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December 7th, 2016
Sons of Charlie Sheen explain how approaching chicks can be EASY
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Manwhore

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Make sure you watch at 1:15 

Basically this mix of Martian rockstar and tiger blood are saying that:

1) Being the party & self-amusing are sometimes too hard. Fuck that nonsense you got to keep it simple.  Go with simple appreciation (a compliment), or curiousity.. these are things that are ALWAYS going on in your head.  "Damn she's cute I like that dress on her", etc..  It's not just about bringing the party and being awesome- because then you'll see a girl and try to think of what to say.. just go with what already came naturally into your head.  

2) It's impossible to tell someone to STOP focusing on something (well it's much harder).. instead tell them WHAT to focus on.  This is how real training should take place 

3) Giving a girl a compliment is COOL as long as it's a ONE-WAY deal.  You're giving her a compliment that's IT you don't expect shit.  Then they can actually be just super easy ways of opening a girl.  Approval seeking is the death of a man.  But as we mentioned in #2 its almost impossible to tell someone to simply stop approval seeking.. you need to instead focus on something else.  Like appreciation, curiousity, or self-expression.  

4) When a girl let's you know she's not interested it's a GOOD thing.  It means you're not wasting any more of your own time

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Tiger_Blood

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 Awesome video guys, i totally agree with you that its "what do i say" thought that screws you up.

I like this approach. I want to get better at it. But my problem is this, after the first 5 seconds theres still this tiny bit of uncertainty about what to say thing and its screwing my whole game up.
When I start doing walk ups like this it becomes very non-verbal, whereas before i had decent external game but was totally seeking reactions. After about 5 seconds of doing this natural style approach, theres this thought. but its not "what do i say now" anymore, its more like "i dont have anything to say".

Did u guys ever have or see this problem before? To me it feels like my internal state is messing up my external skills.  I know u'll hate this question because i'm basically asking u "what do i say" but what kind of things do u end up talking about after the walk up? I do know good things to say but when i'm out at a club to i have full on access that part of my brain and it screws my party up. Nobody I know can do walk ups and i've never seen this kind of approach been done. 
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The Duck ✘

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Manwhore wrote:
It's a ONE-WAY deal.  
In more areas than one. Nice beard.

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Ronoc

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Really good video duder
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even they are cashing in on the media frenzy. I like how they roll.
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Deuces Wild

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Great vid MW, do yall do these often or is this a one time thing?
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 well put, this way of appraoching would make it alot easier for guys to practice their inner game and developing self trust.  I subscribed, gonna be more?
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awsome stuff
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Fuck this shit I wanna see Brian's tutorial on flinging around Venetian Security Gaurds like Rag Dolls
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Manwhore

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 OMG. Dude do we need to talk about this weekend?
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Tiger_Blood wrote:
...After about 5 seconds of doing this natural style approach, theres this thought. but its not "what do i say now" anymore, its more like "i dont have anything to say".

Did u guys ever have or see this problem before? To me it feels like my internal state is messing up my external skills.  I know u'll hate this question because i'm basically asking u "what do i say" but what kind of things do u end up talking about after the walk up? ...
OK this is a good question and something I've had to work out for myself so I totally get where you're coming from.

You have to remind yourself WHY you're talking to the girl. You want to fuck her - or you're at least considering it. This sounds obvious but reflect back on times when this "stalling out" happened; you probably lost your sexual focus. Think about it this way:

Do you want to be her penpal? Her text buddy? Are you guys gonna write a book together? If so, then planning out what to say and focusing on verbiage is a useful.

But if you want to fuck her, you should place less focus on what YOU'RE saying, and more emphasis on non-verbal communication - looking into her eyes, standing in front of her with your body open, and asking simple situationally-appropriate questions. Allow yourself to be boring verbally, and just show your intention with your body.

If you can do this, and relax, you'll find that random silly comments and questions pop into your head and before you know it you're flirting. Flirting happens naturally for me when I relax, stay sex-focused, and keep my body exposed and close to her body while looking into her eyes whenever I feel the urge to do so (i.e. I'm turned on).

One tool I use when conversations die out is something I learned from really sociable women - chicks I've met who are phenomenal conversationalists and know how to work a room. I call it Wedging and we'll probably put up a video about it but basically you ask a simple easy question, e.g. "Where you from/what are you celebrating tonight?" etc. And then answer your own question after she responds. Then you ask a more personal, open-ended (to get a bigger response) question related to the first question - I call this a ME Question.

Here's an example of a Wedge, and KEEP IN MIND I'M DOING ALL THE SEXUAL NON-VERBAL STUFF WHILE I DO THIS.

Opener (you're cute or whatever)
Her: thanks
You: So where you from?
Her: Mozambique
You: cool never been there. I'm from Brooklyn. I just moved there in September. I love it - it's a little quieter and more artsy than Manhattan, but it's still easy to get to the city (Notice I answer the question in the way I want HER to answer, like I'm jumping into the pool first to show the water is warm)
Her: oh awesome I've never been to brooklyn
You: Well what do you think of Mozambique? (This is the ME question)

I could talk more about this because it's something I've had to develop since I'm more introverted and have never liked small talk...maybe I'll do a  more thorough post if we put up a Wedging video. Hope it helps!
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