes and she cracks up 'your funny, whats your name?' Its on. I launch into some roleplay I've been testing out about us being runaway criminals, shes totally into it. Like a whole bonnie and clyde thing. This girl is starting to look like a nine through my beer goggles. The girls next to us start talking about some chode that came onto one of them in the toilet, so I open them and merge the sets. Now its me an 3 hot girls, I feel like im juggling between them and Im getting massive social proof in the bar cos their all HOT!
The black haired girl starts reading my shirt it says 'The first ones free, but next time you pay' she loves it and she lifts it up a little to see the goods. Im in danger of becoming the'kitten's play thing' so I quickly impose rule. 'hey, hey this shit aint free but you get a gold star for trying' they love me, Im in danger of becoming an approval junkie so I switch back to the SA chick, who is now totally into me. I tell her Im going to take her on a date to the local scrap yard, we can pick out bits of rubbish like a couple of filthy kids, she test me again. 'are you saying Im a dirty girl?' 'you look like a clean living girl to me, probably a prom queen virgin.' At this point she gives me "The Look", the Im gonna fuck look. The two girls next to us invite us to another party, and were all off together. This is sooo on!
luckily the other bar is nearby so I don't have to play follow the leader too long. We get straight to the front, as they are all hot, the bouncer gives me a knowing look. I make friends with the selector while I have the chance.
We get in and they all scatter like a shotgun. Problem being they know a lot of people there so Its hard to make myself more exiting than the friends in the bar. They SA chick goes to the loo so I open another girl. She looks like a filthy midget, in a good way. Reel off the usual rubbish about her being my little sister and get her hooked, my state is so pumped right now, I grab the filthy midget girl and she reponds by grinding me, WTF I have turning into Satan's pulling machine. I slow my voice down and whisper touch her ear with my lips, she licks my ear with her toungue, filthy bitch. I go for the make out, and she isnt a great kisser so I tell her to do it again, this time she into it. I start fondling her back inside her top and I can see she's getting wet, she pulls me into an area near the toilet and we make out while shes grinding her kitty on my rock. At this point I remember something I read about extraction while its on and I want to take her out the club but the SA chick who seem to have gone AWOL is much hotter. I decide to go with my gut and step up, I grab her and tell her we're leaving, Im taking her to disneyland, (couldnt think of anything else to say.)
Outside the club Im waiting for some resistance but nothing...then she see someone she knows...shit some dude from her work. I allow her 30 seconds of interaction with him and then I see a cab, I hail it and grab her hand firmly and throw her in the cab. She smiles at me, this one likes the ruff stuff.
We get back to my place and she turns into the f**cking anti-christ, she rips my new shirt and starts biting my nipples. shit, my new shirt...And then I realise I like the pain......I have to censor the rest.
On refelction - this was an amazing night, I felt on and it was all so smooth, I wanted the SA chick though Im sure I should have gone caveman on her sooner. Also be wary of girls with too much popularity they went off like a shotgun in the club. And ultimately I don't know if I learned that much, just that all that is important is state, all started from my deal at work. Focus on fun at work and the kitty will follow...
Amazing night, I have made a big sale at work and Im in a great mood. I rock up to one of the hot spots in Tel Aviv 'Zizi's' music's pumping and I've already downed half a bottle of wine and 3 chasers, Im late so the place is wild. My first set opens up like a butter. South African hottie 8, she just came from my home town London so she starts telling me all about it, I cut her off 'hey why do I feel like I know you, I think we have a connection already, did we fuck?' she look at me seriously and I don't flinch, what seems like an eternity passes and she cracks up 'your funny, whats your name?' Its on. I launch into some roleplay I've been testing out about us being runaway criminals, shes totally into it. Like a whole bonnie and clyde thing. This girl is starting to look like a nine through my beer goggles. The girls next to us start talking about some chode that came onto one of them in the toilet, so I open them and merge the sets. Now its me an 3 hot girls, I feel like im juggling between them and Im getting massive social proof in the bar cos their all HOT!
