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Hughey: You can't possibly be all that nostolgic about Ozzy given where you are right now :p
K-Swagless: Shapeshifter are the band - lots of cool stuff from them :)
Rogue: Cheers cuz, good to see you out and keeping it real :D
Friday 17/7
Won't make this long since it wasn't the most spectacular night and I didn't cold approach any girls. I was also pretty drunk.
Went out with T-bag and KR. Had dinner at a decent restaurant and started drinking. Got to Ivy and kept drinking. Didn't approach any girls cos I'm been a high and mighty retard with a big ego thinking how none of these girls compares with my turbo Finnish chicka. To be fair the place is seriously overrun with dudes and lots of pick-ups guys - including yours truly - though it isn't stopping some of the guys.
Eventually KR opens some little Asian girl, I go away somewhere but when I come back her friends are there. I sit down next to the better looking one and start talking total rubbish mixed with exciting facts about myself. She's hesitant to make out with me saying shes never kissed a white guy before. Inhibitions are fleeting though. 5 minnutes later we're doing just that while I subtely finger her. Unfortunately KR's girl has a boyfriend and the one my brother is winging is being a total bitch. My girl asks her bitch friend if they want to go back to mine for additional drinks. NO. So no easy-peasy lay for me tonight. Have been in contact with her since though - can probably seal it sometime this week - the girl is much more horny than she lets on at first glance. I keep drinking but suddenly get overcome with exhaustion and almost fall asleep in the club. I go home.
I didn't go out Saturday so nothing to say there. Fairly quiet weekend overall.
Still... need to be approaching way fucking more. Who knows how many opportunities I let slip. I can make shit happen in set but the fact that I still have periodic approach issues is maddening.
Other than that life is pretty good right now :)
Misc. shit that amused me this w/e:
- HBCalgary just added me on facebook and she actually has a bf back there - even though she denied it when I asked her about it here. He's got a lot of lovey dovey posts on her wall which obviously don't register that deeply with her since she's been drunken texting me from all the way over there saying how she wants to fuck me right now. I have so much faith in humanity.
- Realizing that my propensity for wearing the same clothes every night I go out is starting to border on cartoonish, I went out and bought myself a new wardrobe - including a jacket that makes me look like an actual fucking God. Yay for me.
K-Swagless: Shapeshifter are the band - lots of cool stuff from them :)
Rogue: Cheers cuz, good to see you out and keeping it real :D
Friday 17/7
Won't make this long since it wasn't the most spectacular night and I didn't cold approach any girls. I was also pretty drunk.
Went out with T-bag and KR. Had dinner at a decent restaurant and started drinking. Got to Ivy and kept drinking. Didn't approach any girls cos I'm been a high and mighty retard with a big ego thinking how none of these girls compares with my turbo Finnish chicka. To be fair the place is seriously overrun with dudes and lots of pick-ups guys - including yours truly - though it isn't stopping some of the guys.
Eventually KR opens some little Asian girl, I go away somewhere but when I come back her friends are there. I sit down next to the better looking one and start talking total rubbish mixed with exciting facts about myself. She's hesitant to make out with me saying shes never kissed a white guy before. Inhibitions are fleeting though. 5 minnutes later we're doing just that while I subtely finger her. Unfortunately KR's girl has a boyfriend and the one my brother is winging is being a total bitch. My girl asks her bitch friend if they want to go back to mine for additional drinks. NO. So no easy-peasy lay for me tonight. Have been in contact with her since though - can probably seal it sometime this week - the girl is much more horny than she lets on at first glance. I keep drinking but suddenly get overcome with exhaustion and almost fall asleep in the club. I go home.
I didn't go out Saturday so nothing to say there. Fairly quiet weekend overall.
Still... need to be approaching way fucking more. Who knows how many opportunities I let slip. I can make shit happen in set but the fact that I still have periodic approach issues is maddening.
Other than that life is pretty good right now :)
Misc. shit that amused me this w/e:
- HBCalgary just added me on facebook and she actually has a bf back there - even though she denied it when I asked her about it here. He's got a lot of lovey dovey posts on her wall which obviously don't register that deeply with her since she's been drunken texting me from all the way over there saying how she wants to fuck me right now. I have so much faith in humanity.
- Realizing that my propensity for wearing the same clothes every night I go out is starting to border on cartoonish, I went out and bought myself a new wardrobe - including a jacket that makes me look like an actual fucking God. Yay for me.
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Lol, I loved that last line. 'Realizing that my propensity for wearing the same clothes every night I go out is starting to border on cartoonish' - LOL
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Cheers Nassim, I've been enjoying your stuff as well.
