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Here's what's really bothering me
Just say "give me your number"
You don't know if the number will be solid. I've gotten solid numbers from 30 second interactions. I met my ex gf through like a 2 minute set.
You don't know if the number will be solid. I've gotten solid numbers from 30 second interactions. I met my ex gf through like a 2 minute set.
stop trying to pick her up and approach with genuine curiosity then let what happens happen.
read Physical Game. it will solve all your problems.
read Physical Game. it will solve all your problems.
Also I went through a phase where I got a shit ton of flakey numbers in the beginning. Some were solid but my game sucked so bad I missed out on a lot of girls.
Sucks but it was part of the learning process for me. I wish I had The Physical Game back then.
Sucks but it was part of the learning process for me. I wish I had The Physical Game back then.
Everyone is on about this physical game book as if it is the instant answer to everything pickup. I'm doing mostly day game guys...
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The only outcome I seek is to be able to consistantly approach girls that I like during the day and go for a number close. Whether or not she gives me her number is not important right now, but it's very time consuming and somewhat hard to find the right situations to practice this right now, ones that don't have a ton of spectators or social pressures. So it ends up being time consuming and often when I finally have a half descent interaction I fail to go for the number and eject.
I'm tired of nightclubs and bars for the most part so this daytime thing is my main plan for now.
I spent the last year hooking up with girls when they would come along in my life. I'd like to have more control over who I meet going forward.
I live with 2 wings now and have others. I even roll solo from time to time. There is no doubt that I will continue to work on this.
I'm tired of nightclubs and bars for the most part so this daytime thing is my main plan for now.
I spent the last year hooking up with girls when they would come along in my life. I'd like to have more control over who I meet going forward.
I live with 2 wings now and have others. I even roll solo from time to time. There is no doubt that I will continue to work on this.
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keep it simple man
1. see cute girl, approach cute girl
2. have short fun interaction
3. tell her you'd like to see her again and ask for her number
and Physical Game is much more than kino. it's also the mindset of how to be great at this and avoid a lot of mistakes.
1. see cute girl, approach cute girl
2. have short fun interaction
3. tell her you'd like to see her again and ask for her number
and Physical Game is much more than kino. it's also the mindset of how to be great at this and avoid a lot of mistakes.
and Physical Game is much more than kino. it's also the mindset of how to be great at this and avoid a lot of mistakes.
If I had that stupid book I would have banged a couple of the hottest girls I've ever met!!!! ARGH! I'm not good enough to pull hot chicks yet anyways lol.
The Physical Game also goes over verbal interactions. It's a badass book. I read about Ozzie's background on his blog also. In some ways similar to mine, makes it a lot easier to see myself getting good IMO.
Dynamite_Soul
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Join Date: 02/02/2011 | Posts: 38
This post gets to the real meat of it.
I've been trying to approach girls directly and quickly number close them. I have a 3 step system that is perfect for doing it.
I go up to the girl and introduce myself.
Then I get her to give me her name.
Then I get her to qualify.
If she does than I am suppose to reward her and then go for the number.
I've done this only ten times. Mainly because it is so hard to find girls that are my type and that are by themselves. Often even when I find this rare situation I move past because im cold and it's been a while since the situation has presented itself. So this takes way too long to approach.
Then when I do approach half of these girls do not qualify. Two of them even flat out blew me out before I could even say a sentence.
The half that do qualify to me, I chicken out on getting the number.
I guess I just need to practice this more but in the back of my mind I think I'm just afraid that even if I get the number it wont be solid. It's almost like cheating to do it this way but I'm not that capable of staying in set for long enough to make it solid right now and this is the best way for me to get numbers right now. I think if I can get some numbers that will help my confidence right now so this is what I'm trying to do. I have to do this 20 times this week and it's going to be hard for me. It's so hard to find the right sets to do this. I always feel like I'm going to creep her out even though I'm a cool guy because she is doing her own thing. It's hard to explain how I feel but it's like I'm kind of being a weird pickup guy. I'm being genuine though and the approach is pretty smooth so once I get it out most of the time it's ok but it still doesn't get any easier doing it.
So that's where I'm at right now.