The black haired girl starts reading my shirt it says 'The first ones free, but next time you pay' she loves it and she lifts it up a little to see the goods. Im in danger of becoming the'kitten's play thing' so I quickly impose rule. 'hey, hey this shit aint free but you get a gold star for trying' they love me, Im in danger of becoming an approval junkie so I switch back to the SA chick, who is now totally into me. I tell her Im going to take her on a date to the local scrap yard, we can pick out bits of rubbish like a couple of filthy kids, she test me again. 'are you saying Im a dirty girl?' 'you look like a clean living girl to me, probably a prom queen virgin.' At this point she gives me "The Look", the Im gonna fuck look. The two girls next to us invite us to another party, and were all off together. This is sooo on!
luckily the other bar is nearby so I don't have to play follow the leader too long. We get straight to the front, as they are all hot, the bouncer gives me a knowing look. I make friends with the selector while I have the chance.
We get in and they all scatter like a shotgun. Problem being they know a lot of people there so Its hard to make myself more exiting than the friends in the bar. They SA chick goes to the loo so I open another girl. She looks like a filthy midget, in a good way. Reel off the usual rubbish about her being my little sister and get her hooked, my state is so pumped right now, I grab the filthy midget girl and she reponds by grinding me, WTF I have turning into Satan's pulling machine. I slow my voice down and whisper touch her ear with my lips, she licks my ear with her toungue, filthy bitch. I go for the make out, and she isnt a great kisser so I tell her to do it again, this time she into it. I start fondling her back inside her top and I can see she's getting wet, she pulls me into an area near the toilet and we make out while shes grinding her kitty on my rock. At this point I remember something I read about extraction while its on and I want to take her out the club but the SA chick who seem to have gone AWOL is much hotter. I decide to go with my gut and step up, I grab her and tell her we're leaving, Im taking her to disneyland, (couldnt think of anything else to say.)
Outside the club Im waiting for some resistance but nothing...then she see someone she knows...shit some dude from her work. I allow her 30 seconds of interaction with him and then I see a cab, I hail it and grab her hand firmly and throw her in the cab. She smiles at me, this one likes the ruff stuff.
We get back to my place and she turns into the f**cking anti-christ, she rips my new shirt and starts biting my nipples. shit, my new shirt...And then I realise I like the pain......I have to censor the rest.
On refelction - this was an amazing night, I felt on and it was all so smooth, I wanted the SA chick though Im sure I should have gone caveman on her sooner. Also be wary of girls with too much popularity they went off like a shotgun in the club. And ultimately I don't know if I learned that much, just that all that is important is state, all started from my deal at work. Focus on fun at work and the kitty will follow...
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"Woman begins by resisting a man's advances and ends by blocking his retreat." - Oscar Wilde
Day 3 'Tumbleweeds' 14/03/2011
Talk about chalk and cheese, tonight was tumbleweeds. Went to some swanky bar, being a monday all the lively places were kind of dead. So it was a more reserved atmosphere up market, I felt relaxed sets opened with ease but I found it hard to escalate. First set was a couple of older hotties 35+ I found it hard because they were the most lively 2 in the bar, dancing and bumping to the music and yet the place was kind of low key.
Went in with my cousin opener worked well and I built attraction busting on her and her friend, but in the back of my mind I was that into it, initially that made them more keen but was hard to maintain. They did the alternating toilet thing, always a good sign. they starting getting wild and dancing together, my inner core said it was for my benefit but Im not sure, so I opened another set while they danced.
Guy and girl at the bar, they were a German pair she was kind of academic looking but hot ala lois lane I envisaged her taking off her glasses and shaking her hair loose hahaha. It opened really well, they were both focused on me but the guy who turned out to be her boyfriend was really interested in my job and wanted to know how to get into it, meanwhile I was busting on his girlfriend and she was really into it. Problem was I found it hard to know what to do as they were clearly an item yet she was really into me.
I opened up a few more people but nothing very interesting and the night kind of peetered off. Not sure if my lay last night affected my energy or if I was just off or maybe it was just a slow night. I might need a wing but I think Im learning at twice the rate on my own. At the very least I need to find a good Monday night venue.
It has left me with 3 questions to ponder.
1. how to separate a girlfriend from boyfriend, or should I have slipped her my number.
2. In a low key environment with high energy sets how should my energy levels be, if I change them depending on the set am I not merely reacting to them?
3. what to do with fithy midget girl, I kind of feel violated from last night plus she ripped a nice shirt and Im not paying for sex in ripped clothes.