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Before I get into this weekend; I've been pondering on whether I should do a 2nd bootcamp with Jeffy in November (when he'll be in Sydney). Ever since I saw the Jeffy Show I've wanted to do one with him. Thanks to the superior Australian dollar and a decent income the financial cost doesn't concern me. What concerns me is how much better my game can get in one weekend and if - overall - it would be worth it.
Things were different when I did my BC with Alex in 2008. My game back then sucked - and I had a ton of things to improve on.
I've gotten considerably better since then.
By no means am I a rockstar but at this stage of my development I'd conservatively rank myself as lower-level Advanced. I definitey want to get better and know that I can, I'm just struggling to think what the process is from here. For all the progress I've made, I still feel like my results are inconsistent and that I lack a gameplan for getting to the next level. Hopefully a BC with Jeffy could help sort that shit out.
So what is the next level? Well that's a little etherial - but fucking catwalk models in bathrooms, 3somes with stunners, acquiring multiple girls on the go and the overall ability to consistently get solid results no matter where I am or who I'm with sounds about right :)
A good start to this would of course actually be going more - but Sydney has been having a shocker weatherwise lately and that's being the primary reason for my inactivity. Come spring/summer there will be no such issues.
On a sidenote, here's some cool shit I've gotten back into:
- I'm back at the gym (finally, after my serious back injury from 7 months ago). Want to get ripped for summer.
- I'm learning Russian :D
- I plan to have my blog up again within a month or so now - the fact thats it's travel blog and I haven't been travelling has taken some of the urgency off this :P
Now for something more relevant:
Friday 22/7
Went out to Argyle with my bro and another friend. Actually started approaching tonight though it wasn't going so well to start off with. My non-rsd based mate is a cool guy, and was keen to wing me in sets that I'd opened - but neither of us is doing paticularly well. A set with 2 English girls goes from awkward to more awkward when they get in my face right off the bat and more or less tell me to fuck off since they're waiting for their boyfriends. This stuff doesn't get me down though. We go and sit down at a table with my bro, his friend and consume a bottle of wine for good measure while just shooting the shit in general. At some point some yankee fatty crashes our party and wants to sit next to me. None of us are terribly impressed but I tell her she can on the condition that she tells me a good joke. She starts babbling away to me but I'm not really listening as I'm not interested.
After a bit of this we peel off in different directions. My brother and his friend want to go to a strip club while my other friend wants to go home. I let them be and approach a cute Dutch girl who's part of a massive group. The old go in hard approach works and she likes me - though is also really testy. While not very receptive to anything physical, she keeps initiating things forward conversation wise so I think there might be something in it. It's not that soid though, she won't leave her friends and at the same time won't esculate physically with me in front of them. Catch 22 dead end. At best I can get a quick peck on the lips from her and even that seems to be pushing her comfort zone considerably. I get her number and facebook and consider what to do next.
I walk past the table where the fat American girl is, she's talking with two guy friends. I decide just to talk with them for a bit to keep things social. To be honest I'm pretty bored but fatties un-subtle attempts to game me are none-the-less very amusing to me. I'm about to leave when another of her American girl friends pulls up and sits down next to me. She's not bad looking but nothing to get that excited about either. She also starts hitting on me HARD.
I'm now flanked by an unatttractive girl and a patently average one, who are both rubbing my legs with their hands and saying shit like:
'Are you a good dancer? Guys who dance good are awesome in bed'
'We get up to all sort sof crazy stuff together'
Meanwhile I'm a pillar of not-giving-a-fuck. I'm dead certain that this is a pending threesome but I don't want to be banging no fat bitch, and the other one is barely good enough to consider doing as such. Therefore I just sort of sitback, give mono-sylabic answers, wear a distant-void like expression, and listen to them tell me how awesome I am. Meanwhile the two other guys are just chatting to each other like nothings happening.
Eventually Fatty excuses herself - saying she's going to the bathroom and to get a drink. I decide to take some action in her absence. I'm not subtle - but still do not give a fuck.
Hey, you know the bathrooms downstairs are pretty big.... it's pretty amazing.
Oh yeah?
Yeah you could get up to all sorts of adevnture in there and no one would know. How crazy are you?
Oh ya, I'm pretty out of it.
*Stare at her*
Let's go then.
......ok
The bathrooms here are open for both sexes and at this time of the night - pretty quiet. She walks into one and I follow 30 seconds after. I haven't even touched her up until this point but she goes down, gives me head and then I fuck her. It's only 5 minutes or so before I come - and she complains about it - I remind her that we're in a public bathroom and this isn't the place to be having anything more than a quickie. I also tell her that I'll leave first and then she should exist 30 seconds later. She agrees.
