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Soo after the bootcamp with Ozzie I'm going to start my Field Report Journal. The purpose of this Journal is to keep me motivated, get some feedback and prove to myself that I'm commited! My biggest fear after the Bootcamp is to not following through, do go about the game as I ever did before and not to push it to the max! So here I wanna proof that I take consistant action and go for the hardest challenges!
Some words about me: I have been into this for a bit longer than 3 years now, interupted by a about 1 year period where I have been with a girl for a longer time. During that time I never stopped going out really, but did it without real intent and often a lack of motivation.(You know like, aaah I will just chill today, I can call her anytime and this kind of shit...)
So for about a year now I take it really seriously again and am now on a level I have never been before. I got solid success, but still no real consistency. Sometimes I pull 4 girls in a month(or in 6 days like in december)
But then I have times where I barely get anything, maybe a makeout with some drunk chick, and then lose motivation and willingness to take risks and chode around.
So my major goal for 2011 is to get consistency in it, especially with the real hot girls. Which means I need to push harder, let fear be my guide which means do exactly the stuff I'm afraid of (which is mainly large mixed sets, real hot girls and do this thing in front of my social circle) and don't care about the outcome. Since I'm in an exchange year right now, going out is no problem at all, there are always plenty of groups going to hit the clubs.
Everything I'm capable of doing now on a constistant basis I taught myself, I never attended any seminar (exept from 2 RSD Free Tours, one in London and one in Berlin last year or so). I never managed to find anybody who is way ahead me in my hometown, so I had to do it all alone and learn it from scratch. But last week I took a bootcamp with Ozzie in London to speed things up a little.
Okay enough bla bla, here is my first field report:


11.Febuary.2011
I went to a club with about 15 friends from uni, so we're a big team. We already had a predrinkparty (where I stayed dead-sober btw. and everybody got drunk) so I'm in a good social mood.
So in the Club I see two hotties with two dudes at the bar and approach them like "Hey, when does this club get packed or sth. and they open up pretty easy, the guys just stand there and order their drinks. Some light touching with the girls but I soon sense that they'll be gone as soon as the order is there. I grab myself a beer as well and step on the dancefloor to approach two very hot girls with the same shit. I totally forget to touch them this time, so conversation fizzles out after like 3min. I now go back to my friends and one of the two girls gives me a very sexy glance, but I fuck up to reopen. I think in this group there are 3-4 girls I could easily fuck, but they are not hot enough, I don't wanna go for the easy ones anymore. So I step outside with a friend cause she wants to smoke. I open a very very hot young girl making fun about her very very drunk friend. It turns out that she is as drunk as her friend and basically understands nothing I tell her. So it's time for the claw which she rejects. We talk on for a little while about how cool Berlin is and that she has been there and bla bla. But she is gone soon. I should have persited with the claw ;)
When we go inside I open a nice spanish girl that I know from another houseparty, she must be there with some other dudes. We had a little encounter when I grabbed her very drunk on the way home from this party and wanted to pull her in a very uncalibrated caveman style. At the time I really had the impression that she was attracted by this, but there were just too many people around. So now I see her again and its fuckin on. We joke around, get physical heavily and stuff. After like 10 Minutes, I descide to go for her later, because I want to approach more hotties, she won't run away. So I do that. I now grab a beer at the bar and she is there 3 Minutes later, this time approaching me hard. I know she wants it, but I don't wanna get down with a girl so early. So I just do the same thing, push it hard without kissing her and go away. After that she grabs my friend, makes out with him and he pulls her home. Lucky guy, I feel good for him! ;) Dunno if I now wanna do her later.
So now I go from dancing or hanging out with my friends to approaching on the dancefloor and around it. Don't remember all Sets, but one is funny where I claw both of them, they tell me they are lesbians, I ask who is the one who fucks..one says its her and tells me that she has eyeproblems because the other one squirts in her eye so often. Its hillarious. Wasted British Youth. It goes on like this, I want them to make out with tounge but they don't do it. Faaake. It doesnt lead me anywhere. After that I tried to steal a girl from two boys who are dancing around. They don't do shit but she isn't very responsive. I don't feel good at all in this situation and so my voice and bodylanguage is quite off. But I did it ;) I should have grabbed her more! There is another very hot girl in our group that I had a fun time in a bar before and now I decide I make a move on her. We had some fun together before, I was very physical all night to her. So now I lead her on the dancefloor and go for a makeout. Doesnt work. I deliberately did it in front of all my friends, because thats a major point I'm afraid off, making moves in front of my buddies. So I decide to move on and I do a couple more half-hearted approaches when she appears by my side and asks me what I'm doing. I should have gone for a makout right then again, but instead I talk some nonsense, we dance a bit around on the dancefloor but it sucks.
So thats my first night out after my Bootcamp, was pretty good, but I know what my sticking points are. Its hooking, I need to plough more, I need to get more physical with every set and go for more hot sets, I really chickend out from a couple of very hot girls, but I also approached some very hot girls! I need to do even more approaches, change from hanging out with friends the majority of time to hanging out with strangers.
I did a lot of things I'am very afraid of, and thats my major goal for the next couple of month. Always look for challenges and go for them! 