Talk about chalk and cheese, tonight was tumbleweeds. Went to some swanky bar, being a monday all the lively places were kind of dead. So it was a more reserved atmosphere up market, I felt relaxed sets opened with ease but I found it hard to escalate. First set was a couple of older hotties 35+ I found it hard because they were the most lively 2 in the bar, dancing and bumping to the music and yet the place was kind of low key.
Went in with my cousin opener worked well and I built attraction busting on her and her friend, but in the back of my mind I was that into it, initially that made them more keen but was hard to maintain. They did the alternating toilet thing, always a good sign. they starting getting wild and dancing together, my inner core said it was for my benefit but Im not sure, so I opened another set while they danced.
Guy and girl at the bar, they were a German pair she was kind of academic looking but hot ala lois lane I envisaged her taking off her glasses and shaking her hair loose hahaha. It opened really well, they were both focused on me but the guy who turned out to be her boyfriend was really interested in my job and wanted to know how to get into it, meanwhile I was busting on his girlfriend and she was really into it. Problem was I found it hard to know what to do as they were clearly an item yet she was really into me.
I opened up a few more people but nothing very interesting and the night kind of peetered off. Not sure if my lay last night affected my energy or if I was just off or maybe it was just a slow night. I might need a wing but I think Im learning at twice the rate on my own. At the very least I need to find a good Monday night venue.
It has left me with 3 questions to ponder.
1. how to separate a girlfriend from boyfriend, or should I have slipped her my number.
2. In a low key environment with high energy sets how should my energy levels be, if I change them depending on the set am I not merely reacting to them?
3. what to do with fithy midget girl, I kind of feel violated from last night plus she ripped a nice shirt and Im not paying for sex in ripped clothes.
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"Woman begins by resisting a man's advances and ends by blocking his retreat." - Oscar Wilde
Day 4 'Day Game' 15/03/2011
Day game in Tel Aviv is a much more chilled experience, girls will open up very well, but it can be hard to hook their attention as they are always on a mission, I suppose how I would imagine it in new york. I decided to go to the mall to buy some new clothes and do some approaches there.
I started by opening sets like I do in the club/bar. High energy, loud and it goes went than steller. My calibration is way off and one chick actually runs away, hahaha I opened her terribly and had a mental block so I just stood there and stared, way too creepy, she looked and smiled and then shuffled off, I started to talk while she was walking away and she got faster and faster, I was booming in the street 'come back my love I cant look after the kids on my own, how can you abandon us like this, how will we survive.' (sometimes by internal demon takes over, so I ran after her) hahaha forget blowing up the club I blew up an entire street!
Finally I stumbled into a t-shirt printing shop and the assistant who looked like a female Maralyn Manson is on her own in the shop and bored, perfect a girl who cannot leave! I asked her to pick out some designs for me, and then start busting on her about her dodgy taste, and that she is obviously trying to sell me the old stock that won't shift. She opens up and we start having a proper chat about Experimental Metal cos she went to see a local metal band last night, fucking goth whore. So I hop behind the counter and start reorganising her stock, this chick really has no fucking idea what looks cool. She is just standing there grinning at me like Im a new puppy, so I went for it. 'let me look at you', quick spin and make out. I got her number and left, I feel like Im just going through the motions with a lot of girls, because I keep opening chicks I don't even like just for the practice.
Need to step up and go for more hotties.
I ended up just going to a friends house for dinner and got into a really intense whisky fuelled discussion on 'Rousseau' so no clubbing for daddy tonight.
Day game in Tel Aviv is a much more chilled experience, girls will open up very well, but it can be hard to hook their attention as they are always on a mission, I suppose how I would imagine it in new york. I decided to go to the mall to buy some new clothes and do some approaches there.
I started by opening sets like I do in the club/bar. High energy, loud and it goes went than steller. My calibration is way off and one chick actually runs away, hahaha I opened her terribly and had a mental block so I just stood there and stared, way too creepy, she looked and smiled and then shuffled off, I started to talk while she was walking away and she got faster and faster, I was booming in the street 'come back my love I cant look after the kids on my own, how can you abandon us like this, how will we survive.' (sometimes by internal demon takes over, so I ran after her) hahaha forget blowing up the club I blew up an entire street!