I walk out, leave the nightclub and catch a cab home. I don't bother to get any of her contact details since by my standards she's about a '6' and her whiny New York accent is annoying. I also don't want to run into the fatty again.
Go home and sleep, I don't consider this to be an outstanding night of success since I'd rather of had the blonde dutch girl in there with me - but in hindsight it was still kind of funny.
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The next night I have a mysterious splitting headache and don't feel like heading out - though I do meet up with my fleeting Finnish interest in the late evening briefly with all of her friends. She's made it clear to me that she doesn't want anything serious, which I'm totally cool with now - since her glacial facade and complete lack of emotion are starting to bug me. She also acts weird when I go to give her a hug and kiss on the cheeks even though there was nothing weird about the way I did it (escpecially since I've already banged her and I do this to heaps of girls all the time regardless). I think I'm cutting my losses and backing off from her a bit now. She's fucking hot and very intelligent - but is also giving off this Cruela De Ville type vibe now and it's starting to weird me out a little. Whether or not anything more happens between us in the future is of unconcern to me. I only liked her due to her smoking looks, wacky accent and awesomeness in the bedroom - and I kind of let that blind me a little to her actual personality. All good. I've had the top rated girls with top rated personalities before - so I know what I'm looking for. Next please.
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Before I get into this weekend; I've been pondering on whether I should do a 2nd bootcamp with Jeffy in November (when he'll be in Sydney). Ever since I saw the Jeffy Show I've wanted to do one with him. Thanks to the superior Australian dollar and a decent income the financial cost doesn't concern me. What concerns me is how much better my game can get in one weekend and if - overall - it would be worth it.
Things were different when I did my BC with Alex in 2008. My game back then sucked - and I had a ton of things to improve on.
I've gotten considerably better since then.
By no means am I a rockstar but at this stage of my development I'd conservatively rank myself as lower-level Advanced. I definitey want to get better and know that I can, I'm just struggling to think what the process is from here. For all the progress I've made, I still feel like my results are inconsistent and that I lack a gameplan for getting to the next level. Hopefully a BC with Jeffy could help sort that shit out.
So what is the next level? Well that's a little etherial - but fucking catwalk models in bathrooms, 3somes with stunners, acquiring multiple girls on the go and the overall ability to consistently get solid results no matter where I am or who I'm with sounds about right :)
A good start to this would of course actually be going more - but Sydney has been having a shocker weatherwise lately and that's being the primary reason for my inactivity. Come spring/summer there will be no such issues.
On a sidenote, here's some cool shit I've gotten back into:
- I'm back at the gym (finally, after my serious back injury from 7 months ago). Want to get ripped for summer.
- I'm learning Russian :D
- I plan to have my blog up again within a month or so now - the fact thats it's travel blog and I haven't been travelling has taken some of the urgency off this :P
Now for something more relevant:
Friday 22/7
Went out to Argyle with my bro and another friend. Actually started approaching tonight though it wasn't going so well to start off with. My non-rsd based mate is a cool guy, and was keen to wing me in sets that I'd opened - but neither of us is doing paticularly well. A set with 2 English girls goes from awkward to more awkward when they get in my face right off the bat and more or less tell me to fuck off since they're waiting for their boyfriends. This stuff doesn't get me down though. We go and sit down at a table with my bro, his friend and consume a bottle of wine for good measure while just shooting the shit in general. At some point some yankee fatty crashes our party and wants to sit next to me. None of us are terribly impressed but I tell her she can on the condition that she tells me a good joke. She starts babbling away to me but I'm not really listening as I'm not interested.
After a bit of this we peel off in different directions. My brother and his friend want to go to a strip club while my other friend wants to go home. I let them be and approach a cute Dutch girl who's part of a massive group. The old go in hard approach works and she likes me - though is also really testy. While not very receptive to anything physical, she keeps initiating things forward conversation wise so I think there might be something in it. It's not that soid though, she won't leave her friends and at the same time won't esculate physically with me in front of them. Catch 22 dead end. At best I can get a quick peck on the lips from her and even that seems to be pushing her comfort zone considerably. I get her number and facebook and consider what to do next.
I walk past the table where the fat American girl is, she's talking with two guy friends. I decide just to talk with them for a bit to keep things social. To be honest I'm pretty bored but fatties un-subtle attempts to game me are none-the-less very amusing to me. I'm about to leave when another of her American girl friends pulls up and sits down next to me. She's not bad looking but nothing to get that excited about either. She also starts hitting on me HARD.
