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Cellphone rings: The neutron bomb of daygame
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Bulrathi

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Join Date: 08/03/2010 | Posts: 503

 Its amazing how quickly your value drops when girls need to take a call or see a text when you opened them on daygame. I was in this restaurant sitting next to a well-dressed big boobed chick. She is checking me out constantly. I finished my meal and went to the bathroom(I had green stuff in my teeth). On the way out I open asking for nearest bookstore, she is not from there and doesnt know but she is from a region I know well, so we talk about that, I ask to sitdown with her, she complies. She gives some IOIs, I say I'm going to teach her to play poker, she agrees, then the neutron bomb arrives. She gets a text, its like I dont exist anymore, her eyes wont move away from the phone, I keep talking in order to not make it awkward I can see my value dropping but ALL her focus in on the fucking phone

30 sec later, she is all grumpy, testing me like crazy, saying she had to go. I go for her number, she wont give, says she wants my facebook. I say its for nerds and she should take my number. She takes but never calls or texts

I must have lost a shitload of girls because they had to take a call or msg within the first few minutes of conversation. I have like 1 #close total from girls that took a call and I just stood there and then re-engaged when she ended, the number flaked of course

Seriously, cellphones are the neutron bomb of daygame. During the night you can talk to the friends or open a nearby group then re-engage but during the day its way harder to do that because people are usually moving. Solution?
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Manwhore

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 Look yo if she's not giving you attention or there's no communication going on- as a high value dude you need to be finding something else to engage your attention.  This is obvious.  The fact you're simply sitting there watching her on her phone and trippin balls over it is a high indicator to her you're not her type.  Heard the expression "Be comfortable in your own skin"?  It means you're not chasing her for attention you're simply relaxed and letting your attention go where it may while as a man leading the situation towards closer intimacy.  
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PillowFire

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You know what I do when ppl are on the phone? As Manwhore said, I find something else to occupy my time while I wait for them to finish. Sometimes I look around at the scenery if outside, sometimes I sit there smiling and looking at this or that, sometimes I play with objects in my environment, whatever. I don't give it much thought at all.

What I don't do is give the other person much/any attention because they are busy with something else. If this is akward for you, really it shouldn't be.
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Bulrathi

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Manwhore wrote:
 Look yo if she's not giving you attention or there's no communication going on- as a high value dude you need to be finding something else to engage your attention.  This is obvious.  The fact you're simply sitting there watching her on her phone and trippin balls over it is a high indicator to her you're not her type.  Heard the expression "Be comfortable in your own skin"?  It means you're not chasing her for attention you're simply relaxed and letting your attention go where it may while as a man leading the situation towards closer intimacy.  
Kinda hard to do that when you just stopped a girl in the middle of a street
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PillowFire

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Why is it hard? You ever talk to your friend and he get's a phone call? What do you do, stand there and continue to talk at him or try to compete with the phone for attention? As soon as the phone goes away you guys get right back into it. I feel like this is another one of those things that people make a big deal over just because, "oh it's a girl she might think X if I don't have perfect move for when she busts out phone."

Gotta give people credit for being smart enough to understand what's in front of them. If the girl is interested in you, why would she suddenly become cranky and chase you off because her friend called to tell her that she left her shit at her house, or that they should hang out next saturday?
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Sheen

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Nice man, I love poker hahahaha. I also usually tell girls that facebook is for nerds and that they should give me their number. similiar game yo :D haha.
But for your question I dont have such a good answer. I don't think what the other guys said will work so good either, but it atleast makes u not look dumb.
Cause if a chick is really intrested in you, she usually just takes a quick peek at the phone and puts it away quick. If she dosen't she is either A. Not intrested or B.Stupid hoe.
So sometimes I just say it as it is.. like "put your fucking phone away when you're talking to me". Maybe sounds rude but I say it in a light hearted way or something =P usually works.
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 Sure but shit remains the same.  That's great yer stopping girls on street.  When/if/always they do something like start talking on their phone look around for a place to take her.  If there's a bench cool, if you're on the sidewalk grab her and guide her towards leaning against the wall.. like you're getting her out of the way of traffic and you're also more comfortable leaning against the wall.  This will reduce your value-lowering GREATLY as you've just lead her somewhere and even if she DOESN'T follow you the fact you tried to make her move she'll still respect 
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 It's all in your head man. Your value is dropping because you think it's dropping. Maybe you should command more attention, talk lauder and make her listen to you.
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radegast1 wrote:
 It's all in your head man. Your value is dropping because you think it's dropping. Maybe you should command more attention, talk lauder and make her listen to you.

I disagree wholeheartedly.  If nobody's listening, just stop talking, you have ZERO value.
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If nobody's listening, TALK  LOOOOOUDER.
tierranevada wrote:



radegast1 wrote:
 It's all in your head man. Your value is dropping because you think it's dropping. Maybe you should command more attention, talk lauder and make her listen to you.

I disagree wholeheartedly.  If nobody's listening, just stop talking, you have ZERO value.
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