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Lucky guy, I feel good for him! ;) Dunno if I now wanna do her later.


haha, i know this feeling. it's like when someone else borrows your underwear for whatever reason. after that i never wanna use it again. hahaha

good to have you here. looking forward to your reports ;)
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12.February.2011
So this is gonna be a quick one. I went with a friend to a big club with a lot of very hot girls and got a nice blow-out streak. I was approaching girls while he was standing around all the time. Made me feel a bit uncomfortable somehow. Whatever.
So this night I again only went for the girls I'm really attracted to, and as well chickend out about some. I think I did about 12-15 approaches and got on a awesomely nice ignore/blowout streak. Like no set really hooked. I only had two slightly good ones where I clawed a very hot blonde girl on the dancefloor that was passing bye who stopped for a while and I talked to her in a very physical way. I think she was somehow on the edge to hook, but I tell her sth like okay, find your friends now..and she hesitates a bit and then leaves. Avoiiiiiidance. I won't do this shit again, I will stay till she rejects me, I won't reject myself.
The other one is a tall brown haired girl who gives me a look on the dancefloor, I directly walk towards her, tell her that I love her in a playful way and hug her. She tells me in my ear that she loves me too, and now her cockblock friend comes and is really pissed. I try to befriend her but the vibe is dead. The hottie gives me a sad look and I leave. Again, more persitance here!
All the other Sets weren't responsive at all..ah no, I did another one right in the beginning where I make it to plough through and get over the first resistance. That was a good reference experience, but I eject a few minutes later for whatever reason. Fear to fuck up ;)
Btw: did just one mixed Set today, will do this more often!
So anyway I'm really happy about this night, I put myself out there, took the pain, did challanges, went way out of my comfort zone and went for it the majority of the time.
I got the reference experience like I learned on BC that no matter what I do in the club, social mistakes don't have any consequences at all. I feel exactly the same the next day and nobody cares, even though my brain in fear tries to trick me into thinking so. Nothing bad will happen.
I now need to work more on building momentum, like jumping from one Set to another instead of doing on approach, chillin or dancing around for a couple of minutes then do the next one. I think this will help a lot!

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14.February.2011
Okay I'm writing this one down now, to get the emotions that I have right now in. So since I tend to discard the positive, I'll start with that.
So today I went in the cities hottest, loudest, biggest club, filled up with tons of boozed up superhot bitches. It's definately the most challenging venue in town. Thats why I picked it. So I went there. On my own. Without a single drink.
Since late afternoon my mind tried to trick and prevent me from going there by making up all kinds of excuses, my body decided to become tired, my stomach decided to hurt but since bootcamp I know that this are just symptoms of fear which want to lead me into avoidance. Eheh..not gonna happen ;)
My mindset for the night was:

* only criteria for success is to do the approach


So with that I wanted to build social momentum and and not wait too long until I do the next approach. So I wanted to be in set all the time. So that was the plan.
On my way there I listend to my mind as I learned on the BC and the thing I heard the clearest was that I really don't trust myself to be able to pull this one off. To approach a lot and hard. I somehow don't have confidence in myself that I can do it tonite all on my own.
So what happend was I lingered around for a bit..bumped into a fuckbuddy I had to drop like 10 days ago because she was asking stuff like "What is this with us now..." and telling me she likes me very much. So she tries to play it cool, show me that she don't need me or some weired shit. She is drunk. So I talk to her for another five minutes and she tries to flirt with other guys. Funny.
So after that I walk on to do some challenges on the dancefloor. But I wait too long till the first approach. I linger around, not able to approach. That goes on for like 20 Minutes, so I walk from here to there without a clue what to do. My fear leads me into avoidance.
I know the only way out is to do approaches right now, so I manage to approach a fucking stunner girl. Perfekt girl for me with some lame shit. She doesn't reply. So demotivated by that I chode around for another 10 Minutes and then go for it again. I get the same reactions, but manage to approach like 5-6 really really hot ones (like totally out of my league somehow, I feel a lack of entitlement ;) ) in a row, but I can't stay anywhere longer then 30sec.
This like 10 minutes or so of action showed me how I always wanna go about it and for a longer period of time.
Very cool stuff. But sadly I stop approaching again. That was the end of the night. I try it several times to go for it, but my mind just fucks me. Alright. When I walked out of the club I had serious doubts for a while if I will ever manage to make it in this game. But this was just a phase, I'm absolutely sure I will!
I have to work on my perfectionism. It's okay to do mistakes and I will get things done in da club, even poorly!
Sooo, despite I didn't really manage to do what I intended to, I'm very proud of myself to have put myself out there in the hottest club in town in a foreign country, manage to talk to the kind of girls I really want. I decided that the next 4 weeks I will go out 6 times a week to get momentum going.

So my only goal for this week:
I don't wanna wait longer then 1 Minute till I approach the next Set.
I'll fly solo tomorrow again and I'll do my best to hit this goal! The time is now, I have a lot of free time.

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15.February.2011
Today it was fucking raining, but: 

So after writing the FR yesterday I lay in my bed and thought, man you wouldn't feel any different now if you had approached the whole club. In fact, you would feel fucking awesome.
Like I do now.
I went out on my own again in the same type of club. Loud as fuck, drunk ppl everywhere and high energy. Guess what I did? I approached right away and went from set to set, always looking for the toughest, hottest set around. It worked. After doing this for like 20 Minutes, I had no Problem approaching anybody. I was in a pretty good mood and girls were also responding much better than yesterday. I got reopened once, danced a bit around with this hottie but choded out then. I had a couple of a bit longer conversations but the most important thing is that I approached almost the entire night. I just had about 1 hour in the club cause I have to get up tomorrow very early for uni, but this hour I used to go full speed from beginning to the end. Awesome. It was and 1Pound party so in the end I rewarded myself with a nice beer, talked to some girls at the bar and drove home by cab. I need to buy a bike, otherwise the cabrides will kill my fincances ;)

Good night!