Finally I stumbled into a t-shirt printing shop and the assistant who looked like a female Maralyn Manson is on her own in the shop and bored, perfect a girl who cannot leave! I asked her to pick out some designs for me, and then start busting on her about her dodgy taste, and that she is obviously trying to sell me the old stock that won't shift. She opens up and we start having a proper chat about Experimental Metal cos she went to see a local metal band last night, fucking goth whore. So I hop behind the counter and start reorganising her stock, this chick really has no fucking idea what looks cool. She is just standing there grinning at me like Im a new puppy, so I went for it. 'let me look at you', quick spin and make out. I got her number and left, I feel like Im just going through the motions with a lot of girls, because I keep opening chicks I don't even like just for the practice.
Need to step up and go for more hotties.
I ended up just going to a friends house for dinner and got into a really intense whisky fuelled discussion on 'Rousseau' so no clubbing for daddy tonight.
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"Woman begins by resisting a man's advances and ends by blocking his retreat." - Oscar Wilde
Day 5 'The Return of Filthy Midget Girl' 17/03/2011
After a short deliberation over exactly how horny I am, I decided to call Fithy Midget for fucky time as I think my balls will actually start seeping through my trousers in the club otherwise.
We went to a local restaurant (no chody here, I was hungry)
She started playing with my dick under the table before the starters arrived, so It turned out to be a short meal. And then lots of kissing and fiddling on the walk back to mine.
Cut to the bedroom and she we started undressing each other and grinding, dry humping stuff. Then she suddenly starts the resistance, FUCK my cock is literally at the precipice of her kitty. I did well and froze her out. OK lets go watch TV. Casablanca is on, perfect I actually love this film so I dont have to fake my interest in watching it too much.
Predictably she starts playing with me again, but the says she likes me and doesnt want to feel slutty. AAARRGGHH this is the same girl I already fucked on the first night and ripped my clothes and bit my nipples, WTF I've gone backwards. The teasing and freeze out continues, she sucks me off but no kittty kitty and Im pissed off although I dont show it. So we go to bed, she wants to cuddle and I tell her I cant cuddle in bed I get nightmares if I do that, (where does this shit come from)
In the morning she leaves learly to study, before I wake, and left me a little note, FUCK I think she wants to be my girlfriend
After a short deliberation over exactly how horny I am, I decided to call Fithy Midget for fucky time as I think my balls will actually start seeping through my trousers in the club otherwise.
We went to a local restaurant (no chody here, I was hungry)
She started playing with my dick under the table before the starters arrived, so It turned out to be a short meal. And then lots of kissing and fiddling on the walk back to mine.
Cut to the bedroom and she we started undressing each other and grinding, dry humping stuff. Then she suddenly starts the resistance, FUCK my cock is literally at the precipice of her kitty. I did well and froze her out. OK lets go watch TV. Casablanca is on, perfect I actually love this film so I dont have to fake my interest in watching it too much.
Predictably she starts playing with me again, but the says she likes me and doesnt want to feel slutty. AAARRGGHH this is the same girl I already fucked on the first night and ripped my clothes and bit my nipples, WTF I've gone backwards. The teasing and freeze out continues, she sucks me off but no kittty kitty and Im pissed off although I dont show it. So we go to bed, she wants to cuddle and I tell her I cant cuddle in bed I get nightmares if I do that, (where does this shit come from)
In the morning she leaves learly to study, before I wake, and left me a little note, FUCK I think she wants to be my girlfriend
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"Woman begins by resisting a man's advances and ends by blocking his retreat." - Oscar Wilde
Day 6 ' The Amazon squirter in my Bedroom' 18/03/2011
I got up late round 12.00 and theres a knock at the door. Filthy Midget is standing there in a black outfit in the doorway and just jumps me, Fuck I cant even see properly yet. She said she was studying and couldn't stop thinking about me. I felt her crotch and she was dripping wet. Now its time to go to town on her!
I have read some erotica massage stuff in the community that was recommended my a mate all about the 7 areas in the vagina and female ejaculation, I have only managed to get one girl to do it before. There is some preparatory massage you need to do but I cant be fucked with that so I started eating her instead before trying my moves.
