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playingthegame~

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Join Date: 01/05/2009 | Posts: 88

Recently I've come across some personal epiphanies as far as the lifestyle of a naturally attractive man is concerned and its done wonders in my lifestyle already but, there are some problems.
Im hooking up on a regular basis with a 9 on my scale of things and (looks and personality wise) so Im a happy man. Thing Ive noticed is that when you reach this goal and you get that thing you've been working for for so long it can shake you up quite a bit its like an overload of awesomeness the best way to describe this is to liken it to when you first got into the game and realised you could put these motions into play and actually have success, thats its not all bullshit despite that little voice in the back of your head telling you that it is and to give up.

Ive been in this game 3 years and Ive heard that voice heckle me many times but the only time its been this strong is when I first started to do this. This leads to problems naturally because you have to push that extra bit harder to get through it. This inherent mindfuck can manifest itself in a lot of different ways Ive found and for me mostly it has not been that voice in the back of my head but subtle actions of mine which arent congruent with the person I am now more with the person I was before embarking on this journey. Id care too much about what I did or Id second guess myself or focus on her pleasures entirley too much, then in the end the biggest clue was that performance wise Id have a problem originally every time I was sober and in my head when we hooked up but when I was drunk id pimp the club up take her home and show her how its done ;). 

Eventually I made the connection between the two and had to ask why. Although in control now and free from that multitude of problems I have stumbled upon a new one and that is, what to do next? I have exactly what Ive been after when I got into this and thats a hot chick of my choosing in my life who possesses the qualities that I desire as well as the body, so where do I go? My solution is now to fill my life with girls like these even if Im only hooking up with one I want to be constantly surrounded by women I find aesthetically and intrinsically pleasing. 

If you've arrived where you were aiming at originally and your feeling a bit lost maybe this is a course of action you could find yourself pleased with also. If youve reached this point in your game and surpassed it and even achieved my next goal then awesome Id love to hear some feedback here and some details on where other people have taken themselves.

PTG~
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Manwhore

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 Yep. Get rich 
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playingthegame~

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Manwhore wrote:
 Yep. Get rich 
thanks for that fantastic insight Manwhore! ha working on that shit as well women or lifestyle related though any real ideas?
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You never arrive. You never stop. Never be content. Stay Hungry.

I got a hot girlfirend that my friends could have never gotten, but she's gone. I have to keep improving. Keep pushing the next level.




I like this Rick Ross interview:

Listen to 7:32 when the cameraman asks him when he's going to stop hustling.
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playingthegame~

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 thanks man  I suppose I wasnt too clear Im never gonna stop but ive arrived where originally aimed at in terms of girls for now but its a process you gotta keep sharp on i still run my game 2 or 3 nights a week and everyday almost but for now im just chillin with this one i suppose the question Im asking is for those of you who got to where you originally aimed what did your goals shift to from there?
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that rick ross interview was too funny.
i watched it before.
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More. Work on having a few 9's around... Start working on threesomes. What's better than one 9? Two!
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I was too much intent and not enough calibration guy for a really long time. I tried to fuck almost every chick I'd meet that met the criteria and just wound up pissing off almost everyone I met, with some sporatic results. I'm working on getting more socially calibrated.
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Trojan-

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playingthegame~ wrote:
 thanks man  I suppose I wasnt too clear Im never gonna stop but ive arrived where originally aimed at in terms of girls for now but its a process you gotta keep sharp on i still run my game 2 or 3 nights a week and everyday almost but for now im just chillin with this one i suppose the question Im asking is for those of you who got to where you originally aimed what did your goals shift to from there?
For sure. My first goal was just to get a lay from a bar. It took some months and I was happy once I got it. My next goal to was to get with a really hot girl. Did that. It was awesome. Dated a really quality girl for about a month, but I realized that if I accepted comfort and didn't keep improving my social skills she'd find someone else and I'd be left sitting on my thumb. So I keep grinding, keep going out. My current goal is to get 3 hot girlfriends (at the same time). My ultimate goal is to go to any bar and be able to pull the hottest girl consistently.
It's your life and you can do whatever you want with it. Just realize that if "If you're not getting better, you're getting worse". I know a lot of guys that have beautiful girlfriends, but they still go to bars and socialize with people and flirt with girls (even if they don't hook up with them).
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"A man must stand erect, not be kept erect by others."
-Marcus Aurelius

"By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest."
-Confucius
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progress-now

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It's good to read about the issues that plague the mind of everyone, including those who have made greate successes like you.  I was born and raised to be a chode and this journey began only 3 little months ago, so I have a LOT to learn.  But it helps to read about how you, too, have (had) that annoying voice in the back of your head that really is the source of all shortcomings,

Thanks
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