I'm now flanked by an unatttractive girl and a patently average one, who are both rubbing my legs with their hands and saying shit like:
'Are you a good dancer? Guys who dance good are awesome in bed'
'We get up to all sort sof crazy stuff together'
Meanwhile I'm a pillar of not-giving-a-fuck. I'm dead certain that this is a pending threesome but I don't want to be banging no fat bitch, and the other one is barely good enough to consider doing as such. Therefore I just sort of sitback, give mono-sylabic answers, wear a distant-void like expression, and listen to them tell me how awesome I am. Meanwhile the two other guys are just chatting to each other like nothings happening.
Eventually Fatty excuses herself - saying she's going to the bathroom and to get a drink. I decide to take some action in her absence. I'm not subtle - but still do not give a fuck.
Hey, you know the bathrooms downstairs are pretty big.... it's pretty amazing.
Oh yeah?
Yeah you could get up to all sorts of adevnture in there and no one would know. How crazy are you?
Oh ya, I'm pretty out of it.
*Stare at her*
Let's go then.
......ok
The bathrooms here are open for both sexes and at this time of the night - pretty quiet. She walks into one and I follow 30 seconds after. I haven't even touched her up until this point but she goes down, gives me head and then I fuck her. It's only 5 minutes or so before I come - and she complains about it - I remind her that we're in a public bathroom and this isn't the place to be having anything more than a quickie. I also tell her that I'll leave first and then she should exist 30 seconds later. She agrees.
I walk out, leave the nightclub and catch a cab home. I don't bother to get any of her contact details since by my standards she's about a '6' and her whiny New York accent is annoying. I also don't want to run into the fatty again.
Go home and sleep, I don't consider this to be an outstanding night of success since I'd rather of had the blonde dutch girl in there with me - but in hindsight it was still kind of funny.
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The next night I have a mysterious splitting headache and don't feel like heading out - though I do meet up with my fleeting Finnish interest in the late evening briefly with all of her friends. She's made it clear to me that she doesn't want anything serious, which I'm totally cool with now - since her glacial facade and complete lack of emotion are starting to bug me. She also acts weird when I go to give her a hug and kiss on the cheeks even though there was nothing weird about the way I did it (escpecially since I've already banged her and I do this to heaps of girls all the time regardless). I think I'm cutting my losses and backing off from her a bit now. She's fucking hot and very intelligent - but is also giving off this Cruela De Ville type vibe now and it's starting to weird me out a little. Whether or not anything more happens between us in the future is of unconcern to me. I only liked her due to her smoking looks, wacky accent and awesomeness in the bedroom - and I kind of let that blind me a little to her actual personality. All good. I've had the top rated girls with top rated personalities before - so I know what I'm looking for. Next please.
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haha. awesome. i find it hard going out doing cold approach with friends and family who arent into rsd game. not only do they suck energy but i always feel guilty leaving them alone and approaching because at the end of the day theyre my mates and theyre out to have fun too. i always tell myself that "it shouldnt affect me that theyre there, theyre my mates and theyre awesome" but i havent gotten good enough to be able to be good when theyre there.
it was pretty cool that you got a bathroom fuck out of it and you didnt even need to acknowledge her afterwards haha that was crack up that you just bolted out of the place.
i put a deposit down for a bootcamp but the only time this year they can do it is early novemeber and iv got exams then and then im leaving for australia to work in surfers. hopefully i can do two 30 day stints in the time im over there. cant wait. give me a pm if you head that way, youre a guy whos been on bootcamp and you seem to know how its done.
it was pretty cool that you got a bathroom fuck out of it and you didnt even need to acknowledge her afterwards haha that was crack up that you just bolted out of the place.
i put a deposit down for a bootcamp but the only time this year they can do it is early novemeber and iv got exams then and then im leaving for australia to work in surfers. hopefully i can do two 30 day stints in the time im over there. cant wait. give me a pm if you head that way, youre a guy whos been on bootcamp and you seem to know how its done.
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Jeffy and Alex Bootcamp: Auckland, New Zealand. November 3rd, 2011.
"Pack your shit and leave. You're done in this town girl. Get the fuck out!" - Jeffy
Go suck a dolphin's dick
Get the fuck out bitch
Your face offends me.
How much did you pay them to let you in
"Pack your shit and leave. You're done in this town girl. Get the fuck out!" - Jeffy
Go suck a dolphin's dick
Get the fuck out bitch
Your face offends me.
How much did you pay them to let you in
God bless Sydney bathrooms.
Jeffy Bootcamp would be sick :)
Jeffy Bootcamp would be sick :)
Bathroom sex --> walk straight out of club into taxi.
That's pretty much the definition of icy right there. LOL
That's pretty much the definition of icy right there. LOL
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I love this thread! Good stuff man.