BLOWN AWAY, she was already completely wet and like some kind of fuck demon writhing around and I did the thing on her with my hand while she sucked me off, I was on her face. Its a kind of up violent down movement with your two inner fingers. After 5 seconds she FUCKING SQUIRTED all over my bed, literally soaked my bed, it must have been a pint of fluid, literally rediculous. I havn't had it quite like that before and I felt like the fucking man!
She had never had that before and was freaking out. Then we got into a long discussion about it and what I did. I fucked her for ages every which way and drained my balls of the pent up frustration for months. Job well done!
I got up late round 12.00 and theres a knock at the door. Filthy Midget is standing there in a black outfit in the doorway and just jumps me, Fuck I cant even see properly yet. She said she was studying and couldn't stop thinking about me. I felt her crotch and she was dripping wet. Now its time to go to town on her!
I have read some erotica massage stuff in the community that was recommended my a mate all about the 7 areas in the vagina and female ejaculation, I have only managed to get one girl to do it before. There is some preparatory massage you need to do but I cant be fucked with that so I started eating her instead before trying my moves.
BLOWN AWAY, she was already completely wet and like some kind of fuck demon writhing around and I did the thing on her with my hand while she sucked me off, I was on her face. Its a kind of up violent down movement with your two inner fingers. After 5 seconds she FUCKING SQUIRTED all over my bed, literally soaked my bed, it must have been a pint of fluid, literally rediculous. I havn't had it quite like that before and I felt like the fucking man!
She had never had that before and was freaking out. Then we got into a long discussion about it and what I did. I fucked her for ages every which way and drained my balls of the pent up frustration for months. Job well done!
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"Woman begins by resisting a man's advances and ends by blocking his retreat." - Oscar Wilde
Haha squirters awesome
I only had one girl squirt so far but same thing - same fingering technique.
If you want to keep that girl as just a fuck buddy here's my advice: Make sure you don't see her everyday. More like maximum once a week. Make sure there are clear boundaries set with her so she knows where she stands. If she doesn't like it don't compromise and let her walk if you have to. Otherwise she will use manipulation to gain power over you. You will have to reinforce this often but be responsive and don't change your mind. What do you think?
Read Alex's articles as a guide to how you want to be in the field. Follow this as a road map and just keep going out and you will have success :)
Good luck on the journey mate
I only had one girl squirt so far but same thing - same fingering technique.
If you want to keep that girl as just a fuck buddy here's my advice: Make sure you don't see her everyday. More like maximum once a week. Make sure there are clear boundaries set with her so she knows where she stands. If she doesn't like it don't compromise and let her walk if you have to. Otherwise she will use manipulation to gain power over you. You will have to reinforce this often but be responsive and don't change your mind. What do you think?
Read Alex's articles as a guide to how you want to be in the field. Follow this as a road map and just keep going out and you will have success :)
Good luck on the journey mate
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Ahhh South African girls. The best kind. Ok, I'm biased :D
Whats Tel Aviv like?
Nice journal so far, keep it up.
Whats Tel Aviv like?
Nice journal so far, keep it up.
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So we go to bed, she wants to cuddle and I tell her I cant cuddle in bed I get nightmares if I do that, (where does this shit come from)
Haha that's funny as fuck. I actually laughed out loud.Israel is sounding pretty good dude. I'm actually moving there very soon.
Ahhh South African girls. The best kind. Ok, I'm biased :D
Whats Tel Aviv like?
Nice journal so far, keep it up.
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Nice journal so far, keep it up.
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let me know when your here, always looking for new wings
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Join Date: 03/12/2011 | Posts: 966
I dropped the game for about 6 months got unemployed and had to sort my life out, I got reeeealy out of practice, recently I picked it up again and got blown out left, right and bloody sideways. I had dropped all routines and gimicks and I felt like an idiot, my body language was out, speaking too quietly, inside my head, leaning in, rambling total rubbish. I was so bad I was making my self feel uncomfortable hahaha, like I wanted to jump outside myself and amog myself!
So now I am making a promise I am continuing where I left off, no more routines and crutches just pure self belief.
The journey will be wild and leave many carcasses in its wake but I will reach my summit and achieve my destiny.
90 days of pure unflinching challenge. The G-O-D challenge!!!
For 6 days I work and on the seventh I rest.
G O D (Get Outside Da mutherfuckin' house)
To Be Continued....