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Lol this shit reminds me when i started a few years ago. Best years of my life.
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16.February.2011
So I go out with a couple of friends here. Before we watched Barca – Arsenal, killermatch. I had a few drinks, but not too much. The club is not as hard as the ones I've been to the last two days, but stilla decent amount of hot girls. In the club I first dance around with my friends on the dancefloor but tell me fuck this, I wanna go for it now.
So I approach a couple of Sets around me, and the third or so opens up pretty good. They are two and I pretty much concentrate on the hotter one. We get physical pretty soon (again I can apply so fuckin much stuff from BC, it just rocks and gets even more and more useful in the field!!) I lead her to the bar, she explains it shortly to her friend and she lets us. So we grab a drink and makeout. She is pretty hot, probably one of the top3 I kissed in England yet. Not tall but very thin and a good amount of cleavage. Awesome.
So after like 10 Minutes of making out, she says we need to go and find her friend. Ohoh ;) On the dancefloor again a friend of mine talks to me and she sneaks away. Don't know why this happend but doesnt matter. Maybe should have leaded more.
So I keep approaching and have a lot of good and a lot of "bad" sets where nothing really leads to sth.
I now go outside and talk to a group of english, 2 guys, one girl. Like this very tall kind of girl with short hair. Not really my type but interesting. I really dominate the interaction which was a good reference experience, they really like me and we talk bullshit.
So after bouncing around shooting the shit and failing some more times, I approach another english girl. Beautiful face but a bit too chubby. It's just on the edge and some beer helped. So I go in hard, escalate and we make out. She seems very horny to me so I try to pull her right away. But doesnt work. I think I should have leaded her around the club some more. She is gone after like 10 Minutes too and I go on about doing my thing, now with a little less energy.
I get in a messy situation where I pull a girl in one direction and her friend pulls her in the other. It's so hilarious because she is dressed as a cat o_O
So after a couple more sets I see this tall one from outside on the dancefloor, she waves at me, I signal her to come over and we talk. I go very physical from the beginning as well. Light makeout. I have to stand on a step so that we are even. Its strange. I don't really know if I want her or not because she is so different. Fuckin tight body but a very unusual face. Not ugly or anything. Aaah cant desribe that. so I don't go full speed with this makeout. Just some kisses here and there. This really seems to turn her on more.
After some time her friends grab her, she punches my number in her phone and invites me to her birthday party on Friday. Hm.
After this, I have some more friendly conversations with guys and girls outside the club which was cool. Everybody responded well to me and I had a lot of fun.
This was definately a great night, the grind in the hardcore clubs payed of and I had cool success, talked to tons of girls I would consider out of my league and got into some nice situations and conversations.
But if I have outcome or not doesnt matter, my only criteria for success will remain that I have done the approach. The rest is a bonus. I will push more now and don't reject myself so often.

Btw: I got this out of Dieselboys FR which I think is a fuckin great mindset which helps me a lot:

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"I couldn't give a fuck how long it takes to be honest. I think the only thing we have to focus on is consistency and staying positive, everything will fall into place after that, there's no way it can't."

So fuckin true...

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18.February.2011

So after a preparty where I stayed sober and everybody got drunk, we went to the same club as I did on monday on my own, but to my surprise its a very different crowd. Girls not so hot, but they try to.
Thoughts before entering: "I had a good night on Wednesday, it will be more of a challange today to go through the hard stuff again, I'm not sure if I can make it"
Same as on monday, I don't really trust myself if I can pull it off. Hm
I first walk around with my ppl and chode around a bit. After like 45 Minutes of doing this, I'm already pretty deep into chode mode, but manage to pull myself out and start approaching. I get a lot of blow-outs and ignores, so after like 10 Sets or so I totally lose motivation and get back to my friends. After a while we leave the club and thats it. Ah no, I bump into the one girl I kissed on wednesday and we make out a little again. She is nice but I'm not so much into her so I excuse myself and walk away.
So even I approached today I couldn't get into the right mood after the blowouts and lost motivation. Gotta push through that more and get on a approach streak again. It makes things so much easier and is a good way to improve. I must say I deliberately open with lame shit as I learned on my BC to challange myself and push fear down
I approached tough sets like wild dancing girls on the dancefloor, a group of one girl with 3 guys and some very arrogant but very hot looking girls. There was also a girl which I consider as almost perfect which I approached, haven't seen a girl with looks like this for quite a long time. Talked to her. Awesome!
So my goal for tomorrow is start approaching right when I enter the club and don't stop when I get bad reactions. I really can spot kind of an threshold where it gets really really hard for me to keep on approaching, it feels really uncomfortable in my chest, but I know too that if I manage to get over it by doing hardcore stuff RIGHT in this moment, the rest of the night approaching is not a problem anymore.
So my main goal remains which is to learn to be able to approach without long pauses for about 2h straight. Don't think this will take me too long. Really looking forward to tomorrow!