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...and here's me thinking Martin Crowe was just another great New Zealand batsman, Aparently he's been touring the world banging Euro Babes.
Great to see a Kiwi guy with solid game. Really makes me want to step things up, very inspiring stuff. I took a bootcamp with Jeffy back in 2007, it's really worth it. His stuff has become much more consolidated now, looking forward to catching up with him at the tour. If money's not an issue then I'd suggest you seriously taking your game to the next level. Although to be honest, sounds like you're in a pretty good place at the moment.
Keep the great work my fellow Kiwi.
SP.
Great to see a Kiwi guy with solid game. Really makes me want to step things up, very inspiring stuff. I took a bootcamp with Jeffy back in 2007, it's really worth it. His stuff has become much more consolidated now, looking forward to catching up with him at the tour. If money's not an issue then I'd suggest you seriously taking your game to the next level. Although to be honest, sounds like you're in a pretty good place at the moment.
Keep the great work my fellow Kiwi.
SP.
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KR: Lovenest on the rocks.
I'm also keen to head out on Tues or Thurs this week if you're down!
GB: Yeah man I know what you mean by this. The thing is my brother doesn’t know many people in Sydney and we also live together, so avoiding cold approach when he’s around would mean avoid doing it period most of the time. He’s tentatively cool with it, but my biggest issue is that I never know what side of him will show up. When he’s sober in a club, he tends to be sulky and low-key, where-as his drunk version is 100% unpredictable. He has no idea (as far as I now) that there is an actual community of dudes dedicated to self-improvement in this facet of their life. Neither do some of my other friends here. In these situations I do feel like I’m babysitting them sometimes – but I also try to split it 50/50 – as well as make it abundantly clear that I want to be hitting up chicks as opposed to standing around like a little bitch. No straight guy is going to argue with this. Personally I prefer it when it’s just me and one other solid wing.
As for Surfers – I love this place and in the summer the quality is very, very high. Over New Years/Summer I could be anywhere – but won’t know for a little just yet. I am keen to get out of Sydney for it though.
PH: Speaking of Icy, don't let that initial facade of the Warsaw girls put you off. They can seem very icy at first simply due to the fact that they are basically never approached by anyone. It's a 4:1 girl:guy ratio in this city and the couple of girls I know from there complain about it incessantly to me and want to know when I'll be back. Chances are they'll be in stunned that you talked to them. But deep down they'll like it.
JS: Cheers man! I write this as a reference for myself but I do enjoy the feedback :)
SP: Despite making strides forward this year, I do want to reach that top tier level where I'm consistently closing the hottest girls. I appreciate the props though mate! As for a potential BC 2.0, I’ve wanted to learn live from this guy ever since I saw the Jeffy Show. I think I’ll make a call on it sometime over the next month.
I'm also keen to head out on Tues or Thurs this week if you're down!
GB: Yeah man I know what you mean by this. The thing is my brother doesn’t know many people in Sydney and we also live together, so avoiding cold approach when he’s around would mean avoid doing it period most of the time. He’s tentatively cool with it, but my biggest issue is that I never know what side of him will show up. When he’s sober in a club, he tends to be sulky and low-key, where-as his drunk version is 100% unpredictable. He has no idea (as far as I now) that there is an actual community of dudes dedicated to self-improvement in this facet of their life. Neither do some of my other friends here. In these situations I do feel like I’m babysitting them sometimes – but I also try to split it 50/50 – as well as make it abundantly clear that I want to be hitting up chicks as opposed to standing around like a little bitch. No straight guy is going to argue with this. Personally I prefer it when it’s just me and one other solid wing.
As for Surfers – I love this place and in the summer the quality is very, very high. Over New Years/Summer I could be anywhere – but won’t know for a little just yet. I am keen to get out of Sydney for it though.
PH: Speaking of Icy, don't let that initial facade of the Warsaw girls put you off. They can seem very icy at first simply due to the fact that they are basically never approached by anyone. It's a 4:1 girl:guy ratio in this city and the couple of girls I know from there complain about it incessantly to me and want to know when I'll be back. Chances are they'll be in stunned that you talked to them. But deep down they'll like it.
JS: Cheers man! I write this as a reference for myself but I do enjoy the feedback :)
SP: Despite making strides forward this year, I do want to reach that top tier level where I'm consistently closing the hottest girls. I appreciate the props though mate! As for a potential BC 2.0, I’ve wanted to learn live from this guy ever since I saw the Jeffy Show. I think I’ll make a call on it sometime over the next month.
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The girls you've been getting are also pretty hot aswell...... You slut...