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19.February.2011

So today I go on a houseparty with my flatmate. We drink a bit and I just have an awesome time. I talk to everybody, make some new friends and shit. Just cool.
Then it happens. A girl who is 9+, a fuckin Megan Fox look alike enters the party and every guy stares at her, she got some orbiters with her and all that shit. So I try to play it cool and vibe with all the poeple.
I don't know how that happens but suddenly I find myself in a very close position to her, hardcore touching, hardcore eyecontact, it's on a 100%. I'm with her like this for about 15 Minutes, she mentions sth about a boyfriend but I ignore it and then go for a makeout. Twice. I feel she wants it but very playfully turns her head slightly away so I just get her cheek. I do some stupid shit like hugging and telling in her ear that I will hold her like this for one minute. I count down very slowly and she just loves it. It such a cool reference experience that I can pull it off with the superhotties! That's what I want!
So at some point some chodes try to steal me from her and they somehow manage. Some chode with two golden earrings tells me some shit like "we want to hook her up with chode X"
I'm like good luck.
I have nice eyefucking a couple of times with her again during the party.
Now a girl I sometimes have sex with enters the party and I focus on her a bit and later we walk home together. It's cheesy but I have "somewhere over the rainbow" on my phone, I put it on the speakers and we dance along the road pretty drunk. Cheeeeeeeesy. But it's cool ;)
So today I talked to a friend and she tells me that Megan is very annoyed but this orbiter guys, that they cook for her and do every kind of shit for her. I think I had a very very good first impression and since she now seems to be in my social circle, I will definantely have another shot on her.
Good times, tomorrow I will go to a hard club again and push my comfort zone again! ;)

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21.February.2011

So after a day rest I started freshly in the new week, again with the craziest club in town. What happened? Simple, I went there and did not do a single approach. Not a reason to beat myself up, I showed up even though I was pretty exhausted and made up tons of excuses. I guess it was because I couldn't stick to the mindset Approach=Success because I had some pretty good interactions with tons of hotties lately and couldnt free myself from outcome. I really felt how I wanted certain reactions in the girls and how I was sure I wouldnt get them. So I did nothing
Magic Pill? Continue going out consitantly!
How to avoid not to approach? He knows it:


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22.February.2011
So I went out today again with a dude from the forums, wanted to go to the same Club as last Tuesday. But unfortunately we have some problems with admission and we have to find another place. We get a flyer on the street and decide to check out that place. After cruising around the city we finally find it and it's almost dead.
In, I approach every set I can find, which is about 6-7(some hot, some not) There is a big group of like 7 or 8 girls and I approach 3 of them which is very funny. They know me now ; ) I claw every set. Best thing there is I talked to a girl which was very very unreactive, but I just stayed there, feeling pretty uncomfortable telling myself, I won't go, she has to tell me to fuck off or leave by herself and so I manage to light her up a bit. Two of her friends try to steal her away from me but they suck at doing so :) After a while, she leaves. I need to practise that more to not seek for reactions and just plough through.
I enter a mixed set with 2 guys and 2 girls with a lame opener and one girls immediately hugs me and claws me..; ) They guys are out and turn to the bar and I talk to the girl. But somehow it wears off pretty quick. My approach was good though. Firm and loud. Need to plough more there.
After that, I do a half hearted approach on a hot blonde outside...from near she is not so hot anymore and we leave the place.
We take a look in the bar next door, but there is almost nobody in. On the way back to the car we meet a bunch of drunk slutty looking chicks which I try to hug, but it doesnt work. I scream some bullshit at them and we walk on.
So we drive back to the club we wanted to go in the first place to check if we have better luck now and can sneak in somehow, but the bouncer tells us it's closed.
Good thing is we tried it, we burned the place where we went as an alternative and tried again. We didn#t give up till the end haha ;)
Fortune wasn't with us that night I suppose. Doesnt matter. I reached my goal to start approaching right away and don't have to many pauses. Unfortunately this didn't last too long cause logistics were fucked up!


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